#genderquoi

[ryanyflags]

Genderquoi orientationgender flags :) (not to be confused with quoigender)

Definition:

genderquoi: when your quoi- identity is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two.

(quoi here means things like quoisexual, quoiromantic, quoirose, etc.)

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Both flags follow the 5 stripe style of orientationgender flags.

The first uses the colours of this quoi flag, and the second uses this other quoi flag. I've heard of the distinction that the white stripe one is for quoisexual, while the grey stripe one is for quoiromantic, so these can also be thought of as genderquoix (quoix is short for quoisexual) (left side), and genderquoiro (quoiro is short for quoiromantic) (right side) flags.

#orientationgender #quoi #genderquoi #quoisexual #quoix #genderquoix #quoiromantic #quoiro #genderquoiro #new term #pride flag #new flag

[nebuvoid]

mind blowing just how transcoded sasuke is, with his 'proudly showing off top scars' shirt and the bulky clothes that hide curves and the genderquoi sensei and the hatred of the state and

#naruto talk #naruto #sasuke uchiha

[askanonbinary]

So i am currently really struggling with my identify as of right now, like really really struggling. I am AFAB and came out as transmale around 2016-2017 (i was about 13) I used he/him, considered binding, wanted surgery, wanted my hair short, so basically the whole package. But then around 2018-2019, i kinda gave that all up, because i didnt really think it fit me anymore. I went by she/her again, and basically went back to square one, even growing my hair out really long. But then not too long after that i went by she/they, then later went by all pronouns even though i still identified as a cis female. But now, 2021 (im 17), i dont know what i am. Ive done so much research and i just dont know what gender identity i can label myself as (i know i dont NEED a label but it would really help me if i did). So basically my problem right now is that im AFAB, but in my head, i mentally see myself as a male that has short hair, a flat chest, a feminine curvy body, feminine features and dresses feminine too, but is biologically male (and as an artist, i even draw myself as all that) But physically in the real world, i am okay and comfortable with my completely female body; my sex, chest, long hair.... everything. I dont think i would even want to change my body to look masc at all, yet i still "feel" male and SOMEWHAT feel weird when im refered to as a girl. I just dont personally feel as if transmale, Bigender, genderfluid, demigirl/demiboy/demigender, agender and a lot of other identifies fit me. Im not even sure if identifying as just nonbinary fits me either because i feel like a binary gender and dont want to identify as nonbinary if thats not want nonbinary is :( its just all so confusing.

So you've tried a lot of the more... defined... gender words.... So let's look for less defined words. They might actually feel better because they're more flexible and have more room.

genderfuck

wtfgender

quoigender/genderquoi (and the english whatgender/genderwhat)

genderquestion

who cares-gender

genderqueer

woman/girl-queer

woman/girl-ish

andrgonye

Also note that non-binary is anything that isn't COMPLETELY binary which means you can feel a binary gender in a non-binary way. Non-binary girl is a perfectly acceptable label too.

- Mod Zoe Leo

#hope this helps #mod zoe leo #labels #questioning

[bi-kisses]

I'm sure there's an audience to be found in debunking genderquoi theory, but I'm not sure it's worth the hit to one's health. Seems like the kind of thing you would be hung ho about for a month and then get burnt out on the stupid.

I've been at this too long to even attempt to take their stupid seriously enough to warrant debunking. Maybe someone more green and jobless than me.

#anonymous #not a dig at anyone #working full time makes long debunk posts just feel like a chore that im not being paid for #ill just stick an essay in my shortcut if i wanna and if not i already am reassured of its stupidity enough to ignore it

[phlegm-the-alcoholic-dreg]

Can someone please explain why Hazbin Hotel is the new centre of hate on this hellsite? Particularly among the genderquoi community? Like I really don't fucking get it. What is everyone's malfunction?

#gift of the litterbox #i am confusion #hazbin hotel #vivziepop #hazbin hate #y'all for real?

[space-lesbians]

genderquoi replied to your post “birds are so FUCKING WEIRD”

please consider contributing to the cause #birdprohibition2k14 . I am an anti bird spokesperson.

I am actually mostly quite fond of birds but will look into your cause.

#genderquoi #birds

[eternalgaylord]

hey idk what would help you at all but like??? breathe in 8 seconds, hold for 7, breathe out for 3. if you splash cold water on your face then that kind of resets your brain? count as high as you can until your shift is over. or go home. your safety is more important than your job.

no it isn't lol

my mental and physical health mean nothing. the only thing that matters is profits and Pulling My Weight and letting my labour be exploited

welcome to capitalism

#vivid asks #genderquoi

[dinodamage]

you might be a twink but i am a HARDER, FASTER, STRONGER twink (but not better.... this isnt a contest wtf..)

o m iy god......

#caps 33 #genderquoi #lizard secretary

[nebuvoid]

years ago when i first came into my nonbinary identity i kinda...fell for? that feels like it was a trick. but the whole "nonbinary is a certain thing" shtick so i was like well i want the boobs GONE. because thats what nonbinary is and wants right?

so i bought an expensive binder, tried it for some time. (wore it while carrying shit to my 3rd story new apartment back then, incredibly stupid), only to realize i actually fucking hate it. part of it was that i despise when my belly sticks out more than my chest, internalized fatphobia and certain ideas of beauty that only hinder yourself etc.

but it also made me realize that i do actually identify with the shape of my body. i like the curves, i like seeing my front and side in the mirror and seeing the clear silhouette. yeah id like to be "firmer", not thinner, theres a difference. you take my curves away and ill actually feel like shit. this is part of my identity.

the issue was never my body, not really. its how society and people place certain expectations on you as a woman. and it never felt right. i didnt feel right ever since i was 13 and everyone hit puberty and things changed according to those set rules and i never got it. i was sad and angry all the time. i mean for many other reasons beside that one but. it was always there. i just didnt have words for it until i was into my twenties.

i didnt "decide to be" nonbinary. in a world with no gender roles i wouldnt even think of these things. but because this is reality and "im just me" is not a viable answer for people.. like if you say that theyll be like ok got it, "woman who thinks shes special" it is. so nonbinary is the best option to give a clear sign that youre other. to me anyway i do not mean to put words into other peoples mouth.

even this doesnt feel like its quite "it". i guess i still dont have the words. genderquoi except gender-leave-me-alone-do-not-fucking-presume

P.S. i forgot to mention ive always had severe tokophobia and having-a-period repulsion. it feels relevant to mention this

#nebu talks #nonbinary #enby

[toomanybrowsertabs]

Watch Dee coin a term

"But Dee we don't need new terms there are tons of terms out there already!"

No, shush, words are great and yeah if they're not commonly used they're not as useful because they don't clarify but shush this is for me and if it helps other people then cool.

A bit of background: I've recently discovered that apparently the term WTFromantic has been refined/seriousified into the term Quoiromantic (basically what-romantic).  And WTFromantic for me has been this term of "oh man I know I'm somewhere on the aromantic spectrum but exactly where is difficult for me to ascertain, in part because there's this grey area between purely platonic friendships and romantic attraction and i have relationships that fall into that area :/"

So with that in mind, allow me to introduce the term genderquoi

Now this may be a bit of a redundant term (if there already is a term for what I'm about to describe someone let me know, I guess), and it definitely overlaps with non-binary and potentially overlaps with genderfluid...

Basically genderquoi is going to be my term and it refers to when you know your gender isn't the gender you were assigned at birth, but beyond that it's very nebulous and the more you think about it, the vaguer it gets because what exactly does gender even mean??? aw screw it my gender is a headache is what it is.

Use it for yourself if it's helpful, don't use it if it's not, sometimes having a word for something can make you feel more at ease, sometimes it doesn't really make a difference, but I think I'm going to use it for myself for at least a bit, because it's set my brain a bit at ease.

#gender #gender identity #nonbinary #genderquoi

[cosmicanamnesis]

Charlie: Andrew thinks there are only 7 gay guys in his school, so I'm making a statistical prediction that he's full of shit.

#no context theater #genderquoi #gayassshenanagains