#dump your wife

[seithr]

remembered that my shepard/spacer shep has a still alive mom in the alliance according to ME2/3

also remembered that that character (katrine/caia) always has a sister uninvolved in the family's career military history

remembering she had to mourn her elder sister who just Disappeared for two years, and would have spent even longer knowing shepard isn't alive bc their alliance mom probably can't just tell a civillian doctor,

#in every universe katrine has - previous/ended relationship #- some kind of impaired hearing/legs #- a younger sister who idolizes her who she pushes away for stupid reasons #oh i want them to meet. i want horizon to crush shepard and a call to reduce her to nothing. pulverizing that self-titled selfless knight #something something samara and katrine are both knights who became isolated from their sense of duty to others #samara how do you get over losing your wife/fiancee and your family disliking your adherence to duty meant to protect them. ... good talk. #hey while i'm dumping katrine shepard lore in my tags. in this verse corporal toombs from akuze is (user has been banned from the extranet) #i need an oc tag #armour clanking #mass effect #oc lore please dont go in the main tags. stay here. dont make me have to do the weird rb trick in case i need to edit this 😭

[feral-peacock]

EDDIE BABY BOY WHAT ARE YOU DOING???

#eddie diaz #911 spoilers #911 abc #hes going through it #but baby #dump your gf before you date your wife #pls

[xxk3vonicaxx]

Khatchadouriann! You can't serve that hardd! They'll kill youu!

#eodls #digital art #we need to talk about kevin #kevin khatchadourian #this is a eodls teaser image dump by the wayy #hide your kids hide your wifee- #text post #web series #my art #wnttak #khatch (lovebug)

[rowanisawriter]

saw a post that women historically haven’t been allowed to have leisure time and it reminded me of this one time when i was like 16 and my mom invited every tom dick and harry in our family to our apartment for evening tea. i spent the whole entire time brewing tea pouring tea bringing out glasses bringing them back into the kitchen passing out cookies passing out cakes cutting cakes throwing out wrappers refilling tea brewing more tea, near the end of the night one of my cousins told me to sit down. i sat. and i drank a little tea. and my mom looked at me through the crowd of cousins and uncles and her face was like. shocked? that i should sit and have some tea after all these hours looking after others and making sure they all had what they needed until someone told me to go sit down. what exactly did she want this event to teach me? all i learned that night was to just sit down

#sorry it’s like 6am you know what that means #trauma dumping time #do you ever feel pure unadulterated rage at your mom and how she raised you to be the perfect wife and daughter but never a human being #i always thought my rage would stop as i got older that I’d become more forgiving but it’s just gotten worse #ever since i had my own daughter ive been in shock that i had to grow up like that

[hensel-x]

boy am i glad i finished that single ted lasso sketch before the finale cause after that shitshow i don’t think i want to draw fucking anything for it ever 

#ted lasso finale #its not even about ted and trent #although im SO DISSAPOINTED with trent's arc leading to fucking nowhere #but this whole coming back to family alone without your best friend to an ex-wife who dumped you for your therapist SUCK SO BAD

[spaceshipkat]

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#anyone have the mommy issues where you’re constantly compared to your mom in a negative way #i raise my voice oh im just like your wife #i get frustrated oh im just like your wife #i get upset bc i do the very thing you’re asking for and /you don’t seem to fucking see it: and im just like your wife #how many times do i have to say ‘i am not mom’ before you fucking GET IT #i know where my mom is coming from when she talks to my dad #i don’t like it but i literally cannot change it #i know where my dad is coming from with how he behaves and talks to my mom #i also don’t like it but i cannot fucking change it #i am so tired of making an effort—what was once a conscious effort but now comes pretty damn easily #only for that effort to NOT exist the split second he gets upset #because what he envisioned us doing isn’t what happened #so instead of taking about it like an adult you fucking fester in your feelings and then dump on the very people #who are fucking TRYING to have a relationship with you #it’s a goddamn self fulfilling prophecy and i am sick of it. i am sick of constantly having to massage feelings. #i am especially sick of going to bed upset because i feel empathy for what he’s going through #and my best is apparently /not enough/ to make a dent #i am so sick of crying over this goddamn motherfucking shit #i want it to fuckijg stop i want fucking peace and quiet #and for that peace and quiet to not be tangled with worry because i am not there when i might be needed #is this part of being an eldest daughter i don’t fucking know #i am just so tired of my efforts not being seen. of them not making a difference. of them apparently not fucking mattering. #ignore me ill be fine i am just so fucking tired #i want to go to bed without guilt or empathy making it impossible to turn my head off #delete later

[doverstar]

sometimes anne with an e is so wholly UN-anne of green gables that I have to throw up

#it’s the most contrived feministic crap #when the original is so beautiful and meaningful on its own #you HAD to dump your agenda on the sweetest redhead #leave anne and her people and her story alone #go make something else all about strong independent bland women #let anne be exactly who she is and who she becomes in the books #laughing and wise and quiet and steadfast and sometimes insecure. the best wife/mother!! #aogg #aogg 2000 #aogg 1987 #anne #anne of green gables #anne with an e #awae #anne shirley #anne shirly cuthbert #anne blythe #gilbert blythe #netflix #anne of the island #anne of windy willows #anne of ingleside

[pawsitivevibe]

Getting into a new fandom and half of it is arguing about "shipping" ...

Good thing I am immune to "ship" discourse about whether a relationship in fiction is bad or unhealthy or whatever because I grew up on X-Men comics.

#is it okay to marry your dead wife's clone? #sure why not #is this age difference creepy? #nah don't think too hard about it #how many times can you literally dump your boyfriend in Antarctica and he'll still come back? #unlimited you'll totally still get married #is it really cheating if it's in the Astral Plane? #actually yes Scott wtf

[thescreaminghat]

Thresh, writing in his journal: I still firmly believe that most of my troubles would be solved if I could only win over a rich widow who was a little closer to death than anticipated.

Viego: *arrives on the Blessed Isles*

Thresh: *scratches out “widow” and writes “widower”*

#thresh #viego #unbound thresh #thresh is living in a victorian novel istg #trying to rise above his station and scheming plotting girlbossing his way into money #cuz thats what he needs #some coin so he can travel like he always planned #it would have been so fucking funny if he started seducing viego just to get money to leave the blessed isles XDD #grabs that chest of gold and fucking BLASTS outta there afterwards XDD #have fun reviving your dead wife bitch idgaf as long as yall pay me to get out of this dump

[bunnyb34r]

Well glad to know I'm not the only one not feeling the Christmas season this year. Mom isnt either

Now we dont know why, but here are my guesses. Feel free to place your bets.

Is it:

Bc our aunt/great-aunt died and essentially dissolved the family

|_> Bc of this we've faced so much bullshit from the surviving family we have left.

Bc the only remaining family we have are major assholes aside from like 4 people.

Long covid?

Work stress/ working under a tyrant piece of shit.

Bc I'm an adult now so the *magic* is gone?

All of the above??

#marquilla #we still havent made cookies and are like i want the cookies but i dont want to make the cookies... #so we agreed we can do it after christmas if need be #i really think it's all of that combined. like my g-aunt dying really tore this family apart. we weren't like close close before but i mean #everyone started taking sides (the executors (my mom) vs my cousins. like listen you motherfuckers she left you [insert number bc i also #got this amount and am not disclosing]. you little freaks need to get over the fact that she loved me as much as if not more than you. #maybe bc i wasn't a fucking entitled brat and was always a polite well behaved child (for her) and didnt take my mommy/daddy issues out on #her. you already got: 2 free cars. 3 fully paid for weddings. 4 college degrees (one that you're not even using bc you havent worked since #college bc you became a tradwife. (not dissing stay at home moms im dissing her making college a BIG DEAL for her and then just #essentially saying haha thanks for the 100k in tuition but no ❤). COUNTLESS hours and money poured #into your lives from her and our g-uncle. amongst the 4 of you. (only 1 is not a brat but thats bc they pretend she doesnt exist bc shes #annoying and autistic so a drain on them they were ever so happy to dump on their dad) #you aren't entitled to any of that. that was a GIFT. your inheritance was well thought out. it is an insult for you to suggest otherwise #anyway so theyre being whiny brats and oh boo hoo you exects are SO MEAN to poor Ally who didnt sign the fucking will and thus held up #$50k FROM A CHURCH. and my uncle (not their dad. their moms brother) is taking their side. his wife is a massive piece of shit ab it too. #dont know whose side dog cousin is on bc shes close to my mom but very close to them. and i know lesbian cousin is on moms side to some #degree. and idgaf what Murderer cousin thinks bc that bitch can and will rot in hell. #so anyway any one we could possibly spend time with this season is either dead or hates us. or lives states away and won't be in til after #and only for a day anyway. and we just dont have the fucking energy to deal with anything

[farragoofwires]

don' dweeblog

remember that poll that was like "what was house actually doing with the prostitutes, because he definitely wasn't having sex with them"

literally could never be me. Imagine interacting with a canon that way.

#like first off. get normal about people paying for sex. #second off. 'telling them about wilson' was winning by a mile; so get normal about queer men having sex with women. #going to chew my ARMS off. cannot IMAGINE being this way!!!!! #grow bones; get good; fix your skill issues. i hate it here. #f: house tag #anyway this post is brought to you by me remembering that house's favorite sex worker dumped him. #'you literally cannot pay me to sleep with you anymore. go have sex with your wife who you're in love with.' DEVASTATING!!!!! #i LOVE her house is RIGHT to make her his favorite!!!!!

[maudeboggins]

whenever i watch jamie oliver's "quick and easy" recipe videos (sponsored by tesco) i feel very like that "damn bitch you live like this" meme

not that i think he actually does live like this. but that's the vibe he gives off.

#like he'll dump a tin of tesco brand mushrooms into a pasta dish #and say 'look how quick and easy! the wife and kids love this!' #like yeah i'm sure your wife and kids are eating tinned mushrooms or canned soup instead of a cream sauce on the regular #he literally added a clove of garlic to his potatoes and said 'don't even bother peeling it' #like seriously?

[corvidcall]

i would say my biggest problem with lilys garden rn is that i know im supposed to love luke and hate blaine but in fact i think blaine is very funny and i only tolerate luke

#anime life #lily dumped blaine and then he lost his job and his life fell apart #and now he's wandering around shoeless and getting into painting and meditation #and i think that's funny #luke is FINE but im a little put off by him #mostly because he just seems like the poor mans Dean McCoppin from the iron giant #and dean is like. my number one boyfriend #sorry luke. its not your fault you can't compare #lukes ex wife is hot though. i love her #and Karen is great i love Karen #this post means nothing to any of you but i post regardless

[senshibignaturalz]

Coming to terms with childhood trauma is fucking insane because yeah I knew this fucjed me up but now that I'm thinking about it why the fuck did my uncle STAY FRIENDS with my dad after seeing me start crying after he called just to yell at me??? Bro what the fuck how could you be friends with someone who does that to a 7 year old??? Insane, and then having the audacity to, now that I'm an adult, be like "oh yeah I never liked him" man u used to hang out with him of your own free will???

#i put up with him because i wanted to make sure you were okay #irrelevant brambling #okay sure you did #i have very complicated feeling about my uncle like yeah i did see him as a father figure and he treated me with basic respect #but also he abused my cousins and one of my friends #and he is a dick to my mum #and he has this stupid saviour complex #but also the only positive (for me anyway) male role model i had??? #horrid #hate people being complicated why cant they just be evil or good #sorry to trauma dump on here but it makes me want to tear my hair out ngl #imagine being friends with a man who called his ex wife just to scream abuse at his child who then cried in front of your whole family #absolutely not #and i wonder why i still struggle to trust that my partners dad is genuinely a lovely man 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 #anyway im trying to grow and learn to live with cptsd but it does mean that like #im forcing myself to have an adult perspective on things #which makes everything else seem so much worse by comparison

[woahajimes]

im actually bawling rn

#the smile has left your eyes #AM ON THE FINALE. #he thought they were siblings because this bitch told him so . and she gave him a lot of reliable info on his past so he believed her #and then he broke up with her bc they're SIBLINGS and he suffered a lot bc he couldnttell her andhad to mask it up right #and then he went to the bitch and she tried to blackmail him #and he killedher #STILL BELIEVING THAT HE WAS SIBLINGS W/ HIS EX. #AND THEN HE IS LIKE PROSECUTED RIGHT BC HE KILLED SOMEONE VERY HIHG PROFILE. #and the girl is like fukicing DEVASTATED bc she got dumped and they had a VERY SOLID REPALTIONGHIPS and like they loved eavh other alot #AND THEN. HER BROTHER (POLICE OFFICER. ADOPTED BROTHER) TELLS THE GUY (MOO YOUNG) THAT THEY ARENT SIBLINGS #AND HE REALIZES HE RIUNED HIS LIFE BECAUSE OF A LIE #when they were little they were very close friends (moo young n jin kang) and they loved each other plaotnically and such. #when moo young saw the murder of his father (who murdered his wife aka moo young's mom) he was in shock but then jin kang (younger) came i- #-n running and she accudentally dumped a kettle of boiling water on herself #but he jumped on top of her to protecte her from getting hurt #which is why his sar is like fucking ass HUGE. and hers is just on her arm. #anyways as 30 yr olds they comparae scars and think nothing of it #NAWYAY IM HURTING VERY MUCH RN OMG #THE SMILE HAS LEFT MY EYES IM GONNA SHOOT MYSEFL

[autizta]

Man I fucked up real bad

#not feeling good right now #i tried to help my wife join a discord server and made a complete ass of myself so shes too embarassed to join now #just fumbled the whole thing so much i bet if deer joined the server theyd be like “oh the white weird gf is yours im so sorry dump them” #its not about me but i feel guilty because this is explicitly my fault my presence in this situation caused this #and i know things are easier when i help and deer doesnt blame me but i made bad choices when trying to do so this time #hopefully there will be a better opportunity for her and we will tackle it together #blog