#don't judge lmfao

[plasticferal]

am i sick and twisted for wanting to write a series where matt and chris have a competition to see who can sleep with the reader first? yes.

am i gonna do it anyway? *matt's voice* yeeah

#matt sturniolo #chris sturniolo #don't steal this idea bro i swear #but idk i'll probably get judged for it LMFAO

[tempests-bards-and-birds]

Let Your Music Predict Your 2024

Shuffle your on-repeat playlist, and the first 12 songs represent your 2024

thanks for the tag @kanonavi !

i took half of these from my mp3 player and half of them from my youtube mix of songs that i basically listen to on repeat because i use both of those equally lol so i thought that would be the Most Accurate idk

january: It Happened Quiet - Aurora

february: Line Without a Hook - Ricky Montgomery

march: Contemplation in Snow (albedo's theme basically) - HOYO-MiX

april: IDOL - YOASOBI

may: The Writing's On the Wall - OK Go

june: La Vaguelette - HOYO-MiX/Cécilia Cara

july: Turn Up the Radio - OK Go

august: Breathe - Seafret

september: Homemade Dynamite - Lorde

october: Wildfire - HOYO-MiX

november: Buzzcut Season - Lorde

december: Russian Roulette - Red Velvet (English cover by Mitchel Joseph)

tagging (with no pressure ofc): @moth-of-chaos @dopefrickingjelysquid and anyone else who wants to do this :3

#yes i listen to english covers of k-pop songs sometimes. what about it #idk i just prefer that cover of russian roulette specifically don't judge me lol #also umm. i mayyy have been listening to la vaguelette basically on repeat since it came out lmfao that's the only reason it's on here #i was gonna put hyperlinks to the songs on yt but i don't have the time rn so umm. sorryyy lol #you can probably find them by looking up the names if you're at all interested for whatever reason #tag game #thanks again for tagging me!

[the-monologues]

If you were to describe me in one word, what will be your answer?

#judge me by my posts if you don't know me #lmfao I am being like c'mon let's play 21 questions #and get to know each other uncomfortably #rambling monologues

[laufire]

tim/jason or tim/bernard?

ignoring the authorial intent and tone of some of their interactions for my own peace of mind and the ability to fully appreciate Tim's character lol (very useful if you read lots of bat comics), and focusing solely on facts, inferring from context to fill in the blanks, Jason and Tim have a good baseline for an interesting dynamic. despite not seeing it as romantic, if a fic author whose takes on the characters I already trusted and liked posted a Jason fic with an interesting premise and it just happened to include it, at this point I might give it a shot (I'm starved for Jason fic if you can't tell xD).

Tim/Bernard is nothing lol. Sns. Whenever I'm looking for dc fic and I see one tagged that (because I never remember to filter the ship out. Because it's nothing) I scroll pass without even looking at the summary. Which might be biased of me but I really can't even imagine what I could get from a story where tagging them was necessary. They're just... irksome.

The other day I blocked an user (for other very funny yet irritating reasons) that posted something about how despite not reading any comics involving the characters or caring about them, Tim/Bernard was superior to the likes of Tim/Steph because it was slash which. Literally just goes to show the only thing that pairing has going for it lmao. Jaytim wins this by default.

SEND ME TWO SHIPS AND I'LL TELL YOU WHICH ONE I PREFER

#replies #talking to the void #my thoughts #dc #dc thoughts #antitimber for ts #jaytim #bitter lau tag #batcest mention #just in case #though frankly i think seeing these two as brothers in canon is a huuuuuuge reach lmfao #though the psychosexual/freudian angle could be found there if that's your thing i don't judge

[incorrect-ikevamp-quotes]

i headcanon that the name mc is using (aka the player’s name) is not her real one bc you know how the ikevamp mc is the only one who’s name isnt automatically entered in like ikesen mc’s name is mai? Yeah i figured it might be a mystery for funsies^^so she’s probably like sebas who uses a fake name

Honestly that's big mood, only because I feel like it's pretty sensible being in a mansion full of a bunch of weirdos you don't know--I'd probably just pick a random name and stick with it LMFAO. Like nah sister, you ain't getting me to no secondary location (technically Comte already did but in fairness, it's the principle of trying to be safe that counts).

I also can't get over Sebastian using a fake name, for some reason it's uproariously funny to me???? Like he had no need to be that extra, he literally chose to be here, but he was like I'm Committing To The Bit. I'm Going Butler Mode. Akihiko Is No More, Only Sebastian. And for the life of me I will never get over it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

#asks #minnie mumbles #ikevamp #ikemen vampire #ikevamp mc #ikevamp sebastian #i mean i fully understand if people don't think about it this way but tbh the idea of it is relatable to me #would be esp funny if later on mc is just like #sooooooooo #you remember when I first met yall and uh #introduced myself as x? #funny story........ #man why was my first thought #dazai: I KNEW YOU LOOKED LIKE A [insert her name here] PAY UP ARTIE #arthur: *begrudgingly handing him money* #isaac: #theo: well you're still just a hondje #mansion is just so full of love and acceptance fr fr #although i can't imagine they judge her too much literally like half of them go by aliases at this point LMFAO

[softgrungeprophet]

(Amazing Spider-Man #622 B story: "Stages of Grief")

Only individually listing core Coffee Bean pals for simplicity; Peter has way too many friends to list them all and I think Harry, Flash or MJ (revenge?) are probably the most likely culprits here anyway.

#peter is not an option on this poll because i know damn well he didn't do it himself #that man is a default nokia ringtone user #i don't think the comic says who that ringtone is set to but i'm gonna go out on a limb and say it was MJ calling #judging by peter's response here lmfao #nadia reads comics #nadia rambles

[takumishu]

I don't want to get mired into that discourse at all because I just want to vibe in my corner, but just so I have the thoughts down somewhere; I wonder if debates on whether MVK is "abusive" are really just about the semantics?

Like the undeniable here is that Damage was Done, or else neither Franziska nor Edgeworth would even be like that to begin with + a framework for personal success as harsh and demanding as Perfection cannot be enforced without some level of violence (however you think that violence would look like: in the context of a parent and a child, it can look as simple as a threat to withhold affection and/or acceptance, two things that are crucial to any growing child's emotional and mental well-being).

That enforcement doesn't have to be intentionally evil, nor does it preclude any softer, not terrible moments between the parent and children existing. But the thing is, the relationship parents have to their children is always to the child's disadvantage; it's a tight form of ownership and control, and children notably lack a lot of autonomy within their household growing up that just causes inevitable damage to them regardless of how hard the parents try to prevent them; as in, the parent can get tired, can lose patience, and (like is the case in most relationships) can hurt their children a great deal. It's just that it's especially worsened given the context of the power they inherently have over their children, and the little options children even have to escape it.

MVK is pretty undeniably not the sort of parent* who cares to tend to the minutiae of his children's well-being; like, he's obviously not a guy who would, say, preach for "soft parenting" or anything similar, but very clearly has a set expectation for how and what he wants the kids he is raising to be, all the while being a very controlling and imposing man who actively dislikes one of the kids he has underneath his roof. This is not a man fostering a healthy environment for a child to grow up in, but as far as I can tell most people can agree on that end.

^ all of this is what I think isn't much in question; which means that what IS is whether or not you can define this as "abuse".

I can see the argument for why you wouldn't, and would think that the (indisputable) harm done needs to reach a particular threshold of confirmed damage for it to qualify as abusive. There's nothing proving that MVK was beating his kids, for example, and I'd agree that speaking about him in terms of him doing so textually is inaccurate.

Though abuse also comes in many forms, some more subtle, but all imply repetitive harm done in which one party has explicit control over the other, to the point where the latter is scared of the repercussions of going against the former. What with the way Edgeworth and Franziska spend significant portions of their lives trying to stay within the limits of the standards MVK sets, and especially in Edgeworth's case where the man has never had a positive word to spare for him, there's just as much of a convincing argument for it all to be the effects of the subtle control of emotional abuse.

At the end of the day, what MVK does in the empty spaces where we don't see him at all is just a question you cannot answer nor argue for with certainty. All we can say is that there was damage done, and whether or not it was "abuse" depends entirely on how you personally define the word and/or interpret those gaps not taken into account by the text.

My personal stance is I'm not especially caught up in definitions, and my own personal politics are pretty harsh towards parents in general, so if there is damage done and there's no sign of remorse or introspection on the parent's end (which clearly doesn't exist in MVK's case, lol), then they're a bastard to me whether or not I think they're "abusive".

#send post #My thoughts #c: MVK #This is all arguing along the angle of ''how I'd judge the characters if they were real'' which is where I think this discourse kind of #sticks to. But ultimately that's not especially important to me like... I like MVK for his position as an influence on fran and mtrg and ho #it shapes their characters and what it means for them and the story. I couldn't care less about him getting his comeuppance or on whether #people are ''condemning'' him sufficiently or not. like at the end of the day he's lines! #And the narrative is honest and clear about what kind of person he is and he already did get his comeuppance anyways so I don't feel a poin #to resenting him 🤷🏽‍♀️. Lowest hanging fruit ever lmfao.

[gynecologistmsfrizzle]

i don't hate anyone as a matter of principle but if you're coughing on public transit without a mask on you are testing that principle in the strongest possible sense.

#i get that people can't just stay home. i get that quality masks are expensive. i get that we have to be reasonable. #so i am setting the bar SO fucking low alright? i don't care if the mask is cloth. i don't care if it's a fucking bandana. #i just had covid and i'm sextuple vaxxed or whatever now and i'm wearing a kn95. i'll be fine! #but this is frankly a matter of manners just as much as infection control. #stigma is a weapon to be wielded with the utmost care and restraint but jfc we have GOT to stigmatize being publicly sick & unmasked! #'it's allergies' 1. how do YOU know that. 2. how do you expect anyone ELSE to know that. #even if it IS allergies you're still worrying and inconveniencing the people around you by not being masked! AND THAT'S STILL RUDE! #anyways if you're ever indoors unmasked & hacking away and you're wondering if people are judging you? we are. #man i have autism. i don't judge people for ANYTHING in public. piss in the intersection. whatever. but this is my line girlies. #rhi talks #you can reblog this. honestly out of every post ive made this is probably the only one i actually hope people reblog lmfao #like i said. not to be disabled on main but this PARTICULAR very specific action? this one we have a moral responsibility to stigmatize.

[insurged]

some important headcanons about HIGURUMA that's important to my portrayal ( under the cut for spoilers since we have yet to meet him in the anime but VERY SOON WE WILL )

the judge and prosecutor hiromi killed at the start of the culling game were guilty of bending the rules to their own benefit. they were the judge and prosecutor from hiromi's case with oe keita who was being suspected of murder & robbery. it wasn't about upholding the law. they were corrupted to the core and this was a key changing point for higuruma who passed judgement on them with his newly blooming power as a sorcerer but it brought him down to reality from the naive belief he held about people and the world and twisted his perspective really. it also made him quite depressed which puts him in the eeyore like state yuuji finds him in when they first meet.

he's tired of rules / laws having loopholes that make them unfair and quite powerless against those who know how to navigate around them ( aka tired of peoples' bullshit in general who get away with their crimes ). he views the law having abandoned him and in turn, he has abandoned the law that keeps his hands tied while the guilty run free. he's just sick of it all lmao.

judgeman is a shikigami but is a combination of a sting ray and lady justice because animal bias, ya know. he likes them. judgeman's eyes are sewn shut because hiromi views humans as beings wholeheartedly choosing to turn a blind eye and incapable of keeping their eyes open despite the truth.

hiromi is a genius sorcerer who was taught nothing about cursed techniques or how to use it. he figured it out himself and in 12 days, he's already what you would consider a rank 1 sorcerer (on the level of nanami, mei mei, kusakabe, yaga).

in his domain expansion, hiromi quite literally acts as the jury, judge, and executioner. he is always welcome to overrule any of judgeman's decisions.

#this is actually a mix of headcanons and brief summary #considering many people don't know him yet #i hope he shows up in the next season but i'm probably coping #i think he's really neat and deserves more attention #ALSO IF A KUSUKABE IS OUT THERE PSSS PSS PSSS #the fact that the judge and prosecutor he killed #actually was the beginning point for him as a sorcorer #is quite poetic lmfao #but anyways i ramble ignore me :) :) :) #* ⟢ 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐍𝐒 ( higuruma ) #// jjk spoilers

[sushigirlfriend]

finally started reading the complete sherlock holmes and i'm having so much fun with it 😁 why is watson the way he is lmao

#i love how he calls himself out like #'don't judge me for having no life and being obsessed with sherlock i had depression' #lmfao #it's gonna take me forever to finish(over 1k pages) and i couldn't be happier about it lol

[sims2veronaville]

Is my sim the world's greatest host or what

#genuine question though is it normal for sims with your house key to come over EVERY day TWICE a day or do i need to do some mod weeding #im scared to revoke the key bc idk if it will put a dent in their relationships <- something i could easily google now that i think about it #but also i do like when friends just pop by.. just not every single day 😑 #also don't judge my decor </3 we are literally living paycheck to paycheck #$378 in the bank and she's finishing up a freelancing gig that should pay about $215 i think? #and then bills arrive 🤗 #i just got her a roommate so i hope.. he will pay half the bills.. #idk ive never played with roommates #if he doesn't I might just cheat it anyway #i literally dont understand how we're so poor like. this has never been a problem for me before lmfao #ts4 tag

[sleepily-scarlet]

A message to Kaveh mains

What's it like taking Kaeya off your team.

#kaveh #lmfao #kaeya alberich #kaeya main #kaveh main #lane don't you dare judge me #genshin #@ me tho

[amischiefofmuses]

Emperor Belos || Open Starter || Mutuals Only

perfect for human ocs/canons not from the owl house

The Boiling Isles is a place of chaos, he knows that more than anyone but none of that chaos is unexpected. Magic has rules, afterall and he has studied them religiously. Mastered them. There's little that happens in this particular realm that warrants more than a well-placed order, he barely has to lift a finger to manage it all. Which is why it's so startling to hear of another Human in the boiling isles. They had been spotted in Latissa and collected up by the guards- their assumption being that they were the Owl Lady's little apprentice. It's a little surprising when the Human led into the hall is not Luz Noceda, his brows raising under his mask as he looks upon this completely new face. Maybe there's more Titan's blood to be had afterall if the realms still bleed between eachother like this. It's in his best interest to play nice, an ally in all of this would be ideal. -- ❝It isn't often we get Humans here, you know- I apologize for the unpleasant welcome from my guards. Who are you, exactly? And how did you get here?❞

#owl house rp #the owl house rp #open starter #the owl house roleplay #owl house roleplay #Emperor || Belos Verse #open rp #yes I'm reposting this don't judge me lmfao

[lady-lycany]

There's a thing I've learned over the years and I thought, I might share it. You know what's one of the best things you can do? Talk openly about your insecurities to others. The more you openly talk about yourself or make a little fun about your insecurities instead of trying to hide them, makes every interaction with others much more comfortable... at least in my opinion!

#just to name an example- my supervisor and I just were hiking once again and the path was super steep. #so I was like “ah great while you're going to levitate ever so easily up there I'm gonna turn into a locomotive 🚂 #and I have to be careful not to fcking suffocate“ #we both laughed about it and I kept talking about how my life's affected by being overweight but that I still have much fun in #physical activities and that I technically don't feel as overweight at all as I am (until it's time to walk up a mountain lmfao) #but that type of talking works with a lot of things #body hair... acne... scars... idk... talks like that just make me in general more relaxed because I don't have to hide anything or worry #what they could think of me... if you have backstories about your insecurities and why you are the way you are #people have less to judge. they usually only judge if they don't know about how chill you are about yourself

[the-force-awakens]

Comic Poe is so pretty.... Live action Poe is pretty, too, but comic Poe doesn't get enough appreciation

comic!poe means so much to me, oh man. Those comics got me through some very rough years, but yes!!!! Yes he is so pretty in the comics, I swear no one draws him quite as well as the artists in the series (especially Phil Noto).

There are so many wonderful moments in the comics with him, and so many pretty beautiful shots of him that I'm utterly obsessed with. Plus it gave us Poe in the stealth suit, and the training scene my beloved

#yes this was the only shot of him in the comics I had on me #don't judge 😂 (joking) #I wish we had seen the officers uniform though!! It would've been so good #I also find it hilarious that he's in a tank top here and that's fine but then later in the same issue he's just wearing his regular shirt #w/o a jacket and he looks so utterly naked to me lmfao #ask box #i-belong-to-the-stars

[hikarinokusari]

I don't know what class to take.

#only bard will bore me #and I don't enjoy paladin #maybe bard/paladin with oath of vengeance #so then I stay with charisma build #hnk ramblings #rogue/paladin could work as well but I'd need dex lmfao so it's not really strenghth based #I guess #and if I don't take the dragonlord paladin class proposed for the dragonlord campaign my DM will judge me I think #smiting with sneak attack seems great #but then again #we need strenghth and charisma in the team so paladin would be the best choice #and dragon killer personal quest for a dragonlord character seems very weird