#controldrama

[karanscottcoaching]

A “poor me” victim mentality is going to keep you poor/heartbroken/unhealthy/angry/whatever until you change your mindset. No one is coming to save you, you have to save yourself. Why? Because that’s where the growth is; you will become the person you’re ultimately capable of being by evolving through the trials of life; by growing through what you go through. Whilst it may not feel like it right now, you DO have the resources to save yourself - you just don’t recognise them from a victim’s perspective and mindset. So change your perspective and mindset! Change the direction in which you’re looking for answers, rather than e.g.: self-medicating to hide away from the challenges, because they aren’t going anywhere until what they have to teach you is full and learned. What you resist persists, so turn around and face it. Quite often, “fear makes the wolf appear larger” (to quote a German proverb). Help is available, you don’t have to do it alone, you are allowed supportive guides on this journey. Resources, inspiration, learning and empowerment is literally everywhere, and your new mindset is just begging to be activated. How do I know this? Because the primary function of your unconscious mind is to maintain your survival; to keep you alive and healthy. If you are e.g.: self-medicating somehow (which includes workaholism etc), your unconscious mind knows this is unresourceful and unsustainable long term. Your unconscious mind is also alert and actively seeking healthier alternatives for you. And you found me, hello 👋🏻 Let’s start straight away, please repeat after me: “I can do hard things” and then start doing them (mindfully, carefully and incrementally), because nothing changes if nothing changes. Make this the week you change something for the better. Let’s talk, let’s begin. Karan x 📞 | Voicemail: 01536 601749 📧 | [email protected] 🔗 | KaranScott.com/Contact NLP Mindset & Life Coaching from the Inside Out #poorme #victimmentality #victim #controldrama #mindset #growth #change #changeagent #lifecoach #karanscottcoaching #karanscott #karanscottnlpperformancecoach #nlpcoaching #mindsetcoaching #nlpcoach #helpishere #ineedhelp https://www.instagram.com/p/CU1tOI8D6bq/?utm_medium=tumblr

#poorme #victimmentality #victim #controldrama #mindset #growth #change #changeagent #lifecoach #karanscottcoaching #karanscott #karanscottnlpperformancecoach #nlpcoaching #mindsetcoaching #nlpcoach #helpishere #ineedhelp