#combo of gender/nongender

[starlit-hopes-and-dreams]

Happy Whumpmas (੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭*🎅⛄❄️!!! You have just been snowballed by a secret whumper. Help to keep the snowball fight going by anonymously sending this to five other whumpers with a whump-related question of your choice.

Here's mine for you: What's one whump trope you can never get enough of, no matter how often you read it?

Oooh, nice question, thank you!

I am an absolute sucker for a Rescue - which segues nicely off I'm an absolute sucker for a captivity arc :D (But i chose rescue for this bc it's the end result and i wouldn't like a captivity arc nearly as well with no escape/rescue - rescue obvs preferred)

And actually, the less agency the character has in their own rescue, the better, imo.

All the hate for the "helpless, poor abused female with no power who gets rescued by a big strong man"? I love that.

Agency can kiss my ass lol okay, perhaps that's a bit blunt. I prefer a blink and you'll miss it sort of agency - defiance that gets you nowhere. having that small bit of spark left even after all hope is gone and they're ground into the dirt. when rescue arrives, making the choice to cooperate instead of being like, what's the point. wanting to die but eventually choosing to live.

small acts that may not be as flashy as "i can kick your ass six ways to sunday and i don't need nothing from nobody i can take care of myself", but feel infinitely more satisfying to me

*cough* ANYWAYS

ITS THE RESCUE

#starlit asks #Anonymous #whumpblr #obligatory i don't give a shit what the genders are really i just tend to write and read m/f but i would still like this trope with any #combo of gender/nongender #also me not really giving a shit if thats a trope or smth else - its what i thought of :') #i can't keep that shit straight i swear #anyways #im gonna write this someday #maybe #i seem to churn out spicy females one after another so uh #carr and her i can kick your ass six ways to sunday 😅😂 #honestly i think Riah has the most potential but its kinda Nykim hanging from broken arms kneeling on shattered knees rn soooo #hehe #but i'm still planning on bricking her into a wall so there's that :))

[themogaidragon]

Masterpost : Bxgender | Abigender

Bxgender/Abigender : A gender that is both any gender and agender. It can be fluid, flux or static. Umbrela term for any gender which is a mix of agender\genderless and another gender.

Flag created by me, DM me if you want to know more about it. I'll update this masterpost regularly so don't esitate to send me the new bxgender terms you'll see to help me.

Terms under the cut. ⬇

Abigender: a genderness that is both agender and bigender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly bigender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings. could also be called bxgender, biagender, or librabigender.

Apanprince/Pxnprince: a genderness that is both agender and panprince (and/or a genderness somewhere between agender and panprince); an identity that is mostly panprince, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a panprince person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to panprinceness.

Apanprincesse/Pxnprincesse: a genderness that is both agender and panprincesse (and/or a genderness somewhere between agender and panprincesse); an identity that is mostly panprincesse, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a panprincesse person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to panprincesseness.

Apanroyal/Pxnroyal: a genderness that is both agender and panroyal (and/or a genderness somewhere between agender and panroyal); an identity that is mostly payroyal, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a panroyal person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to panroyalness.

Azurxen(o)girl: being both a xen(o)girl and an azurgirl; being a xenic and masculine girl/woman in some way (alignment, expression, multigenderness, etc).

Bxrl or Ambxrl: A gender that is both (am)birl and agender/no gender. The combination of gxrl/gxl and bxy/gxy. It could be either a(n am)bxgender or a trxgender.

Bxy: A gender that is both boy and agender/no gender. You can be a boy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male and not feeling gender.

Bxyflux: A gender that is both male and agender and fluctuates in intensity.

demixeno(boy/guy/man): being partially a xenoboy, or partially a xenoic boy/guy/man

demixeno(girl/gal/woman): being partially a xenogirl, or partially a xenoic girl/gal/woman

demi(xenby/xenbie/xenonbin): being partially a xenby, or partially a xenoic enby/nonbin/nonbinary person

demi(xenoqueer/xenqueer): being partially xenoqueer, or partially a xenoic genderqueer person.

Demixoy: A gender that is both demigender and xoy.

Demixirl: A gender that is both demigender and xirl.

Dxde: A gender that is both dude and agender/genderless. You can be a dude and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling dude/like a dude and feeling genderless.

Enbxrl or nbxrl: A gender that is both enbyrl/enburl/enbirl and agender/no gender. The combination of engxrl/gxrlby/engxl/xngirl/gxrlbie/xngal/gxlby/gxlbie and enbxy/gxyby/gxybie/engxy/xnboy (zeninœ/zeninoe/zenineo & zeninea/zeninae/zeninæ); non-binary bxrl (zeninoa/zeninao).

Gxl: A gender that is both gal and agender/genderless. You can be a gal and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling gal/like a gal and feeling genderless.

Gxndxrqueerness: A gender that is both genderqueer and agender/no gender.

Gxrl: A gender that is both girl and agender/no gender. You can be a girl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling female and not feeling gender.

Gxrlby. Gxrlenby, Femxlenby, or Womxnby: enby gxrl/wxmxn/fxmxle; a gender that is both girlby/womanby/womenby/femalenby (nonbinary/abinary girl/woman/female) and agender/no gender.

Gxrlflux: A gender that is both female and agender and fluctuates in intensity.

Gxy: A gender that is both guy and agender/genderless. You can be a guy and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling guy/like a guy and feeling genderless.

Lxdy: A gender that is both lady and agender/genderless. You can be a gal and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling lady/like a lady and feeling genderless.

Mxn: A gender that is both man and agender/genderless. You can be a man and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling man/like a man and feeling genderless.

Neurobxy\Neuromxn: Feeling male but also genderless caused by a disconnect from gender due to neurodivergence, therefore identifying as a bxy. This gender may be fluid, flux, demiboy, multigender, or any combo of masculine and genderless.

Neurogxrl\Neurowxman: Feeling female but also genderless caused by a disconnect from gender due to neurodivergence, therefore identifying as a gxrl. this gender may be fluid, flux, demigirl, multigender, or any combo of feminine and genderless.

Neurobxyflux\Neuromxnflux: Feeling male but also genderless caused by a disconnect from gender due to neurodivergence, therefore identifying as a bxy. This gender is flux and may be demiboy, multigender, or any combo of masculine and genderless.

Neurogxrlflux\Neurowxmanflux: Feeling female but also genderless caused by a disconnect from gender due to neurodivergence, therefore identifying as a gxrl. This gender is flux and may be demigirl, multigender, or any combo of feminine and genderless.

Paxndisso (pron. pawn-disso): pangenderflux- While not dissociating, you’re Pangender (or close to pangender). When you dissociate, you’re Pan-nongenders (examples; Agender, Gendernull, Gendervoid, etc.). A neurogender for anyone who dissociates.

Pxlygender: A gender that is both polygender and agender/genderless. You can be polygender and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling polygender and feeling genderless.

Pxnfingender/Apanfingender: a genderness that is both panfingender and agender (and/or a genderness somewhere between agender and panfingender); an identity that is mostly panfingender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a panfingender person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to panfingenderness.

Pxngender/Apangender: A genderness that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between them; an identity mostly pangender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a pangender individual feeling they have null/no gender identity; an agender person having some connection to panhood/pangenderness.

Pxnmingender/Apanmingender: a genderness that is both panmingender and agender (and/or a genderness somewhere between agender and panmingender); an identity that is mostly panmingender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a panmingender person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to panmingenderness.

Pxnningender/Apanningender: a genderness that is both panningender and agender (and/or a genderness somewhere between agender and panningender); an identity that is mostly panningender, but has a connection to genderlessness and/or agendered feelings; a panningender person who feels they have null/no gender identity; an agender person with some connection to panningenderness.

Rosxen(o)boy: being both a xen(o)boy and a rosboy; being a xenic and feminine boy/man in some way (alignment, expression, multigenderness, etc)

Transfembxyflux: A gender that is both transfemboy and agender/no gender; the combination of transfem/femboy, fembxy/fxmbxy/fxmboy, bxy/femboyflux, bxyflux/genderless and genderflux/boyflux.

Trxgender: A gender that is both trigender and agender/genderless. You can be trigender and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling trigender and feeling genderless.

Wxman/Womxn/Wxmxn: A gender that is both woman and agender/genderless. You can be a woman and agender/genderless at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling woman/like a woman and feeling genderless.

Xenbxy: xenoic bxy, xenine enbxy/nbxy; an identity that is boy/enboy, xenogender, and agender or otherwise genderless; a xenic arcturian ; xenby, nby, xenboy, xenobxy, xenx/xenoagender/xenagender, xengender, nxnbinary/nonbxnary/xnby/nonbinxry, xoy-x.

Xenoagender: A xenogender and genderless or one or more non-gendered xenic identities.

Xirl: A gender in some way nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part woman\womanhoood but wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren't entirely boys or don't want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word "girl".

Xoy: A gender in some way nonbinary boy or nonbinary boy-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of man/boyhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely boys or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “boy".

Xirlflux: A flux gender in some way nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part woman\womanhoood but wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren't entirely boys or don't want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word "girl".

Xoyflux: A flux gender in some way nonbinary boy or nonbinary boy-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of man/boyhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely boys or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “boy".

#abigender #bxgender #agender #bigender #masterpost #bxy #gxrl #enby #mogai

[aers]

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How did you choose your name? - ummm.... i went thru a lot of names before i figured out i was trans because ive always been uncomfortable with my birthname. its just got a lot of negative childhood shit attached to it. i chose aer because i love short names and the ae letter combo! n juice was bcoz i wanted a cool n cute word name and also juice is my very favourite thing!!!!!!! and ruben is because it has the same short form as my birthname as well as the same origin (both Hebrew) . id like to eventually maybe take my birthname back when ive dealt with some trauma shit, but its literal meaning as a noun is to feel distress and grief sooooo... idk

Why do you use the pronouns you use? - uhhh quite a few reasons, some of em r hard to explain. first is definitely ease. theyre easy for me to use even when mostly nonverbal and having issues referring to myself. they seem to suit me i think? ive never found anything else thats this comfortable. and i love how completely nongendered they are. theyre a reclamation of everyone whos tried to dehumanize me, and also an act of rebellion. a lot of the time people tell me they wont use it for me because they feel its dehumanizing, and that opens a conversation about reclamation and what really is dehumanizing... which is rly interesting because i feel like the fact that it makes people really think and have gut reactions to it actually humanizes me more. im not just someone you can gender easily without thinking about it, you need to question yourself and think about respect and who i am as a person to accept my prnouns if that makes sense at all ahh

What do you do to validate yourself? - fuck i dont even know tbh. it feels like the whole world is set to invalidate who i am and i rly often give in to that even tho i know i shouldnt. 

#SORRY THIS IS SO LONG FUCK #bragiteilen