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unholyplumpprincess · 3 years

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Hello! We talk so im on anon and i kinda wanna see what you think. Matchup please? Im 5'2, genderfluid, bisexual and an overall weirdo. Im really submissive and i love BDSM, specifically cnc and shibari. I also have a love for cute things like kittens and plushies, but I will not hesitate to throw down at any given time. Violence is just fun. I tend to prefer masc folks, but everyone is at risk with me. I also fucking love food. More than someone should...and it shows. Im down for anything since Im curious, but prefer Apex.

Adding your second anon here too!: I gotchu! Sorry about that. Im super cuddly for the most part, but sometimes I have really bad sensory issues. Im very protective over people I love! Oh! Im also poly! I also have BPD, and that really affects my personality. My love language is like, i bring you things. I love bringing those I love crystals!! I really love when people show me affection by cuddles or communicating. My hobbies are writing, cosplay, videogames and fuckin. I collect a lot of crystals for my altar, but i dont know that i really have religion? Im fairly quiet and don't like a lot of attention on me. Id rather stay home and read or play apex than be out and about. My partners like cooking for me because it always leads to the frickfrack. I guess my style is goth/punk with a dash of redneck since i love going mudding and hunting. Yeah, im weird. Hopefully this is enough!

Now unfortunately, even on anon, I’m 99% sure I know who u are so I shall try not to be biased and pair u up with Caustic but I can do u one better at least!

I maaatch you wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiith!!!

Bloodhound!

Warnings: R18+/NSFT under the cut, Parts left ambiguous bc not specified!, Bloodhound is mentioned with a strap on and my specific headcanons, cnc roleplay implied briefly!

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Let’s all be real now, every nb person is naturally like ‘ooo friend?’ when we hear abt another nb/trans person. So that’s probably what makes Bloodhound curious of you in the first place, just already a leg to stand on in ‘common grounds’ sort of ways. It probably starts out that way too, the friendship. Of course, you’re rather sexual, and that exudes quite clearly- not that Bloodhound minds at all, no, but it does make it harder to Not want to sink their teeth into you.

If you bring Bloodhound some sort of bone or crystal, you can count them as interested right away. Especially if either were something they brought up so briefly as needing for their own worships or personal interests. They like that you listen, they like even more that you decide to gift them things. As their own love language is gift giving, as a means to traditionally court you and see if you are interested in them. Albeit, you’re certainly more Open about courting than they are, and you can practically Feel them blush under their mask when you offer them things.

In public, they won’t draw attention to you- especially with knowledge you don’t like the attention- but in private they are a Very touchy person. Liking to have arms around your or vice versa, they especially are a big fan of spooning and just holding onto someone. Arthur takes a grand liking to you as well.

As far as the bedroom though? Good luck.

~Rest under the cut~

Poor little prey. You want to be tied up? Be made into their little thing to use as they please? Not a problem. They’ll ruin you, leave bites all over you to ensure you know who you belong to. They’re a big fan of increasing the size of their strap on as well, finding your limits and wanting to prod at them further. They’re a huge fan of tying you down in the woods or to a tree for that matter, pulling your hair and forcing your gaze down to see how they press their strap into you and croon, “Is it too big, my love? Surely you can take it.”

Or you don’t even get a say. A hand over your mouth and a snarl for you to take it. Of course, as a proper dom, they have safe words and safe signals so never fear on them ever taking things too far. They always prefer to have plans before hand, so often times the hour or two before anything sexual occurs they’ll lay out their plans for you just to ensure nothing catches you off guard.

Get ready for their god complex as well. You’ll be made to worship them or be used however they please. You may even end up with a strap on on you and them taunting you about how you can fuck them better than that.

Good luck on trying to match their stamina and sexual appetite.

#matchups #Bloodhound #apex legends #apex lemons #nsft #lemon #princess talks #Anonymous #Princess talks

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lewdladylily · 3 years

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You've mentioned this kink club you frequent a few times, what's the place like generally? Like what kinda stuff do they have going on in a place like that?

There are about 4 within reasonable driving distance of where I live (salt lake city, Utah) but I have only gone to two of them due to time and distance constraints. Though you do get kink nights at a couple local dance clubs, I know Area 51 (local dance club) does them here and there, and they are generally kink friendly any time. The local drag queens really like Area 51.

Anyway, the kink clubs are community run and non commercial. The two I am familiar with are actually built in a residential area - from the outside it just looks like someone’s house, you would never know unless you knew. Someone owns the place and it is technically their home, but I don’t know who. They don’t like to let people know who they are and we all respect their privacy. My understanding is not even the neighbors know. As a side note, the cops all know where these clubs are, it isn’t a problem.

My personal favorite was founded around 60 years ago by the gay leather community but it’s always been open to the larger kink community, we all want somewhere to meet and do our thing so we support each other. Also there is a lot of cross over between different groups.

The one I go to most often has a large living room area that has been converted into a dance floor, which acts as the main play area, area for meetings and classes, and occasionally as an actual dance floor when events call for it. There is a sound system, dance club style lighting, padded benches along the walls, and lots of bondage furniture (also scattered around the rest of the clubhouse). There are several other rooms, 3 additional smaller play rooms, a rest area, a kitchen area (Free water bottles all the time, snacks most nights, as well as a soda machine).

Outside of the main clubhouse they built a small bar, maybe 15 feet by 30. You can smoke there, some nights they serve drinks, tables, stools, etc. You get it. It is a good hangout place, cozy and comfortable feel. I’ve spent a lot of hours there just chatting with people.

They have a consensual non consent area set up in the back half of the bar. The idea is that there is a hazard line on the floor that indicates a “danger” area, as well as a stop light they got somewhere. If it is green, all normal rules apply. If it is red then past the line cnc rules are in place - if you are past the line then it is an invitation for someone to come and do what they want with you without asking permission first (unless you safe word, safe words are always in effect). Generally people are not confident enough to do anything though, unless they already know you. I’ve never had the nerve to try it myself on either side. There is this one lady that is a really good belly dancer that likes to go hang out and dance in the CNC area. I’ve never been around for anyone doing more than groping her, but I understand sometimes people will tie her up, maybe use a vibrator on her.

There are also two chairs with built in restraints set up in the CNC area if that is your thing.

There is also a pretty good size patio area. Generally we just sit and chat on warm evenings out there. It is technically open for scenes, and that does happen sometimes. I once saw a girl and her dominant doing a water torture scene, basically she was tied up arms behind her back, on her knees in front of a plastic tub filled with water. Her dominant shoved her head under the water, holding her in place while she tried to resist and break free. Pulled up and allowed to breathe before she was unexpectedly pushed back under. Very hot to watch.

For the more general things we get up to there, generally things are set up as events that you can attend. The entry fee was $15 last time I checked, just to cover minimal expenses. You can also donate to improve the clubhouse. It gets a good amount of donations, everyone wants a good place to hang out, but no one is getting any real amount of money out of it. All the donations go into things like buying furniture or cleaning supplies. All events are invitation only, basically any member of the clubhouse can sponsor someone for their first event, after that they have a standing invitation to any open event.

The events themselves vary greatly. The most popular events are the general play parties, where people just show up, hang out, meet people, and sometimes do some play. It is not uncommon at all for people to come without any intention of sexual play at all, it is a very comfortable, queer friendly environment. We’re all weirdos here, no one is going to judge you for whatever you do.

Generally speaking at any given time someone will be doing something though. All scenes and play being done in the clubhouse is open for anyone to watch. So if some hot girl is being tied up, or two attractive people are having sex, or if there is just a really sexy woman half naked across the room, you are free to watch the show and it is not considered impolite to stare.

At any given party you are going to see a wide variety of people. Lots of people in street clothes hanging out, chatting, and watching whatever is going on. You’ll see several people in anything they find sexy such as lingerie, corsets, formal wear, or even just straight up naked. I have seen two submissive friends come handcuffed together and only in panties. One of my friends likes to wear maid outfits with cat ears and a tail. All that good stuff. You’ll see people on leashes or other obvious signs of dominant/submissive dynamics too.

The events are 18+, and I’ve seen people in their 70s there. Most people are 25+. You’ll also find a wide variety of body types, including fat or otherwise not traditionally attractive people, trans people, you name it. That isn’t a real barrier to joining in on the fun or finding partners.

For an example of a more exclusive event, there is a gender queer play group that used to meet regularly, I am not sure if they still do. Open for trans people and cross dressers plus established allies. Strictly invitation only because this can be an extremely frightening thing for people.

I was a regular of the gender queer group, it was an easy place for me to start as a trans women. I felt more comfortable there than at a general play party until I got my bearings in the community, and I was friends with all the cross dressers by that point. Generally the idea was we would get together to hang out and chat, give all the cross dressers a night to dress up, some of the more experienced CDs would put on a workshop for how to do makeup. That sort of thing. These were more casual parties without much heavy play. You wont find people fucking in the basement, but you might see a light spanking scene.

They also do a weekly class on some kink subject. Someone in the community puts together a presentation on something they like in kink - for example, pony play, or dollification, or leather working - and you can come learn about it. I went to a leather class once where the presenter showed off these black leather angel wings she made, they were stunning.

These classes are strictly no play, with the exception of any demonstrations the presenter does, and the donation drive, in which a female volunteer brings around a donation box (it is actually a wooden duck, a lighthearted tradition that I don’t know the origin of) while stripped down to her panties in order to “encourage” donations. It’s a tongue in cheek tradition, we are all perverts so we might as well have some perverted fun and let an exhibitionist whore herself around a bit. No one is expected to donate, but it is encouraged.

The thing that might not get across easily is that this is a very comfortable atmosphere and basically one of the safest places you could go. Everything is built around safety and consent, and everyone is looking out for everyone else. I’ve done intense bdsm scenes before that left me so fucked up that I couldn’t even walk on my own. People helped me to the couch so I could rest, got me a blanket, and then got me a sealed water bottle so I could rehydrate and checked in on me regularly until I was able to properly take care of myself. I felt completely safe the entire time. I’ve watched over people like this myself before. It is just what you do.

If I had to pick a personal favorite thing, it would have to be the cages.

The clubhouse has a large standup cage, usually one occupant, but you can fairly comfortably fit two. Often someone gets locked in there and basically put on display. One time a cute girl was locked in the standing cage, her arms bound to the top of the cage, with it sitting in the middle of the room. People were encouraged to reach in and grope and touch her as they passed. I’ve locked people in there before, including heavy bondage to the bars of the cage while I groped and teased them with a vibrator. That was a ton of fun.

There is also a horizontal, long cage big enough for one person, or if you are willing to get very close and personal two people. It is comfortable enough for long periods of time. You often see a submissive or two locked in that cage, sometimes left there while their dominant goes off and plays with someone else. I met one of my good friends while she was locked in that cage. It has a padded top so it doubles as a bench for an added level of humiliation.

#IRL play #Anonymous

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