#but i am SPECIFICALLY vagueing some discussions I saw in discord servers where some allo people were lamenting about having a crush

[moreroads]

-taps the microphone-

Just because I'm ace, doesnt mean I'm off the menu.

Just because I'm aro, doesn't mean I'm off the menu.

PLEASE!!!! please, don't automatically write me off as "not wanting a relationship" or "not wanting sex" because you have found out that I am ace and aro.

ESPECIALLY, if you did not find out from me.

#ace week #asexual #demisexual #polyamory #aromantic #demiromantic #this is in the demi tags because it is my personal identities #I know that this isn't everyone's opinion or experience #but i am SPECIFICALLY vagueing some discussions I saw in discord servers where some allo people were lamenting about having a crush #on someone they LEARNED was ace or aro (not from the crush). WITHOUT ever talking to the crush. WITHOUT shooting their shot. #and I wonder regularly how many people have done that about me