#arm queer people

[lv3ndr]

V2

-I fixed some mistakes

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#arm queer people #protect trans kids #queer artist #transgender #trans #gun violence #politics

[thebroccolination]

because fistbumps make you gay

#promare #galolio #liogalo #and this is only from the last twenty minutes #the first hundred are also pretty gay they're just less visually homosexual than the big heart in the sky #or the literal vers ship names they made up themselves for their first date battle robot #i always slightly side-eye people who say promare isn't profoundly queer #the same way i side-eye the people who said viktuuri doesn't count as canon because viktor's arm blocked his mouth on yuuri's #thematically alone it's very queer-coded #but like #c'mon #and because fistbumps make you gay

[nihilistgf]

cum and take it 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏴

#anarchism #anticapitalism #queer anarchism #anticiv #leftist memes #anarchist memes #anarcho nihilism #anticapitalist #egoism #nihilism #trans memes #transgender #queer #trans women #arm trans people #lgbt memes #lgbtq

[comradeallie]

#lesbian #transgender #lgbtqia #anarchism #anarchopunk #punk #anarchocommunist #antifascist #tranarchy #tranarchism #lgbt #queer anarchism #anarcho syndicalism #leftist #arm trans women #arm trans people

[up-in-flames-writing]

In lieu of Stuff Your Kindle day, can we talk about the issue of how the m/m genre of books, romance or not, is almost entirely dominated by women? Can we talk about how the most recognisable gay couples in media are written by women? Can we talk about how queer men can't even write about ourselves, how we are only allowed to exist when it's from the point of view of a straight woman sexualising us?

Can we talk about that? Or am I going to get called misogynistic for pointing out the disparity between who gets the writing deals, & who gets their books turned into movies, & whose shit gets popular versus whose doesn't? Can we talk about how m/m fiction is only allowed when it appeals to a cishet gaze, or is that too much for tumblr to take?

Can we also talk about how trans queer men are even more hated by publishing? Can we talk about how we get shit from both sides? Can we talk about how books about the experiences of being a queer man, written by queer men, never get the same recognition as books written by women on this subject (barring academia which has its own problems)?

Can we talk about that? Can we?

#booker speaks #no bloody clue how to tag this #this is for the tags only but #people would get up in arms if the f/f book scene was dominated by cismen only #why are we not extending this same energy to ciswomen writers of m/m? #why did we forget about the original meaning of own voices? #why are queer men pushed out of publishing in the way that we are? #& im not just talking about romance here #like there are fantasy & scifi & contemporary novels about men loving men that are written by ciswomen who have a very narrow view of what #m/m relationships are like. & this extends towards stuff like manga too but im not gonna get into that cause i dont read mangs/comics #can we talk about how hard it is to find queer masc authors nowadays? #saying this both as a reader & as a writer #can we also talk about how lists of queer & especially trans novels almost always forget to include anything by transmascs & gay transmascs #or if they do include us its 1 transmasc book to 1 enby book to 8 transfem books or books about the 'trans experience' in nebulous terms #can we stop reccing detransition baby & start reccing the spirit bares its teeth? #can we look at works written by queer masc people that arent just red white royal blue & stone butch blues? #go read cemetary boys #read alexis hall & max turner #read bloom if you like comics. or nimona #read my shit too! #im gonna be focusing on my writing blog way more this year #& im working on some projects that may or may not end up being published in physical form #read more queer masc stories by queer masc authors!

[candlelightkitty555]

i have thighs and they are not covered in pretty broken skin bruises from lovebites. it's a damned shame.

#sweet nothings #nsft #t4t #nb4nb #t4t nsft #queer nsft #lgbtq #i have a big bruise on my arm and i never realized how pretty i think they look #yes it was from getting blasted with a football but still the colors are just gorgeous #and i think if they came from a place of adoration that would make me love them even more #trans/nb people can never just fuck like normal they always gotta be gnawing on each other

[taylortruther]

For me, I’m not bothered by the idea or whatever of Taylor being lgbt. I don’t give a single fuck what her sexuality is. I’m queer myself (open to all genders but also deeply asexual lmao), so truly I don’t care if Taylor is straight as a board or bi or super gay or WHATEVER. I get bothered by people picking apart her life to make her fit into their narrative. There’s been Taylor songs I’ve heard and applied them to same sex relationships too (like to me, ivy is gay af) but not in a “omg Taylor MUST be gay way” if that makes sense. And as someone who is still forced to be in the closet for the most part, it makes me so nervous to see people talking about it and trying to “expose it”, it feels too close to outing for me.

Taylor could post rn and be like “my whole life and career has been a lie, all those guys were beards I have always loved women and the gaylors were right” and I’d be absolutely thrilled for her. I just think discussing such personal, unconfirmed things can be harmful. Like we know for a fact her and Travis are together, no harm in discussing them. But we don’t know what she and Karlie were for fact and it feels like im invading her privacy.

I want Taylor to be herself and be loved and happy but i really hate how many “gotcha” type posts I see of people trying to saying Taylor is lgbt. I saw someone on Reddit say one that they KNOW for a FACT that Taylor is gay because she “leaves them messages in her songs saying so” like babes what

i think you are speaking for a lot of my rational anons

#i will say however that this applies to all rumors/gossip/etc about taylor not just the queer ones #but the gaylor theories are what get people most up in arms #and that's the rub

[finniestoncrane]

said to my counsellor that i wasnt built for friendship because everyone always eventually just. stops speaking to me and she went “ok why do you think that is?” and then when i finished my dumb sad list she went “ok so maybe you aren’t good at friendship” and i. have never regretted spending £50 more in my life lol

#A RANT IN THE TAGS MY GOD I DIDNT EVEN REALISE I AM WRITING THIS WARNING RETROSPECTIVELY #£50 to feel like never trying to speak to anyone again or forge any connections THANKS RUTH #Ruth remember when I said that every friendship I’ve had I’ve never truly known if it’s a friendship or if it’s one sided #remember when I told you that my friend groups always had people who had a favourite and I was never the favourite #remember when I told you that several friend groups have disbanded but not really they actually just made new spaces without me? #remember that? remember my trauma? remember? #because I DO!!! #I was not born to have friends I don’t think #I can’t even make friends with other autistic people or other weird people or other queer people #I don’t even think I could make friends with a clone of myself #this is so guy wrenchingly isolating lol #like girl what do you want from me? keep everyone at arms length like I used to? #try not to let myself get attached to people in case they decide they don’t want to be close to me anymore? #please it is not great advice Ruth #THE WORAT PART is that I literally was like ‘I don’t message too much because I’m overbearing’ #and she asked where the proof was #and all I had was the complete dissolving of any relationship where I tried or tried too hard #so now I’m left in this confusing space of do I message too much or not enough because I have no happy medium #and she knows SHE KNOWS I also have energy issues and executive dysfunction stuff going on #and I know she is just trying to help and get me to think about this stuff #but it was just not the time lmao #finnie shouts into the void

[ennaih]

Not Every Film I Watch In 2024

5. Eileen (2023)

#eileen #eileen (2023) #2024filmgifs #my gifs #oh i loved that #it was so dark and so vicious #and then ended so sweetly #that last act reminded me so much of The Heiress #the first half of it #not the second #and i adore both Anne Hathaway and Thomasin McKenzie #so i was in queer heaven all through this #i mean if Anne Hathaway elbowed a guy in the face in front of me #and then asked me to dance #i too would gaze at her with stars in my eyes and melt into her arms #and even the Sixties murk of the start lightened up to such beautiful effect #i should have remembered it was the same people who made Lady Macbeth #and so was Ari Wegner behind the camera #whom i trust completely to give me beautiful visuals #OUR Ari Wegner thanks very much

[lord-radish]

imagine thinking that trans men are inherently bad or evil or predatory on the basis of gendered privilege and societal power structures. cringe

#transmasc discourse #like the idea that trans men gain male privilege and kick down the ladder to beat on the queer community is astonishingly stupid at best #the idea that transphobia or queerphobia as a whole doesn't affect them because they're Assimilating With The Oppressors is like #man fucking what is up with people yknow #gender essentialism is fucked up and it's the same force that's beaten down on bi ace and transfem people #the fact that this has turned into 'trans rights but only for the women' by some dumb-fuck shitstains is awful #no. trans rights for all. #like let me explain what I mean here: trans men aren't seen as men by transphobes #it's not 'oh you're a fella? crack a cold beer and let's bash some gays'. passing as a man has just as much risk to it as passing as a woman #because a man who will attack a trans woman as someone who is not a woman will most likely attack a trans man he does not see as a man #with the same violence he might level against a cis woman #that's just on the masc side. i can't speak for any violence against trans men by cis women but I can see how cis women discredit trans men #by claiming them as Lost Lesbians and Sisters In Arms who've been lost due to the Trans Agenda #like people shit on bi people because they have 'passing privilege'. but we know that bi people face homophobia #and other issues about their orientation. the idea that trans men get their Boys Will Be Boys card is to focus on a tiny selection #that *potentially* has the power to he a shithead - like a queerphobic asexual person or a malicious bi person #and paint an entire group of diverse people as literally the worst interpretation you can imagine about them #like consider that you have your own issues and/or biases in regards to people you like and want to hang out with #and stop calling entire groups of people invaders and oppressors whose entire goal is to upend the community #and turn the power of queer people against them #i understand how it feels to feel powerless and to have somewhere where you feel supported and safe #but if you're going to see pain and hate in every group who shares your experience but gives you an ick for whatever reason #there's a solid chance that the Righteous Crusade against them is - in fact - your own personal dislike wielding a modicum of power #that essentially functions the same way that hetero- and cis-normative standards and people have rejected you. #it is essentially you becoming the bully. and just like bi and ace and transfem people before I won't stand for it #trans men are my people.

[monstersinthecosmos]

not to be discoursey but I just cannot stress enough that it wouldn't kill anybody to be mindful and kind and not dehumanize others in online spaces, and especially in fandom conversations, and especially especially in conversations about characters who do not exist.

Like there's a world of difference between "Character X is gross" and "Fans of Character X are gross" and there's no need to continually use language like this that only fuels drama.

It costs you nothing to be kind to people and it keeps fandoms so much safer. I've heard Brené Brown talk about this a few times and I super recommend this so we can all check ourselves and make sure we're still being kind.

Humiliation and dehumanizing are not accountability or social justice tools, they’re emotional off-loading at best, emotional self-indulgence at worst. And if our faith asks us to find the face of God in everyone we meet, that should include the politicians, media, and strangers on Twitter with whom we most violently disagree. When we desecrate their divinity, we desecrate our own, and we betray our humanity.

And like. IS FANDOM AS SERIOUS AS THE REAL WORLD OUTSIDE AND ACTUAL FORMS OF VIOLENCE AND OPPRESSION? Of course not.

But I don't think you can have it both ways. This is either your hobby that you spend hours of your day navigating, or it's not that serious. And your online friends are either the people that you have conversations with every day, or they're not. Just because it's a silly hobby doesn't make the time you spend here less real and doesn't mean you need to be shitting all over the carpet in your own house, yeah? There's already enough stigma from the outside world about your nerdy hobby being a stupid waste of time; you don't have to buy into that when you feel so passionate about the things you make, and read, and the friends you talk to every day.

Like, if you want to be that person, if you like starting drama, if you like hurting people's feelings, idk. That's a You Problem. And you need to work on that and it's not my business. That's such an extreme divorce from my values I'm not sure we have anything to gain from each other. But I'm not interested in harming you. I just want to feel like my hobby is a safe place.

Anyway, be nice to people please. 🫶

#i didnt want to go off on a side tangent but so much real world fascism trickles down into fandoms #so like sure it's not that serious #but sometimes it kinda is #like people screeching for censorship of the ao3 while florida is scrubbing queer lit from schools #proudly claiming that fans of a ship you don't like are groomers when that's the exact talking point being leveled at queer people outside #and drag story times being surrounded by armed protesters #and pride being sanitized #so like sure fandom is our nerdy silly hobby #but we're real people #and we live in this world #and you don't need to bring all that hatred into this space

[iravaid]

in honour of lesbian visibility week... tragic lesbians from a zombie apocalypse ttrpg. Dot the bulldog butch (fly high bbg) and Meena the doberman femme (please hold on, bbg)

#tiny living dead #team clusterfuck #ttrpg #zombie apocalypse #original character #meena team cf #dot team cf #my art #iraart #lesbians save us..... #there are layers to this one i do not know if people want to hear about the Layers but i'd be happy to describe it because god. it compells #meena and biker are trapped in the same cult together. they MIGHT make it out alive. maybe. biker already cut her arm off that's basically #a queer warrior's bond #the quote is in reference to matthew 24:6. bible quotes a recurring theme in this game

[basuralindo]

every ounce of kindness and understanding leaves my body the second my breathing is restricted. if my asthmatic ass finds you smoking at a bus stop I want you dead and I mean that

#especially funny when they've got the queer liberal uniform and wanna smile like they're friendly #no bitch we are not friends. we are not gonna be within 12 feet of each other and that's lucky for you #because I would not be able to control myself if you were in arm's reach #buy all the weed socks and blm merch from kitchy white girls in overpriced boutiques that you want but we are not on the same side #if you're reading this and thinking 'but /I/ smoke at bus stops it's fine-' stop fucking doing that #if it's a public space that other people need to be in for transportation. you do not get to make the air unbreathable #unless I also get to strangle you to death to even the playing field #you especially don't get to act like a disability advocate or some shit if you can't actually respect other health conditions

[i-am-the-quintessential-queer]

I need more men in sundresses this summer

Y’all look so handsome in dresses

#it speaks #text post #yes this includes trans men and transmascs in general #y’all are always handsome in dresses too #chubby and fat men this goes for you too #let me see your cute ass belly and arms in a sundress #just god please I need all of the people in sundresses this summer you’re so hot #men in dresses #men in sundresses #sun dress #sun dresses #men in sun dresses #queer #lgbtq #genderqueer #t4t #nblm

[electrobiology]

this is going to be an annoying rant so feel free to ignore it but so actually are there no good universities in all of the united states that don't leave you in lifelong debt?????? like hello???????? everywhere i look at that seems interesting and doesn't have reviews talking about how no one cares about you and you're on your own the entire time you're there or the staff/students are -ist/-phobic or no one does work and just goes to parties or other such things they're talking about the expenses. i want a degree because i need one if i want to do anything but i don't know if i want it enough to be in debt for my whole life. and why is the us like this. i just want to go somewhere else this country does not seem worth it to me. i want to go back in time and find a way to sink every european colonizer ship that landed on the land of the americas

#genuinely the more i look at college prices the more reasonable it feels to just go overseas somewhere instead... japan #if i'm gonna be paying at LEAST 15000 a semester wherever i go why don't i go do that in japan where i'm actually passionate about the #language and have reasons to use it and a potential to do something with it and can get places without a car and. etc #and the 15000 semester is a 15000 YEAR #only reasons the idea of being in america has ever appealed in the slightest to me is that it's a little easier to be openly queer #in certain places. not all of them! #and it's probably one of the most racially diverse places #whenever i look online people say that degrees in japan aren't worth anything but i feel that might just be them being racist #surely there are numerous people who went and got degrees in japan and are living happily. and idk bc they aren't on reddit #or posting on blogs or anything #god i feel UGHHHHH i hate everything #i know that as a Country with History japan is not particularly better than the us i know #but it's just the small things like being able to get places w/o cars and not have to pay an arm and a leg to heal like a small cut i got #that needs to be stitched. or not paying my whole body to pay off the debt of going to college because getting an education is #just not what they. want from you. they want your soul and your entire life in their hands #why am i living in this world #1 am thoughts i know but god

[bugbuoyx]

I tried so hard to fit in as a child, as a teen, as a girl. None of it was ever enough I was bullied, ostracized, hated. I have never fit in anywhere but being queer, being a trans man, has helped me to embrace my otherness.

As a trans man, especially a queer one, I do not fit in with cis men. I do not get access to any privileges because, even if I am not explicitly clocked as trans I am still clocked as "other", as queer as neurodivergent, and if I am open about being trans? You should see the expressions twist, the discomfort in the locker room. I wonder if I was laid off my last job (a temp position) because they simply did not want to deal with my transness, I was made to sign things with my deadname and use the women's restroom despite my appearance. There's no point in pursuing it, I live in a non-trans friendly state.

Why not go stealth, you ask, why not pursue that dream, if you could call it, of attaining cis male privilege. And I ask, why should I be forced to deny something that I love, that is inherent to who I am as a person, for privilege I do not want, for what could it afford me? Why should I be made to deny all that I am, to lock it away before the gates so to speak, and pretend I fit in when I never will?

Why can I not be myself, in the wake of a world that wants me dead, is it because you believe being a man could not possibly be revolutionary? Is it because you believe men are the "other" in the queer community, ousting the people who helped build it in your crusade for moral purity? Are men simply degenerates who can not love in your eyes as you force women into a gilded box of wires and purity. Is this not the community of freaks and others? Where is our freedom from expectations, the ability to love and live and be noone other than ourselves, in all its queer glory? I do not fit into your boxes, like a weed, a dandelion, I will grow out of the cracks and edges where I don't belong, to find a place I do.

#transmasc #mild vent #i have alot of thoughts about being transmasc and queer and how the (online) community treats men #especially as someone who loves alot and yet i am painted as evil because people can not imagine a man who is anything but #anyways i was going to get a tattoo on my arm where i apply my gel of the formula for t and get lavenders behind it #but now im kind of considering dandelions or maybe both honestly why not fuck it whole bouquet with meanings