#and would treat people so badly

[hermithomebase]

need to hold dream in a hug and rock us side to side so he knows he’s cared for

#i want to be his friend so badly just so i can tell him he is better than the people reflected back at him and i want to be his friend so #he would Listen and know it was real and genuine. and even if we weren’t i’d mean it for Anyoje bc no one deserves this genuinely No One on #this earth deserves to feel that way or be treated like that

[skunkes]

#talkys #delete later #(this is a meme redraw) #ruined my life is a strong word. and of course theres lots of self blame and obvs ive probably wronged lots of people before #and i dont deserve unending torture for it. right. like part of me doesnt even actually feel ill will toward the other party #because whatever! normal human experience! #the other part is like ohhh okay you lied to and kinda used me + treated me badly then lied again to the point where i found out the truth #from another party so you didnt even have to fess up yourself and now you're back to being happy as if nothing happened #i was just a stepping stone i was just a distraction. ok! #like for real actually ok ^_^ it literally happens to ppl all the time... #<- he keeps experiencing waves of horrific sense of self worth that already wasnt Too Great as a result #ugh. and thats nobody's fault but my own right.... but idk. i cant believe it...! i cant believe someone treated me dis way #and i let it happen... and i would have let it keep happening if an end hadnt been put to it by someone else.... #but still. at the end of the day i was the only one left with these thoughts. ykwim. other party has forgotten. got happy ending. #doesnt deserve ''consequences'' but still feels horrific to see and think about. you know? #i literally got all the bad. throughout and after.

[rainparadefromhell]

this is what would happen if manuel ever came out to dante probably like 10 mins later

#he would mass text the whole school american shows style #no but let's get serious for a sec in tags #the show has a massive problem with outing throughout both seasons #but i am glad they kinda acknowledged that with simone telling mimmo it isn't right #and that he wanted to be the one to tell him so hopefully this will get touched on in the next episode #it is borderline horrific and irresponsible to show outing queer people as something not as serious idgaf if it's a rai show or whatever #not to mention how badly treated simone is by ofc ernesto and the other boys who beat him up but also dante #who is more concerned abt ernesto than his own son srsly wtf was that knee tap hug your child??? #ugh he is seriously one of my least favorite characters even if he is an entertaining character #rant = over #un professore #un professore 2 #dante balestra #simone balestra #manuel ferro #simone x manuel #simuel #un prof

[deityofhearts]

cheerleaders 🤝 equestrians (but specifically horse girls): your sport not being taken seriously by other people and being treated like a joke

#deity dialogue #when I was in middle school my computer teacher was also a football coach and would have ‘banter’ with the cheer coach (who was also an #assistant teacher for my math class btw she was so sweet she helped me a lot in class and also made me a bow which was stolen from me :( ) #about how ‘football was a real sport and cheerleading wasn’t’ LIKE ARE YOU KIDDING ME #jsut because cheerleaders look cute and are peppy and more often than not girls and women you don’t take anything they do seriously #do you understand the strength and agility and flexibility needed to be a cheerleader do you see the shit they’re doing and you have the #gall not to respect what they do as a sport??? i wasn’t a cheerleader but a few of my friends were and I respect them so much that shit must #have taken so much of everything #obvs I’m not covering the full scale of what it takes to be a cheerleader cause again I wasn’t one but like I’m so pissed whenever people #have the audacity to act like it’s not a serious sport and I’m mad at the same for equestrians as well. #Also generally I hate people who think cheerleaders are inherently awful and bitches like y’all shouldn’t generalize just because some #people in a group are mean or popularly portrayed as mean doesn’t mean it’s true my friends from school were sweet to literally everyone so #can it. this isn’t me like dismissing anyone who’s been bullied by anyone but don’t like assume everyone is terrible thanks bye #it’s the misogyny and we all know it :/ it affects men in the sports as well because if you’re a male cheerleader you’re treated badly and #it’s the misogyny and we all know it

[gideonisms]

See I think if I'd been born a guy I wouldn't be this pathologically avoidant trying to plan my career because there are plenty of situations you can find as a cis man where you just Do Tasks in awkward silence and you can get to those as a woman but you have to go through the rings of hell socializing first and then besides, a lot of those jobs already have so many men that you stand out when the whole point was you Don't want to do that

#you gotta be god's strongest soldier to survive this shit and i am not! i am god's weakest most pathetic soldier! #i survived five years of customer service crying weekly and getting harassed and being a baby about it #when i got promoted no one would listen to me and it made me constantly anxious and then so tired it took me a year to be able to #think about having a job as something remotely positive and stop crying about it #idk how other women are doing this shit a guy treats me like his sexy servant and i feel BAD and upset for years #and think of what he said 7 years later and they only touched me on the shoulder and made comments other people go through worse! #but i am not strong or determined i just want to go through my life in peace and stop talking to people altogether #it wasn't just guys who treated me badly older women made fun of me and called me lazy and stupid #tutoring was fine but i felt like i was putting on that same performance and at that point it all felt so awful i just. didn't want to #i can see no way out of talking to people for the rest of my life and it gets me down sometimes #i know i get to come home but even then i will probably need people to live with #i basically only like my family and close friends talking to me sometimes even that is hard #sometimes it's way easier to type and feels less awful #i think i have to just keep on keeping on until i can finally get good enough to freelance edit and code that's the only thing i can think #of doing that doesn't make me cry #emails are fine they suck but i don't have to control my face and tone so.

[nrc-confessions]

💘🐊 you've gotta do fae courting! Think about it Sebek is always "mermermer humans weak mermer waka-sama mermermer" so like get Malleus's blessing and give Sebek a shiny rock... or is that crows? Sew him something!

Thank you for your confession!

Oh this too!

If you get Malleus and Lilia’s approval Sebek will definitely see you in a better light!

Oh and gifts would be nice too… I don’t know what he likes but you could definitely ask around! Sebek would probably appreciate the gift!

Maybe compliment him? That would make him really happy I think.

#I don’t know I guess just do something nice for him #I’ve seen people treat him so badly 😭 and say horrible stuff about him too #I think getting a compliment would make him happy #even if he doesn’t show it #posted by: 🌿 #nrc confessions #unreality #night raven college #twst #nrc confession #sebek zigvolt #malleus draconia #lilia vanrouge

[atomicsuperrobot]

Hakuba seems to notice something about what KID and Conan are doing, but can he really tell the nature of what is going on there?

Also side note but honestly if Hakuba is gonna put his hand on Conan's mouth to try to shut him up like that, then he should expect to fucking get bit. It's what I'd do for that level of disrespect.

#Detective Conan #Magic Kaito #Mun Post #but then I loathe the idea of people touching me without permission #and also would rankle severely at the idea that someone would try to shut me up like that #he's treating him like a child; which; for all that he LOOKS like one; he very much is Not #plus I don't even think you should treat a child like that; no matter how badly a noisy child may grate on my nerves in a public place #thinking something bc you're irritated and at your limit is one thing; Doing something bc you're irritated is quite another #idk I'm just tired and maybe a little overheated atm so even the idea of this annoys me #to the point of wistfully imagining acts of petty rage and violence

[imnotfinebutimfine]

"the women in BS are too feminine bc they have long hair"

the show is set in 1715 what do you want...

#vague on purpose but those who get it get it #ALSO saying that not treating the mlm and wlw relationships is crazy #flint has a whole Narrative Moment where he is asked to out himself and also him being Outed is so traumatic that it fuels the entire show #it would feel exploitative as a viewer having to watch one of the defining moments of flints life that tuned out so badly for him #like idk. maybe it would've been fine but it would feel too personal to see those moments with him and thomas #and unlike max/anne/jacks sex scenes where important narrative things r happening during the sex #we juwt didn't need to see it with flint idk.... . .. #black sails #but seriously. it was also made in 2014. they could not have made a more butch lesbian character or people would've been scared #also it was set in 1715 and even in a pirate haven it would've been dangerous for women to present masculinely #altho that could've been explored with mark/mary reed if the show had been brave enough!!

[comradedanipedrosa]

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#had to unfollow a pretty popular and usually funny blog on here today #in retrospect I should’ve done it earlier but it sucked to see that post making fun/ hating on sainz’s underbite #leave his jaw alone that’s MY f1 diversity hire lol #no it’s not that serious but I have an underbite more noticeable than his and people made fun of it all the time #don’t do that not recommended #always funny when kids at school would be like ‘uh you know you need braces right?’ like yeah I know that. I need jaw surgery in fact 🧍‍♀️ #but I’m not going to get it I hate going to the dentist for the braces anyways and it’s not like an actual Need need just what’s recommende #I dunno it sucks I should’ve unfollowed when the running ‘joke’ of their blog was calling people ugly #doesn’t help me with my current haircut too I already had super masculine features and now the short hair like I’m not a pretty person #and idc! <3 #I've seen people with worse cases than mine like how badly do people treat them it must be truly horrific :/ #like my teeth grew in the correct order so it was fixable with braces but there's people whose teeth overlap! and that's fine

[dread-knight]

Man if youre sending people death threats over fanart of a muppet with no confirmed canon age I just gotta say get a fucking grip its literally not that serious

#I personally see yellow guy as a young adult but I can understand where the ppl saying they think hes a kid are coming from. #I think its like. becky and Joe have left it ambiguous on purpose. He's filling the niche of like a more innocent character that would be in #a childrens show which DHMIS parodies. #And like I get the ableism angle like #The shit where hes treated like a baby bc the artist is a fluffybird shipper gets under my skin bc. Yeah he's childish at times but not like #shitting in diapers tier you get me. #So I get that being upsetting. #But like at the end of the day Wakey Wakey was scrapped and nothing has officially been stated in the show so it comes down to like personal #interpetations. IDK man. #If youre getting so worked up about this youre telling people they should die I think you need to step away from the computer. #DHMIS #I am not in the mood to argue with strangers but I'm tired of seeing this shit #you all need to relax and block ppl if its getting to you that badly

[forcedhesitation]

it’s completely bananas to me that halsin's sex scene features a moment where he somehow loses control of his druidic powers and wildshapes into a bear, because he’s apparently that horny. like...gale had to be infected with a mindflayer tadpole for him to make mistakes in his spellcasting, even though he already carried a small nuclear bomb of evil, weave-consuming magic in his chest. what THE fuck is halsin’s excuse? like, as funny as it is for an archdruid to be so overcome with lust upon seeing a tdick that he loses his grip on his abilities, it makes absolutely no sense! what do you mean that this guy has enough power to open a portal to the shadowfell, and rescue a little fey boy from it, but he can't control his wildshaping because "bear horny?" HUH?

#bg3 #thoughts about media #the more I think about halsin and SH. the more I grow resentful of their writer in specific. #genuinely. what the hell was this guy thinking. #like how is this scene meant to be sexy? #as a monsterfucker- I GET the appeal of a man fighting his “inner beast” to be with his partner. #but it doesn't come across that way in the halsin scene. it feels...silly? nonsensical? #he's an extremely powerful druid....losing control of his wildshape because he's aroused makes him look...immature. #is the appeal of halsin not that he is an experienced but lonely older man? #when confessing to your player character- he expresses his appreciation for the care with which the PC has treated him. #which I LOVED because it developed upon that initial dialogue of his where he reveals how alone he really is! #his family is all gone...so he only had the grove. #but the people at the grove held him in such high regard...it was like he wasn't a person anymore. just a “leader.” #it makes perfect sense to me that he would fall for someone who treats his feelings as important...who treats him like a person! #but the sex scene devolves so rapidly into...god...something out of a badly written fanfic? #honestly- forget the wildshaping. your PC should have had the opportunity to top halsin. #it would have made MUCH more sense given why he's even attracted to your PC in the first place.

[cayde6feetunder]

No I’m not derailing a post by pointing out in the tags how people can post about how much they love characters with “unpalatable” traumas and symptoms but then in the exact same breath treat real life breathing people with the same traits as subhuman.

#caydeposting #I don’t trust anyone cos the ‘I love characters with (x)’ folks are #usually going to fucking treat me like human excrement #cos it’s easier to digest Blorbo from Shows and treat Blorbo from Shows like an actual real person #and not you know. An actual living breathing person with the exact same shit as Blorbo from Shows #it’s why I wish I was a fictional character so badly because then maybe people would like me for my unpalatable symptoms and issues #and not treat me like I’m the scum of the earth in the biggest show of hypocrisy I’ve ever seen

[wild-at-mind]

If you ever see me becoming one of those transmisandry people, please fucking call me out immediately.

#it shouldn't happen though i am too triggered by MRA-lite material #i can't see that changing any time soon even though i haven't had exposure to the content for like 10 years #the transmisandry discourse on this site melts my brain it's awful it's just online stuff being argued about more online stuff #this is not the same as me saying i will never be treated badly for being transmasc i am not stupid i know that happens #and i am fully committed to fighting the patriachy which has nothing whatsoever to do with my individual manhood or anyone else's #it's a system and yes gender and how we fit into the patriachy is made extremely complicated in trans circles and that's ok! #i promise it is you don't have to design a new system that cis women and trans women are using to do oppression on specifically trans mascs #we're all being fucked over by the patriachy and how the fuck does it help to be divided #but in reality let's face it i can say this all i want but the real reason i'm never going anywhere near being a transmisandry person #is because i was exposing myself to MRA-lite content at a formative age and harming myself in the process #even if i didn't know i was a trans man guess what it would have harmed me just as much if i did have that awareness #and honestly when i see transmisandry discourse all i see is that fucking triggering stuff again #all it does is nitpick whether patriachy is real with tiny examples it doesn't talk systemicly and it doesn't help men in the slightest #it pays lipservice to marginised men but it has no interest in talking about the fact that men are usually simultaenously #oppressed and oppressor at the same time- this is not accusatory it is just factual #it's true of the queer community too and basically every community #but we can't seem to talk about it without just harming each other and blaming and not seeing each other as human #the internet makes it all so much fucking worse this stuff can't exist without it #anyway i'm super rambling but these are genuinely very triggering topics for me i have unfollowed people i LOVE becuase of this #and i still love them! unfollowing on a social media isn't a referendum on that i just can't see that stuff and i need it gone from my dash

[r029]

I'm depressing as a whole so I'd rather present myself in a way that's actually likeable even if it's not how I am.

#ive never really been positive. and ive always been apathetic and but no one would want someone like that.. #i feel so out of place all the time. and i feel like i cant do anything about it. #i cant be what im not but i can pretend to be. but its really exhausting. #i wish people could like me for what i am but they rarely do.. so i just pick up these normal traits everyone seems to have and try #to be like them. #but then im not different. but being different makes you stick out and i dont want that attention or attention in general.. #i dont knoww. #i want 0.1% acknowledgement. anything more is anxiety inducing. #i dont want people to like me really. i want people to hate me and think badly of me because ive done nothing to earn positive attention. #but i dont even want any acknowledgment. dont waste your time giving it #and treat me like i dont exist. #im nothing special nor extraordinary. dont make me feel like i am. dont lie to me. #i dont need positive attention nor negative attention. i dont need any kind of attention. so why give it? #all i need is to be ignored.

[koipalm]

congrats on the hypnos kii :)

dude when i say that ive been talking about hypnos in hades 2 i mean this is 3 years ongoing. when i SAY that me and my friend (hypnos council) have been talking about wanting to have to help hypnos in the second game bc hes missing WHEN I TELL YOU THAT WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT IT... we've proposed hypnos with long hair, we talked incessantly about arenos (taking credit for that too) literally even before today we've considered hypnos/apollo like oh my god. this is everything

#for YEARS it was just 'as long as hes in the game' #PEOPLE DIDNT CARE ABT HIM AT FIRST so many people hate him when they first play.... #and hes treated so badly in the game it was a PIPE DREAM that he would be even a partial focus #when i tell you that we're so fucking back. #ask #txt #IVE LITERALLY WRITTEN A FIC ABT HIM. IVE DRAWN HIM THE MOST OF ANY CHARACTER IVE EVER DRAWN #my hypnos final boss au.... my hypnos older brother au... oh my god were so fucking back #I HOPE HE GETS TO PARTICIPATE IN THE WAR #MY HYPNOS FINAL FORM AU #thank u my friend. its nice to be back #now for his kids and his romance to be added

[botseeksbot]

food . water . vbros women being written well .

#beating my fist against the ground . MYRA <- my no.1 always my 2 episode queen #SALLY . idr how many episodes you appear in but smth barely more than 2 . #they should have been cunting it up s6 and 7 i see it in my head . #the vb that exists in my head and i draw art for . #genuinely like all the women . they have so much potential and its so sucks that theyre written so badly . #USUALLY FOR GUYS IDGAF ABT #everything w dr mrs and her issues w being guild council and her marriage issues being pushed asside s7 for . #the osi agent (who is a woman i'll give them that) and the fucking peril partnership guy . killing myself . WHY WAS THAT SUCH A BIG PLOTLIN #warriana just fucking off after s6 . hey remember when s6 was being written and people thought since the other members were working for #widewhale that she would be betraying brock like his biblical namesake and it was so cool and then it went no where she just fucked up and #was never seen again #idec for her that much but her potential . she would have been awesome #in my head myra takes hatred's place as the venture bodyguard s4 onward get that cretin out of here #then sally should have been beefing w everyone . she deserved it everyone treated her like SHIT #focus being on her shittier husband and then her somewhat shitty bf instead of her . DIEEEEE #sirena also is just . pushed aside for the twins is like . its so evil what they do to her babygirl i know youre better written than this #I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHTS ON THE VB WOMEN . THEY GENUINELY ARE AWESOME [in my head] [if they were written well] #e.txt #SORRY I HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY ABT THE WOMEN . EVEN NIKKI AND I HATE THAT EPISODE SO MUCH