#and this video is very Gender

[vithcy]

If I didn't hate being alive and I had money I would look like this

#keiynan lonsdale ur soooo prettyyy #and this video is very Gender #also... #oc: daniel #both cuz gay street fighter is on his character playlist and because he's definitely attracted to keiynan #stfu vithcy #at this point I've covered my transmac identity with a blanket and im sitting on top of it hoping it'll die. anyways #cunty video. love it if you see gifs send them to me/tag me

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Reasons to play In Stars and Time: Canon Pronoun Warfare.

#in stars and time #ISAT #Siffrin #Loop #Context: early on you meet a character who tries to get you to use the royal We pronoun for them and you shut them down. It's great. #The gender swag and non-binary rep in this game is lovely. #I sketched this out when I was in Act 2 - and as of posting this I have not yet finished the game so *please* no spoilers. #It is rare for me to get into something spoiler free and I have been getting my shit rocked by this game in the best way. #Yes I *am* taking another detour to talk about a video game I love again. I will have some fun crossovers. Trust the process. #I will also do my best to pitch this game as spoiler free as possible. Because you *should* play this game: #ISAT is a very lovingly crafted RPG with very fun and emotional writing. #The characters are great and the mysteries you slowly uncover are intriguing! #The way the gameplay ties into the player's own emotional state is nearly always in sync with the protagonist. You *will* feel things. #And it is not afraid to let those things be hard emotions! Do mind the content warnings and know your limits though. #As someone who sucks at video games I also appreciate that it is so generous with your time and keeps things fun. #Not to mention it is honestly underpriced for the amount of content in it. Buy this game. I need to spread the brainworms.

[phoenixyfriend]

If your favorite contains backing vocals, go with whatever feels right in terms of 'they are just as important as the main vocalist' or 'they are functionally another backing instrument like the guitarist or drummer.'

I know that the musicians are in fact just as important as the vocalist (obvious example: the guitar solos in classic rock, like Queen), but hopefully you get what I'm going for here.

#music #gender #bands #phoenix polls #inspiration for this is that a few years ago I saw a music video. it was Cake by the Ocean from DNCE. by all appearances a very normal thin #Except they had a female guitarist. despite having a male vocalist. and it struck me how strange that was #I'm used to either all-same-gender OR female vocalist w/ male bandmates (e.g. Paramore) #Or bands that don't really feel like bands. more like small orchestras. like Gogol Bordello or Goran Bregovic's Wedding and Funeral Band #anyway it's going to be fun to see what comes up here #I'm expecting mostly all-same-gender with a few fem voc/male mus

[brookbee]

David Bowie — "Boys Keep Swinging" on The Kenny Everett Show, 1979

#as much as i love the music video where hes in drag i am kind of obsessed with this version #like the funky dance moves and how much hes cheesing it up is very good #anyways we love a song that makes fun of gender #david bowie #lodger #boys keep swinging #berlin trilogy #berlin era #bowieposting #my gifs

[uncanny-tranny]

One thing I find weird about visibly transitioning is realizing that while you as a human haven't changed in regards to personality or what have you, people's perception of you has, and sometimes that means you'll be treated differently.

I've noticed that as I become more "visibly" male to people, they are much more willing to say that I am "aggressive". Oftentimes, I'm not even doing anything out of the ordinary, I'm acting like I always have, and to be honest, people don't say how I'm being aggressive. It's really jarring because I haven't changed - my personality is the same. But I think what has changed is the fact that I am read as male doing the things I always have, so I'm treated with that lack of nuance.

I bring this up because it's an aspect of transition that can be very difficult, and even dangerous. I wonder, if I'm being seen this way, how are other trans people being seen? These things are important to consider because it can compromise our safety

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #this especially goes for TPoC - many of whom have said exactly what i am saying now (albeit much better) #it's just weird to experience the shift in how people treat you when the core of your being hasn't changed #cis people don't like to admit it but they are *very* weird about visibly transitioning people #before somebody misinterprets this no i am not being aggressive. i am endangering nobody or doing anything threatening when i am told this #i am usually minding my own business or doing work and nobody tells me /how/ i'm being aggressive #and at this point i wonder if part of it is that i am (visibly at this point) male #what i have noticed is that i'm seen both as a safe person and a threat because i'm trans #in that i am safe to be around for certain people because i 'get it' but i am not safe enough to be myself #anyway this is just my thoughts i had at almost 03:00 while my cat is sleeping on me and i'm watching a four hour long video #i already knew that people would treat me different because people are weird about gender but it's still odd go go through

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

https://www.tumblr.com/princess-mihai/744384538076168192/im-perfectly-normal-about-this-perfectly-normal?source=share

Op: Clothes don’t equal gender!

Op: I’m genderfluid because some days I wear Boy clothes and some days I wear Girl clothes :) no that doesn’t negate my original point what do you mean :/

#op is literally gendering clothes in this very video… #radfem safe #gender critical #gendie brainrot receipts

[seafoam-taide]

so the thing with slay the princess is the shifting mound calls the protagonist a passive player but in essence they are the only one in this little pocket of universe with any agency or ability to act which is in part bc of their role as vessel for the player but also because that is their role. the problem is that the protagonist has no goal. they are an entirely fresh person who does not know any of this? does not have a purpose. they are the long quiet because that is what they were made to be but that isn't an identity that is a role and one that is undefined. and there is the narrator, a fixed, unchanging agent meant to provide this purpose, except the shifting mound has one too, and needs the agency of the protagonist to complete it's purpose. everything depends on the only one in this whole thing that can make the choice to change because the shifting mound calls them passive but it is entirely at their whims and must plead its case in the face of the one person who can do anything about this entire situation and it's nature is reaction, not action, built on impressions molded by the protagonist. everything hinges on them and yet the most they have is echoes of motivation and ideas that are themselves built on the ideas fed to them . and all they know is this recursive loop of information . there is nothing to define the protagonist but the incomplete beings, ideas, that make up their surrounding. the protagonist is made up of the perceptions and thoughts and ideas of the echo that is the narrator and the shifting mound itself and the plan is for this person who's only memories and ideas of existence are of the princess and revolve around the shifting mound's intentions to somehow kill a being that is only what it is perceived? the narrator's origin split a god in half then made it so those two halves would only know each other could only know each other and expected this to result in erasure??? did he not think a practically newly created entire whole person would not be curious and would not grow like a person would.

#tide of consciousness #idk its late i think tooo much abt this game i love themes #if ur wondering abt the pronouns for the protagonist its very simple #i took one look at them and used my mega ultra projection blast which among many things includes queering of the gender #anyway this is just like hollow knight #vessel meant to contain and kill the god trapped within it but is ultimately shaped by the expectations and doomed to fail from the start #the long quiet isnt a person and the god it was part of before is long dead and the protagonist who is the long quiet but doesnt have a nam #like the princess to the shifting mound except not quite that either #im normal. whatever #slay the princess #slay the princess spoilers #me when my favorite character in the video game isnt technically a character and instead is the suggestion of one

[amphiptere]

I am very annoyed with everyone now reviving the “good omens (book/s1) was queerbaiting” debate. what part of “angels are generally sexless” and “crowley and aziraphale are canonically non-binary” and “‘I am THE southern pansy’” did y’all miss

#mine #good omens #good omens spoilers #fun fact: asexuals are queer too!!! #it's very ''the queer community is only about being in same-sex love lol what is the tqia+ part i don't know her'' #kissing someone of the same gender is an easy way to indicate queerness sure #but when your sexuality is not kissing people #or romantic orientation is not being attracted to anyone #or when your gender is transed #there's not as simple a way to show that #so yeah people will miss it #but it's all there #show and book #i think james somerton has a good video essay on this? #fingers crossed he'll do one for s2!

[mooniesideup]

I like the game about the slugged cat

#I’ve only had this game for a week but I am obsessed #It’s so good #it’s on the same level as hollow knight for me #which is at the very top of my favorite games list #lil non-binary main characters in video games with dark soulless eyes #such gender #rain world #my art #slug cat

[sparky-cryptidcrafts]

Got assigned a video to watch for my 3rd year anthropology class and there was a old man narrating which normally makes it hard for me to focus but he sounded familiar. I was like "wow he kinda sounds like Spock maybe I can pay attention if I just pretend spock is explaining something to me" and then the very next moment "I'm Leonard Nimoy join me!"

yeah, I'm not worried about my grade this week.

#leonard nimoy #spock #ancient mysteries #the video was on witch craft and how the image of a witch developed over time #the class is ritual myth and religion #it's very fitting because our textbook stresses how all practices should be respected and colonization is bad #and how we shouldn't judge other cultures through the lense of our own #because gender #very much in support of infinity diversity in infinite combinations #the book also talks about intersexuality a lot #I hope the future of anthropology is as mindful as this book is what I'm saying #no more stealing other culture's historical artifacts and no more armchair anthropologist

[acfan120]

Oh to live my life as a cute girl on an animal crossing island

#animal crossing #slight gender dysphoria #i don't think I'm trans but if I could go back and have a choice at the very beginning like in a video game I would choose female #like I don't want to change me now cause I'm comfy as me but I would have chosen different if given the choice

[ziggysgender]

❤️🏳️‍⚧️ happy Valentine's day to my first dose of Testosterone 🏳️‍⚧️❤️

self love wins<3

#this is genuinely the best day of my entire life. starting T after so many years of just dreaming about it #a childhood worth of watching transitioning videos on youtube is paying off. this is the beginning of my medical transition. i want to cry #and getting a new car after i totaled my old one. my first ever car. i have this one under my own name and my own legal power #instead of my parents holding my finances over my head #on top of that im finally starting my new job this friday.... ive been trying to get in for 3 years and im finally starting #very weird to even have made it to this point in life. a lot of heavily suicidal years full of dysphoria and trauma. hit after hit #but once i turned 18 and gained medical autonomy. man. i got diagnosed with stuff i didnt even know existed #anyways I'll shut up now but YAYYYY YAY YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYYYY!!!!!! #trans #transgenderism #gender

[aquadraco20]

Just noticed that Somerton rebranded his channel as "James of Telos".

Probably because of all the (warranted) distrust and negativity surrounding his username,

But also to advertise his production company at the same time.

#interesting #james somerton #im still subscribed to him but #im not sure if it will stay that way after watching todds video #and the reactions to his apology #he apologized to jessie gender but not really to the people he stole from #like he very clearly acknowledged that he was wrong but he didnt mention the people he stole from #i dont know what to feel

[queer-reader-07]

something about finding the people who sit through your info dumps with joy on their face and enthusiasm for your passions. something about finding the people who info dump right back at you because they know you love hearing about their passions. something about finding the people who manage to sum up your being in one niche, oddly specific sentence that lives in your mind rent free for the rest of time. something about finding the people who not only accept you for who you are but embrace you for who you are. who not only tolerate your quirks and differences but love and cherish them.

#i’m in my feels today if you couldn’t tell #just thinking about one friend in particular who i don’t get to see in person nearly enough but i text all the time #idk it’s the little things #the way we send each other videos of ourselves explaining whatever we’re learning about right now #the way we don’t write it in a long message because the emotion and vibes don’t translate properly #the way he’s told me that the way i dress is so gender nonconforming in his eyes #how even though i’m afab and i wear glittery makeup and crop tops and have pink hair #i still look so queer and so gnc and so Not Girl in his eyes #how that felt so validating #how i could feel the genuine love in his words #how he told me once that i’m ‘not a person with lore but rather a person with a schtick’ #and how he explained to me what my schtick was and how accurate it was #how he told me he can’t wait for me to get my degree(s) and be an openly queer person in stem #how he can’t wait for me to defend my thesis sometime in the future and be wearing the brightest makeup and the biggest earrings #and the tallest boots #how he loves that i go to my chem lab every week with glitter on my eyes #how it’s cool that i don’t care if i stick out like a sore thumb because i’m me #i remember how he dropped the she/her pronouns immediately upon ne saying i didn’t really vibe with them #(even when they were still technically on my list of ‘ok to use pronouns’) #how his boyfriend who i don’t know very well has always they/them-ed me because my friend does #and if my friend is doing it then it must be the right thing #idk i just love my friends #and this friend in particular is someone i’ve gotten really close with over the past 6 months or so #and i’m so glad to have him in my life #platonic love #friendship #tell your friends you love them

[corvigae]

Extremely transphobic that I can't pick and choose exactly what traits I'd want from hormones like one of those Coca Cola mixing machines where you can make like sour grape Dr. Pepper or whatever the fuck

#i wanna go on t JUST for a deeper voice and more defined face #i don't want more body hair or bottom growth or any other changes - voice and face ONLY #but unfortunately that's not how that WORKS #i just wanna be a femboy but the problem with that is i'm already a very petite afab #so me dressing femme just reads as straight up 'girl' #anyways i've been watching f1nn5ter videos and that's been unlocking some Gender Thoughts #apparently

[fundielicious-simblr]

Little Beth is such a joy! Everyone in the house wants to always be around her, Angie and some other older women at church were joking that she's going to have quite the difficulty when it's courting time, she's got (atleast) 8 very protective older brothers! After we got home from Newcrest, the boys took turns being under the weather, so we kept them away until they felt better so we didn't have to deal with a sick baby. As the weather gets colder we're going to be seeing more and more sicknesses doing the rounds, since a lot of our congregation travelled to their families for the holiday period there's always someone who gets awfully sick.

Thankfully I've got my recipe for chicken & dumplings and chilli on demand, they're what the boys ask for when they're not feeling too good, the food warms them from the inside out. I make large servings of both dishes so that I'm not cooking a whole new meal from scratch by the morning. I'm used to making enough servings for 15+ people, so we're constantly flowing with an abundance of leftovers, which is amazing for when guests drop by unexpectedly. Being able to show hospitality is one of the things that my mother impressed on us was our duty to excel at as wives and mothers, we show the goodness of God when we extend an invitation to others to sit and fellowship.

The boys are absolutely in love with their little sister! It seems they all grew overnight when we brought her home, they finish their chores faster, finish their homework faster, and have upped their handwashing rate by a tonne (which I'm eternally thankful for!) The little boys have been practicing being gentle when holding her, and they only hold her with either Mason or I there. Little Titus calls her his baby, which makes this mama's heart glad that he's not so burned at having his spot as the youngest being taken. I've been spending more time with him and the twins as they've adjusted to having another baby in the house, and thankfully they've done so well.

Little Beth is hitting so many milestones! She's quite stubborn and doesn't want to start, but as soon as we get her on the floor and try and get her waving, or even crawling, she puts her heart and soul into it. The boys love cheering her on, and she loves the attention so she pushes until she's overstimulated. Her stubbornness means she fights sleep because there's so much happening in the house, so nap times have to be enforced or else she'd never get any sleep and would be an overstimulated mess.

Molly, Mason's sister, is in her second trimester of her first pregnancy and is absolutely glowing! She's been in the throes of morning sickness since she announced to us at easter, and she's only just recently began feeling better. She and Elijah have completed their move to Newcrest, now they live around 20 minutes from us. Her belly is so wonderfully small, we laugh that she hasn't popped yet so she hasn't had to go shopping for a whole new maternity wardrobe. Angie and I, along with some ladies from church planned a gender reveal/baby shower for Molly as the first event to celebrate them moving to Newcrest.

(AN: There's a video but is absolutely refused to load and the gif drove the quality into the toilet - that may be a post on its own tomorrow, for now there's a screenshot form the video)

And it's a boy! The boys were so happy to get another boy in the family. Molly and Elijah haven't picked out a name yet, so they've got more work ahead of them before the little mister makes his appearance.

Angie was ecstatic getting to plan this gender reveal, we only had one when we were expecting Noah before choosing to not find out anymore with the subsequent pregnancies. She and Aaron have such a love for children that even with 9 grandchildren, they're over the moon everytime they're told that there's another one coming. Aaron pastors our congregation, and many families have adopted him and Angie as their grandparents, so they have many 'grandchildren' that they're nurturing and helping to grow in the Lord.

#fundie sims #fundiesims #collins family #quiverfull sims #quiver full sims #sims 4 legacy #modest sims #collins legacy #homeschool sims #sims 4 gender reveal #gen 3 #mason and adalynn #elijah and molly #gen 4 #post #the posing for the kids and bethany was more difficult that it needed to be #i had to replace the couch but im not making up a reason i'll just change it back HAHA #the babyshower mod requires playing through the event so that was an experience #thankfully the mod is very easy to use i just hate coordinating events #im actually going to try to post the video because its very nice #these pictures of the kids with bethany are going to be great for looking back at when they're older