#and it’s disheartening that ive literally seen people act like this in the year 2022

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How do you feel about the people who were like Patrick needs to regain weight when he was skinniest or the I only liked him when he was fat "fans"

legitimately always thought it was weird af behavior like i just can’t like wrap my head around the thought process of “he needs to do something about his body to appease me/because *i’m* worried about him” which goes along with both gaining and losing weight. like it’s just like icky and gross behavior to me especially when it comes along with all kinds of speculation about a person’s relative health when it’s like 1) a giant can of nunya fucking beeswax and 2) damaging not only towards the person in question, but towards the audience of your comments.

#tw weight #tw weightloss #tw discussion of weight #and like the way the 2000’s REALLY went all out with the fatphobia really set the stage #for fandom to really consistently make it a topic of discussion and point of focus #it’s splattered across all forms of coverage/interviews/reviews #patrick talks a lot about this in confessions of a pariah #fans have always been really fuckin weird and or gross about the topic of weight and speculation behind it #they were like this with gerard they were like this with ray they were like this with frank and they were like this with joe #and it’s disheartening that ive literally seen people act like this in the year 2022 #like when the first photo of mcr dropped this year and i saw a bunch of people immediately start talking about how they were worried #it’s just odd and weird to see people say they were worried about gerard’s body in 2019 and then again in 2022 #when like you are not owed an explanation of someone’s body and you are not owed comfortability with someone else’s body #idk why i wrote all this in the tags #anyways!!!! important question thanks anon #anon #ask