#am i proship? idk. i have sex you see.

[dottyistired]

thinking idly about the twisting of consent language re: DNIs. seen so many posts like "ewwww my moot turned out to be a secret proshipper!! yeah they kept it private but they DISRESPECTED MY BOUNDARIES!! i feel so VIOLATED!!"

and realizing it reminds me of being bullied as if i had cooties as a kid. "ew don't touch that, dotty touched that!! don't talk to her!!!"

i wonder how many bullies in schools are using boundary-talk now to justify isolating and excluding people. "omg that freak tried to talk to me. i found out she liked (x thing). soooo traumatizing"

all positive or neutral interactions you had with the person are somehow discolored by the knowledge of the fiction that person consumes or is fine with other people consuming, which they never brought up with you. that's not boundaries. unless that person is being a bigot or a predator, what they do for leisure in private has nothing to do with you, and sure as hell isn't trauma.

i'm not going to make distasteful comparisons to any kind of systematic oppression here, it's definitely nowhere near equivalent. but it makes you a bully and an unpleasant person imo. yes, even if you don't harass people! mass exclusion and social isolation when the person is doing no tangible harm is a form of bullying, more common than straight up insults and violence, which is why so many anti-bullying mesaures in schools fail imo because it's near-impossible to prove and discipline a negative action.

being a jerk is fine with many people, i've found, as long as it isn't outright bigotry. but dressing up your fragile virtue signaling that you're not one of the Bad Gross People as a self-defensive measure will make me roll my eyes everytime. anyone who's been labeled as The Weird Kid knows what you're doing.

#tumblr user dottyistired is a FREAK who keeps snails in her pencilbox #talked abt this on discord months ago but it's even more prevalent now #am i proship? idk. i have sex you see. #discomfort is not harm #dottysalt

[storythesilly]

into (please read)

heya, im story. or adam. or colin. (spelled either colin or collin i don't care) im gay + asexual, i use they/he/xe/silly/moon, and i am a MINOR!!!!! also im sex repulsed. im not aromantic but PLEASE DON'T TALK TO ME ABOUT ROMANCE DIRECTED TOWARDS ME IT MAKES ME FEEL YUCKY. Tw for suicide mention but I have trauma related to December 16th so. Maybe I won't be active every December 16th idk. or maybe ill need help getting over being told to

kill myself on december 16th 2022 idk

nsfw, proship, kink/fetish blogs, pedo, zoos, zionist, homophobic, terf, anti-furry, dni. get away. you're yucky. btw im atheist and someone has tried to convert me to christianity. fuck you if you do that to me. also don't hate satanists here!! id most likely be satanist so. don't hate them. if i refer to a character as my child then don't comment on it. it's affectionate and i might just. do that with characters like lampert or arts and crafters. same if i refer to them as my boyfriend or husband. if you use my art as a pfp, banner or anything else, give me credit pleasey. no more commissions from untrusted people. my friends / mutuals can commission me for free though. all commissions are free btw.

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STUFF TO NOT TALK TO ME ABOUT!!!!

don't talk to me about the amazing digital circus, warrior cats, hazbin hotel (kinda,) or helluva boss. trauma n shit.

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Uh.

im a system consisting of 3 alters so far i think. host is adam. other two are purple (pftg) and blackyear (byatr/byat/batr/bat). collective they/them, host, you already saw, purple uses any/all and blackyear uses he/him. ALSO I DONT LIKE USING WE/US SORRY.... Also keep in mind that the only adult is Purple. And none of us like people being weird around us... (sad i had to use we/us it makes me feel uncomfy using we/us)

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INTERESTS!!!! (Purple = ILY YOU'RE SO COOL)

Baldi's Basics in Education and Learning

Dave's Fun Algebra Class

Garrett's Funny Animal Game

Carl's Dwindling Game

Dane's Dinning Game

Cayden's Mods and Edits/ThatCoolModderGuy's Basics in Mods and Edits

Alex Basics in Biology and Zoology + Advanced Education with Viktor Strobovski

Billy's Basic Educational Game

Captain's Basic Adventure in a Broken Underwater Ship

Denied's Basics

Sticky in: Fun With Numbers!

Professor Whatshisname's Science Learning Game

Purple's Fun Trivia Game (i have a massive obsession with this guy it's not even funny)

Juan's Tower of Tomfoolery

+ Most of BBAU!!

Splatoon

Pokémon

Regretavator

and more...

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TAGS!!

Art tag -> #story's fuckass sillies

Mentions of Purple's Fun Trivia Game -> #purple posting #pftg posting

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Xtra ztuff...

I'm transmasc.

I have anxiety, and most likely autism or ADHD.

I use tone tags.

My mental health is NOT good. Expect venting from time to time.

Also. A lot of trauma. Yeah.

I have issues with speaking and stuff...

I'm partially a scenekid, but I can't read 8s, 2s, 5s and 4s as letters. Be patient.

Sometimes I use the z typing quirk. Sorry if you use a screen reader.

if you give me a like or a reblog I'll check your account to see if it's sfw. if i like the content i'll follow. don't be scared if you see me follow you it's normal

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SIDEBLOGS I'LL SHARE

I have A LOT of sideblogs, but here are the ones I'll share. Yes I own these. Woah.

@storys-alt

@ask-lampert

@ask-staticschoolhouse

@totally-real-scholastic ( https://www.tumblr.com/totally-real-scholastic?source=share )

@garretts-funny-askblog

@ask-the-schoolplace ( https://www.tumblr.com/ask-the-schoolplace?source=share )

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Xtra...

BlackYear made his own account when I was asleep. Uh. @blackyears-stuff

(i tag things as #blackyear ramblinggg and #🎨 if he's talking or something.) anyways

#story's fuckass sillies #purpleposting #pftgposting

[trannypresident]

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PLEASE READ BEFORE FOLLOWING / INTERACTING !!

hi! i go by ox (like the animal)! transmasculine something-or-other, he/him and it/its. vers switch (dom lean on here. but we ball). 18 >:D ambivalently unlabeled but very t4t. single but currently not open to a relationship. ftm but only if the f stands for freak and the m stands for (storybook) monster

what can i do? ♥ :

use titles/petnames/etc with the exception of feminine ones, daddy, babygirl (unless its funny) or anything like excessively weird. stroke my ego if you want <3

nsfw asks open to anyone (respecting limits)

nsfw dms open to mutuals (lest i instigate. or u ask real nicely. STILL respecting limits)

interact if you post my limits but aren't in dni

what can't i do? ☄ :

ask for pics/audio (for now.), location, or any personal info

send me content in limits/dni (no shit)

pester me to "try" a kink that isn't listed, just suggesting is fine

KINKS + LIMITS + DNI UNDER THE CUT !!

☼ MAIN KINKS ☼

bondage

praise, service

experimentation & inspection

petplay

royalty dynamics

hierophillia

size dif

monsterfucking

sadomasochism

light gore / bloodplay / romantic cannibalism?? hard vore?? idk / general violence . (tagged with #⍥🥩) if you think about killing me you have to tell me. preferably in broad detail

knifeplay

control in general. yknow

✶ MIGHT ALSO POST ✶

objectum

hypno

dumbification

somno

intox (probably just with weed)

cnc, free use (✳ do not instigate first with in dms/asks if its about me subbing - have to be in a mood for it)

⊗ LIMITS ⊗

unsanitary/scat/omo etc

fauxcest

hard cnc/rapeplay (the line blurs a little. basically don't call it rape and we're good. this is not a moral thing i just dislike the word.)

labor kink (ovi or breeding w/o pregnancy is okay)

detrans/misgendering kink

i'm not fond of loveless sex (not necessarily conventionally - up to interpretation. weird fucked up psychospiritual devotion and the desire for ultraviolence are still love in their own special way. hope that helps!) explicit mentions of it or of abandonment will turn me off. sorry

✘ DNI ✘

minors/blank/ageless blogs

terf/transphobes/chasers

cishets in general. this is a trannyfag blog

"men dni" (bc i am a guy. kinda), exclusively wlw blogs still chill to interact, just don't reblog my pics or something

incest

ageplay

blog for weird internet fan discourse, i dont gaf and i dont wanna see it. yes this includes self-described proship accounts i am not your animal

"para community", p3do, necro, zoo. i hope you explode

ed/sh blog

✈ i can get triggerhappy with the block button - don't take it too personally. meow

✈ posts i make w harder/specific kinks will be tagged. cannot guarantee the same w/ reblogs but i will attempt

✈ my own post / talking tag is #✎🐂

#✎🐂 #t4t nsft #trans nsft #queer nsft #ftm nsft #pinned intro #pinned bios #bd/sm community #bd/sm blog #minors dni #t4t #intro post

[tazticklez]

BYF (PLEASE READ)

My character lore is very complicated and I’ll generally be posting about one of the stories I’m most obsessed with (currently as of late it’s PureBlood), here are the TW’s and CW’s of what some of my art/posts will contain so be cautious:

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-side note I have never personally gone through/have most of the things I write so even though it’s important to the story I want to preface if you’re a victim/have any of the aforementioned disabilities/mental disorders(/conditions/illnesses)/experiences and find the way I depict them to be harmful in any way, I am very open to criticism so please personally dm me and inform me of what I should fix. Or if you want to help me correctly write a character with said experience’s feel free to do so I’ll make sure to credit you (unless you say otherwise)

also keep in mind I find most of what I depict to be very serious and I wont be glorifying/romanticizing any of what I depict to be “cool” or “cute” and I also do not condone any of this irl, I’m also not a proshipper (to any NSFW acc’s or proshipper’s don’t follow me please)

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IMPLIED/MENTIONED: s/a, rape (will never be explicitly shown), trafficking, animal death and torture, necrophelia, RAMCOA, religious trauma, war, incest, pedophelia, grooming, suicide/suicidal themes, self harm, abuse, eating disorders, demonization of mentally ill and disabled people, proshipping (mc is one, not me), crayons (this has its reason of being here), drugs/drug abuse, alcohol/alcohol abuse, medical trauma, murder, slavery, bright/flashing lights and colors, cults, body horror and sex jokes

I don’t care if you’re under 18, if you chose to follow after reading this that’s your choice and that’s on you, I only ask for you to handle these topics with respect and be mature about it and don’t make others uncomfortable please!

And I would love to grow a fanbase/community of course so hopefully you can be apart of that (only if you’d like)

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Although what I write is technically intended for people 18+, this is in no way a green light for you to be weird towards me (as I am a minor) or make sexual remarks about me or post/send me nsfw fanart. I say do whatever you want with my oc’s, use them for whatever and have any headcanons you like.

If you're a proshipper/nsfw artist (or just whitewash characters) please don't post that shit anywhere I can see it. I can't exactly stop you but it would make me very uncomfortable

(Also if you’re wondering why a 14 year old is writing stuff like this, all I can say is that I am severely paranoid and I want to finish my work as fast as I can manage and unfortunately my anxiety and paranoia won’t let me wait 4 more years, lmao idk if I’ll even be alive by then :P)

if you still want to follow me but don’t want to see these things, I’ll make a second account and link it in my profile where I’ll still post art/oc content but for all ages @tazthecas

Thanks for reading :D have a nice day

#oc #oc lore #lore #writing #dark themes

[mouseratz]

also I have to say it and don't take this the wrong way cause there's still lines I'm not advocating for the wild west or anything.....

but being really honest. shame & guilt around kinks or anything sexual. doesn't usually stop it. in fact, it seems like it just makes people weirder and more intense about it. as far as I know, we don't really have a surefire psychological method of like...."undoing" or "curing" a kink/fetish. (Which in some cases is gonna sound really backwards, but isn't that what people want? I don't think there are any gentler words I can use.)

this doesn't mean behavior is without consequence or anything like that. and kink doesn't exist in a vacuum devoid of any societal influence, that's not what I'm saying. I just think it does a lot more good to realize in most cases, people really do not control sexual interest, and from there, measuring the level of harm it's doing.

The current theories are: 1. it's genetic, however your brain is wired just has X Thing too close to the Sex Things, those wires got crossed just because of how you were made. or 2. It's learned, but at a very young age. Somewhere along the lines developmentally, maybe when you were literally just watching a cartoon or playing with your toys, X Thing got associated with Sex Things, and now, once again, those wires are crossed. In either case, this totally normal thing got stuck with the sex stuff somewhere along the line, and there's your kink.

that all being said, no, I don't think people are wrong for being grossed out by it or not wanting to see it, and I want to reiterate, inappropriate kink can be sexual harassment in my eyes. I just think there really isn't shaming people out of it, regardless of how I morally feel, it doesn't seem like it works. and people will often label any amount of kink above "absolutely none in every situation" as inappropriate. (as a sidenote: there are times with like. fucking. pedos you HAVE to shun them because It Is Dangerous. but it doesn't mean it stops, it just doesn't matter if it does, it means they are a high enough level of risk you cannot allow them to exist in your social space or it makes people unsafe. ykwim? & that's also why people conservatives don't like are often going to be associated with that, because it's the one kind of person most people already agree they do not want to be around, any association with just the very concept of pedophilia makes a group harder to argue for, no matter how fabricated that link is.)

idk.....and like everything on the internet. people do not want to treat this with complexity. I cannot tell you how much I despise the "anti/proship" discourse. if you say "hey that crossed a line that's fucked up don't do that" youre enforcing Censorship and probably a fascist, if you say "hey maybe some kink is ok sometimes?" you're a sexual predator and probably legitimately dangerous to society.and if you do that on this post I will block you btw I am not doing it.

but basically this is a complex topic that Does Not have an easy simple digestible answer. I don't have like, a nice conclusion for you. shits weird and that's probably why we all think about and argue about it so much.

#no reblogs bc i do not trust the public

[kaishun]

Fanexus - Upcoming Fandom-focused Platform

Hey y’all, Kaishun here, who hasn’t spoken in 85 years but still vaguely lurks around in the corners of your peripherals. As you guys probably know, with the tumblr ban on NSFW (both for things that actually were NSFW and vaguely fleshy colored), a lot of big folks in the fandom left for twitter. Well, twitter sucks, as it’s impossible to finding anything. Nobody tags stuff, because there’s not enough space to do so, and harassment’s pretty bad (both due to lack of tagging and due to tagging).

Fanexus is a platform wanting to change that! It’s kinda’ve the love child between tumblr and livejournal, and with the beta coming up soon, they’re trying to drum up some hype. I’m hype, so, I’m gonna go over some of my fav official features so far:

Proship / Anti-Harassment / Anti-Censorship

Useful Tagging System ( #Saix = #Saïx )

3 Accounts in 1 (1 login for 3 different blogs)

Details on^ below the cut. Here’s a pretty picture from their blog @fanexus-dot-net​ to show its progress:

Proship, Harassment, and Censorship (Don’t Like/Don’t Read)

A lot of platforms and people are aggressively censoring fictional content they don’t like. Whether that be two characters lewding in general, those character being in an abusive relationships, noncon, age gaps, underaged, incest, etc.-- a lot of people get harassed for drawing that kind of stuff. But, y’know-- it’s fictional. No different from the whole “video games cause violence” scare from moms in the 90s. But the harassment from people has gotten really bad, especially on twitter.

Fanexus allows whatever you want to draw/write/etc., as long as it is of fictional characters--with a great tagging system to support it. If you don’t like something... you block the tag! Bam, that simple. You shouldn’t see anymore.

For those of you who went to Pillowfort, and were displeased with the sudden rule change & bans regarding some content, Fanexus should have no such issue. They’re hosting in Denmark, where the country’s sex specialists determined that underaged content of fictional characters did not have a negative impact on actual children.

Useful Tagging System

idk about you, but I hate looking under the 10 different names for the same ship. Every other new artist seems to have another name for their fav pairing. Fanexus has a tagging system that support synonyms-- meaning “#XemSai”, “#Xemnas x Saix”, “#Xemnas/Saïx”, etc. will all show up under the same “#XemSai” search.

Its tagging is also hierarchical-- so if someone tags something with just “#XemSai”, it’ll show up under show up #Xemnas, #Saix, and #Kingdom Hearts. While this may come off as a bit scary at first (there’s such a “don’t put X in the main tag!” concern on tumblr), it normalizes letting your art/fics to be actually, like... seen. And if someone doesn’t like it #XemSai, they can just block the tag. This greatly decreases the chance of shy people with rarepairs just being lost to the abyss, never seen again. As someone who’s in some small fandoms, “forcing” everything to go into the series tag is a great feature to me.

It also lets people completely block series-- block the #Kingdom Hearts tag if you don’t want to see Melody of Memory spoilers. As long as they’ve tagged their posts with anything regarding the series, it’ll get caught up in that block filter, so you can safely play the game and still browse your feed.

Aliases (3 Accounts in 1)

With one account, you have three different “Alias” blogs. These generally function like completely different blogs (none of that sideblog shit); with their own posts, their own followers, their own following, and their own memberships to communities. You can switch between them with an easy click, instead of having to open a whole new browser or logout/login like on tumblr.

My plan is to have a SFW alias, a NSFW alias, and a RP alias. I can enjoy my SFW alias at work and on the go, as well as post some OCs to it; I can switch to my NSFW alias if I want to see some juicy smut on a lazy weekend; and to my RP alias to catch up on what’s been going on and write some replies.

Miscellaneous 

Communities: You ever think about making a blog exclusively for one character, but go “ugh sideblogs suck and I don’t want to do this by myself”? Well, Communities allow everyone who joins to share content to it, easily gathering art/fics from your favorite character or series in one place. It’s a great way to find people with similar interests, follow some new artists, etc. Roleplay-wise, theoretically great for “Worlds”; tossing an opener into the themed world and getting some replies.

Funding: They’re currently planning on no ads, and funding via premium features, such as buying extra aliases. There’ll be a Kickstarter later for server cost and additional features.

People/Fans: I’ve been on their discord for a few weeks, and holy shit, these are my people. I’ve never felt so comfortable just like... chatting about my interests with people. I’m not the #1 sinner in the server at all times, like I am everywhere else. Discussions I’ve normally seen blow up into huge raging disagreements kinda just simmer to slightly irritable but still civil conversations. It’s kinda bizarre to witness, like... mature people talking to mature people.

Minors: Minors will not be able to see posts marked as 18+, full stop. You can also mark your entire blog as 18+, but you’re not required to. Minors who lie about their age will have their accounts banned.

Interested?: Their beta is going to be starting sometime late this month. You can find more details on their tumblr blog ( https://fanexus-dot-net.tumblr.com/ ) or their twitter ( https://twitter.com/fanexus ). You can sign up for their forum/discord/beta over here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1-Ll_vb1bukbnxHpaQcuxUikUu1NtqDk3-AsD4gZkjiY/viewform?edit_requested=true 

#fanexus #hashtag not sponsored #I just really like what I see #fanexus-dot-net