#Passive aggressive racists

[proudonyx]

22. Have you ever been in trouble with the law ?

Yeah. I'm currently trying to beat a domestic assault charge.

Canadian police is not any different from the American they very much so arrest female victims of domestic assault because it's easier to traumatize a woman then to hold another man accountable. I'm terrified by the femicide rate of women of colour in Canada, especially Indigenous peoples. They don't even care, they call femicide gender related violence. If they don't use the word rape, they call it sexual assault which I feel like everyone with the brain knows that rape and sexual assault are too very different things and to not validate victims it's disgusting.

If there's anything I've noticed, is that Canadians are passive aggressive gaslighters with their racism. I'd rather you look me in my face and call me a porch monkey rather than being passive so you can still benefit from society and people of color but still hold their disgusting views. Imagine working in healthcare with someone she pretends like they have your back and respect you and then out of nowhere start talking about how brown people are stupid and take the jobs as if I'm not a young black woman. They honestly think it's okay or I must hate myself n other round people... Being a person of color in Canada is emotional and mental warfare that trickles down into your physical health.

#sorry I realized I went on a rant #I'm just tired of this country and Canadians getting away with the same shit the USA gets called out on #we have Confederate flags too #to this day they put profits over indigenous lives #Canadian #canada #Passive aggressive racists #black in Canada #black Canadians #Canada Ontario #i need compensation fuck your politeness

[laceratedlamiaceae]

Gabriel being passive-aggressive in The Best Revenge is Dressing Well

#my toxic trait is that i think all the french assholes in this episode kind of slayed #like fuck them for being racist but as someone from the land of passive-aggression i have to give them props for that #gabriel ofmd #antionette ofmd #edward teach #our flag means death #ofmd #gifset #ofmdedit

[humlors]

To all the people considering giving Astarion some cute nickname; I need you to know that "Asta" IS very sweet, but also very much a name in swedish. Specifically a name you wouldn't guess any woman below the age of 70+ to have. Just so you know. Asta is the kind of lady who might give you a candy at the bus stop but also might call you a slur. But yeah.

#i have a great aunt named asta. ivemet her like twice and shes kinda racist #by all means carry on. but do know i will not be able to see anything else than a small passive aggressive conservative lady #when calling astarion 'asta'. xoxo to you all. #bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #astarion #astarion ancunin #majs plays bg3

[zephfair]

Wake up, babe, a new meet-cute just dropped.

And some follow-up.

#no one in trc has a grandma #except gansey #but she's racist #so i'm thinking this is persephone sending a card to adam #it goes to ronan #hijinks and smut ensues #(ofc persephone did it on purpose to get them hooked up) #OR declan sends a passive-aggressive card with one dollar and one stick of gum #to ronan for his birthday #adam sincerely wants to help and get this obviously important mail to the asshole #who doesn't return his messages or calls #and then hijinks and smut ensues #...i just really want hijinks and smut ok #lmfao #meet-cute

[patronsaintoffinalgirls]

our roommate acts like an actual child. how the fuck do you survive to adulthood so conflict avoidant and so fucking fragile...?! i have NEVER encountered an adult who acts like this irl. it's like they manifested physically from the "adult liberal white gays who exclusively read heartstopper" area of the internet. ive never liked when people use 'tenderqueer' as an insult and i still don't love it but i understand it now. i am about to start ripping my fucking hair out.

#they said they can't talk in person because text is 'better for their brain' but now they arent even texting just #leaving passive aggressive sticky notes #we can't say FUCK ALL around them without them getting scandalized that we swear or mention sex or have political opinions that go further #than just oooooh i got gay pride merch from target🙈 #CONSTANT racist microaggressions #i can tolerate their spineless behavior to an extent but making our partner uncomfortable... #in their own home.... #makes me just see red tbh #a.exe

[idsb]

Saying that a POC fan is "hyper aware" for bringing up valid concerns about Taylor's track record on race issues is a microagression in itself and part of the kind of behaviour that makes POC fans feel alienated in her fandom.

I’m sorry - all I meant was that a fan of color would be more wary of or sensitive to these things being issues than a white person because it’s related to things they actively deal with; as an LGBT person I would literally say about myself that I’m hyper aware of anything pushing on an LGBT issue compared to most. It wasn’t meant to be at all!

#i would love for someone to tell me because I’m not sure where the line is #it is -sorry but it is - literally ABSURD to say Taylor went after olivia for credit bc she’s racist like #that’s full on fictional #not sure how to delicately say that without discounting the sensitivities of someone in that group #because the sensitivity that lead you to that conclusion is valid! #the conclusion however. just is not #and I was just trying to put that delicately #so if I fell short of that delicacy I’m sorry! #maybe that sounds passive aggressive but it’s not; I truly do NOT want to discount the sensitivity that would lead someone there #and related like. trauma etc #bc I can’t even articulate HOW valid it is #but Taylor is not sitting around thinking about how she can inconvenience or hurt POC

[rotisseries]

sorry about that dash clog guys I got a new follower!

#gonna make sure they're gone now #yeah I could've just blocked immediately but this is so much more fun bc it's passive aggressive #and also in general if a b*lly stan feels safe to follow my blog I need to fix that #I need to make my opinions very clear #also @ the new follower if you're still here for some ungodly reason and you see this before I block you #you need to take the mcr references out of your blog. my mcr mutuals can't stand you and you don't get to be racist and an mcr fan

[clitfisto]

cant wait until this coworker has fucking quit

#she yells at people shes racist shes homophobic shes the grimiest most unsanitary person in the food industry she doesnt clean #she doesnt communicate shes passive-aggressive she reminds me of my fucking mum she literally grabbed a coworker by the arm and swore at him #in front of fucking customers too #like class solidarity can only go so far i cannot Wait until she fucks off to her nepo job at her dads company

[maschotch]

"She acts with her eyebrows too much for a blonde. You can barely see it" - my mom about JJ

whenever she sighs and raises her eyebrows.. its a hate crime. im not sure against who but it is

#every time she’s passive aggressive it feels racist idk why #asks #anti jj

[johndonneswife]

wish i could articulate how being around my family makes me feel. i genuinely had no idea life could be good until i left home. i had no idea people could exist without screaming and fighting and going out of their way to make each other feel miserable. i’ve spent all day feeling sick to my stomach and on the verge of tears because i have to be around these inconsiderate, awful people, and i don’t have a choice. i grew up thinking everyone felt like this all the time, and that my palpable fucking sadness and loneliness were things other people also felt all of the time.

today my mom was talking to my cousin, and she said, ‘when i was growing up, i thought our family was the only family that existed and we were the only people in the world!’ and they had a laugh about it and were getting all fucking wistful about it, like it was better when they weren’t aware of the rest of the world. this whole family feels like a fucking cult and the worst part is - the fucking worst part of it all - was how stupid i was when i thought this was totally normal. that being treated like an afterthought - if that - was what every other human being on the planet went through, too. that friday-sunday, all fathers drink until they get angry or until pass out, and all mothers humiliate and berate you. that everyone is a narcissist once they grow up. that it’s normal to have no friends besides the people in your own family. to forgive your cousins who have pulled knives on you and given you bloody teeth just for being Different and Weird and Smart and Quiet, because those are the worst possible things you can be.

i’m annoyed and i’m frustrated and it’s three in the morning and i just want to be home again. i want somewhere quiet. somewhere i don’t have to beg to be treated with decency and kindness. somewhere where i have control of everything - so my useless fucking aunts don’t invite random drug addicts i don’t know to my own fucking engagement party and get pissy when i want to - god forbid - listen to the kind of music i like. where people don’t make racist comments about my friends and the people i love. at my own fucking engagement party! i have been home three times since the pandemic and literally not once has someone spared me an ounce of respect or kindness; they’re all too busy making everything about themselves.

#there’s just so many things i want to complain about but i’m so tired #growing up surrounded by addicts and racists and generally shitty people #i never ever want to come back here and i never want ayesha to have to come back here #i’ve been trying to post this for 14 hours but i’ve been so busy being forced to mingle with people who don’t even pretend to care about me #i feel like i’m the dumbest bitch on the planet because i chose to forget about all the ways i was abused growing up #but i had to do that in order to survive here #and now that i’ve moved away and started healing i don’t think i can pretend anymore #i’m in the uber to laguardia and it’s the first time since wednesday that i can breathe #the whole ‘your family is allowed to abuse you and degrade you and violate you and you just have to deal with it’ thing is not okay #i am embarrassed of them and angry at them and i feel so much fucking hate in my heart for them #even with my own parents…i’m so tired of parenting them #and being trapped in that house has made me want to claw my own skin off #the screaming the mess my mom’s hoarding the nagging the passive aggressiveness #the house is screaming and burning and being there makes me feel so trapped and depressed #i cannot believe i grew up there and survived and also can’t believe i used to think everyone experienced anxiety and had panic attacks #and that everyone else was afraid of people raising their voices even slightly and loud noises #the sound of my mom’s car as she parallel parks across from the house…it’s so triggering. it seriously makes me cry and freak the fuck out #if it wasn’t for our friends and my grandmother i would literally never EVER come back here #i need to gtfo and get on that fucking plane and go home and feel normal again #this was the first time since i was probably like 17 that i went to a family party and didn’t drink myself sick - didn’t vomit and black out #because of course this wasn’t exactly an engagement party - despite how hard my sister worked - of course this was just FoR ~tHe FaMiLy~ #because i can’t have one fucking day to celebrate without it coming back to them #and my dad can’t skip his stupid fucking hockey game one fucking night to be here with his daughter who he never sees anymore lol #loving people who are so fucking inconsiderate - it’s awful #but the drinking…i’m so glad i didn’t drink #even though it’s not a party until you have ten beers and vodka shots and get into a huge fight #i fucking resent everything these people took from me and i resent my parents for not protecting me when i was young #i chose to forgive them but maybe i chose wrong

[ckameley]

That post about how society doesn't like to see an intelligent Black person brought back the memory of that pale blond boy stealing my math homework while I went to the bathroom in ART CLASS cause he decided not to do the work itself and accept just taking a 0 for that ONE assignment. The violation of my belongings when he decided to go into my backpack to see my work still pisses me off to this day since there wasn't any level of decency to at least ASK. Disrespectful af and in line with how alabastards are raised to expect to just take from Black people. Huge fuck you to [redacted]

Also brings back the old blond alabastard sub who marveled at how "articulate" I am (I didn't know at the time that it was a racist comment -- despite living in NC all my life I was in an urban area and my family aren't from the south so I guess the old prejudiced broad was used to images of Black people as unintelligent n******)

Reminds me of the white mediocrity that plagued many of the boys in my high school who assumed they would get accepted into [top state university] but didn't -- while of course my Black ass somehow also got into [prestigious private university]

And fuck you to that white Latino boy who was in my 2019 summer program who essentially questioned me on how I ended up getting into my prestigious undergrad university. I by no means have any legacy at these places, so of course I did well in school and had some extracurriculars like the rest of the marginalized folks that went to my university, dummy

#this might get personal #it's way too often those lowkey passive aggressive comments from others cause they at least knew not to be overtly racist #I wasn't even a tryhard kid like others I just did what was expected of me (I have an African father) #I dedicated my non-school time to a few activities that I enjoyed #and I wrote a great common app essay about my lifelong passion for art #even if the affirmative action helped me along the way IT WAS NEEDED THERE AREN'T ENOUGH BLACK PEOPLE IN THESE INSTITUTIONS #the past couple of years I've definitely grown my confidence of my place in academic spaces #it's always the insecure alabastards (or people in general) who are taking jabs at people who they think should be “beneath” them #let me go and start my day

[dorkery]

Ahhhh lads

Sometimes, sometimes, you have to remember not to accidentally be racist when calling someone an idiot

#Tldr making fun of a non-Asean author for wanting to write an Indian as an Asean #Could have been a typo and wanted South Asian instead of ASEAN #But Indians are marginalized in Asean #So maybe sometimes #You can consider ignoring a stupid person on the internet #In an effort not to be accidentally racist #And then when you get corrected #Being passive aggressive about someone speaking up for a marginalized group #Is NOT a good look

[kagazuka]

i love being microaggressed! i love being called asian slurs that dont even match my ethnicity!! i love white people!!!! I LOVE WHEN WHITE PEOPLE TELL ME LIFE IS EASY!!

#this is sarcastic btw #i fucking hate every single stupid white pasty cracker here #ive had nothing but passive aggressive insults and racist jokes thrown at me ever since i got here this morning #and theyre supposed to be family??? no cracker is my.fucking family #vent #random bs #i was literally so happy and free and well adjusted before coming here i feel like a fucking 15 year old again

[melivora]

“y’all are never happy lmao” such refreshing British ignorance. POC don’t have to be satisfied with fanart that fetishizes them, especially when it’s happening a majority of the time. Grow up ❤️

I'm "POC" but you saw that I'm English and assumed I wasn't. Cry harder ❤

#says someone's opinion is stupid and gets passive aggressive anons lol #if people didn't find those characters attractive people would complain that it's racist #that's why you're never happy #this is about Ganon btw sksksksk #he's being sexualized and living his best life actually #if you don't like the art don't look babe #also stop using POC it's a racist term that lumps all non white people into one category for no reason #if we're playing that game #someone said Ganon is sexualized more than Link which is objectively wrong #and even if he was who gives a shit

[vergess]

Buddy, when racist cunts illegally prevented me from registering to vote by just refusing to accept my papers, I PROMISE YOU shitty guilt trip memes about my inability to vote made everything worse.

You know what ACTUALLY helped?

More than every passive aggressive shit for brains on this website telling me I deserve to me racially harassed for not giving Democrats my soul?

A fucking email from a fucking HERBS AND SPICES STORE that unlike you wretched cunts ACTUALLY HAD VOTER REGISTRATION HELPLINES IN IT.

Every time one of you godforsaken freaks tells me to 'get out and vote' like its cutely trivial and didn't take months of desperate phone calls just to register (IF my registration even WORKED THIS TIME).

If you, like me, are struggling with registration or poll access, try contacting your STATE board of elections.

Request that they send you TWO copies of their registration guidelines. Collect any documents listed in them.

Then, contact your LOCAL board. Tell them you would like to register IN PERSON IF POSSIBLE.

Bring your documents and the two copies of the guideline AND a working cell phone.

If you get ANY trouble AT ALL tell the local person you will call the state board to confirm their registration requirements. Be polite, but do not leave. Put the phone on speaker.

Most of the time, the local person who is doing Actual Serious Federal And State Crimes will give up at that point. If not, the person at the state board will generally outrank and overrule the local one.

Make a note of the names of both the local and state official.

Then, and this is the most important part:

CONFIRM YOUR REGISTRATION WAS FILED.

It may take a day or two for your registration to appear.

Unfortunately, if it's been a week, you're going to have to repeat the process.

Take the names you noted previously, and contact the state board again. Report that these people denied you registration on this day, in spite of you providing these documents, then list all the required papers you collected.

The person at the state SHOULD be able to direct you from there, but the process varies hugely by state.

Good luck to you all.

ETA: I was able to vote eventually, BTW. It took far more work than it should have. Physical injuries were sustained. But I did get to vote!!

#voter disenfranchisement #i may or may not be registered at this point #but i've only been trying since JUNE!!!! THAT'S FIVE FUCKING MONTHS!!!! #I HATE WHITE PEOPLE #ALWAYS GODDAMN ASSUMING THEIR EXPERIENCES ARE GODDAMN UNIVERSAL #OOOOOH ITS SO EEEASY OOOOH JUST GO VOTE OOOOOH #Yeah dude its so easy to be racially tormented for months on end #then told my duty to my tormentors is to vote for people who are merely apathetic to my death instead of ravenous for it #goddamn fucking assholes i cannot imagine a more demotivating fucking thing

[skykittywhatchamahcallit]

Since I’m back into causing problems on da internet can I get another call out post it would be really funny

#last time I got called racist for saying some anon in my inbox was being passive aggressive. lol