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sciderman · 3 days

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ARE WE AFFIRMING YOUR GENDER?! IS THAT WHAT WE’RE DOING?!

Sci, first of all, I’m so sorry your dad said that listing your pronouns is embarrassing. It’s 2024. What’s embarrassing is being a parent who cares more about what other people think of them than what their child thinks of them. People don’t have to understand you, they don’t even have to agree with you, but if someone says they love you, the least they can do is make the attempt to show you they respect your identity as an individual person. I know this is particularly difficult for parents sometimes but it’s not impossible. I sincerely hope that someday your dad realizes how spectacular you are and how lucky he is to have the opportunity of knowing and loving someone as truly kind, funny, and generous as you are.

Second of all, LET’S GIVE ANOTHER SHOUT OUT TO THOSE PRONOUNS. Oooo I like the way you wear he/him. It’s loud, it’s rebellious, it’s confident, it’s authentic! It’s everything those angry white boys with podcasts WISH they were! You are entering your “boys will be boys” era and it’s covered in bright colors, zany patterns, sequins, and ATTITUDE.

I am so fucking proud of you for taking this big scary step into being your true self and laying it bare before the world. Just last night I was thinking about how one of the reasons I was so miserable in my 20s was because when I was around 21/22 I went back into the closet to make myself “more palatable” for the people around me. Less confusing for them. Less work for them. And I’ll never actually know what experiences I lost when I lost myself. I’ll never know what I could have done, the opportunities and stories and memories I missed out on because I was only living as half a person. I’m back on track now though, and the good news for you is: now that you’ve taken this step you never have to ask that question again.

I’ve gotta say, Sci, announcing your true pronouns is definitely one of the sexiest things you could ever do. And Wade agrees. <3

hooougghh bless you @nobutforrealthough - you're so cool and sexy and ough...

i feel so very exhausted in the head lately about identity things. i think a lot of people thought i was some kind of gender icon when really i'm just piecing things together as best as i can. i feel a little exhausted that people thought so much of me and i'm not delivering on it. (but i've felt that way all the time, all my life, from pretty much everybody.)

i guess it's difficult to do all this alone, without anyone in your corner. i think writing wade and peter, they sort of felt like friends to help me through it, because i don't really have anyone else out there to help me through and speak to me on my level. so – i kind of had to invent voices to give me courage. and it helps. but i worry that it's a little sad, too. sorry. i'm feeling very frank and bare this morning.

it's a lonely old world when you still haven't figured out where you fit in it. and maybe you're not meant to fit. but you kind of do need to fit, for your sanity. for your survival. so you contort and compromise and squeeze yourself into weird shapes and bug your head. and it's all so, so exhausting for me. and i think my body's finally telling me it's time to retire. my body is so, so tired...

#sci speaks #i want to be loved for me.#not for who i can pretend to be.#not for what i can “pull off”.#i want sad little lazy tired me to be treasured too. for being weak. for being lazy. for just wanting to sit around in my undies and cry.#tired of having to be a hero . for having to be an example . for having to put on a good show #ohhgh i'm so tired...#i love sad little lazy me. i love when i love sad little lazy me. sad little lazy me deserves to be loved #just as much as restless gender icon me #sighs. i wish you guys really Knew me. not just all of this text on the internet.

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erielake · 2 months

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tag people you'd like to get to know better!

tagged by @hylfystt <3

LAST SONG: moderation - florence + the machine feeling very personally relieved that it wasn't a doja or a grimes song bc those problematic girlies have unfortunately been on repeat lately 😔

CURRENTLY WATCHING: like three shows at once lmfao. Actually, actually watching - fargo season 4 (but I've had like no free time for any television so i've stopped at like ep four) constantly rewatching true detective season 1 as background noise ((comfort television)) and LMFAO. monk 😔

THREE SHIPS: girl, these are all gonna be ocxcanon ships (sorry girl i simply do not care! :D) jackie/danse - girl im so crazy for this one yall. i love u danse your so pathetic and such a loser and jackie you are also pathetic but in such a different way. florence/alistair - I AM MENTALLY ILL about them. she is so fucked in the head and he makes her feel normal. she would die for him. he'd like her to live for him instead ough OUGH. zosia/iron bull - okay. newest ship. but i've got the iron bull brainrot 🥴 (the halsin to bull pipeline is so real, and I'm the only one that it's ever happened to.) she's mean. Like SO mean. he thinks that's really hot :)

FAVORITE COLOR: blue <3 (but like pale, baby blue)

CURRENTLY CONSUMING: watered down cranberry juice + black tea with honey

FIRST SHIP: katniss/peeta. frankly just reread thg for some school stuff and i am still SO normal about them. like. regular.

PLACE OF BIRTH: new york (state -- i am not cool enough to be a 'new yorker')

CURRENT LOCATION: buffalo <3

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: single (and entering my femcel era) <- THIS IS A JOKE.

LAST MOVIE: i'm not even gonna lie to you i think the last movie i watched in full was fnaf(?) in october? (crazy) NO that's a lie. nightcrawler actually.

CURRENTLY WORKING ON: girl u know it's larkin

tagging: @lavampira @gwaha @leondaltons @thirtybythirty @brazilianauntie <3

#hiiiii #thank u syd!

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sleevesareforlosers · 1 year

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congrats on the name king it fucking rocks <3

thank youuuuuu!!!! its just a nickname rlly but ough. entering my rambunctious little dude era

#garfieldhalloween

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piduai · 2 years

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If The Winds of Winter ever comes out... what are the top 10 things you want to see happen in it?

ough each time i reread and get towards the end there's a million things i want to happen but when asked point blank my mind gets so foggy lol. hmm i think most of all i want to be surprised actually, i feel like there's been forever since an impactful Plot Twist like nedboy's head indeed turned to flight and the red wedding. like you know, the asoiaf style of shock content i'm here for in the first place. not enough fucking violence. surprise me!

otherwise just basic stuff... dany entering her girlboss supreme era and burning that khalasar to ashes (like she said she would back in book 1...). dany and tyrion meeting finally. cersei doing SOMETHING you know she won't just meekly accept her humble fate and be like yes i am so humble now, i've seen the light, seven save me for i became a proper lady. like it's cersei she needs to wreck shit #slay. the sansa & littlefinger conflict blowing over, like he's obviously grooming her with the intention of bedding her eventually but i want to believe she'll fuck him over somehow... arianne learning that tyenne betrayed her, for i'm sure it was her. and i want jonathan to perish fr, i know that he won't because he's a core character or whatever but consider. it would be SO funny. melisandre noooo do not give him the kiss of life ahaha ur so sexy

#but honestly i simply do not like idk theorizing about future events... i want to See the author's vision!!!!!#so george. if you're there #anon

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