#Clearly stomping on someones face while theyre already subdued is more just brutal than necessary

[feralhogs]

How to cope when your family is a bunch of assholes: sit very far away and laugh at their misfortune

#This is like watching a car drive into a wall over and over with a driving manual sitting right there #I just came here to overshare about my trauma #Sooooo my family had a violent incident #One of them used lethal force... To defend from a... Suicidal crisis. #Clearly stomping on someones face while theyre already subdued is more just brutal than necessary #But my brother is such a dense motherfucker he might not know that can be lethal #Hes also psychopathic enough that he could have done that with ulterior motives #Every single one of them is lying to me to look better #They all want to tell me how terrible the other is. Yet no one asks how im doing after my worst triggers got slammed #Because they dont care. Duh. They actually dont. Youre just part of the scenery to them essentially #I visited my sister just because yknow she could have fuckin died #And then because shes in fucking crisis i tried communicating with the others about it and i got this volley of emails like #Do you know what a breather means? They said a breather is a good idea! We are visiting her tomorrow #In the yknow. Sheltered for battered women. For the woman you battered #This is why i used to go around screaming and tearing my hair when i lived with them. #But suuure sierra. They look like nice people. I guess i never got assaulted and my mom was just okay with it then #Say anything negative about the sister they eat it up. They love that shit. #And my sister sees some unattainable form of reason and compassion in them she is fighting to get and never will