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#youtube #relationships #trishtalk #trishtv #dating advice #love #selflove

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#youtube #relationships #love #selfdiscovery #trishtv #dating advice #trishtalk #selflove #empowerment

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“Until you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you are choosing someone out of love or loneliness.”

— Mandy Hale

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#youtube #relationships #trishtv #love #trishtalk #dating advice

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“If they don’t like what you’re bringing to the table let them eat alone. Simple as that.”

— Unknown

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“Today I forgive myself. Not just once. Again, and again, and again. As many times as it takes to find peace.”

— Unknown

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Listening techniques:

Step up girlies today we are learning Active Listening to better understand the people around us and improve ourselves.

Pay Attention:

To be an active listener you have to pay attention to what the speaker is saying. Make sure you are not distracted by the surroundings, preparing a mental note of other things, etc. Look directly at the speaker and take note of his body language to better gauge what he is trying to convey.

Make them feel heard:

Try to engage yourself in the conversation by nodding occasionally or giving inputs where required. Make sure to incorporate facial expressions and your posture should be open and interested.

Feedback:

We all are bounded by our judgements, realities and preconceptions. While listening make sure to summarize the points to better understand what the speaker is trying to convey. Don’t be afraid to ask questions wherever required to clarify the points accurately.

Interruption is a big no:

Imagine you are speaking and a person keeps on interrupting you again and again. Frustrating, isn’t it? Exactly the same way when someone is speaking make sure not to interrupt them. As it is rude and spoils the entire purpose of active listening.

Respond properly:

Make a mental note that active listening is designed for understanding the speaker’s perspective. Do not attack the speaker by counterarguments or by putting them down. Treat them with kindness and respect. Assert your opinions respectfully. Try to gain as much information as you can rather than arguing.

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“You need someone that loves your soul more than your body”

— Unknown

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“It’s better to have nobody than someone who is half there, or who doesn’t want to be there.”

— Unknown

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“Just remember that sometimes, the way you think about a person isn’t the way they actually are.”

— John Green, An Abundance of Katherines

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5 RULES TO REMAIN UNBOTHERED

Rule 1 - Expect less from people:

The first rule to staying unbothered is to expect less from people. Not everyone is you, and you can't expect other peole to hold themselves to the high standards that you set for yourself and it isn't your job to force them to see their potential. Everyone else is going out every weekend, vaping and thinks you're uncool? They don't have your drive or your ambition. Focus on yourself.

Rule 2: Stop arguing with people:

It's not your responsibility to make stupid people recognize that they are stupid. Do not waste your time trying to convince people that you are right they have already made up their mind about you. Prove them wrong with your actions; if they aren't paying your bills, they are irrelevant.

Rule 3: If they wanted to, they would:

Self-explanatory, and especially applies to guys. If he wanted to test you, he would. I he wanted to actually plan something instead of sending a last minute "wyd," he would. Invest your time into someone wo actually cares about you

Rule 4: Log off:

Be honest with yourself when you get on social media, do you feel inspired or like you're wasting time? So much of social media is time sink designed to make you less productive. Ignore the bad takes, block out the negativity, all of means nothing I knew I matured when I realized every situation doesn't need at reaction. Sometimes you just gotta leave people to do the lame shit they do.

Rule 5: Ask "okay, and:

Being unbothered is all about knowing your worth your opinion of you is so much more valid than that random person at school or work who's jealous of you, let's be honest. When someone says something negative to you ask yourself "okay, and some random girl says she hates you, will that really affect your life? No Keep your eyes on the price, and keep perspective by focusing on things that really matter skincare and workouts, academies, investing, making money, and becoming the best version of yourself

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Never decide something from a state of loneliness or anger.

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