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my grip on your flesh

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Image source: Josh Mayfield

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💕 🫀 happy valentine’s day 🫀 💕

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charleville castle, 2007

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༺☽ crystal ball bongs ☾༻

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Some pics I took last night at a night club - 12-16-23

#it's giving grunge Tumblr 2014 #I'm not even sure what's the vibe but there's definitely a vibe #me #good vibes #my photos #nightclub #candid #neon aesthetic #neon lights #nightlife

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Nedda Afsari / Muted Fawn

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"Kill them with kindness" WRONG. drop the opera house chandelier on them.

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if ur a terf unfollow me and know that i hate you

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• Goth home

Ph by @grimvr

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I'm sick and fucking tired of people not fucking remembering that one of radfems first targets were BUTCHES. It was about dykes being masculine and hating that masculinity. You can find dozens of accounts from all the way back in the 70s of radfems targeting cis and trans butches alike. They steal from butches. They stole our fucking flag. They appropriated androgyny and drove a divide between butches and lesbians that identified as androgynous for YEARS. Don't you fucking DARE conflate being butch with being a terf or a radfem. If you knew an ounce of your history you'd know that radical feminism started as a movement to remove butches from the community completely, and also that butches/transmascs/drag kings and transfems/drag queens have a long history of solidarity, love, and trust considering the fact we're INCESSANTLY demonized even within our own communities. Butch/femme include transfemmes, it always will and ALWAYS has.

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"I don't want to play Monopoly anymore"

Sticker spotted in Boston, Massachusetts

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As a cis woman who's decided NOT to have children I also feel this so very much.

My uterus has nothing to do with my spiritually nor my power because it's not inherent in my practice. No hate to anyone who does period/fertility/whatever magic, it's just not part of my practice. And it's not a part of a lot of other witches' practices.

Something that gives me the ick in the witchcraft / pagan / spiritual community (especially locally for me) is the constant emphasis on ‘sisterhood’ and fertility

Don’t get me wrong, my local witchy community is full of lovely kind people, but they are all mothers

Of course there’s nothing wrong with that at all, I want to have children desperately

But they emphasise fertility so much, and as someone who struggles with fertility issues it’s kinda horrible for me, it feels like so much value is placed on fertility and motherhood

I went to one ‘sister circle’ for the full moon at beltane and decided not to go again, not only for the reason above but also because

my partner (a cis man) is as much a witch as I am, almost every part of my practice involves him, we do all of our regular rituals together and it felt wrong to exclude him, even for a bigger community experience

I see the value in sister circles, I really do: but a lot of it seems inherently transphobic sometimes

and also men can be witches/spiritual too and also deserve to feel welcome in a community

My dream is to one day create a community space for EVERYONE that doesn’t constantly emphasise on fertility and motherhood as such a core part of spirituality, because that’s not my reality and it’s not for many others and that’s okay

You don’t need to be a cis fertile woman to be a witch and to be in any kind of spiritual circle

#and don't get me started on the transphobia #and how many cis women you'd be excluding as well #witchcraft #spellwork #occult #spiritual #witchblr #witchcore #witchy #mine #child free #norse pagan witch