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is differentiating trans from the binary offensive?

Dear trans people, I have a question that's come up rather often recently. As a member of the LGBT community, I'd like to be more informed as to not accidentally assume anything hurtful.

With that being said, is defining “trans” as a third gender offensive? Let me clarify.

Say there's a discord server, and there's some self assignable roles. Let's say that the gender roles for this specific server are: Female, Male, Nonbinary, and Trans (maybe with Trans Female and Trans Male exclusively, or with just Trans and you're supposed to add the Male or Female after)

In this scenario, would you be more likely to simply choose the gender you identify with, or would you go to specify that you're trans with the trans role? 

And if it's a case by case basis, what do you think about this type of scenario?

#trans #uhh idk what to tag this as but I don't have many followers and I really want a reply #discord #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #questions for lgbt

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sometimes I wish i could achieve the world level cryptid Lemony Snicket achieved, but then I remember overshare way too much for that to ever happen

#tumblr cryptid #lemony snicket

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Concept: A character with yaoi hands, shoujo legs, moe eyes, a bishounen chin, and anime protaginist hair, all in one go

#IBATIL PLS #THIS IS SO CURSED #CAN SOMEONE DRAW IT PL EA S E #IM BEGG IN G #mutuals

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Tbh one of my most favorite fucking tropes is when character a has this flowery vision of of the first time they met character b and how since then they've had a crush and then it's revealed that character b has a totally different look on that memory in stark contrast to character a. (Bonus if they never bring up their side of the first meeting due to the context of the conversation)

#can't think of any ships buts there's a lot of bl manga that have this trope lmao

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If your ship doesn't have at least one “everytime we touch” amv is it even a ship

#Me sobbing about all my tiny ships #albatross #johndave #johnlock #kaishin #klance #tododeku #drarry #lets play how many ships can i tag before people get angry #kagehina

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When you try to finish something but you're already out of your Zone™ 

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say what you want about barbie but you can’t deny some of the movie soundtracks were downright iconic

#barbie

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I don't know how else to say this but...

BEING STRAIGHT DOES NOT MAKE YOU GOOD BEING LGBT+ DOES NOT MAKE YOU BAD BEING WHITE DOES NOT MAKE YOU GOOD BEING POC DOES NOT MAKE YOU BAD likewise BEING STRAIGHT DOES NOT MAKE YOU BAD BEING LGBT+ DOES NOT MAKE YOU GOOD BEING WHITE DOES NOT MAKE YOU BAD BEING POC DOES NOT MAKE YOU GOO listen I don't know how else to put it but assuming someone’s behavior/personality based on some label they fall under is super fucking bad??? A gay person can be bad. Being gay doesn't make them bad. A straight person can be good. Being straight doesn't make them good.  Piling up labels and making yourself out to be more of a minority doesn't justify shitty behavior  Stop making out anyone's who falls under a certain category to be something without getting to know them as an individual

#obviously it's not the same for actual bad labels like #a rapist is bad #anyone who is a rapist is bad #but being a straight rapist isn't any worse than being a gay rapist #gay #bisexual #lesbian #trans #straight #LGBT #lgbtq #important

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*makes a know-your-meme page about myself because my life is a joke*

#know your meme

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Y’all ever have a time when whatever device you’re using suddenly freezes and you wait a second but nothing happens and then ur just like “what if this is it. What if I have to go to fix it frozen on this. What if everyone sees that this is what it’s frozen on”

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If you don't indulge in your writing why write at all tbh

#¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #yall can fight me on this #using smirk and chuckled is okay #for me a smirk is like quirking up one side of your mouth #like a lopsided smile but more pretentious #maybe with hooded eyes? #👏let👏writers👏write

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i am literal pain rn bc i have these great ideas for posts bUT I FORGET THEM THE MINUTE I LOG IN

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Only when you've tried something yourself is when you gain true respect and appreciation for people who are able to do it well

Me, unless someone said it before me, i guess

#its actually my goal to dabble in as many skills as possible to appreciate people who do it well more #so far ive done #drawing #writing #cooking #knitting #crochetting #editing #coding #learning other languages

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Finding a nice tumblr post with both good and bad comments on the reblogs but you cant only get rid of the bad comments and be left with the good so you regretfully get rid of all of them because you dont want the negative ones on your blog even if the positive ones are really good

#tumblr #a bit of a problem i will admit

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true redblue culture is finding a ship with the same aesthetic and making a crossover au with one of your previous ones

#redblue #klance #davejohn #johndave #karmagisa #kuroko x kagami

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*gets friends invested in an au/fanfiction/concept that i’ll never finish*

#drarry #johnlock #klance #merthur #destiel #victuuri #johndave #kaishin #rosalba #OriginalShipping #GerIta #midoroki #hijack #boyf riends #tree bros

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Casual reminder that the other day I tried to shoot my little bro a thumbs up for encouragement and accidentally flipped him off instead