chowderocats

[chowderocats]

This is about the term plural being used wrong, might upset some!

So plurality, the term in and its self, is a catch all term.

It counts you rather your:

Endogenic

Traumagenic

Willogenic

Disordered

Non disordered

And ALL other system types.

Plural is a term that counts systems who split for all/any reasons.

Be it:

Trauma

Stress

Excitement

Sadness

Happiness

Etc

Plural is a catch-all term. If your blog, or your acc is "plural safe" your stating you're safe for all of us, not just the ones you've deemed worthy.

When saying "im a plural safe blog/acc/etc" them saying "endos DNI" you're contradicting yourself. We look for the word "plural" because it's ours.

#endo friendly #self care #multiplicity #plural #endo safe #pro endo #system stuff #not positivity #not my usual content

[chowderocats]

Hai! New intro post!

We are Chowder O' Cats! A system of 55+ members! As a collective we use he/it/tooth pronouns, are verbal-flux, and bodily a minor! (we don't mind adults following us as long as nothing weird goes on)

Our DNI:

Anti-endo

Anti-willogenic

Pro ED/SH

Terfs

Sysmeds

NSFW

Anti-therianthropy

Also, we have a pro-endo discord server for therians, system, disabled folk, spiritual folk, and age regressors called the Cat Cafe! ::

[chowderocats]

Hi guys..

I've been gone for awhile. I know, i know. I disappeared.

Alot of bad happened. Like, alot...

As you may know, we were a system of around 55 members, then The Big Bad happened, and many of our members went to a sub layer we call No Mans Land.

In No Mans Land, headmates are still actively carrying out their day to day, but they're unable to front, and unable to communicate, so on.

With this, we went through a major depressive episode and now have changed our system name, and are back up in the upper 55+ headmates.

I, the host, have decided we are in the mental place to post again, with a change of the way this profile looks, and to show you guys how our system has changed.

We are now Chowder O' Cats! And that change will be taking over the profile shortly after this post.

Thank you all for understanding, im very happy to be back!

#positivity #endo friendly #multiplicity #plural #endo safe #pro endo #system stuff #not positivity #back from the dead

[chowderocats]

Tw: Light vent about syscourse

I really wish the plural community wasn't so divided. Makes me sad to block systems because they are anti-endo, but I have to because it really isn't right of them... We should all be lifting each other up, not bringing each other down. :(

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We've decided it's time to take some positivity requests! Sends as many requests as you want and we'll do our best to fufil!!

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Whew, ok this took alot of confidence, but here I go!!!

Hi, I'm taking commissions!

A pretty basic price range is anywhere from $15-$35, but I can only use CashApp for now (later, I plan on accepting more then just CashApp, but for now I'll work with what I got)

I have a pretty basic Terms of Service (ToS) but here's a simplified version:

> I can refuse any commission for any reason, be it the request makes me uncomfortable or I don't think I can fulfill it

> I refuse to do any NSFW, not uncluding gore

> I am a **Minor**, commissioning me means you know this and are ok with this!

> I work at my own pace but will touch base on progress if asked about it, please don't rush me.

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Here are my exact prices aswell:

(For flat art)

Anthro 》 $20-$35

Sketch - $20

Headshots - $25

Bust - $30

Full Body - $35

Human 》 $10-$25

Sketch - $10

Headshots - $15

Bust - $20

Full body - $25

Mood board made OCs 》 + $5 onto og price

Adding shading 》 + $3 onto og price (I suck at it)

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Last but not least, examples of my art! (My art has changed quite a bit, but I always ensure quality is the same, if not better then my examples)

[chowderocats]

I haven't done this in awhile so selfcare time! (Featuring an attempt at being more inclusive to those who struggle with hygiene/incontinence(? Idk how to spell it))

Brush your teeth OR swish some water in your mouth

Take a shower OR change your socks

Tell yourself your worthy of life and good things

Brush your hair OR run your fingers through it

Get some sleep (close your eyes and rest if sleep is hard)

Take a deep breath!

Hey, life is really hard right now, and school is starting up, and everyone is stressed. But you, no matter your disabilities, if you experience incontinence or if motivation is not on your side. I tried to give everything an alternative just in case something was undo-able for some reason.

Take a moment and appreciate your existence. You may have the worst mental, physical, or combined health, but your body serves you. It's doing its best, and that makes your existence beautiful.

#self care reminder #self care #positivity #inclusive i hope

[chowderocats]

I've seen your account a few times and it's always made me smile cause I just love your pfp so much lol sorry if this is weird/random but I love the pfp

This was honestly super wholesome and made me really happy! Now I'm reconsidering changing it- /lh

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Hello! I was looking at your dni list and it said anti tone tags. What are those if you don't mind me asking? You seem really cool so I would love to talk! Best wishes!! -solar

Elloooo!! Asmodeous here!

I'll start with tone tags just in case: tone tags are a slash (/) and a specific letter (j, nm, nav). I almost was require these as um not very good at under standing tone.

"Anti tone tag" is an attempt to set a boundary so people know to use tone tags with me!

Thank you so much for the ask, I would love to talk sometime!

#answering asks #tone tags

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I've been gone for so long- and I'm so very sorry!

I had a huge mental health decline and didn't have the time to say goodbye, I just need to depart from blog responsibilities and my headmates were struggling with me.

I know it's no valid excuse to randomly abandon the acc but im back now! And I will get started and positivity here soon ^^

- Asmodeous

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I stopped masking intentionally.

Yes, I stopped masking. A lot of people when I say this ask me why I stopped masking. The answer was simple; it wasn’t providing me any safety and sucked. Even when I was masking, I came off as weird, if people didn’t automatically mark me as autistic, then they marked something as wrong. It wasn’t doing anything for me and still wasn’t keeping me safe.

Around the time I stopped masking I went through a major regression and had to quit my job that wasn’t accommodating me. I’d have violent meltdowns almost everyday, I stopped taking care of myself, and lost a LOT of independent skills.

So I stopped trying to hide. I started stimming more publicly, using aac, and just being me. Honestly, it’s been hard. People treat me a lot differently, but I don’t regret it. I can’t mask anymore, but I could at one point and I stopped. Unmasking has changed my life, and I’m ready to talk about it.

[chowderocats]

ok being genuine here, I was checking to see where the line is for radqueer to you (bc it's different for different people) but I saw a recent ask where someone asked what it was, and I have genuinely never heard that radqueer directly translates to a person who supports maps/zoophiles. It's a pretty broad idea so I don't think it can be defined so easily. I'm sure there's someone out there making that argument but most radqueers I hear complaints of are more in the realm of transsid, trace, transabled, etc. And again, it varies, so some people say that believing lesbians can use he/him pronouns, or that you can have more than one orientation, is ALSO radqueer- or even just believing you don't need dysphoria to be trans. It's just "more accepting than 'normal'" so what counts is different to each person, but it doesn't correlate directly to that. I'm sure there are plenty of self identified radqueers who don't support maps, and who don't support some of the things I listed. Any combination of beliefs outside of the norm can be and is classified as radqueer. The definition is p fluid depending on how far you put the line. Just thought I should say smthn /info /nm

Mk, I do understand this, but most radqueers are considered people who support MAPS, zoophilia, and it's things like that that the DNI is directed towards those people who support that.

Thank you so much for the ask and for the information, sorry if I came across as rude I'm just very overwhelmed right now

-Asmodeous

#answering asks #asmodeous the host

[chowderocats]

Hihi! Genuine question, we see that "radqueer" is in your DNI. What is a radqueer? No need to answer! Thank you. /g

Hi! Thanks for the ask!

Radqueers are people who think MAP, zoophilia, and other icky things should be apart of the LGBTQIA+ (or for some, Mogai, which is just another term for the queer community as far as I know)

-Asmodeous

#answering asks #anti radqueer #asmodeous the host

[chowderocats]

I've started to come to terms with my mental disabilities. I'm not just talking about OSDD, I'm talking about my autism.

"But Azzy, you've been aware/accepting all along"

Yes, but I've been masking heavily. Recently, (yesterday) the mask just kinda fell off (for lack of a better example) and I've realized I've been forcing verbality upon myself for almost all of my life, atleast 90% of the x years I've roamed this weird planet.

I started to use AAC for myself and I've become so much more comfortable just existing. I'm voicing how I feel, especially when overstimulated, overwhelmed, etc.

I'm also looking into an AAC that adapts to when I'm non-scribal/semi-scribal, so that I don't have to force myself to type.

Over-all these past 24 hours of virtually no masking has been liberating and I feel like me. Though of course I have my concerns.

- what will my mother think when her child is no longer mostly speaking?

- how will my mothers relationship with me adapt to the "new" me

- how will we teach her boyfriend to adapt to my needs

- what will going out in public be like now

- how will I use AAC during school

(If anybody can answer these questions, feel free)

On a separate category of this topic: I'm also learning what level support needs I am.

I'm *thinking* I'm between level 2 and 3 (the levels that need more support) as I can barely do daily tasks myself, I can't order my own food, go into stores alone, make my own food, sometimes I can't bathe myself, and some other things that make me a higher level support need.

I realized I started rambling but my mental health is something I've always been fascinated by because I've always known I'm not neurotypical. Sorry this got so long ^^

-Asmodeous

#actually autistic #aac user #aac #mental health #coming to terms with my disabilites

[chowderocats]

As I unmask more I realize I'm less verbal then I though ;-;

There's nothing bad about it, I'm just surprised. I spent my entire life thinking I was completely verbal. Then I though I was mostly speaking with moments I was non-speaking, and suddenly here I am figuring out AAC because I keep going non-speaking at random times.

The best part about me unmasking my autism is that my headmates are calming down, most of their roles are to help out with the tism and so with this going well? Their all pretty mellow!

I'm not nonverbal, but I'm definitely semi-speaking, not quiet semi-verbal because to me those have separate meanings.

Idk man I'm just kinda rambling, I accidentally pulled an all nighter

#semi speaking #plural #aac #actually autistic #autism #aac user

[chowderocats]

Ello!

I feel like coming terns with mental disability is big part of being comfy in own body.

I don't just mean autism, I mean DIDOSDD aswell.

I'm slowly coming to terms as the host and the core that I'm not like other people. I'm visibly disabled when I stim, and when I use AAC.

Slowly but surely, becuz I'm trying to admit I'm mentally oofed I'm beginning to have a better self image, which makes me happier. And while happy means more stimming, I genuinely don't care how I'm looked at for it because it makes me happy.

Go out and stim in public, your still human.

Have noticeable switches in public, your still human.

Use AAC/TTS when needed, your still human.

We are human, (or not, shoutout to alterhumans and nonhuman headmates) we have thoughts. We have morals. We are valid in our disabilities.

-asmodeous

#endo friendly #multiplicity #system positivity #aac #aac user #actually autistic #autism #mentally disabled but thats ok #bet you cant tell im non-speaking rn #asmodeous the host

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Happi abt dis, feel happi to kno

Here is your permission post to complain about how your disability is effecting you

This post will never stop giving you permission and you never needed this posts permission anyways