#yeah it sucks

[teaboot]

you have some really evil, selfish and toxic ideas irt whos allowed to have friends, you know? i see pop psy people like you all the time making lists of things that are clear and obvious trauma induced behaviour, and then immediately flip to how if you have a friend who ever behaves like this they are evil and need to be cut off, theyre not allowed to have support systems to get better! you really hate bad victims, huh? if someone isn't demure and cowering and self effacing in their symptoms they don't deserve anyone? i got assaulted and when my friend group threw me out on my ass and called me too fucked up for acting erratic and strange in the aftermath and being unable to communicate why they used your posts to justify it. its sick that people like you will look at someone uncontrollably acting out their ptsd and go wow you aren't doing this nice enough to be tolerated! people like you talk so much about compassion but when it comes to people in actual crisis you don't give a shit. no, theyre acting too problematic. just cut them off! no one should help their friends!

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Please allow me to take this opportunity to make some things clear.

First, you do not know me. You do not know anything about me. You do not know where I've been, where I'm going, or where I am. All that you believe that you know is extrapolated from information I have volunteered to share. Information that is, by clear and honest choice, edited for both safety and personal security. Remember this.

Second, and I say this in the kindest of ways, because I have had to learn this lesson myself:

Nobody Owes You Shit.

Have you ever saved someone from drowning?

I have.

Do you know that a drowning person struggling to get air will instinctively drag you under them?

It's hard to save people in the water. It takes specific skills and knowledge that not everybody has. Not everyone can save a drowning person without drowning in the process.

The lifeguard needs energy, and strength, and expertise, and persistence.

The swimmer needs self-restraint, and composure, and the desire to be helped, and the ability to do what they can to facilitate their own rescue.

I believe in kindness, and generosity, and compassion. I believe in trying persistently, and in giving the benefit of the doubt wherever possible. I believe that people are good, and small, and trying. And I believe that I can give all the energy I have inside of me to help someone and still come up short.

So you're drowning? I'm sorry. That must be terrifying. That must be miserable. You must be experiencing the worst moments of your life. I hope someone nearby knows how to help you. I hope they have a raft you can climb into, or a rope for you to grab, or a float you can cling to. I hope things get better. I'll call for help, and give you what I can to get you to shore.

But don't you dare drag me under water and curse me for saving myself.

Now get out of my fucking inbox.

#Negativity cw #I don't owe you my medical history #I don't owe you my personal history #You don't know what kind of person I've been #But I promise that person was not always pleasant #Kindness is a choice #Kindness is a blessing #And blessings can be withheld #It doesn't mean you deserve your pain #But nobody else does either #Yeah it sucks #But what are you going to do now #Nobody can rescue you #So what's the plan

[queered-into-oblivion]

i miss playing swsh

#not afraid to admit its one of our favourites #yeah it sucks #i dont care #love galar the same amount as we love unova #moon

[catsandgoodbooks]

My brain. Is so underestimated. It’s not even funny.

Which is why I’m doing this instead of a normal question

What is something that has happened recently that makes a good story?

It's very funny because this whole situation went down after you asked this (me? procrastinating? i could never) but someone hacked into my school's network and shut everything off. Just randomly, on a Wednesday. Like two weeks before finals. Naturally, everyone panicked.

For more context, it wasn't just the school's network. It was the whole DISTRICT'S. And that meant no using district-issued devices, no accessing district sites, and no using school accounts, for both students and teachers. Yay! Of course, this obviously caused absolutely 0 problems, seeing as almost every class prominently uses, who would of guessed it, technology! So everyone's scrambling for some solution right now and no one has any idea what's going on <3

Anyways, how's your day been going?

#ask #yeah it sucks #also like all my finals are online so that's going to be great #just awesome

[hioyourluv]

I just found some things about that bug...not happy about it. Bad bug

#It's the same bug that gave my grandma a disease #Yeah it sucks

[tamayokny]

i'm so glad that two of my classes officially end today and that i'll be able to breathe a bit more for the rest of fall semester. however, after completing one of these courses, i decided that working in an academic library setting just may not be the thing for me <3

#mads makes a text post #college life #liked the class but learning about everything? #yeah it sucks #i am also just burnt out on academia #especially going through this hell of a program #like...a bit disorganized and ironically no one is very communicative or informative #like ok! #also ngl looking at job postings for an assignment really discouraged me and made me spiral a bit #but it's whatever #anyway i am just working youth services in a public library for the rest of my life i will be fine [thumbs up emoji] #but god i am just so fucking ready to graduate already #but i have ONE MORE SEMESTER and it's gonna be hell based on course load :)

[bluemonkwrites]

factory settings

#art #my pictures #yeah it sucks #like factories

[cyanide-sodapop]

I stayed until almost 1am to illegally watch Spirited Away for the first time since I was little and honestly it was so worth it, it’s such an amazing movie <33

#spirited away #worth it #nostalgia #studio ghibli #that site may or may not have been illegal #but I couldn’t watch it any other way #because I live in the US #where we can’t watch anything good for free smh #studio ghibli isn’t even on Netflix here #or Coraline for that matter #yeah it sucks

[homoerotic-shonen-rival-showdown]

i’m the guy who submitted narumitsu and it’s soooo funny to me that people are mad about it apparently. gay lawyers cannot catch a break in these ship polls. anyway the wikipedia article for Ace Attorney (TV Series) classifies the manga as falling into the shonen demographic so 🤷🏻‍♂️ shonen!!!!

oh shit they don’t even have a point I love that

to all the cool sns fans who left propaganda and fun tags ily and I do not envy you because I suspiciously only get these tags on matches with sns in them

like that one match with skk and lumity despite skk having EXACTLY as much homoerotic bullshit as sns

this will be very funny in retrospect but right now it’s just annoying

#asks #not polls #individually each of the complaining tags aren’t enough to block someone over #but when you wake up to twenty of them #yeah it sucks

[sweetwolfcupcake]

If procrastination was a profession...

#procastination #yandere bts #yeah it sucks #can't differentiate between writer's block and procrastination anymore #or am i burnt out?

[rosicheeks]

😤

#fuck 4th of July #i want to stay home #and get reallyyyyyy high #and paint #and ignore the world #cause America sucks and I don’t particularly feel like celebrating it???? #also I don’t see the point of 4th of July???????? #i think it’s new meaning is - ‘a holiday you can buy fireworks and set them off and annoy your neighbors’ #don’t hate me but I think fireworks are so dumb #i want to see them at like a festival where it’s like really cool fireworks #but the ones you can buy at the store #and then set off in the street and scare the shit out of everyone around #yeah it sucks #I’m noooot excited for tonight #and really this whole weekend #my migraines have been really bad and hearing that shit all night is not gonna be fuuuuun #ok sorry I’m negative #i just think it’s a stupid holiday #and I don’t see the point of celebrating it???? #ok now I’m suuuuper late #but UGH #ok I’m gonna smoke and queue a few posts #cause I want attention and love pls & thanksss #shut up rosie

[ghostoftheyear]

tfw the hyperfixation begins to fade and your nighttime laying down to sleep stories no longer capture you the way they did...

#yeah it sucks #i miss when they constantly occupied my thoughts

[liquidstar]

Yes, Greece still exists, we didn't all die 2000 years ago. Yes, people speak Greek. You people are so fucking stupid for real. So many of you claim to love ancient shit but can't even acknowledge the actual living culture of the people whose mythology and classics you romanticize. You keep leaving annoying comments about how you just forget Greek people still exist, thinking you're being quirky because you love ancient stuff soooo much that you forgot about the people it came from. You think about it so little you don't even realize that an actual Greek person has to read this shit, making it clear how little you actually care about the culture beyond the romanticized (and westernized) mythology. Don't claim you love Greece, don't use our mythology anymore if you can't acknowledge that we're still around without making it about how little you think about us. It's mind boggling that you'd think a Greek person would read this and think you're anything but obnoxious. Explode.

#this post is edited because you're all annoying. maybe I'll turn it back someday #it sucks that people can't even be normal about a funny family story once the fact that we're greek comes into the fold #suddenly its all about blorbofied mythology shit and idiots saying ''GREECE IS REAL???? 🤯🤯🤯🤯'' yeah percy j*ckson didnt make it up #maybe it would be less annoying if they weren't all saying it like I'd think it's funny that they don't know we exist instead of like #disturbing on a personal level. like what the fuck #man if you can't acknowledge we exist in real life just name your oc Icarus something else idgaf #so yeah explode. Skase. Voulos'to. Valto mesa sto katamalakismeno mouni tis mana's sou. Psophise. etc.

[i-eat-cars-and-berriesss]

just dived back into shows like ENNEAD and finished 2 seasons of the very great BJ Horseman! now I am certified of my depression...

#yeah it sucks

[francescorosi2]

why are the twitter api docs so fire

#twitter api #yeah it sucks #very very bad #me no like #dumb bird app

[mens-rights-activia]

My favourite thing about tumblr, that in my opinion makes it far superior to other social media sites, is that new posts live side by side with old posts. These days, there’s a prioritization of new content. It not only shortens the lifespan of people’s work, memes and such, but it also devalues the work that goes into making certain things.

Sure, a lot of posts are just random thoughts spewed into the ether, but some posts are carefully crafted videos, photos, artwork, prose, that take the creator a considerable amount of time and effort to craft. So, as a content creator, it’s nice to see that you can put work into a piece of content on here and it can have a life of its own. Unlike other platforms where posts live and die in a matter of day, sometimes, hours

#ramblings #but yeah anyway tumblr supremacy #for now… #the site still sucks but like it’s superior to the others #anemone song still gets reboots and I’m like 🥺🫶🫶🫶

[gemsandjunk]

"oh the villain song for wish is bad >:( it sounds like it was written by lin manuel miranda >:(" YEAH WELL. i liked it

#like as a tribute to the villain songs of the renaissance era? #yeah it sucks #but on its own i think it works well for what the writers are going for with the character #dying on this hill btw #nifty’s junk