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uncanny-tranny · 2 years

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hey, i know you get a lot of asks but i wondered if hou had any like, light you coukd shine on a situation im going through:

im trans. a genderfuck, a transsexual, blah ect. one of my sister's is trans too and she came out to my parents a bit back. i havent reallg come out. like, my mom knows im trans too but i never talk to her about it and she never asks. im not doing well for a lot of reasons but one of them is that i feel like ill be stuck living with my parents forever as a disabled kid and also my older brother is a transphobic ass and he's allowed to say whatever the fuck he wants. my mom will even agree with him sometimes even tho she claims thats just becaus she feeks she has to support him too, even if she thinks hes going down the wrong path.

to make a long story shorter, my older sister thinks i should be direct with my mom, tell her im trans, let her ask questions and shit, because my sister believes my mom woukd love to support me and im being an idiot for defining my relationshio with my mom around my brother.

but its not just that. like my ass of a brother is part of the issue but also my mom has said transphobic shit to me for ye ars way before she knew i was trans and its?? just. when my sister came out she told me how she wished my sister had waited longer and how it was so exhausting figuring things out and hos she wished my sister wasnts trans because things were going to be si hard and i LOVE being trans and i dont want to feel like my gender is just another burden on my plate. like my mom treats me more like im her therapist than her child half the time and i CANT do it. i dont want to talk to jer about my transness, i dont want to "officially" come out even if i am doing shitt on my own. its better than i was constantly around her. i dunno. am i being an ass??? or like overreacting? shoukd i just suck it up and talk with my mom?

You absolutely don't have to talk to her about this, and it's really concerning how you're being treated. I'm really truly sorry, it's fucking tough. Ultimately, it does make sense why you wouldn't talk to her about this, and I don't think it's an overreaction to see that your brother's behaviour is tolerated, I can see how you'd play it safe and assume that that tolerance is a reflection on how your mother feels.

However, please take care of yourself. You don't owe it to your family to bear your heart and soul if you aren't ready, but you owe it to yourself to do what it takes to be able to get through this. It's hard, and I hope nobody downplays how difficult it is to be in that place. But please don't believe that you deserve this, if you think so. It's easy to fall into the trap that how you're treated is how you deserve to be treated, but that's not true. I hope your family can learn to grow, but they shouldn't learn to grow at the expense of you, if that makes sense.

You're entitled to not discussing this, and it sounds like you don't want to, no? That's completely fine and not only fine but understandable. Your transness doesn't depend on your family accepting, understanding, or knowing about it. You'll always have and be entitled to a place in this community, if you'd like it. I'm really proud of you

#ask #anon #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #i wish i could hug or fist-bump or something for some of y'all #y'all are unironically in my heart and i wish nothing but the best for you #it can get better. that is always a possibility #yes family can grow to accept and support a trans family member...#...but know that the poor treatment you have had/may have had is still real...#...yes your mother can come around to being super accepting and i hope she reaches that point...#...for the sake of you i hope she reaches that basic maturity...#...but know that your pain/grief/anger/sadness/despair/anything else still matters #you deserve the best. i hope you're well #the second paragraph isn't me trying to tell anon what they feel. i just know that being in this situation can be mentally taxing...#...and you end up wondering if you did something to deserve this (you didn't)

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punchitime · 2 years

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Sooo... I forgot that the "incorrect quotes" thing existed and i made a few things... Again

So in other words here's incorrect (but accurate) quotes i got from these generators since there was too many for the photo limit, which i just copy pasted to here (with minor context for a few)!

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Sterling : I scare people a lot because I walk very softly and they don't hear me enter rooms. So when they turn around, I'm just kind of there... and their fear fuels me.

(Actually EXACTLY how they accidentally scare nearly everyone in the WBVA 9/10 times tho, they just move so silently for no reason and scare people like that by accident.)

Sterling : If I fall down these stairs, I'm just going to lay down and accept my fate.

Sterling : BEHOLD, the field in which I grow my fucks! Lay thine eyes upon it, and thou shalt see that it is barren!

(They would say this unintentionally and unironically in a southern accent for no reason)

Sterling : I’ve come to a point in my life where I need a stronger word than fuck

Sterling : What doesn't kill me should run, because now I'm fucking pissed.

(random ass southern accent engaged)

Sterling : Goodnight moon.

Sterling : Goodnight tree.

Sterling : Goodnight ghosts that only I can see.

(they come from a family of mediums... Which that trait carried over to Sterling -)

Sterling : Died and came back as a cowboy, I call that reintarnation.

(also reincarnated, remembers absolutely nothing tho)

Sterling : Dracula had it right, sleep all day, live alone in a castle, and explode into bats to get out of all social situations.

Sterling : When I see initials carved into a tree with a heart I think it’s so romantic. Two lovers on a date... one of them carrying a knife for some reason.

Sterling : Fruits that do not live up to their names; passionfruit, grapefruit, honeydew and dragonfruit.

Sterling : Fruits that do live up to their names?

Sterling : Orange.

(A conversation with them while their sleep deprived be like-)

Sterling : *seductively takes off glasses* Wow, you're... blurry.

(they're legally blind without them so-)

Sterling , slamming pots and pans together to the rhythm of "Give it to me, I'm worth it": I didn't get no sleep cause a' y'all! Y'all never gonna sleep cause a' me!

Sterling : Get in, loser, we’re committing vehicular manslaughter!

(/j but still, if it was at another scare actor they know they'd yell that)

Sterling : Am I a boy? Am I a girl? It doesn't matter. I'm going to burn your house down.

Sterling : Okay okay stop asking me if I'm straight, gay, bi, whatever. I identify as a FUCKING THREAT.

Sterling : Theater kids are just choir kids who joined forces with the band and strings kids.

(Sterling was a choir, band, and theater kid in high school. She was all of the above)

Sterling : I wish I was a cat, but not in a furry kinda way, more like a “I can sleep all day and hit people with no consequences” kinda way.

(y'know the "Golden Receiver and Black Cat friends?" Well Sterling is the the black cat, and knows multiple golden receiver people)

Sterling : If karma doesn't hit you, I fucking will.

(at anyone who pisses them off)

Sterling : Is this a good idea?

Sterling : Probably not.

Sterling : Do I care?

Sterling : No.

Sterling : Yeah I'm LGBT.

Sterling : cuLt leader.

Sterling : God hates me personally.

Sterling : cowBoy hat.

Sterling : *sniffles* Trying my best.

Sterling : I don’t know the first thing about clothes. Pretty much all I can do is look at something and tell you if it’s clothes or not. This chair? Not clothes.

(if anyone asks how they manage to dress the way they do)

(spoiler alert, they just grab clothes and go. And somehow it works)

Sterling : I like wearing oversized sweaters. Not just because they're extremely comfy and cuddly, but because whenever the sleeves are really big, I get to flop them around and smack people.

(also this)

Sterling : Sometimes I'll start a sentence and I don't even know where it's going. I just hope I find it along the way.

Sterling : The risk I took was calculated but, man, am I bad at math.

(her mentally if they accidentally scare one of the boxers and their scared reaction is anger/agression)

(note- moment she sees a possible swing they're RUNNING, completely OUT)

Sterling : I'm so tired of this life. I want to be a roomba. I want knives taped to me. And I want to be set loose.

Sterling : Caw caw, motherfuckers.

(Sterling, in her time of... Like a month of living in NYC, had somehow managed to befriend a whole murder of crows. How? Feeding and taking care of one that wasn't doing so well and it calling the whole squad over. But they'd say this to anyone that sees them just feeding and playing with whole ass wild crowd)

(Also, absolutely they keep all the "gifts" that the crows give her in a glass jar that has a painted "Gifts!" With a crow underneath)

Hairdresser: How would you like your hair cut?

Sterling : Preferably with scissors, but a sword could be badass.

Sterling : I tried to write ‘I'm a functional adult’ but my phone changed it to ‘fictional adult’ and i feel like that’s more accurate.

Sterling : I'm not a morning person. I'm barely even a person.

Sterling : Pros and cons of dating me.

Sterling : Pros. You'll be the cute one.

Sterling : Cons. Holy shit, where do I begin-

(@ anyone that was ever romantically interested in them)

Sterling : Wow, left handed AND British? You really are an illusion.

(Narcis Prince pissed her off on this one, litterally that's it)

#punch out #punch-out!!#punch out wii #punch out oc #sterling auclair #💀 speaks #💀 back on their bs

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