#y’all don’t deserve kindness

[romanoffsbish]

I thought Tumblr was a safe place. It once was. But my bubble is popped as I watch anons tear apart my mutuals for their gender identities. Y’all are disgusting, and I hope you choke.

#not my usual #y’all don’t deserve kindness

[beetlevsboy]

I want to preface this post by saying that I love the cat king as a character, especially one that has such a major impact on Edwin and his relationship with his queerness and learning to be okay with it; HOWEVER, I also believe that everyone that genuinely believes he should be a love interest for Edwin should read this. (Also if you just like the cat king as a character and want to understand his character better and why his and Edwin’s relationship is not something that would be healthy or “real” for either)

#dead boy detectives #edwin payne #the cat king #i do not ship them but I don’t want to hate on those who do (mostly) I just want to kind of inform people of the creators meaning for their #Relationship because I keep seeing people saying they hope they get together in s2 and it’s really confusing to me #Their relationship stems from the cat kings own narcissism and predatory behavior and Edwin’s need for someone to push him into under #Standing that his queerness doesn’t have to be torture and can be something giddy #even if he doesn’t return those feelings #The cat king does like Edwin but he doesn’t know anything about him. He likes the game and then he likes the kindness he’s shown despite #Knowing the cruelty he’s presented to Edwin #Queerness and preformance always go hand in hand #He’s a older secretly insecure character #Edwin is the younger #genuinely kind character that shows him that projecting his hurt will never get him what he wants #It’s about the isolation of queerness and the walls put up and the coping mechanism used to protect yourself even at the risk of hurting #Those just like you. That kiss from edwin was to say “I’m sorry your loneliness had caused you to be cruel. It’s the easiest way to feel. #And while I cannot and will not give you what you want or need #you deserve to feel happy and not like you have to gain the attention of uninterested people #I can’t even explain all my thoughts about their dynamic it’s just so much it’s just about the predadation from older queers because of #The trauma they’ve endured and the cycle of hurt and the way we can break the cycle with kindness while also protecting our youths by #Healing those traumas #Something the cat king learns and accepts #Off topic but I don’t like people defending their age gap because #Yes; Edwin is 86 #but he died with a teenage boy brain and then spent 70 of those years in hell where he certainly was not getting his brain developed while #The cat king has possibly hundreds of years of sentience and experience. The power imbalance is not if y’all. And that part of their dynami #Is actually very clear I think but some people didn’t catch it?? Or didn’t care??? Idk man

[tvrningout]

what if… i said i might wanna try writing on discord… how would we feel

#not long term! but in the event that i don’t have it in me to be here #bc ngl sometimes tumblr doesn’t help my mental state :’ ) #i just wanna have ways of still being able to write with some of my mutuals #and running a blog is a lot of work. trying to reach out and build interactions is a lot of work #and it’s fun work! but when i’m already feeling overwhelmed by my life outside of tumblr it can be a little much i think #i dunno i’m just thinking bc i don’t wanna feel disconnected from everyone i don’t wanna disappear for a few months like before #it’s very easy to just retreat into my bubble and keep to myself and leave people be but like :( i wanna keep bugging my friends on here :( #asdfgh i’m being silly but really i don’t wanna miss out on chatting with y’all and smushing our characters together #i worry about creating distance unintentionally bc i’m in a ‘rest’ period of my life #i’m rambling atp :’ ) but pls just know i care so much about y’all!! and i do miss y’all to bits!! #and just bc i’m not here doesn’t mean i’m not thinking about our dorks or cooking up new stuff to hit y’all with later hehe #but pls take care of yourselves pace yourselves be kind to yourselves #you deserve it i promise you do 💜 #get ready to ramble | ooc

[caterpillarinacave]

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ To all my friends on here, I just want you all to know that even though I’m just a random person on the internet, I’m so incredibly proud of you for all you’ve done this year. So many of you have powered through struggles this year, and have come out the other side- no matter what in particular it was you did this year, no matter how small it is- I’m proud of you all for the changes you’ve made an endured, the problems you’ve overcome, and for waking up every day. Its been a pleasure to get to know all of you, and you’re all such kind, talented, unique people, I know you can do it, and I hope this next year brings nothing but joy for all y’all.

Happy New Year!,

CaterpillarInACave

#“Ooohh it’s just the internet you’re so sappy” suck it. people need to hear they’re cared about more and it costs me nothing to say it #I don’t need to know all y’all in life to be proud of you and to know all y’all deserve kindness #If you’re wondering “is this about me” yes. It is. Get hit with positive new years vibes. #(Sorry if I’m super weird for this post I blame the autism- I really do think all y’all are awesome and wanted to say it) #Happy new year #new years

[ssahotchnerr]

omg the amount of love i woke up to 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 i don’t even know what to say 😭💞💕💓💓

#no bc i was so scared to wake up to the opposite 😭 #y’all 😭😭😭😭😭 are so incredibly kind i don’t deserve y’all at all

[deityofhearts]

I hate people who think they have a say in what other people do with their own belongings, people can customize their collectors dolls and figurines, people can write in, fold and tear pages out of their books, people can alter their clothes to their own liking and so that they actually fit. people can do whatever the fuck they want with their own shit, why are y’all so mad over something that isn’t and never will be yours?

#deity dialogue #y’all don’t get a say in what other people do with their own shit #it’s so irritating to me to see ppl go ‘you ruined that!!’ ‘how could you do that’ ‘you don’t deserve that item’ #you don’t get a say plus you’re super annoying xoxo #I really wanted the vampire heart draculaura doll (and still do) but if someone completely customized her head to toe guess what! #I wouldn’t care that’s not my doll I don’t own her I don’t own that persons doll #actually I would care id probably watch the video or look at pictures and go ‘that’s so cool!!’ because i think doll customization is cool #I think it’s cool and fun when people do whatever the fuck they want with their own things #y’all are so precious and defensive of others peoples things and it’s weird #like what does this actually have to do with your life that you’re so pressed about it #i will say this however: ruining one of a kind historical items for the sake of it isn’t. great I’m not defending that #you may know what I’m talking about and you may not but I am mad about it still #but this post is about shit that I’d fairly in abundance #like books are printed every day even collectors dolls have enough in existence that it’s stupid to get mad about it #ince you buy a thing it’s yours to do with as you please #if it’s not harmful or hurting anyone why does it matter??

[prehistorictriforce]

fuck you people who fake tourettes fuck you people who say they want tourettes fuck you people who have made having tourettes into smthn cute quirky and desirable!!!!! i’m mad!!!!!!!! fuck you fuck you fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#this goes for any disorder or anything like. fuck off. #if you think faking this shit doesn’t matter then try like. actually asking ppl that have it??? #tried to explain that i had tourettes to my last employer. they thought i was faking it lmfao #bc they had seen people on tiktok faking it so often. they thought i just WANTED to have tourettes. and i didn’t #get the understanding and kindness i deserved until i could explain my dx and who i got it from #so they could know i wasn’t lying. i shouldn’t have to do that much to ‘prove’ my syndromes and disorders #just bc SOME PEOPLE think it’s cool to act like they have shit or they want to have shit. like NO!!! you’re ACTIVELY harming the communities #and you don’t even fucking care!!!! #my tics hurt!!! they hurt so damn bad some days and i’m one of the LUCKY ONES that has gotten less severe with age!!! #and im medicated!!!!!! and i still have days where i just wanna lay down and cry and never leave my room #some of my tics are cute ones. those tics DO exist. i have a few and have had others over the years that are gone now #but then i pop my joints out of place. pop my jaw out of place over and over. snap my head to the side. and again these are MILD compared to #SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE with ts #bet y’all don’t fucking WANT those tics. bet you don’t WANT to be hitting yourselves full force amd bruising ur skin constantly #i’m sorry for ranting in the tags but holy fucking shit this pissed me off #saw some shit on tumblr and tiktok and im. hooooo buddy. fuck you so bad. #ok. i’ll shut up now. tourettes isn’t fucking quirky. #rant tw #tw rant

[starlooove]

I will never care about besties tim and Damian or a good relationship between Damian and Bruce until everything tim and bruce did gets seen with the same weight and vitriol everything Damian did. Y’all dragged that shit for years on Damon’s part but now you think ‘I’m sorry I wasn’t understanding of you even tho I was right and you were evil but it was just bc u were brainwashed and refused help and I should’ve done more but that’s not my JOB that’s just the kindness of my heart so really the person who’s wrong is you but aren’t I so nice and understanding and emotionally mature for saying sorry?’ In every fic for Bruce and Tim is appropriate for them to move on 😭

#tim gets to be mad suspicious and lame for YEARS after the dinosaur #which I’m not saying isn’t valid #but damian just has to be like ‘yeah the hitlist was on me 😬’ #and have tim apologizing equate to being hard on himself in that scenario? #btw in my ideal version of canon they don’t talk about these things ever and brush them under the rug and allow that resentment to fester #so even when they’re on good terms there’s still that underlying ‘fuck you’ #bc in my ideal version of canon these sibling shenanigans are far and few in between bc a they don’t live together and b there’s always smt #going on and even if they desperately want to be close and a family they can’t. bc of the issues they allow to fester #BUT TALKING FANON AND FICssss #if they’re gonna be all buddy everyone’s gotta put work in #it can’t be ‘im sorry I didn’t idolize you in the right way father 💔 instead of propping ur white ass up for being murderous now I’ll do it #for being so nice and kind and…kind of like a savior. my white savior :)’ #And bruce going ‘sorry I didn’t trust u. but not rlly.’ etc. #like whenever u hve tim or bruce feeling guilty it’s always with the underlying ‘aren’t they too nice/too understanding’ #but Damián has to fall to his knees and do BLOOD OATHS (u racist ass fucks) to even be kind of deserving of kindness #it’s crazy bc as always this does reflect how y’all see black and brown ppl irl but I digress #anyways I’m not even against buddy buddy tim and Damián or tim and bruce #it’s just as always the way things get skewed in favor of white characters is always…always.

[mccall-me-maurice]

I'm like, actually getting interrogated for liking Robert.

But, your like the entire reason I like him.

Thank you for introducing me to my silly.

I will keep defending him with my life.

😌

hello! a little psa because it seems necessary: let’s not harass people for kinning a certain character. you may not understand why they do it, but there is absolutely no need to send multiple asks causing them to defend their views. i kin sam and sam doesnt do much, but i felt a connection to him and perhaps tfe feels that connection to robert. the vulnerability of having friendships only for your friends to abuse you or use you as laughingstock, the idea that you see it all as a joke too even though you were harmed, that sort of thing can be derived from roberts one line.

basically it’s 4:45 am, i’m a little delirious bc i woke up from a nightmare, but like….. guys c’mon this is a bit silly let people kin who they want 😭😭. you cant seriously be doing this when people kin roger or jack or anything. it’s just how you choose to interpret a character!

(also ur welcome! i do love robert and he has a special place in my heart for being the one that ends up being attacked. and then playing it off like his life wasn’t at stake)

#sorry if this is absolutely incoherent i’m EXHAUSTED #basically uhhh be nice!!!! if you’re genuinely curious i get that but the anon seems to have judgemental intent #which is not very nice and super harmful to the close feeling that the fandom should bring #there’s no need to outcast someone for kinning a character that you don’t understand #lotf #lord of the flies #hi todd! #todd go to bed tag #anyways thank u tfe! you’re genuinely very kind and you don’t deserve to have to defend your every move #idk this seems like a silly conflict someone is digging for things 2 be pressed abt #anyways y’all seen bills cool sunglasses? #bro is CHILLIN

[agender-wolfie]

I hate artists that have a big following so they think they can be as snotty as they want to their fans. Want to ask them about their OC’s or art they just posted because you’re interested or want to connect to them? Fuck you. You get a snarky reply and then they bitch in the tags about people asking them “dumb” questions all while getting anonymous asks from boot lickers or fellow shitty artists agreeing with them and putting that person down. Y’all are literally the worst.

#like??? #y’all don’t deserve the following #hate those kinds of artists #art community #artists on tumblr #artists #support small artists

[festus-eats-tabasco]

“Why is Lin Manuel Miranda everywhere” I don’t know how to explain to you that this man is genuinely talented and not just a meme for y’all to hate for legit no reason

#his songwriting is incredible #don’t pretend y’all weren’t obsessed with encanto when it came out #i saw the trending page #in the heights is a wonderful musical #and though Hamilton has its problems for sure #he’s consistently used his platform to cast poc in his projects #and to get more representation #he’s also just??? a good dude #genuinely I don’t understand why people don’t like him #y’all are making him into this James Corden kind of guy #and he’s not #he’s actually talented #and frankly his music deserves to be heard #also he uses his platform to speak out on so many things #asking for hurricane relief! advocating for poc! #y’all #he’s a good actor #and if y’all are choosing now to backtrack on the #“we should trust Rick he knows what he’s doing #then to me that’s honestly really fckn stupid #idk man #percy jackson #pjo tv #lin manuel miranda

[incorrectzbone]

I hope you know I enjoy seeing your posts and giggle a little bit almost all the time.

I’m so happy to hear this 🥺💖 thank you so much for the support!!! i’m glad I can make you laugh a bit, and I hope I will be able to do it for much longer <3

#💌 incorrectbox #i’m cryinggggg #y’all are so sweet #i don’t deserve your kindness 😡

[ssahotchnerr]

I really wish that u were physically near me so I can comfort you by hugging you so hard and protect you from all the bad things in this universe but I don't think words can phrase my feelings🥺(and my love language is physical touch)so just so u know I'm always praying that everything's gonna be alright and just be sure that there are better days to come look forward to them and sending you so much love❤️🥰

omg you are the sweetest ever 😭💕💓💖 you had no idea how much i needed to hear that 🥺🥺🥺 as relieved as i am to be leaving it’s scary :(((( the unknown future is so scary :(((( just know rn i’m virtually squeezing you so hard thank you 🫂🥺<333333

#katie’s inbox #y’all are too kind i don’t deserve y’all

[rosemary-bells]

so as the world caves in (matt maltese) IS a ranwan song and no i will not elaborate i don’t NEED to,

#buzz #*conspiracy theory meme* #erha #i finished reading the novel yesterday and honestly?? slay #cried so much tho lmao. reading fanfics rn to recover #it was so good but god it hurt So Bad kshshsjsjs. i don’t even have much to say i just. hooooo #that was so much wohdjsishwjwifhehsh #also in relation to the comment above call that Wanting To Literally Stay Together through Sickness Health and Also Th e Apocalypse bcs tha #coughs #erha spoilers #cryibg tho that was so good #i mean like they rly are just sticking together no matter what like call that Drama and also call that Love screaming crying throwing up #mmmph god that was so good tho. pain was top tied and the ending was sweet enough to the point in which it felt decently worth it all #still cried tho. also meimeng real? maybe. idk. i like that little trio. they’re dumb n cute and i cried over their past timeline vers’ end #bcs they deserved to rest so much but god it hurt god it rly did #also txj reveal at the end was kinda hilarious honestly j expected them to use an extra to cover it but like. nah i like this too #also no one told me that mr canonically calls him engong-gege in post canon?? y’all! or at least in like the first extra #adorable. they’re so weird and i love them. little menaces. also smj’s ending felt Incredibly Bittersweet but honestly. i can live w that #man tho. … man. i rly do hope that in the end. he like. legitimately did care abt the sisheng peak kids. like cwn Sure but i hope he at lea #at least kind of cared abt mr (just a little bit #and like esp xm…. like things were all messy and horrible but like. still. part of me can’t help but wish. #god tho. great read but i read through most of the Angst (tm) this week and i will take years to recover #so good tho. so good. will never not say that #it was weird sure. like it definitely got weird and this is Not referring to the copious amounts of violence. we know what i’m talking abt. #but it was good. it was good. cant recommend it to any of my friends for legal reasons but god. #ranwan #… this one is fr not rly but whatever!! it’s fine i was crying over them 90% of the time

[starlooove]

Everytime I see anything abt how teenagers are reacting to Kanye I wanna scream bc black women have been saying this for YEARS!

Especially on tiktok bro, like there are videos where ppl are talking about how the normalization of anti semitism is happening in spaces like schools right, like it’s ppl saying that their classmates are jokingly saying “Hitler was right” and using literal dogwhistles that they pretended they didn’t know existed “as a joke” and it’s always someone with a stupid shocked look on their face acting like it’s some big new thing that see coudve never predicted but we literally HAVE

When y’all were making fun of AAVE, when y’all started calling the bodies of our aunties and moms “bbl bodies”, when y’all started calling every fat black woman peaches or Lizzo, you know who saw first hand just how easily teenagers were radicalized and converted? BLACK TEENAGERS! Do y’all know the hell it was to be a black girl with “DSLs”? A black girl being called Shanaynay by Shane Dawson Stans? You know who has firsthand experience with being gaslit using dogwhistles? Black girls that were called hot cheeto girls by their TEACHERS! Y’all yap and yap Abt the alt right pipeline and ignore who’s affected and how, and NOW y’all wanna act surprised? Y’all are just confused that you’re seeing it in real time abt ppl u pretend to care abt.

White people make me sick bro y’all can’t be this fucking unserious. Some bitch making a post abt how we should be aware of what celebrity stanning can do to minorities as if black girls weren’t dealing with swifties, Ayesha Erotic fans, or the entire fucking K-pop fanbase for DECADES! Like bitch we been fucking knew y’all are the only ones not caught up.

#and this is never Abt Jewish ppl dealing with antisemitism #yall are fucking fighting and I hate that y’all have to go through this shit on such a wide scale AGAIN #but I am pissed Abt the response #Im not pissed that Kanye is getting this backlash #Im pissed that OTHER anti semites don’t #to pretend that there isn’t any kind of racism in the way the situation is being widely handled would be pure ignorance #Kanye is getting everything he deserves #but some of these niggas deserve just as much and for some reason white ppl wanna make excuses #and you know what I wanna point it? #the sheer difference in how black women and queers are handling the situation vs how black men are #cause let’s talk abt it! #black women are talking to younger members of the community #telling them how this is not ok #how this is abhorrent behavior #opening spaces for questions and learning #they’ve been doing this since the whole Nicki thing and likely even before that #Nicki is just when I got tuned it #vs black men saying shit like ‘we were the real Israelites’ #Nigga get real #And Im not saying every member of x group is educated/ignorant or whatever pls be so fucking forreal #Im just saying that the way white ppl are handling this situation is exactly how I expected them to #and they can’t be trusted to call blk ppl out without being racist or weird Abt it

[stuhde]

thank you for 33.5k!! 🤍🤍🤍

#i def don’t deserve it!! #y’all are so kind to me for still following me??? #it’s been a minute since ive posted OG content #bit of a mess rn lol #blog love #lama makes a monologue