#which is true of all labels

[nyancrimew]

can I ask how being a bi lesbian (or. however you specifically describe it works) works? is it like. lesbian romantic but bisexual, or the other way around, or...? i don't know if that's a respectful way to ask ;-; i'm just. not very knowledgeable on this.

personally im just mostly homoromantic but bisexual and just have a strong sapphic lean in general and also labels are made up and i get to be silly with them if i want to

#the same label can mean something else to anyone else #which is true of all labels #no matter how clearly you wanna define ur boxes #so why not break the boxes a bit yknow

[revenantghost]

God, just

The way they're both terrible at taking care of others, but they both do their damndest to do it for each other the best way they know how

#Trigun #TrigunBookclub #I am NOT OKAY #NOT OKAY AT ALL!!!!!!!!!! #This relationship is just #So fucking beautiful to me man #I don't care how you read it #I legitimately don't #Because I think that many meaningful relationships in life #Defy easy labels #And this one rings so true in that way #There's love there and that's enough #Which is like #A huge point in Trigun #Just being exemplified here #Yes I'm already wailing and it's only volume seven BE QUIET

[sketchy--akechi]

cant stop thinking about how akechi’s confidant is so fucking funny this guy literally can’t shut up about “oohhhh akira you’re so hot and cool and funny and smart and sexy and amazing and badass and tall and successful oooohhh i wanna ~~kiss~~ kill you so bad” … like I genuinely thought yall were joking until I got to that part of the game and had to take a break I was laughing so hard 😭

I KNOW RIGHT I KNOW RIGHT the "honey im home" "youre back awfully late" scene sold it for me like i was staring at the screen like huh. am i reading this right. are they actually doing this

#i thought joshua twewy's 'shut up and walk dear' line was crazy enough but then shuake came along and did THAT #anw op youre completely right akechi is big gay #you could argue he was doing all this flirting to gain akiras trust and stuff which surely is partly true BUT #i think its hilarious that at rank 8 when he declares his hatred its just like #“i hate you because *lists everything good about akira*” #this dude got an admiration-jealousy-crush-thingy and was like “much easier to label this as hatred” #aaahdjgshdgsd i have so many feelings about this idiot #txt #asks

[sonknuxadow]

okay sorry for having opinions on sonic shipping but . the more popular a ship is the more likely i am to be annoyed by it so its probably for the best that my favorite ship is one of the not as popular ones . but also the way sonknux gets talked about (or not talked about) as a result of it being less popular drives me up the wall . what do you mean it doesnt make sense. hes literally not staring at the moon and thinking about him💔

#theyre literally the sun and the moon and you dont even CARE .... #okay but ive actually seen random sonknux posts get a bunch of comments from so/nadow and kn/uxouge fans #along the lines of ''umm i prefer so/nadow :/'' or ''this doesnt make any sense so/nadow is better'' or ''nooo knuckles likes rouge'' #like ohhhh my godddd shut UP #anyway theres so many things that sonic and knuckles have done that if it was sonic and amy or knuckles and rouge #or sonic and shadow doing it instead it would get labelled as peak romance #i know this to be true because it literally already happens sonic and knuckles do something gay and its cricket noises #then sonic and shadow do the same thing later. sometimes in the same show/comic/whatever . and it gets reposted everywhere . what #hell none of the other pairings i mentinoed even have to do what sonic and knuckles do they just have to stand near eachother #and people start freaking out ... #also im not saying youre legally obligated to like sonknux too if you like so/nadow or that you cant prefer so/nadow #but. if you think so/nadow makes perfect sense and have convinced yourself that its basically canon and every interaction between them #is a hint from sega that theyre secretly dating or something and you make the biggest reaches imaginable to prove it #while also thinking that sonknux doesnt make any sense at all and labelling it as a crackship or whatever #i can only assume that you arent paying attention to anything that happens in knuckles centric stuff #and/or being That obsessed with so/nadow has just heavily warped your perception of things. because how #and its not even just so/nadow .. knu/xouge is constantly overshadowing sonknux too #but at least so/nadow is actually okay its only crime is being too popular and having some annoying fans as a result #knu/xouge on the other hand is too popular and has a lot of annoying fans AND sucks . which is worse #but so/nadow is one i find myself comparing it to more often because its another gay pairing #and also people are obsessed with taking stuff from sonic and knuckles' relationship/interactions and giving it to sonic and shadow instead #and acting like knuckles doesnt exist and stuff that sonic and knuckles did first is exclusive to sonic and shadow or something #whatever . runs away

[cleromancy]

this is the dumbest fucking post ive ever seen

first of all. you got dick and jason mixed up bro.

#'end of story' would be a hell of a lot more reasonable to say if #jason and tim becoming brothers had Literally Ever At All been put into canon. at all!!!!!!! #it was not!!!!!!!! #unlike for example dick and tim who very mutually brotherzoned each other as an on-panel rship development #genuinely so irritatingbc i do think its plauible 4 tim to've had a crush on jason as robin but i get associated with this kind of dipshit #completely talking out their rear end and skipping over the fucking #very obvious 'childhood heroworship crush turned brother' relationship thats right fucking there #bc like nothing I've read or even anything ive seen out of context actually makes it seem like tim and jason have a brotherly relationship #lmao. like at all. they literally just like say that they're brothers sometimes and ig the reader is supposed to take them at their word #compared to dick and tim who have so much goddamn pagetime of Actually behaving like brothers after they land on the label #truly the only goddamn way tim and jason are brothers is if you buy into the transitive property of found family #(meaning for example if Tim became dicks brother and jason also became dicks brother then it must be true that tim and jason are brothers) #which i do not. because its not a fucking thing #god you people are so fucking dumb and annoying #dc

[seilon]

more and more it makes me kind of uncomfortable (for lack of a better/softer word) to call my own characters ‘ocs’. because like. they’re from a completely original universe and from completely original intertwined stories and all that. so why would i have to specify they’re original in the same way someone would when referring to a character they made for a pre-existing non-original universe/franchise/whatever? by that logic every fiction author ever would be referring to their characters as ocs rather than just. their characters. you know.

#i guess you could say it’s different or something because I haven’t published any one Solid Official Work yet or anything but. #I don’t think that particularly matters? cause then you just get into policing what does and doesn’t count as Real and Official and that #inevitably doesn’t do anything good #idk man I know the term Original Character isn’t technically incorrect in my case but. I just feel like that term was created to separate #fandom creations from their source’s canon. or maybe to describe characters that don’t come from any particular established universe #or story at all (fandom or otherwise). #cause otherwise. why shouldn’t I just be calling them my characters. the characters from my universe and my works. which are #established and incorporated. it’s definitely not properly organized or set up for true publication (at least not yet. definitely possible #I’ll publish something as a consumable structured thing someday) #you just don’t hear established authors calling their characters ocs. because why should they? the original part is sort of a given. #hopefully anyway #anywayyuyyyyyyeuyyyhh sorry this is not important just has been on my mind the last few weeks or few months or more #kibumblabs #I guess there’s also a difference maybe between making characters for the sake of making characters- and those being ocs- versus #characters that are developed as part of a larger work/story #I definitely feel like there’s a difference between the two and how they should be labelled (but im not saying one is more valid than the #other or anything like that.) #like when I see a poll that’s like ‘how many ocs do you have’ I just kinda sit there cause that question. doesn’t make sense in #my situation at all. because it’s the same as asking the author of a fiction novel that question. what do I count as my ‘oc’ #would that mean my primary characters? or vaguely my primary and secondaryish ones? or do you mean every single character mentioned #regardless of importance or prevalence? every single named parent or grandparent or boss or childhood friend or one night stand or etc etc #I feel like it’s weird to call those characters ‘ocs’ in the way the question is implying. but then what DOES count? it just doesn’t make #sense for something like this. right? it irks me a little

[lunaechaos]

man i don't know why but i can't trust people who erase canon information about a character just to label them a sexuality that doesn't even make sense

#yes i am looking at the shit ton of lesbians who just happen to ignore female characters who just dated men #or dated men for the majority of their storyline #to label them as lesbians #i swear to god the amount of times i saw agatha with that lesbian flag sticker #and worst of all she does kiss woman!!! but she is bisexual!!! explicitly confirmed!!!!! #but still she has her sexuality erased!!!! since kissing women isn't enough for some sapphics #i remember seeing a post a few days ago #which loosely said that some folks are so desperate for queer validation they'll do harmful/disrespectful things #to those they deem their icons #this discourse was obviously tied to queer ppl disrespecting artists #especifically jimin since so many queer folks just love to misgender him and label him as trans #and also to taylor swift and her insane group of fans who swear to god she's a closeted lesbian #but i also think about how common this very intentional and deliberate behavior has become inside fandom spaces #where ppl just erase a character's sexuality or gender identity just to make themselves feel better about their own identities #but like #at what costs #at the cost of erasing true representation when the character is indeed lgbt just not the sexuality/gender you wanted them to be? #this is so tiring and that's why i absolutely run away from fandom spaces for a long time now

[antihibikase-archive]

Blight/Blur Kuro and Shiro are qprs now ^^ Calem is still very much an important person in Cheren's life, but he's no longer his qpp ..

That being said, The Hero of Truth and The Heart, as well as The Warrior of Truth and The Scholar of Truth, are still in a romantic relationship.

#antihibikase.txt #((I've been thinking about how .. cheap it feels to have Kuro end up together after all that talk about defying the legends.)) #((Which they do not do btw. Not their fault but. Blight arc was about Hilbert trying to deny his truth- which is what leads to the legend-) #((-coming true anyway.)) #((And also like. Despite them genuinely looking like each other and having similar quirks and motifs.)) #((They don't have to be like their past lives in the sense of labels.)) #((Though like. Everything in Blight/Blur. Everyone works on a 'I'm probably ace but I have a job so idc rn' mentality HJSKAHSKA))

[dreamerlynx]

seriously I do not understand irl shipping (like you do you it’s whatever) but especially I do not get how there’s like a common perception george is obviously gay and sapnap is obviously straight like

look at dash: see clip of dream casually tightening George’s tie, he’s like an arm length away it’s all normal- notes going on abt how crazyyy it is and how obvious they are

looks at next posts: george and sapnap face to face leaning in hands around each other’s necks- next to no notes and only from sap side of my dash

like does that make sense am I making sense??? sap and george act so crazy together sometimes and there’s almost never a PEEP about it 😭 this is why I can never tell if d.nf people are just joking around being lighthearted or are like This is real they r actually dating lmao

#this is kind of a mess of a post but it truly confuses me #like I am very much a don’t assume someones sexuality or whatever until they say #so I have no idea what they label themselves as and as far as I’m concerned all possibilities r true until they say one way or the other #but HOW ever since I joined this fandom and lurked like ppl memorize any potentially romantic interaction btwn d.nf #and always phrase it like omg they’re so crazyyy they’re so obvious I wish we knew less abt them hahaha #meanwhile sapnap does similar stuff with like all of his guy friends but a lot of the time george imo: crickets #i mean I guess it comes down to d.nf being The popular ship which the creators also play into. and sap being the black sheep of the dteam : #SORRY was thinking about this #(and to be clear that first clip I mention was not filtered by my d.nf blacklist so that’s why I even saw it) #lynx says things

[neon-in-the-night-time]

probably the funniest part since graduating high school a few years ago and distancing myself from the church is that people straight-up don't believe me when i mention that i was a youth group kid. they refuse. they look at my queer trans autistic ass and come to the conclusion that this person has been a god-cursing heathen their whole life. and youth group and church us very much not a part of my life today but it used to be integral so like half my stories involve them and it gives people whiplash and i find that funny.

#rambles #once had a coworker who refused to believe i was in youth group bc 'youth group kids are all sex-obsessed freaks and you're too normal' #which a) not true that youth group kids are sex-obsessed freaks and b) not true that i am normal #my friend group in youth group could be described as freaks. some of us would like that label and i think others wouldn't #but we weren't sex-obsessed because we were asexual :-) #our youth leaders were like 'remember no purpling and stay in your own room with your own roommate!' #and my friends and i were like 'who are you talking to right now' #we just wanted to play pokémon

[songtwo]

one of the coolest parts about magazines were the specials they would make for certain occasions like nme every Christmas would get a set of artists and they'd pick another artist to dress up as which was so cool and everyone just had a good time and they'd create something somewhat memorable that fans would also love

#then again the most popular acts used to be also the most interesting #which now is simply not the case like who would want to see harry styels as David Bowie or Taylor swift as Madonna . no one #in a way the death of music journalism is inherent with the death of good popular music #which is not to say All popular music nowadays sucks bc there are obviously exceptions #but the thing is it used to be the other way around most of the popular music was good but there were a few bad exceptions #and now it'd be rare if u found something Good in the top 40 #which also says a lot of how the music industry has changed #and now it's just so much harder to make it as a good musician bc most ppl are simply interested in simple and basic tiktok music #a lot of ppl say social media and the internet makes it easier for musicians but that's clearly not true #music journalists used to go straight to the source of music pubs bars small avenues and would give everyone a chance #and now to have people talking about you u must either have connections money or go viral on tiktok #and it takes so much more for a good band to make it than it previously used to #and now that I'm working in a label i see it more clearly like there are just so many good artists trying to make it #and it's so sad how in order to do so you rely completely on social media and online platforms #and idk . as always u can blame it on capitalism as labels and the industry in general are just out to get money not bc they actually care #which has led to the death of music journalism and the rise of mediocre musicians

[artificer-dice]

I made some molds for the new versions of the d4 shells for the clipped shape and I have to say I missed being able to make molds that weren't safety orange!

Look at that pretty green! That's actually that Papaya pigment but that is not what I intend to use the poll results for.

But this pigment is really a teal base with a gold shimmer and

So much nicer than opaque "warm persimmon" the other silicone comes in. Mind you, I can't get that color to accurately show up on camera.

This does however mean I get to start making the improved liquid core d4s that shouldn't be too small now!

#mj's dice making adventures #artificer dice #mold making #the obnoxious orange is BBDino 15A while the lovely translucent one i can tint is their 20A silicone #They're both cheaper than what i used to use but that orange is a lot #like picture the color of a pylon or the orange vests hunters wear and that's much closer to the true color #it's rough #also since this stuff is so opaque if you wanted to change the color it takes a lot of pigment and barely works at all #which is why some of the ones i have are a slightly different orange #and i had to tattoo label them all since i can't really color code them #at one point i managed to make a small amount of it purple but it took way too much pigment for like 8ml #like I'm pretty sure it's half mica powder but it made a decent little sil mat for me

[flaynbestgirl]

when are people going to accept that bisexual is basically an umbrella term now, like trans

i mean i know mspec as a thing, but pan and omni and all that basically stemmed off of bi because they didnt understand what it actually meant. and thats fine historically, but we need to understand that we're all fundamentally the same. better together than divided. at this point a lot more people in those communities understand that "bi" doesnt just mean "two" in this context and hasnt since at least 1990.

we are the same and need to bury the hatchet

#that said if you try to differentiate pan from bi in a way that sheds a bad light on bi-identifying people im gonna have to ask you #to reevaluate. there are bis who dont care about genetalia. there are bis who are nb and date nb people. #who are trans and who date trans people. for whom sex and gender do not factor in their attraction. #we are not different. we are the same. idc what label you use just understand that we are the same and stronger together. #kath shouts into the void #personal #not to be all 'i was there gandalf' but i remember way back when people were starting to identify as pan en masse so as to #not be called transphobic it was fucking stupid and awful and rooted in people misunderstanding the bi term both in and outside #the community. there was so much drama and discourse and as i understand it there still is. #i need my fellow bis to understand that for every pan who says 'im not bi cus i would date a trans person' theres like 10 who just say #'i just prefer the flag colours' which is a valid enough reason #but i also need pan people to understand the history of their label and reject those principles and to accept that we are the same #sorry i saw a panphobic post on my dash and it got me riled #cus its like;; as much as its true that pan as a label started off as bi- and transphobic realtalk; a majority of pans arent like that now #or at least none of the ones ive met are #obvs theres bad eggs in each community and the bad bis are arguing w the bad pans but the rest of us dont need to fall for that shit

[jwooyoung]

i know the obsession with having a million labels for gender and sexuality is inherently not GOOD but ohhh my god i want a word for what i feel my gender is so fucking bad it makes me angry

#like i know i dont NEED a label. I KNOW ! but i want one !!!! really bad !!! #the closest i feel is maybe demigender but even that feels wrong #and pronouns also ?? i dont always like she im eh about he most of the time and i dont fuck with they too much either #i think maybe its knowing i wouldnt pass as a guy (which i know doesnt and shouldnt matter) thats making me !!!! #cause id love to be genderfluid in general but i have BIG BEWBS so it feels. NOT CORRECT. #this is all according to Me btw not saying this applies to anyone else AT ALL i promise #whats the gender for wanting top surgery so fuckin badly but also wanting a ***** sometimes but also not wanting to get rid of whats there #hope this makes sense to SOMEONE cause im feeling true insanity rn #j.txt

[fabulouslygaybean]

gerard way gender rant in the tags bc this is my blog so i get to talk abt what i want and it's been on my mind for a hot minute

#like... it just feels weird that ppl are taking them wearing a dress to mean that they've come out as transfem? #please tell me y'all haven't forgotten that clothes don't equal gender right. like a dress is not inherently Female #it just leaves a weird taste in my mouth. it would be 110% fine if he WAS transfem but it feels weird to just assume #he has talked abt how he relates to trans women and that he's struggled with gender and that's valid!! im not denying any of that!! #but they've talked about how they dislike applying labels to himself and i feel like im the only person who finds it weird that ppl are - #- so quick to jump to the nearest label the moment he wears something more gnc than he usually does #also like.. its one thing to say that they're probably not cis. which is very true #but another thing to be so adamant that he's a 100% binary trans woman that it comes off as more intrusive than anything #they probably aren't cis. they've struggled with gender and use he/they pronouns and use some typically feminine terms to refer to himself #and it's fine to look up to him when it comes to gender!! i admire the fact that he's so open about it and i find comfort in knowing that - #- in a way he's kinda like me!! they love their trans fans and don't rlly consider themselves cis but also hasn't said anything about - #- using the word trans to describe himself. and those things can coexist. there can be a gray area between cis and trans #idk man. it just feels weird. i dont like how ppl force labels onto someone who has made an effort to avoid labels. #are they probably queer? absolutely. im not denying that. is it still weird that folks are being oddly invasive about his gender? yeah. #we're allowed to talk about his relationship with gender/sexuality + how he's always been focused on making a welcome space for queer folks #but acting as if it's Written Fact to assume he's a binary trans person is just. weird. #to clarify: this isn't me being mad at anyone in particular. if you're one of the folks who talks abt them being transfem then whatever. #im too tired rn to have any kind of beef with y'all. in the end we all basically know nothing. the only one who understands his - #- relationship with gender is gerard themself. im no expert. im just some queer teenager on the internet. #ive just seen it being passed around and i needed to type this out for myself so i can figure out WHY it was making me uncomfortable #nobody's obligated to agree with me or to even pay attention to this. im rlly only writing it out for myself and myself only. #im keeping the reblogs turned off though bc i don't wanna start fights over it

[eepyjay]

think I’m gonna kill the next person I see who says h is queerbaiting

#the amount of people who are literally like ‘can he just die already’ or ‘can he kill himself/get killed’ is fucking insane to me because #they think he’s queerbaiting (which isn’t a real thing you can do in real life because they are a real person not a character in a #fictitious story and real people living their lives and figuring themselves out doesn’t mean they are pandering to the queer community) #it makes me so incredibly mad when people are demanding to know celebrities sexuality or say ‘if you’re in the closet you’re valid!!!’ and #then go and be hypocrites and bash on people who could possibly be in the closet to the public eye like fuck off especially queer people who #say this it’s so upsetting to see don’t go preaching something you don’t believe when it comes to everyone like of course closeted people #are valid and you’re a fucking moron if you think otherwise but the people who say that and then bash on real life people like h or Billie #or any other celebrity are fucking hypocrites #also no one owes you a label or an inkling about their identity ❤️ #like your queer closeted siblings are seeing that man they see how you treat these people who you think you can say whatever you want about #because they’re famous and it doesn’t matter (not true) and it affects them how can people not see that? especially queer people who do/say #this it’s just infuriating and I wanted to rant if you made it this far thank you and I’m sure there are mistakes in this and it’s not #articulated the way I wish it was I’m sure because I’m so fed up with all but thank you for getting this far ❤️