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#the roleplay of intimacy is fun and then it’s not anymore when people expect me to actually seriously want to spend time with them
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i probably shouldn’t read about bpd before bed
#cuz now it’s 330am and i’m crying cuz i have no way to actually mentally process love effectively
#like it’s so weird to realize that as much as romantic love and intimacy interest me as concepts
#i crave it until the exact moment where i can get it for myself
#and then the craving dissipates
#like how do i say ‘’hey i know we’ve been having fun for years and you seem to be falling in love with me
#but i have no desire to actually be loved by you or touched by you in an actual real way’’
#especially because the attention i receive is the only dopamine i get that gets me out of bed
#so essentially i just use people and string them along knowing i’ll never actual want more than surface level anything
#and this is what i mean when i say i do not love right. like on paper i seem fine. in theory i seem fine. in practice not so much
#there is something so deeply cracked about my desires sexually and romantically completely disappearing
#like it really hurts him that he craves my touch and love and i crave. nothing.
#like he always craves video chats and calls and loves seeing me and talking to me and idc if i ever have that. i don’t crave it at all
#the roleplay of intimacy is fun and then it’s not anymore when people expect me to actually seriously want to spend time with them
#i feel like i want to want someone because i’ve been taught i should
#the way i operate romantically and sexually falls completely in line with BPD
#i will probably be alone for the majority of my life
#and i know i can do that but i was promised to some degree that the normal thing to do as an adult is cohabitate / be intimate with someone
#and now i’m like ‘’well no one prepared me for a reality where because of a mental illness i might not actually be able to do that’’
#i wasn’t prepared for the possibility that i truly will live life alone because of this
#and now it’s like 4am and i’m staring at the wall and having it hit me like a ton of bricks
#it’s like in order to actually fall in love at all i’m going to have to beat back this mental illness at any given moment forever
#and that’s IF and only IF i’m able to even fall in love in the first place
#it doesn’t seem like i’m actually capable of falling in love
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