#the moment t enters our bloodstream doesnt mean we're going to turn into an evil cruel opressor

[mothheart]

Idk what I was doing or what I had searched but I just remember this one time I saw someone say something like 'trans men need to stfu about jk Rowling bc she only harms trans women' like sorry what. How did we even get to this point when did a majority of people start assuming the t*rf queen only harms trans women. Why do so many people have this belief that trans men experience No Opression

#im not smart enough to articulate my thoughts but seeing people just call her a transmisogynist and pushing the belief that shes only #out to get trans women #i dont get it #what led people to believe trans men have it better or easier #do you think the moment i started identifying as a man that 20 years of lived experiences ive had just. didnt happen #i dont 'pass' im not on t i just wear mens clothes and have short hair. theres maybe 2 strangers i know who #actually refer to me as a man #im not going to write a novel about the experiences ive had but me identifying as a man does not magically erase the #things ive experienced #trans men who 'pass' dont magically have cishet male privilege #the moment t enters our bloodstream doesnt mean we're going to turn into an evil cruel opressor #do you understand how exhausting it is for such a large part of the community to shun us #even other trans men #i dont think ive gone a day without seeing a trans man talk about how horrible it is that he had to end up being a man #or a straight trans man feeding into the idea that men being attracted to women is inherently dirty or perverted #idk what im trying to get at here lol i just think its kind of insane. all of this. #i hope trans men who hate themselves for being men learn to love themselves but also i cant stand them #ask to tag #miles rambles