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tommyinnit having both a husband and a girlfriend BEFORE announcing his bicuriosity is so funny. he rly went "hang on a min, smths up with this"

Don't forget the love or host with women + Ranboo (of whom he flirted with the whole time). He's so

#cup.tommyinnit #tea.cakes #ask

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Honestly the worst part of it is how much he downplayed it. I know for a fact Shelby brought it up to him that she was hurt and he brushed it off, so for him to turn around and say he was just “slobbish” and “disrespectful” and not ABUSIVE just shows how much he actually understands what he did, which is little to none. You can’t change if you cannot accept full accountability for your mistakes and I stand by that. He cannot claim to have changed while invalidating everything that Shubble has told us, and while it really hurts, these are his true colors. He does not care.

^100%. That is why later I feel the urge to really analyze what he said so people know just how minimizing it is.

#tea.cakes #ask #tw abuse #he cant even say her fucking name

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cupsmp i will never forget ctommys perseverance in not giving up on people and tjeir intentions. he didnt give up on wilbur even when the guy was spiraling so hard into the grave. he didnt give up on tubbo or his friendship w him even when tubbo exiled him. he didnt even give up on cdream until the very end 😭😭”how do you not hurt?”. hesso. Strangles him. strangles himg.

Didn't give on lmanberg. On home. On people reconciling to the point of keeping a part of the egg in the fucking hotel to avoid another war. He gave up on no one not one person. This fucking guy 😭

#cup.dsmp #cup.tommyinnit #tea.cakes #ask

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this isnt me getting at the prev anon btw. but i dont think its "good on phil" for getting rid of the wilbur related emotes on his channel. it reads more to me like avoiding criticism/being able to avoid talking about wilbur than it does any kind of condemnation of wilbur.

Yeah I agree and not neg on the previous anon either. Though I'm glad he's done that it really is below average behavior. Phil's been silent constantly on abusive behavior (dream now wilbur someone he's even more associated with!) At his grown age. He needs to speak up more and protect fellow victims better 100%.

#tea.cakes #ask #tw abuse #cup.shubble #true as always varis

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here are a few other cc replies ive found, most from outside his circle tho:

Thank you for these. I will link in post.

#tea.cakes #ask #tw abuse

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i think clingyduo would name their combo attacks and tommy would shout them out when he wants to do one -thequackcity

THEY SO DO. Tommy would be like "this is called the surprise It's tubbo" and someone would be like what?? And then tubbo just tackles them out of nowhere

#dsmp #tea.cakes #ask

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Cup I am actually so enraged rn he tried to say that Kristin and Phil’s relationship is an example of a cc and a fan romantic relationship I am actually shaking oh my god he’s literally malicious

I just posted about this that is disgusting.

Genuinely if you're example of disproving grooming allegations with your exorbitant power as a cc. A person who had like 0 audience dating someone in their late 20s/30s when they too were grown adult is not who you'd compare yourself too and to conflate the two is disgusting and fucked.

#dream situation #discourse #tea.cakes #ask

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philza killing dream on twitter PART 2 BABEYYY

It's disgusting he put Phil's name in his fucking mouth for that shit what a vile human being

#dream situation #discourse #tea.cakes #ask #i need himgone

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He failed to do the One thing he had proposed himself to do which was make a video with the proof that he did not do it. HE DIDN'T GIVE THE PROOF HE SAID HE HAD AND HE JUST MADE EXCUSES AND DEFLECTED AND MORE THAN HALF OF THE VIDEO IS NOT ABOUT THE ALLEGATIONS. I'm so done with him can he disappear forever.

I hope he disappears forever and him and his cult fanbase can rot o7

#dream situation #tea.cakes #ask

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"I extend my apologies" and yet this does not feel like he's sorry for anyone other than himself.

I like to always give the benefit of doubt but this is one of those cases where i cannot give it, for obvious reasons and my own discomfort.

He never said her name, didn't offer a genuine sorry, to Her, it felt like a corporate message instead of.. something genuine. That's what it felt like to me.

Granted, it should've been private, but at this point the lid is off and we Know who they both are. I don't know what to think I need time to process.

Hope you're doing okay cup :( <3

Hes not sorry he's sorry his trust in his profit makers are gone. He's sorry he is losing money. That's all he gaf about.

#tea.cakes #ask #cup.shubble #tw abuse #take care ofnurself moom

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You've done so much for the community cup, it is not your job to sacrifice your personal comfort in such a horrible situation. I'm sure there will be other blogs that will summarize, or heck if need be I can do it if you like- but please take care of yourself. This shit is vile and if you are already in a bad place I urge you to take care of yourself first. Get some water, snacks, and a blanket and don't feel guilty for taking a break. If people aren't understanding about that I will take their kneecaps.

Hey thanks for saying this. I am going to focus on finishing my lab work and then make dinner for myself a nice Spaghetti meal. Ans then I'll see what liveblogs say before I decide. I will be okay and thank you for saying this genuinely. I appreciate you

#tea.cakes #ask #dream situation

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cup ive been busy for the past like 2 hours, what has happened. whatd dream do. mind giving me a recap?

Yeah Cup Recap Time:

1: Dream tweets about how hes just totally done with the drama as of now (ignore what happened 2 weeks ago and for the entirety of his career ofc) and hes a better person than 2-3 years ago and less impulsive.

2: average harry responds calling dream out for creepy and manipulative behavior.

3: average harry deletes the tweet out of respect for the potential victim/the story (because he spoke for her in something that was likely told in confidence)

4: dream responds to average harry to answer his DMs pleek (definitely not drama or cease and desist because dream's changed as of today!)

Bonus: the timing of this is within when tommy mentioned he recorded a vlog he might post ranting about the aftermath of his video that was a comedic neg to dream's paragraphs about qsmp/quackity which does make it suspicious that dream is trying to make himself look sympathetic/shield himself for what is said.

#tea.cakes #ask #dream situation #discourse

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currently thinking about how everyone in ctommys life was assigning him the hero role, either as a positive or a negative, constantly. and they assumed he wanted that title

and it didnt matter how many times he told people "im not a hero" "i dont want to be the hero" they still told him to die like one, to fight like one, to cast aside his morals to better fit the bill.

he wasnt allowed to be selfish, or mean, or the one with a home at the end of the day. people expected him to give up everything, and took everything from him, then blamed him for wanting and blamed him for clawing his way back. because thats not what heroes do.

heroes die tragically, heroes take loses with a smile on their face, heroes lose everything that belonds to them and dont care as long as they save the day.

but he didnt want to save the day. he wanted to be safe. and he wanted his brother.

All he wanted was to go home. To be home. To have his fuckkinggg brother.

#dsmp #tea.cakes #ask #hey varis im dead

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cup I really do support you but going on about how people didn’t speak up early enough when multiple people have described abusive behaviour towards them is literally just victim blaming. like it does not need to be explicitly described in abusive terms to be victim blaming. manipulating and intimidating people and making them feel small and helpless is abusive behaviour. genuinely as a grooming victim who went through similar it’s intensely triggering. genuinely not trying to be mean but like. please don’t say shit you’ll regret if someone else comes out and says they were a victim.

Thank you for this ask. I want to be clear I do not want people pressuring people to speak up and it is important to know there are multiple victims (confirmed) and there may be more unspoken because of wilburs repeated abusive behavior.

What I have been saying is that there is two aspects to this silence: many ccs who were harmed or witnessed harm (Shelby. Freddie, billzo, Lexie, niki). Have spoken about behavior of wilburs close circle where his behavior was repeatedly diminished, not spoken about, and their experiences were ignored or downplayed. This is the silence I'm talking about. Their silence is harmful and contributes to enabling abuse. It also speaks from a misogyny lens of many of the ccs who didn't speak up then and haven't now.

I do not think that means pressuring every cc and demanding answers from them that does contribute to victim blaming and harming potential victims. But I at the same time think we should be critical of those that have continually enabled this harm as said by multiple people and victims.

Thank you and I am sorry that didn't come across. I can delete any post that is not clear.

#tea.cakes #ask #tw abuse

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how does dream not seem to grasp that he is an ADULT MAN and it VERY MUCH DOES MATTER if he is privately messaging minors. like. I don't care what conversation was had, I don't care if he Didn't send nudes or anything, the bottom line here is that he is a grown man who was exchanging private messages with a minor who was also a fan of his and that is inherently Bad. how the fuck does he not understand that concept??? There is literally no good reason a grown man would be exchanging messages on SNAPCHAT privately with a minor he doesn't know who is also part of his obsessive fanbase.

SORRY I'M JUST. MY MIND IS CONTINUALLY BLOWN

I am goign to be honest I think he does grasp this. I truly think he is 100% aware and that is why he knows EXACTLY how to minimize it to his fanbase who will harm any victim they can to continue platforming him. He's admitted to the messages, that he knew she was a minor, and that he flirted with both victims. He knows exactly what he did, and he continues to minimize it. Because he knows there's no consequence in his mind.

#dream situation #discourse #tw grooming #ask #tea.cakes

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Wilbur?

#cup.dsmp #tea.cakes #ask #AHHHHHHHH