#real message i sent to my friend

[bog-horse]

don’t ask me for advice about religion because this is what i’m like

#real message i sent to my friend #hellenic polytheism #helpol #athena deity #athena devotee #very excited about that test getting moved because i didn’t have time to study this past weekend #she’s a queen! she’s an icon! #bones.txt

[charrfie]

Did everyone else see the spamton valentines rtvs video

#to copy the message i sent my friends: any spamton centric media comes out from toby and I get lightheaded like for real #absolutely sickening. i love it #this makes me look forward to any future spamton/rtvs stuff im so happy theyre still so on board with it #laika originals #I NEED A MOMENT TO RECOVER. BYE

[whumpypepsigal]

guess who finally watched loki s02, then found out that this was the series finale and the last time we will see tom hiddleston as loki....... yeah, im not okay

#i know im super late #but.... guys s02 was so good!!!! #my beloved loki #im gonna miss him so much *sobs* #sidenote: hello my friends #sorry about being MIA.... i have alot going on right now in my life. plus im currently working 48 hour-week in a rural clinic #i wanna do so many gifs but i can't find the time to do them so frustrating #i just did one gifset and it took me three days to complete #my posts #my rants #p/s: to the dearies who sent me messages and requests... im working on replying to you all real soon <3

[notanotherinfjblog]

Texting habits per judging function

No one asked, but here are some observations I've made in my personal life.

*Note that this probably differs by age, gender, and culture (for instance, I have been told by several Americans that I use an insane amount of emojis, whereas it's not considered weird at all here in Germany).

FJ:

Generally very good at texting, will respond to absolutely every point you make. If you send them a long voice message, they can be found taking notes while listening so that they will not forget to answer any point you made.

Have a very hard time leaving someone on read and if they do, either something happened and they forgot, or they simply don't like you very much. If they open the message, they answer. If they don't have time to answer you right now, they simply will not open the message yet.

If the text conversation is done (i.e. you wrote something like "bye, see you tomorrow!" that does not require another response), they will still at the very least send you an emoji back for no reason other than letting you know that "Yes! I read your message! I'm not ignoring you! I love you!" (Literally every FJ I have ever known does this. Every single one, including myself.)

They will adapt to your style of texting. If you are the kind of person that likes to send a bunch of heart emojis to friends and the FJ friend is not, they will still pepper in a heart here and there. If you generally don't use emojis, they will use them only occasionally. If you reply in wallpaper long messages, so will they. If you break up your messages into several texts one after the other, so will they.

FPs:

Also generally quite good at texting and can actually appear a lot warmer in writing than in person (there have been several instances where I received really lovely messages from FPs who I used to think hated my guts whenever we met in person).

Prepare for emojis. Seriously.

You can have infinitely long text conversations with them. If you are willing to commit, the conversation between the two of you will never end. With NFPs, the conversations usually end up spiralling into nonsense scenarios, while SFPs keep telling you about their day and keep answering you about your day every day.

TPs:

(my texting experience with TPs is unfortunately very limited, so feel free to fill in my blanks)

Fe is very noticeable in the extroverts, i.e. they tend to go the FJ route described above, but in a more nonchalant and more relaxed way. Like with FJs, the focus of the conversation is on you and their dynamic with you.

The introverts (i.e. my dad, i.e. my only point of reference) are bad at texting and prefer to call, so almost all text conversations go something like this: TP: "Hi, I tried to call you, but you didn't pick up. I hope everything is alright with you?" You: "Yes, sorry. Everything's good here, how about you, everything okay?" --- end of conversation ---

TJs:

Generally bad at texting. Also don't really like it and see no point in it, so they usually prefer calling or talking in person.

Will appear colder in writing than in person, especially the STJs. Their answers will be straight to the point. No beating around the bush and no needless extension of a conversation in form of jokes/questions/anecdotes for a bonding experience. If they want to tell you something, they will tell you in person.

Have absolutely zero problem leaving people on read and usually don't mean anything by it.

STJs rarely use emojis, NTJs do but not excessively

If their answer requires them to type anything more than two sentences, they will send you a voice message instead. (Literally every single TJ I know does this, except my INTJ brother who is a complete maniac and calls instead.)

#the TJ way of texting will never stop confusing me #i usually don't look at other people's phones but i once witnessed an istj's text conversation and it's been haunting me ever since #she had just visited her husband's family with their kids and her mother-in-law sent her a really long lovely message #saying how much she enjoyed their visit and how much she loved each and every one of them and sent her a bunch of pictures #and this istj replied with 'thanks me too' and THAT WAS IT! if i had been her mother-in-law i would have assumed she doesn't like me at all #but no! this istj spent the next half hour looking at the pictures smiling softly zooming in on everyone's faces and then smiling some more #similarly one of my closest friends is an estj and she will tell you in person how much she loves you but her messages? not that warm #or my entj friend. he is a real chatterbox in person but texting? yeah no forget it #this is unimaginable for me as an FJ i would only do this as a deliberate choice to make it known that i don't want anything to do with the #so texting with a TJ always feels like recalibrating your brain to calm down and go: #'no i know they don't hate me yes i know they text like they do but i know that they don't it's okay they are like this with everyone' #and really sorry for the limited TP section. the only TPs i ever texted are my dad and some occasional acquaintances #so seriously. chime in with your observations! especially to get a broader picture from other cultures than my own as well #typing post #judging functions #cognitive functions

[stabbyfoxandrew]

oh my god my parents almost fell for a facebook scam.

someone they know posted that they were selling a car and my parents asked me to help them send a down payment over paypal.

thank GOD they asked me instead of just trying to do it themselves.

#at first i was like oh ok yeah. i can do that ig? i already have paypal. i can use your card to do it. #then suddenly his paypal wasn't working. and he wanted it sent to his 'coworkers' paypal. #and then he said to use Friends and Family. and i was like yeah this is for sure bullshit guys. if we do that we cannot get it back. #like if i send this to this person. we're screwed. and i had to explain it to them and i feel bad because now they feel stupid :')) #BUT literally while i was explaining. they were messaging this scammer and then Real Guy's daughter posted that his account had been hacked #like woah. nice job aerie. saved your parents $500. #sighs for two hours #that was sort of stressful. #if i had just done what they said without thinking we'd be out $500. like. DAMN. that's a lot. #shewwwww... anyhow! he either blocked my parents or deleted the account after we confronted him. #but i hope that doesn't mean they got money from someone else. #at least it wasn't us though. #diaerie #interesting times here at the aerie stabbyfoxandrew household

[airenyah]

dunk saying he's never met anyone who likes hugging as much as joong does is making me laugh really hard as a very touchy-feely person myself bc like yeah. dunk has clearly never met me (and that's probably a good thing dfkkjdfkjd)

#no for real tho i'll be looking for any possible excuse to go get another hug from my friends #sometimes in my friend groups i'll go for a second goodbye hug once everyone else is done saying goodbye #everyone will be like ''but you've already hugged this person goodbye??'' and i'll be like ''SO??? CAN'T I GET ANOTHER HUG??? 😭'' #sometimes i don't even look for excuses to hug my friends sometimes i'll just straight up walk up to them and hug them out of the blue #it's worse when i'm really tired #i can't tell you the amound of times i've heard ''awww is airenyah tired again??'' on days i am really affectionate... kskfkgfd #anyway no i get it. i get joong #maybe that's why i enjoy them as a pair so much bc i just feel really represented lmaooo #airenyah plappert #joongdunk #รถทาเลนท์ #we have guests coming over in 5 mins and i'm only 4mins into the video oops #looks like i won't make it to the end of the show before the doorbell rings kjkjdf #i feel a strong urge to go hug my mom now ngl #also!! only the other day i sent my friend a message that went #''can i come over for a hug in the new year? 🥺'' #(my friend said yes 💃🏻) #(i don't even need to hang out with him tbh i'm happy to just show up at his door squeeze him for 5mins straight and leave again lol)

[lyricsandpapers]

Apologies to the One Mutual who is about to have All of my Tim Drake Thoughts. Didn’t even realize I sent you like 8 paragraph messages at like 9am until it happened

#lyric speaks #look i have a lot of feelings about tim drake #this was your mistake Mouse #I was already pretty parasocial commenting like 4-5 paragraphs on every one of your fics #and then you WILLINGLY gave me your tumblr after I bullied you about not having one #and like posting tumblr links in my fic comments #really it was over for you the second you said you thought i died #you activated my Tim Drake Complex where I immediately became attached and parasocial #showing up and breaking into your apartment like you’re Dick Grayson rn #anyways i sent Mouse like 8 messages about a Tim Drake CMV i wrote in my brain like 2 minutes becore #none of my irls are mentally ill enough abt Tim Drake #(though im working on it my best friend legit sent me 2 Tim Drake posts (he has never interact with DC)) #and I realized i can just tell Mouse all abt the Tim Drake Songs and Ideas they give me #anyways shout out to theresamouseinmyhouse you the real mvp #also go read thier Where The Bats and Birds Roost series #Ultimate Fav frfrfr

[kominfyrirkattarnef]

Look sometimes. A week is just for cleaning up the fuck ups you did when drunk off your ass on Saturday night. Fuck my life

#had a fight with someone whose close with my ex #told me some things I didn’t wanna hear #made out and propositioned a friend of mine who now thinks there’s something between u #gotta wesel my way outta sex with her #sent a drunk message to an old friend who took it a bit too seriously and wants a real conversatio #girl she ghosted me like three years ago bro

[voidimp]

hey um does anyone know of like. for writing purposes. if theres like a site that lists different recreational drugs & their effects lmao. need some inspiration for what kind of shit cameron gets into hdjdhs im sure theres something out there but i dont want to google it ← the paranoid

#yet again copypasting a message i sent to my friends on discord into a tumblr post #bc i realized having a wider audience would probably be more likely to get me an answer lmao #i almost forgot to delete the emoji. u want allen ? #but it wasnt even allen it was just his emoji id... #i will probably be making up fake ones for the most part but i would like to use real ones as a sort of like. base. if that makes sense

[timeisacephalopod]

I've kinda seen some pushback to the idea of representation in media and I don't necessarily think it's bad to point out actual rights are more important than Disney's thousandth first gay character that's fine, but I've had a LOT of people comment on my works about asexual characters and tell me what I wrote changed their life-and it's always that phrase- because they now have the language to describe what they feel. I've had people who ARENT ace or aro comment that what I wrote finally made a concept they didn't understand make sense, or that the way I explained things was interesting and enlightening and I'm kind of a mediocre writer who hasn't written anything in ages.

Like idk, if reading something from a writer who is fucking around and only somewhat talented can genuinely impact someone because they've not seen anything like them reflected back at them in life or media I don't think pushing for representation in media is as "needless" as some people seem to think and caring about that doesn't mean you don't care about more "important" (although if you think seeing people like you in media ISNT important it's because you already have that representation or are privileged enough to not care if you do, in which case maybe pipe down) stuff. Hell, I even got a Facebook message ages ago from someone who found a comment I left in an ace group about QPR's and what they meant to me and how I perceived them and the person no joke said what I wrote two years before they even found it changed their life forever because they finally knew what kind of relationship they actually wanted.

So like sure, of course there's always bigger fish to fry them diversity in media (you know, like diversity in real life lol) but I don't think it's as frivolous as some people are beginning to act like it is. At least not if you're an aspec person it's not, I STILL don't see ace characters almost ever and I'll bet my whole everything if I asked a writer of a show why they'd tell me that EVERYONE has to be in a sexual relationship and characters that aren't won't sell and are boring- I say this because in film school I had a teacher TELL ME every character needed to basically be sex obsessed and when I pointed out a GREAT MANY CHARACTERS are not revolved around sex (Supernatural stars two brothers, I pointed out) and when she asked if I had love interests I was like ??? That doesn't matter- using my aforementioned supernatural example almost all their love interests die or get mind wiped because at the end of the day that's not what the story was about. So actually I think writers who act like that teacher need like 50 reality checks, and representation in stories isn't unimportant and also support indie writers you'll probably find more funky shit there then Disney anyway lmao.

And also even the asexual characters I DO see in media don't remind me at all of myself even if I appreciate the effort, but they never feel real or genuine and their sexuality doesn't get a lot of exploration so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I actually could use more media focused on characters that I can genuinely see my sexuality reflected in in a meaningful and narratively impactful way because I've got nothing.

#winters ramblings #todd from bojack horseman im sure is SOMEONES version of asexuality but i dont see ANYTHING of myself in him #great character dont get me wrong but not relatable to me on any level including our shared sexuality #sex ed got a bit closer with their brief ace character although maybe she got more exploration in season three or four?? #the latest one i havent watched lmao. but being closer and having a moment wjere shes told shes not broken #while DEEPLY vindicating isnt necessarily all im looking for either #like i wamt a REAL character thats ace or aro or both thats written by people who UNDERSTAND what theyre writting #not just well meaning people who dont know what theyre doing its kind of tiring #also idk why theres no dating shows with gay men because reality dating shows are ALL ABOUT who fucks who and who gets together #gay men would be hooking up ALL OVER THE PLACE and the DRAMA youd think reality tv freaks would be SALIVATING #but no none of that lmao. just ru pauls drag race and thats great it is like its not my bag but people love it #back on yrack though the weord blowback representation is getting is strange and its VERY clear to me #the people writing those posts havent gotten dozens on dozens of messages from people like them who found their writing #and haf their life altered forever for the better because someone who KNOWS what theyre talking about wrote a character like them #and it opened doors they never knew existed. doesnt even need to happen with fiction either i had a friend i had in toronto #tell me the info i sent to her on being aromantic changed her life- THAT'S the phrase i keep getting thats TELLING- because it describefld #described** how shes felt her whole life but didnt have words for. how frivolous IS representation if im getting these messages? #not very i dont think if some rsndom indie fic writer who hadnt written anything substantial in years can change someones life #REPEATEDLY might i add. ive been getting a LOT of messages like this lately and seeing this new bramd of discourse latetly too #like maybe YALL have enough that you dont care anymore but speak for your fucking selves

[jelliedoodles]

people keep asking me if i stockpiled enough water for the hurricane… um. bestie. the water is coming to me? that’s like. the whole point.

#hurricane ian #just stand outside with a glass for a few minutes?? #the waters. right there yknow #real talk the only real hurricane prep i did was download a bunch of anime in case my wifi goes out #if you see me kuroko no basket posting later that means my wifi did in fact leave #also i sent this exact message to my friend earlier and he responded < stores hate this one simple trick!! >

[fyodorkitkat]

Suddenly hit with embarrassing memory +3 emotional damage

#i had a couple email pen pals through a school thing (so not my own internet friends) when i was like 11 #and an actual mailing pen pal #and the email pen pals i sent unhinged ranting too that was like. philosophical question stuff but ridiculous for a middle schooler #and then didnt understand why they stopped talking to me 🤦‍♂️ #the mail pen pal was through a language exchange but i was only in my second year of german so i couldnt write more than a couple short #paragraphs with some basic questions and i felt bad because she had sent me a couple pages about her pets and choir stuff #so i drew stuff for her too but i didnt have real skills so it was like eyes and ghosts and stuff #and she dropped me after that like she either dropped the program or requested a new pen pal 🥲 #i just didnt pick a new one i was like i should not communicate with strangers outside of message boards and aim chat rooms im unfit 😭🥲

[palmtreepalmtree]

Well I've eaten some comfort food and now I'm drowned in work, so I guess I'm just going to do that for a bit here. Bleh.

#just processing in real time on tumblr #no one has responded to my text message #i'm guessing the friend who sent it doesn't actually want to get into it #she just wants to be news bearer #and the other two probably haven't read it yet #and i wish they never had to #because they have other shit to deal with

[disneyprincessdxminatrix]

wallowing in self pity as an after work activity.

#I also watched tv and almost fell asleep #I woke up with a bad stomachache last night which kept me awake for a little over an hour before it got better #so I didn’t sleep enough and went to work #and then received a text that my boyfriend wouldn’t be home tonight cause he’s meeting from friends #and of course I’m not invited because one of his friends is my ex I keep shit taking about (rightfully I might add) #saw him for like one minute after his work before he left again #I’m really fucking sad rn still because as I told some friends #one of my Guinea pigs died just yesterday #and I’m tired and #I’m hungry #and yes my boyfriend offered to bring me food but I don’t even know when he will be back and he’s probably going to bring cake which isn’t #real dinner food anyway #my stuff #give it half an hour and I’ll be better I hope #maybe she least good enough to make myself something to eat #at least my cat his here he always comes when I’m crying #edit: I think the part about tonight that hurts the most is being invited but not being invited #one of the boys sent a message to the group chat if anyone wanted to join #and idk if all of them know #but my bf knows I won’t go anywhere near my ex #even though I haven’t seen one of the other friends there in a awhile and wouldn’t loved to see him #so it’s like #being invited #but not really #cause I can’t go there #I’d feel sick #I already do feel sick knowing he talks to this despicable piece of shit

[northlight14]

Advice for those who want any type of relationship with someone, romantic, platonic, whatever, send them your shower thoughts or 3am thoughts.

Trust me it works. I spent most of high school messaging my friend shit like “is lava wet?”, “Flight is just less impressive telekinesis” and “a bath is just a reverse boat” and now we’re queer platonic partners so clearly this works😂

And as a fun bonus, you get to be in a relationship with someone who’s as weird as you!

“But what if they’re just put off or think I’m weird?” I hear you ask. Well if that’s the case, they’re boring and not worth it and you should move on.

#also yes those are all real messages I sent my partner before we got together #and I stand by all of them😂 #you can make yourself fly using telekinesis as well as making other things fly! #if you only have flight tho that’s just telekinesis accept it only works on you. pathetic🙄😂 #also my friend googled it and apparently lava is considered wet. the more you know🤷 #north rambles #northsky #queerplatonic #relationship

[hartmannyoukaigirl]

the feeling of someone possibly having blackmail on you is so annoying

#i was 12 and stupid smh i really just had to tell them my real name and a few unique facts about myself irl #and then proceed to send alot of embarassing and bad texts #like wtf #and even still alot of them were like 'awww but we are your friends! why dont you tell us more ?? we know like nothing abt u' smh..... #unironic grooming 😔 #aaaa i wish i could delete every message i ever sent