#pada marriage is a mess | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

sapphyreopal5 · 1 month

Text

I posted before about Gen partaking in witchcraft here back on November 3, 2023 in the hopes that she had not dabbled into black magic while she was at it. Unfortunately, I was merely hopeful in making that statement when I made that post. I suspected she indeed has when I was making that statement but hadn't known enough about her to know for sure. In this podcast I made a post about a couple days ago Gen made, she made this statement:

6:15: Dave said "talk a little bit about the ways you have had to be creative in maintaining the relationship that you have, the love that you have with the distance that has historically existed and the complexity of what it means to do the work that you both do. To which Gen responded "yeah I think it's finding the little things and I always enjoyed having a long distance relationship with him. It's kind of silly 'cause like it's in some ways it's like this vacation you have when you're together and then they're gone and so it's almost like super- not superficial but but it's not realistic and when we were apart, what I would do is create boxes. I mean he still has this box from um when we first met he was a port drinker. And he had a bottle of this Pinto port that he loved and so I took the box and I put in you know love letters and n' what have you and then once we had kids you know it obviously gets a little more complicated and you're strapped but just making that time. It's so silly but it's work and you have to treat it as such but without it becoming monotonous I guess.

7:25 (con't from above) I'm finding creativity in that work and you have to work on, on that relationship and um find creative ways to 'cause you know especially after the two of use have been together for 12 years, we're really different people and you grow at different times and sometimes you are like "I really don't like you right now" and then the other person grows in a different direction and you kind of have to find the balance and that creativity to come back together and that commonality to come back together and you know..."

Ladies and gentlemen, what she is describing above here is in fact a type of spell, specifically a box spell. It also seems it is a type of "love spell" if you will based on the fact Gen uses these to "keep the relationship alive" since this is the context in which she discussed this "creative way to keep the marriage alive" with Dave Hollis. According to this site as an overview of what box spells are, "A spell box is, well, a box that is intended for spells. It’s quite simple. You choose a box, put ingredients inside that correspond with your intent, put a lid on and voila! Your spell is contained and therefore will continue work until you disassemble the box. The ritual to set the spell into motion be as elaborate or simple as you wish. I like to write my intent on a little piece of parchment paper, which I then fold neatly, draw a sigil on the outside and place in the bottom of the box. Then I will add crystals and herbs, sometimes trinkets like bracelet charms or make clay discs or figures especially for the spell. I have two subcategories of spell boxes – a single purpose or theme."

As an overview of how love spells work which I derived from this website here, "You can already take a wild guess on what a love spell does. It is supposed to help you attract love. You need to remember one important thing: love spells are not going to make someone fall in love with you to the point that they never want to leave. A spell to make a man love you will help your paths cross. You can build a stronger connection than what you have right now. It will still be up to you to ensure that the relationship will last. Love magic is going to work better when an initial attraction is already there. This means that spells will have a higher chance of working if your crush already likes you back. It will also work better if your ex has always wanted to get back together with you. The person is just waiting for an opening to get back into your life. Spells to bring back a lover will need proper connection and genuine care or love to work."

Because Gen used a box that Jared had for one of her boxes along with letters they had written, photos, etc., there are elements of sympathetic magic. A synopsis of how sympathetic magic works and what it is: "Frazer broke down the idea further into two distinct parts: The Law of Similarity and the Law of Contact/Contagion. He said,

“From the first of these principles, namely the Law of Similarity, the magician infers that he can produce any effect he desires merely by imitating it: from the second he infers that whatever he does to a material object will affect equally the person with whom the object was once in contact, whether it formed part of his body or not.”

As you can see, it seems that Gen indirectly admitted to using boxes to conjure a love relationship between her and Jared and to "keep the relationship going". Call it taking things out of context if you want and perhaps she doesn't/didn't know this is technically witchcraft. It is not however about knowing whether or not this is witchcraft so much as it is about intent. Her purpose of making these boxes from the get go as straight from the horses mouth was as a creative way to keep the marriage and relationship going between them.

Also, I initially posted this J2 magazine interview "A Walk on the Dark Side" back on Nov 18, 2023. A couple of quotes from other posts of mine I found from various sources (podcasts, magazine interviews, etc.) looking back should be of great interest given this context. This one comes from that J2 magazine interview "A Walk on the Dark Side": "Ever since we learned that Sam had demon-given powers, fans have been wondering Just how far the writers will take his journey to the dark side. Not that long ago, many people - including Padalecki himself - assumed that Sam and Ruby would never hook up. He said he didn't think that storyline would pan out. Of course, the writers did go there. "I thought it was interesting," Padalecki reflects. “Supernatural is not, and never has been - and hopefully never will be - a show about sex and lust and all of that kind of stuff that you expect on teen melodramas." The episode in reference here is Season 4 episode 9 "I Know What You Did Last Summer". Hmm, seems to me he didn't quite have the same excited response to being asked about this scene in comparison to Gen.

She said about this sex scene also in a Supernatural Magazine interview in response to the question "I'm sure you protested when you had to kiss Jared!" to which she said: "I know! I’m going to get roasted! I have a great sex scene with him [in I Know What You Did Last Summer]". According to this filming schedule, this took place sometime in Fall 2009. I also had read somewhere it took on average between 8-10 days to film an episode and I believe they had weekends off. With this being said, it seems to me that this was a few episodes before Thanksgiving where they had the whole week off (November 26, 2009). Therefore, we can guess that it was about a month and a halfish or so before Thanksgiving so this would put it probably between the 2nd and 3rd week of October or so. This therefore means it was about a month and a half before they became "official" in terms of dating according to this timeline post where I have multiple sources linking to their said relationship timeline. Which by the way things moved WAY too fast, especially given Jared had not too long before meeting Gen broken up with Sandy. Hmmm...

3 days after I posted the J2 interview aforementioned above, I noticed a story Gen made where she was reading a particular book and reblogged it with that book and some screenshots of different stories pertaining to the book. I reblogged it on Nov 21, 2023 specifically in light of a witchcraft themed book called "The Lost Apothecary" I spotted that Gen made a post while reading in her Instagram story from this day, 3 days after I shared that J2 interview. Interestingly enough about this book, the synposis of the book says via the first thing that shows up on Google: "A female apothecary secretly dispenses poisons to liberate women from the men who have wronged them - setting three lives across centuries on a dangerous collision course. Rule #1: The poison must never be used to harm another woman." As one of my good friends mentioned in context of the show itself: "She's poison Sam she's manipulating you!" (in reference to drinking Ruby's blood and her manipulating him). Life imitating art perhaps? Well another interesting tidbit, this type of phrase was used in that same Rise Together Podcast I mentioned before but in the context of Gen's role as Kris Furillo (and yes the host Dave admitted he never saw Supernatural but perhaps he should). Oh if only Dave realized just how much art really does imitate art.....

21:20 Dave mentions Gen's first role as Kris Furillo who "was a troubled teen that worked at a horse ranch and as you said, you were born in LA, moved to Montana and then Sun Valley. It feels a little bit like art imitating life how does the saying go? I don't know but outside of the troubled teen part your career feels like it's mirrored a little bit with some of the moves you've made". Gen agreed saying "Yeah absolutely. You know what the craziest part is that so I was born in the Bay area and the same mountain. So this girl Kris Furillo steals this horse, she's sent to juvie or something and ends up going on this horse on this crazy ride up Mount Diablo and that's where I lived. So it's so crazy to be reenacting this story." She did say also "I don't know if I'm that troubled but I feel I felt the role at that time I think." She mentioned talking to Nicole and doing a rewatch and "reviving the show or something".

Yet another quote from that Rise Together Podcast post I made that should be of great concern here:

"26:25 Dave asked Gen what it's like joining a show and then creating a life with them. He also was wondering about what it's like working with Jared while married and such. Probably the very best part of this whole thing in my opinion and what really made me want to watch this podcast from that post you shared Anon: "I was just talking to someone about this that my favorite relationship with him is a work relationship. Sometimes it's hard to be married to him because he's like, Jared is so interesting because he's so analytical. I mean my husband, I'm going to toot his horn because he's literally one of the smartest human beings I've ever met in my life and it's annoying because he will correct you on words you think he didn't even know. I have a book of SAT words just because I'm like I am going to get him. And so I'll just casually talk about something and use a crazy word in a sentence and he'll be like well you pronounced it incorrectly. It's so frustrating. Also in our marriage he's very giving and emotional and supportive. He's supportive in everything that I've done and I feel really lucky and grateful. I think even more so when it comes to work he is your biggest cheerleader and it's going to be a lot of time together. But funny enough, I think we'll be better at work than sometimes we are at home. Because I'm like, this is how the kids are, this is how I like them, this is the order that I like things in. And it's hard for me to let go I think, at home. but at work, it's just a really nice exchange and I feel really lucky, and he'll sit there too. If he's not working, he'll take it, pull up a chair and talk on the phone and watch at me and I can hear him bragging about me and whether he's doing it for my benefit I don't know but it makes me feel good and I feel really lucky that he does stuff like that."

Is it possible Gen used some kind of witchcraft to make this hookup scene become part of the script? Is it also possible she has used it in other unpleasant ways as well (ex. the car accident from April 2022, the 2015 breakdown while in Geneva alone)? Can't prove it for sure nor can we say when exactly she got that used up pinto box but I can say to grab a box like that when first dating tells me she had some magical intentions with Jared, not to mention is kind of creepy no offense ha ha. I 100% believe she has used it to maintain their "relationship" like she said about making those boxes. Then again if she really doesn't like him being at home that much, maybe she just wants his estate and the lifestyle his money provides(?).

#anti genevieve #black magic #love spells #supernatural #spn family #gen padalecki #jared padalecki #pada marriage is a mess #box spells #sympathetic magic

12 notes · View notes

amy8886 · 1 year

Text

GUYS…is this a bad pic or did something weird happen to Jared’s face? Almost like he got injections or too much time in the O2 Chamber perhaps?? Jensen seems to be aging really well. Misha looks older but it seems organic.

#anti genevieve #pada marriage is a mess #anti jared x genevieve #anti jared padalecki stans #jared critical #anti jared stans

18 notes · View notes

random-dot · 2 years

Text

And we're back to the same old.

The frog kween has birthday and Jared is celebrating her, by putting himself down as much as he can.

To my surprise were there quite a few fans who finally got sick about that toxic procedure and simply called it out^^

Found even one on Instagram

I mean we all do put ourselves down from time to time. It's a normal thing to do

But it's surprising how much he does that when she is included 😳 He puts her on such a high pose, that it seems unhealthy 🤷🏼

#dot rants #anti genevieve #anti gen #antigen #pada marriage is a mess #anti gen x jared

33 notes · View notes

everythingthemoontouches · 3 years

Note

Hiii can I also get a furure spouse reading with my chart if you don't mind

I really loved the one I saw that was done. It was so detailed and a fun read

This is my lagna chart btw

Dry, mercurial humor.

Revati like tendencies. They're smart, intelligent and courageous.

Revati women are said to be projected as man stealers.He could have had a string of flirtationships in the past.

Wise. Experienced. Empathic. Emotional intelligence is high. He is good with people. Could also be really funny and nice to be around.

With your Moon (Darakarka) in Uttara phalguni I feel this future spouse is someone super righteous and honest. Like if they mess up they'll be the first one to raise their hand and say I goofed up, I'm sorry, let's fix it this way. (or be open to constructive criticism)

This is someone who respects and obeys their elders. Their family probably is really important to them and they seek good counsel.

Since your moon is in the first house you're probably really comfortable dealing with your emotions, even if you may overthink them a little. However this FS is going to be someone who is considerate and takes your feelings into account. He is not gonna dismiss them as being overtly sensitive or sentimental. He is vocal about his love and quite affectionate. He could also show his love for you by helping out around the house, or by little selfless acts of service. I think he could be the one to approach you.

7th house Revati : they're guiless, hate looking at maps or remembering routes and could like to not plan their day too much.

This is someone who is able to make a comfortable living but is not necessarily interested in being overtly wealthy. They have a quiet sense of authority.

This could be someone who has leadership roles thrust upon them. He sees himself as bossy and has probably spent several lifetimes in a community leader role. They don't really aspire to be powerful. (Ketu conjunct sun.)

7th lord in jyestha : he probably had a difficult childhood, learned not to trust people early on. Must do everything himself kind of attitude. Respectable image. Divinely protected. Sends you dirty texts. Posessive +passionate. Communication / banter could be his aphrodisiac. Mercury ruled Nakshatra, venus pada. He would always make time for you. May gave a sense of familiarity when you first meet. You guys would share Deep, soulful connection. Lots of water sign energy. They feel very protective of you.

Jupiter in Ashlesha

He could monitor you quite closely, perhaps be a little insecure when it comes to you. I think they need to be able to trust you. This is someone who probably puts their partner first and would want you to do the same for them. I think foreplay could last for hours with them. He'd be really posessive and have trouble letting things (past hurts) go. Could be a counselor of some kind.or work in an advisory role. He could trigger a deeper awakening in you. Also I believe marriage would help you expand your network circles but also bring people who envy you.

He is definitely ruled by his feelings. Problems may arise if you guys hold different opinions because then it turns into a war of who is in the right? Or just hurt feelings on both sides. Since it is your moon I'm guessing you'd be the kinder one.

As for where you guys could meet, possibly a swanky hotel / boardroom / online dating app.

Also, u might want to send in your D9?

#Uttara phalguni moon #Moon darakarka #D1 future spouse reading #Future spouse

16 notes · View notes

msgrumpygills · 3 years

Note

I think Walker is going downhill and when it goes fully downhill, Jared and Gen will not be able to pull their fake marriage/family thing anymore. It's a ticking bomb. I think it will be truly the end of it. Someone has to snap Jared out off of his mindset and bubble ASAP. I don't even like or respect him, but I have my eyes and I recognize the logical choices here. The guy needs to open his eyes for his own (and for everyone else's) good. Instead of pulling Jensen into this mess, how about focusing on Micki/Lindsey? How about just cutting the bullshit with Gen already, so that we can focus on the real work?

I truly think that Jar and Gen deserve each other, they both are bad and their relationship will soon fall apart for that very same reason. Jar seems extremely unhappy almost all the time, it's like he's trying his best to keep away from his ''home''. He seems more happy with his friends than he's at home&with his family.

Maybe that's why he's so obsessed with this ''family'' stuff. Walkerfamily, SPNfamily, SomethingsomethingFamily. He can't have it at home because he doesn't feel like it, so he has to find a real 'family' elsewhere.

You know I’m sure there are people who thought this, but maybe this was a last ditch effort to try and convince people that their marriage is great. I think even fans were starting to see that the marriage looked staged and forced and they were seeing that Jared isn’t as great a father or husband as he claims. This was probably just a push to try and use some more smoke and mirrors.

I’m pretty sure a lot of people called it when they announced Gen as the dead wife, that he’d make it all about her and try to make her a bigger deal than she needs to be and boy did he deliver! If he insisted on having Gen play the dead wife, he still should have focused on Walker/Micki, the two STARS. But he was too busy trying to shove his shit marriage down everyone’s throat and look what happened.

I used to think that Jared was trapped in his marriage and needed to be saved, but the more he shows his true colors, the more I realize that they deserve each other. They’re both selfish, narcissistic, greedy pigs who put money and themselves over anything else, especially the well being of their kids. I think that if they did end up calling it quits, it would be a nasty divorce and there would be a lot of attempts at character assassination (not that either of them need to try too hard at that).

You might be onto something about the family thing! I still stand by the fact that SPN Family was made organically and Jared saw how well it worked and is trying to cash in on that same shtick by trying to make fetch happen with everything he does. Surprised he hasn’t tried to make Pada Family a thing, but we know he doesn’t give a shit about that family.

#grumpy answers #jared padalecki #Anonymous

3 notes · View notes

astrocenter · 3 years

Text

Jupiter in Capricorn (Makkar) in Transit – Article No Third

Jupiter will enter in to Capricorn (Makkar ) sign from Sagittarius on 20th November,2020 till 06/04/2021 at 13.23 PM in Uttrashad Nakshatra Pada 2 and again from 14/09/2021 till 19/11/2021.

From 06/04/2021 till 13/09/2021 the Jupiter will transit in Aquarius.

The transit of Jupiter is auspicious from Natal Moon 2nd, 5th, 9th and 11th.

But 7th it gives mixed results.

This transit will have generally good results except a few signs that will not get the desired results during this transit depending upon the Ascendant or Moon sign of the native. Jupiter represents abundance and vastness results are auspicious. Jupiter has the power to reduce the malefic impact of stars when have aspect on malefic stars.

Effect of Jupiter transition from Natal Moon in different signs:-

Effect on Libra Sign:-Dhan nash-money loss

The transit of Jupiter from natal Moon Libra is fourth from Libra gives average results.

Jupiter’s transit in the 4th house may give fear of injuries due to accidents. Native may face economic problems loss of money and vehicles, excess expenditures and lot of struggle.Native remain unrest and feel loss of peace. A trouble from enemies, loss of money and glow.Native is forced to leave the house under unavoidable circumstances. Fear of authorities and native may not enjoy the comforts of land/properties and family.

Effect on Scorpio sign: - Progress for money only

The transit of Jupiter is third from Scorpio Natal Moon gives mixed results. Money gains but sudden rise in expenditures. Problems and troubles in body of near dear friends/brothers. Domestic complications. Mess in job and threat of losing job. Opposition from colleagues and internal politics in job..No gains in job. Bad time for friends ,loss of money and respect.

Effect on Sagittarius:-Auspicious

The transit of Jupiter second from the Natal Moon gives auspicious resuts.

The transit of Jupiter is second from Sagittarius Natal Moon is auspicious. Expenditure on religious activities. Money gains and opportunities of success and success in tasks.

Jupiter’s transit through the 2nd house makes an individual economically strong. Increase in income can be accompanied by a rise in expenditure. As a result, he may continue to remain mentally disturbed. The individual may also have an impressive and influential personality. He will gain respect and honor in the society and happiness from his children but the overall happiness level from the family will be average. Property related decisions will also be beneficial for him. During this phase the individual will be more inclined towards spirituality and religious work, because Jupiter represents religion.

Enemies come for compromise and nothing to be done against enemies, reputation, position and status of native increases, native interest in generosity and donations increases, increase in savings and cash certificates, and increase in the comforts of Katumbh.

In the 2nd house, gain wealth, family happiness, good results and gain due to speech

Effect on Capricorn: - Inauspicious

Debilitated Jupiter in natal Moon-lagna gives inauspicious results. Lot of struggle and hard work to earn sufficient money to maintain expenditures. Unpleasant less in family atmosphere.The survival is after struggle. Gains of money, interest in religious activities but pressure of high expenditure. The placement of Jupiter in Lagan gives mental tensions and bad health. Pressure on mind due to more thinking. Conflicts with life partner may remain.

Effect on Aquarius:-Inauspiciou

sJupiter will transit 12th from the Natal Moon and transit is inauspicious.

Native face lot of struggle, obstacles, hurdles and troubles. Native face troubles in traveling and high expenditures.Defame from trusted friends.Loss of virtues and bad health.

Effect on Pisces:-Money gains

Successful and new plannings.Money gains and rise in luck. The transit of Jupiter from Aquarius is auspicious and gives good results.

Sudden gains and chances of success and elevations, money,wealth,land, vehicles comforts in this period, success in education, planning, mission and assignments/ projects.

Native gains in money, position, status, victory over enemies, success in every tasks, chances of marriages and birth of male child, promotion and elevations is service, get comforts of life and enjoyments, interest in auspicious tasks and get comforts of male child, favor from authorities. In the 11th house, child-birth, gain of position and honor (promotion at work) and many auspicious results.

You will also get success in your field of education and can also get admitted in a good institute. You can also get support from your siblings, but their can be some mental tensions also. Some opportunities will arise in front of you where you can showcase your talents in a better way.

Parmod Kumar-Ex AGM Punjab National Bank

PK Astrocenter-Rajpura

A Banker turned Astrologer. I research and practice Astrology, Numerology, Palmistry and face readings (Psychic)-Parmod Kumar Known as PK Astrocenter.

For astrological remedies please email at [email protected] or post your query at http://pkastrocenter.com/horoscopeanalysis.You may join with me face book parmod kumar, Group Pk Astrocenter

0 notes

dua-layar · 4 years

Text

Komitmen?

Beberapa terakhir, aku terlalu banyak disibukkan dengan berpikir.

mungkin harus aku ralat: aku banyak berpikir. terutama tentang hidup dan filosofi yang terkandung di dalamnya. terutama setelah aku mengalami rasa patah hati dan kecewa. sepertinya otakku tak henti-hentinya mencari alasan-alasan logis yang dapat menjelaskan kenapa aku merasa seperti ini.

kali ini aku ingin bicara sedikit tentang the key of a long term relationship such as marriage : Commitment

terkait dengan komitmen ini, bisa jadi aku sendiri tidak belum memiliki contoh yang cukup yang bisa menjelaskan seperti apa komitmen itu, dan apa kunci dari komitmen itu sendiri yaaa mengingat my parents’ marriage is such a complete mess, dan aku tidak pernah berpacaran lebih dari 2 tahun lamanya.

tapi tentunya aku melihat teman-temanku yang orang tuanya terlihat sangat romantis bahkan di usia pernikahan yang sudah hampir seperempat abad. aku juga melihat teman-temanku yang berpacaran dari SMA dan berlabuh di hubungan perkawinan. aku juga melihat beberapa tokoh yang selalu menunjukkan rasa cintanya kepada istrinya walaupun mereka sudah di posisi puncak seperti presiden Obama dengan michelle obama atau tentunya kita semua masih ingat betapa terpukulnya presiden SBY ketika istrinya ibu Ani yudhoyono meninggal dunia. apa yang membuat mereka semua bertahan pada hubungannya? tentu saja jawabannya adalah komitmen.

lalu apa kunci dari komitmen itu sendiri?

pikiranku dulu, aku selalu menyetarakan komitmen dengan rasa cinta, rasa setia, rasa ingin saling mengasihi. tapi setelah aku dihantam dengan permasalahan macam2 khususnya di percintaan, aku sadar kalau komitmen itu bukan soal itu. tidak ada kaitannya antara komitmen dengan cinta. itu lah kenapa, sekarang pun aku lebih paham dengan konsep ta’aruf, dan kenapa itu baik (yang nantinya akan ku bahas di bawah). karena ternyata, pernikahan itu bukan soal menye menye perasaan. pun kalau ada, sebenarnya perasaan dan cinta itu bukan pondasi utama pernikahan, tapi ya itu komitmen.

seseorang bisa saja jatuh cinta dengan orang lain, tanpa mau berkomitmen. dan sebaliknya, seseorang bisa saja mau berkomitmen, tanpa perasaan cinta.

manusia pada dasarnya adalah individu egois yang memiliki kelebihan dan kekurangan. kebetulan, di sisi yang lain, manusia itu adalah makhluk sosial yang tentunya tidak dapat hidup tanpa manusia yang lainnya. manusia butuh manusia lain untuk memenuhi kebutuhannya (lihat konsep egoisnya kan?). dalam pemenuhan kebutuhan ini maka konstruksi sosial, agama, maupun budaya mengakomodir dengan adanya konsep “pernikahan” dimana seorang manusia laki-laki dan perempuan (atau sekarang sudah lebih berkembang dengan pernikahan sesama jenis yang tentunya tidak akan kubahas disini) membangun institusinya tersendiri untuk memenuhi kebutuhan satu sama lain baik secara fisik maupun mental, dan apabila diperlukan maka mereka meneruskan keturunan mereka. sayangnya, tidak ada satupun manusia yang sempurna. pastinya ada sifat dari suami yang menjengkelkan si istri, begitupun sebaliknya. meski demikian, mereka sudah membuat suatu ikatan yang memiliki akibat tanggung jawab baik dari segi agama, sosial budaya maupun hukum. dari institusi ini diusahakan agar kedua belah pihak akan bertahan hingga maut memisahkan, apapun konsekuensinya (meskipun ada mekanisme perceraian apabila institusi ini gagal dipertahankan).

So what are you trying to say?

This is the funny thing: the key of commitment is actually compromize. how is that so?

sesungguhnya pasti ada titik dimana seorang manusia tidak tahan dengan manusia lainnya karena perbedaan yang dimiliki oleh satu sama lain. just face it: tidak ada manusia yang 100% sempurna sehingga selalu berlaku baik. mungkin bisa saja seseorang muak dengan pasangannya yang memiliki banyak sekali kekurangan. akan tetapi, pasangan yang menginginkan untuk berkomitmen akan mati-matian saling berkompromi atas kekurangan-kekurangan tersebut. bagi mereka yang sudah lelah berkompromi? ya mereka akan menyerah dan berhenti berkomitmen. lantas apa yang sekiranya membuat pasangan akan terus berkomitmen? jawabannya adalah kesamaan nilai dan visi. ketika ada pasangan yang memiliki nilai dan visi hidup yang sama, pasti mereka akan terus mempertahankan hubungannya. berkomitmen dengan cara kompromi terus menerus. karena mereka berdua sadar bahwa keduanya adalah manusia. tidak sempurna. tapi mereka punya tujuan hidup yang sama. maka mereka akan berkomitmen untuk terus mempertahankan hubungannya, demi meraih tujuan tersebut.

seorang pengacara senior terkenal di Jakarta, melalui akun instagramnya menampilkan ia dikerumuni dengan perempuan2 muda cantik. apakah istrinya mengetahuinya? ya tentu. tapi apakah mereka berdua masih tetap pada pernikahan mereka? iya jelas. bertahan karena si istri tau kalau suaminya memang memiliki perangai seperti itu. maka mereka berkompromi untuk tetap komit dalam melanjutkan pernikahannya dan meraih apa saja yang menjadi tujuannya. nah ini mungkin baru satu kasus. mungkin ada jutaan kasus lain yang akhirnya berujung pada berkompromi satu sama lain agar sama-sama berkomitmen untuk melanjutkan pernikahan mereka.

maka dari itu, setelah beberapa kali aku mendengar lagu Mamma Mia yang dinyanyikan oleh grup ABBA, aku benar-benar tidak paham bagaimana mungkin lirik tentang hubungan toksik seperti ini dinyanyikan dengan nada yang riang seperti ini? tentu saja karena, bisa jadi si pelantun lirik lagu ini sudah menemukan nilai dan visi yang sama dengan orang yang mematahkan hatinya. sesederhana itu.

dulu pun menurutku konsep taaruf itu tidak masuk akal. bagaimana mungkin seseorang yang tidak saling kenal sebelumnya, hanya dengan berkenalan sebentar sambil berbincang-bincang mengenai satu dan lain hal lalu voila! menikahlah mereka????

tapi sekarang aku paham kalau konsep taaruf itu baik, asalkan kedua pihak yang melakukan ta’aruf itu benar-benar memanfaatkan momen perkenalan dengan sebaik mungkin dengan cara mengkritisi satu sama lain untuk memastikan bahwa keduanya memiliki nilai dan visi hidup yang sama. tidak akan ada patah hati karena disini semuanya menggunakan logika, dan bukan perasaan. tidak akan ada perasaan sakit hati karena obral janji atau diselingkuhi atau dibohongi. kalau memang tidak sejalan, ya sudah. selesai. tidak perlu dilanjutkan lagi taarufnya.

meski demikian, apakah aku menyalahkan mereka yang memutuskan untuk berpacaran terlebih dahulu? ya tentu saja tidak. ingin menjalin hubungan dengan calon suami/istri melalui taaruf atau berpacaran, itu adalah pilihan masing-masing individu. hanya saja, pastikan bahwa kamu dan pasanganmu memiliki nilai dan visi yang sama dalam hidup. supaya? tentu saja supaya mudah menjalani hubungan secara jangka panjang. tentu saja supaya lebih mudah untuk menjalani komitmen berhubungan.

dan tentu saja dengan komitmen kuat yang dimiliki akan memudahkan keduanya untuk saling berkompromi dalam mengatasi kekurangan satu sama lain

#cinta #komitmen #taaruf #islam

0 notes

nedostajeminasaljubavmila · 5 years

Text

A properly decorated dining room can actually impress visitors at a meal get together. China Low-cost Economical dining chair protective addresses For Wholesale. Prohibition of Mixed Marriages Amendment Act: Any human being who domiciled in South Africa, but enters into marriage outside the nation, and are not able to be solemnized in just the nation, these marriage will be void in South Africa.

In this (my 4th) installment, I am basically going to highlight the French Nation style - a person which is hard to acquire Review of Wayfair 's Ashley Furniture Commercial 2019 at DEFINITELY good price ranges - they are just that wonderful. Aroma harum dari tubuhnya menusuk ke dalam hidung ku membuatkan aku merasa tenang. Elombe was at the forefront in aiding the ANC and extending the struggle of the people of South Africa into the community of Harlem. Aku segera memperhebatkan serangan ku. Tidak lama kemudian aku merasai sedikit ketengangan pada otot-otot pehanya. Aku melepaskan bibir hanna untuk mencari sasaran lain. Aku segera mencapai buah dadanya lalu meramas-ramasnya. This is a actuality that is occuring daily and heard by the Africans of South Africa hurled at them by their African neighbors north of South Africa. Listed here are some strategies of what can be finished with your sofas, chairs, or footstools driving different fabrics. A tablecloth covering a very long table helps make a fantastic a buffet-design and style table setting. Inquire your travel agent at the time of booking to request a room on the minute flooring with a king size bed and around the seashore. They by some means, conveniently left-out the guidelines and the authorized and the draconian edicts and processes, as were carried out to the people of African ancestry, which were being, in quite a few ways, an expression of social handle. Dining Room Chair Slipcovers - Greater Properties and Gardens Dress up the dining room or kitchen with slipcovers for your chairs. I embrace and respect timeless "common" & the "will not mess with it if it is really not broke" mantra - However, the material marketplace is fickle and it really is an component of structure that can indeed be tweaked with no looking trendy. Sheraton layout furniture requires lightweight rectilinear paperwork, driving satinwood , mahogany and tulipwood, sycamore and rosewood for inlaid decorations, though painted finishes and brass fittings are also to be identified. Numerous times when we have appear back to the home following darkish we have spotted a as a substitute old showing female with her hair up in a bun hunting out the kitchen window despite the fact that the property was securely locked when we left. These cushions are loaded with polyfill and their addresses are challenging, rip-proof and water-proof. Uncle samy memeluk ku kemas untuk mengelakkan aku terjatuh sehingga aku dapat rasakan batang zakar nya tegang itu tepat menikam faraj ku yang masih ditutupi dengan kain yang ku pakai.

0 notes

mctvcker · 5 years

Text

A perfectly adorned dining room can definitely impress visitors at a meal bash. China Affordable Economical dining chair protective addresses For Wholesale. Prohibition of Blended Marriages Amendment Act: Any individual who domiciled in South Africa, but enters into marriage outside the place, and cannot be solemnized within just the place, these marriage will be void in South Africa.

Generally the seat of dining room chair arrives in suitable sizing of 42 cm quadrilateral but the dimensions can also be as per the need. This mist of black started Small Kitchen Island Lighting Ideas to evolve from the bedroom door in front of me and lingered there for a couple of seconds before spreading across the wardrobes to the side of my bed. Elombe was at the forefront in supporting the ANC and extending the struggle of the people of South Africa into the general public of Harlem. Aku segera memperhebatkan serangan ku. Tidak lama kemudian aku merasai sedikit ketengangan pada otot-otot pehanya. Aku melepaskan bibir hanna untuk mencari sasaran lain. Aku segera mencapai buah dadanya lalu meramas-ramasnya. This is a truth which is occuring each day and read by the Africans of South Africa hurled at them by their African neighbors north of South Africa. In this article are some strategies of what can be finished with your sofas, chairs, or footstools driving distinctive fabrics. Also, even though the dining table is probably to be in the Well being area (heart of the room), strategy the seat covers in the colors of the energy seat. The positions of electricity which they occupy in the African earth allow them to act autocratically to other Africans, in particular when they have the assist of the White community. Dining Room Chair Slipcovers - Far better Households and Gardens Costume up the dining room or kitchen with slipcovers for your chairs. I embrace and respect timeless "basic" & the "really don't mess with it if it is really not broke" mantra - But, the material industry is fickle and it is really an component of layout that can indeed be tweaked with out searching trendy. Jari ku meneroka semakin jauh, menyentuh pula belahan vaginanya yang sudah basah dan licin. I adore the white painted floorboards and the bed with it's beautiful feminine curves. Formal Dining Room Sets Formal Dining Table and Chairs Absolutely free. The key drawback to lighter outdoor home furniture is the probability of furnishings pieces blowing all around on very windy days. These cushions are crammed with polyfill and their covers are hard, rip-proof and waterproof. Uncle samy memeluk ku kemas untuk mengelakkan aku terjatuh sehingga aku dapat rasakan batang zakar nya tegang itu tepat menikam faraj ku yang masih ditutupi dengan kain yang ku pakai.

0 notes

nest-raider · 5 years

Text

A properly decorated dining room can seriously impress company at a meal celebration. China Affordable Economical dining chair protective addresses For Wholesale. Prohibition of Merged Marriages Amendment Act: Any individual who domiciled in South Africa, but enters into marriage exterior the nation, and are not able to be solemnized in the nation, this kind of marriage will be void in South Africa.

In this (my 4th) installment, I am just viewing highlight the French Country structure - one which is hard to get Best Price SplitBack Sleeper Sofa By Innovation Living Office Furniture Trends 2019 at DEFINITELY high-quality selling prices - they are just that amazing. Aroma harum dari tubuhnya menusuk ke dalam hidung ku membuatkan aku merasa tenang. Elombe was at the forefront in supporting the ANC and extending the struggle of the folks of South Africa into the general public of Harlem. Aku segera memperhebatkan serangan ku. Tidak lama kemudian aku merasai sedikit ketengangan pada otot-otot pehanya. Aku melepaskan bibir hanna untuk mencari sasaran lain. Hand-tied coil springs are a high-quality element I look for in all the pieces I buy and use it to gauge all round good quality if the label is missing. The big Victorian desk was priced at $395, the table at $195 and the chairs at $195 (every single). Cukup sekadar memagut dan menghisap bibirnya. In point, there are special travel pleasant chairs, which are simple to use, fold compactly and open conveniently to gain meal moments comfy. Dressing your tables with beautiful table linens is the most dramatic way to transform the ambience of your prevalence space and get paid a personalized statement with magnificence, style, and colour. Dining Room Chair Slipcovers - Improved Households and Gardens Costume up the dining room or kitchen with slipcovers for your chairs. I embrace and respect timeless "classic" & the "will not mess with it if it is really not broke" mantra - However, the fabric market is fickle and it can be an factor of design and style that can indeed be tweaked without hunting trendy. Really worth a daylight take a look at any time of the calendar year, Oak Hill Cemetery is primarily attractive through this sundown stroll. Let me beg of you, my dear African brethren, to feel very minimal of your bondage in this life; for you're considering of it's going to do you no fantastic. Agree chairs with kiln-dried hardwood frames, double-doweled joints, hand-tied coil springs and high density foam padding. Formal Dining Room Sets, with sleek contemporary lines or fine common detailing, elegantly created and to be the centerpiece of your dining room and formal.

0 notes

sapphyreopal5 · 1 month

Note

https://www.tumblr.com/brookesallow/745497230415413248/ouch-these-are-all-genevieve-talking-if-you-want

Hi there I was just curious if you’ve heard this podcast and what your thoughts are on it

Hello Anon, thank you for the ask. I managed to find the podcast with Gen and Dave Hollis you mentioned, which is in this link here. This aired on 11/5/2020. I see the episode number is 119 and is titled "The Benefits of Slowing Down and Focusing on What Matters- with Gen Padalecki". A good friend of mine showed me that post and it really caught my attention based on the things I've been seeing in my divination readings, my personal observations, other posts like that one and others I have caught wind of here on Tumblr, etc. I'm going to give time stamps of some of the highlights I feel are worth sharing prior to discussing my thoughts on things.

2:10 Dave asked Gen what exactly makes her tick, how she got to where she is, and asked her to tell people "who the heck you are". "It's loaded um and I like it. That's such a great question because I feel like I'm coming into my own all of the sudden and so I feel that couldn't have come at a better time. I feel like I had this tough exterior kind of growing up but like internally had to be this good girl and you know I feel like now 39, 3 kids and I feel like what feeds me is being completely honest about my feelings and using my words to express myself. Not that I wouldn't but like I say to my kids (was a little hard to understand her here so I could be wrong about this portion) just being completely honest about my feelings and expressing that and I think what really makes me tick is finding ways that I can find happiness and for me that's my children who I didn't realize how much joy and insane love they bring to me and my husband. I also find little things like I love to read. I've just relearned how to read essentially through COVID and I am, it brings me so much joy and walking in nature and being outside, I'm really active. So things that really feed me and stimulate me and um, make me feel good. I feel like I've turned them. I don't know, you pay it forward. You know, you bring that energy with you."

4:30 (in the context of Dave and her discovering what really matters to them the most continuing from the last question): "This is the first time I lived with my husband. I know that sounds really crazy but my husband had been filming a TV show for 15 years in Vancouver so when all of this started you know he came down here. He had 2 episodes left and then that was the completion of the series. Personally, it meant that I had to live with him and deal with coparenting which was really stressful like the thought of it. And to make that work, and it was crazy because we were always in this tight bubble with just us and our kids and it really was simplifying. It was you know like the layers are gone. The interference is gone, drama is kinda out the window in a way, and we got to really simplify basic needs. It's so weird how much unlayering we had to do and that's what I'm finding through all of this is a lot of unlayering to get to the core".

8:30: After David asked if she's enjoying descending into Austin after living in California: "I was born in California, I was born in the Bay area and then funny enough I moved to Montana. My parents said we're going on vacation and they moved us to Montana. So um I have memories of people throwing things at our car."

They apparently moved to Montana in 1994. This would make her either 12 or 13 when she moved.

11:36: "The one place I felt was the most formative was moving to Montana. And it's such a strange thing and I don't know if you've experienced this too where I had all these preconceived notions that as a spoiled California kid. You know not spoiled but just where this world was this bubble and moving to a place where in my mind I thought I was gonna ride a horse to school and have to carry a gun (with some oomph I might add ha ha) and you know I was like who are these people? and, it was the one place in my life that was so challenging and so difficult. To get through that and through the other side. I have the best memories, I'm still trying to go back. I'm trying to get Jared to go back and I'm like "we gotta figure out a way to get back to Montana just because".

Turns out she lived there for 2 years and then her and her family moved to Idaho.

13:30: she mentions here that her college counselor in Idaho told me his advice and I'll never forget it was to "pick a college that made me uncomfortable, just uncomfortable enough you know to where I would have to figure stuff out but not too uncomfortable to where you want to leave. I still take this advice with me to every day. I really feel that to find discomfort because that's where you learn. You know, you look deep and within yourself and have to get dark". She was talking in response to Dave's discussing his son's fear of not winning his class president election by saying "and especially now as a kid learn these lessons now. You don't want to wait until you're in your 20s to suddenly get uncomfortable. Get over it now, get over that hump, get over that fear of what people are thinking and letting that affect you and penetrate you and learn who you are now. Learn to fall on your face and get back up and keep on going."

26:25 Dave asked Gen what it's like joining a show and then creating a life with them. He also was wondering about what it's like working with Jared while married and such. Probably the very best part of this whole thing in my opinion and what really made me want to watch this podcast from that post you shared Anon: "I was just talking to someone about this that my favorite relationship with him is a work relationship. Sometimes it's hard to be married to him because he's like, Jared is so interesting because he's so analytical. I mean my husband, I'm going to toot his horn because he's literally one of the smartest human beings I've ever met in my life and it's annoying because he will correct you on words you think he didn't even know. I have a book of SAT words just because I'm like I am going to get him. And so I'll just casually talk about something and use a crazy word in a sentence and he'll be like well you pronounced it incorrectly. It's so frustrating. Also in our marriage he's very giving and emotional and supportive. He's supportive in everything that I've done and I feel really lucky and grateful. I think even more so when it comes to work he is your biggest cheerleader and it's going to be a lot of time together. But funny enough, I think we'll be better at work than sometimes we are at home. Because I'm like, this is how the kids are, this is how I like them, this is the order htat I like things in. And it's hard for me to let go I think, at home. but at work, it's just a really nice exchange and I feel really lucky, and he'll sit there too. If he's not working, he'll take it, pull up a chair and talk on the phone and watch at me and I can hear him bragging about me and whether he's doing it for my benefit I don't know but it makes me feel good and I feel really lucky that he does stuff like that."

29:50 Now the second best part that wasn't mentioned in the post you shared Anon (where she responds to Dave's question about Jared being open about his struggles with anxiety). Paraphrasing here but she did admit here that both of them are in therapy for anxiety. She also said "but for us specifically we both are in therapy, actually all of us, the kids are in therapy as well. We feel really strongly like it's a workout. So you know We know we put so much emphasis on exercise." She talked about more emphasis on also exercising your brain.

39:00 (approximately, summarizing here): she talks about how for when she gave birth to Shep (in a bed) and Odette (water birth in the tub), she was in an Airbnb house in one of which the owner didn't even want guests to cook salmon. Also she started talking about how "the journey that you go through as a woman to get to that point, it just felt so in control and so giving [power]". This was in response to a question Dave asked Gen with regards to her giving birth naturally being a source of her strength. She did confirm Tom was a hospital birth where she had an epidural. She did admit also that they chose Seattle because it was closer to Vancouver for giving birth.

43:54 Gen is talking about how "their school has gone back yet and I really struggled to be honest with you [admitted she didn't send them back yet, and I'm assuming they did virtual schooling instead]. It was really challenging and I might just rip off the bandaid and put them in sports soon because I do worry about their mental health and for so long I've been like I have to do what's right for our community, I'm not gonna put anyone else at risk, we're in lockdown, our kids will not be in sports. And now I think I'm doing a disservice to my family. We've been at it now for what, 8 months? I'm like I gotta do something. So I certainly don't have the answers on this one." This was in response to a question Dave asked her during this tough how she and her family create "joy moments" with her kids during COVID-19 lockdown.

45:25 Dave asked Gen about the upcoming Walker Texas Ranger show "where is Chuck Norris when you need him?" Gen said "Yes I'm very, very excited and very humbled. I feel really lucky 1. to be able to work again, it's been a long time since I've been on a show and I also get to work opposite my husband and I get to play his deceased wife. I know we could have a field day with that one but I'm really, really excited and I've read the first couple lines of scripts, Jared shared them with me and I, I'm so, so excited for people to get their eyes on this show. I really feel that it's so well done, so well written it's so of the times and I just, I just feel it's so wholesome on the one hand and so like cutthroat and edgy on the flip side too and it's so fun".

46:51 Dave asked Gen his apparently standard end of the interview question "If there were one single takeaway that you could leave with this audience. An idea, a question, an actionable piece of advice that would help them have a little bit more peace, have them have a little more joy what is this single thing of a question that you would leave with our listeners today?" with which she answered "you know what I always say to my kids every day? I say 'say one good thing about yourself every day', and every morning when they wake up they have to say one positive thing about themselves. I started doing that with myself too and I feel that sets the tone for the day".

Now, onto my actual thoughts about this. Now when this podcast was aired it was in November 2020 during COVID. It's now March 25, 2024 as I am typing this and heard this entire podcast. I joined this fandom via joining Tumblr late December 2022 admittedly when I wanted to know more about why I was getting weird vibes about Jensen and Danneel's marriage as I had finished most of the series back then.

First thought finishing this particular podcast is "WELL Gen, you certainly were honest about your feelings here about Jared, weren't you?" I provided a link above for the other readers so they can hear it all for themselves outside of the partial transcript I gave above. I noticed that she talks about how much joy her children give her (not so much Jared but said her children bring her and her husband so much joy) but also heard some sources of her frustrations being with her husband. This may or may not sound "fair" to some people but she certainly has enjoyed a nice, comfortable cushy lifestyle minus the husband 9 or so months out of the year for most of their marriage and then suddenly now, she has to learn how to live with him. Oh my, what a concept of living with your husband finally...

I am a bit angry with her comment about "relearning how to read" for a couple reasons. I discussed in a Tumblr my problems with her answer about her literacy campaign question she got during the Jared and Gen Atlanta con earlier this year which was a few days before my 11 year anniversary from the day I uploaded my first YouTube video. My first YouTube video was about my struggles in school and even talked about how I essentially LEARNED how to read period, not this "relearning how to read" bullshit statement Gen made, as she had a bazillion books on her shelf in posts going back prior to 2019. I decided to make a Tumblr post and a video response going with my post talking about why there's plenty of things wrong with Gen's answer. In short, her views on literacy go back to thinking that literacy problems are more or less in far away lands only and definitely knows nothing about what it really means to be illiterate. I advise she uses her computer or phone to learn more about the same literacy statistics she spews out at times and learn about the REAL causes of illiteracy in both the developing and developed worlds.

I'm also concerned greatly about her admitting her and the kids are all in therapy. Again you guys, this podcast aired back on 11/5/2020. Why are her kids who were aged about 3, 5, and 8 at the time or so in therapy? Again, this was back in November 2020 when this podcast was aired so this is about how old the kids were at the time. "To exercise their brains" as she put it? Come on all, this is a joke right? You go to therapy to GET HELP FOR ISSUES not to "exercise the brain", I've had enough of this stupid "woke" shit. I'm sorry but just no.... I spent some of my childhood in speech and occupational therapy because I needed help with speech and sensory issues. I spent some of my time as a teen seeing a psychologist because I needed help with emotional issues. I also spend some of my time as an adult today in therapy because I need help overcoming emotional issues going back to my childhood and also admittedly from trauma I've endured in my adult years and frankly just can't seem to get a break from in my eyes. Hell, as an example of how wonderful my childhood was... I have such a sweet memory of being in 4th grade under the annoying fluorescent lights in my speech therapist's office "learning" how to pronounce words like "orange" and "banana" not long after she came into my classroom to gather me and threatened me saying "I will drag your ass out of this room if you don't come with me now". Good times... now why were/are her kids in therapy at such a young age? I don't know, I doubt it's just to "exercise their brains". So this is how you like your kids Gen? Going to therapy at such a young age from whatever issues they are going through, despite living such a comfortable cushy life with dad barely around most of the time? The gall of it, seriously... There are so many things wrong with this on so many levels but you know, I know now with real life confirmation of what I've suspected hearing it straight from the horse's mouth, there's something legitimately going wrong behind closed doors without her saying it...

And I am sorry but I MUST go revisit the statement of her favorite relationship with Jared being a work relationship. I discussed previously the timeline of their marriages here, which I concluded things went way too fast and frankly talked about how there's plenty of red flags with the whole deal. I also caught wind of some curious social media tendencies of his, his family's and hers discussed here that just can't be ignored or unseen. In another post here where I mentioned in a reblog the holiday Jared broke down on wanting to die was ironically enough Ascension Day, I took the liberty of taking photos out of Jared's chapter in the book "Family Don't End with Blood". It is in the context of this chapter that made me really start to question the Pada marriage more. "Why did Gen not stay behind with her troubled husband?" Being someone who has been in therapy since she was a kid apparently, she should know that it takes time for meltdowns, breakdowns, shutdowns, etc. to occur and that there are WARNING SIGNS of something going on especially with her own husband. I'm sorry, I don't accept the bullshit answers that it's because she barely knows her husband or "she didn't know". Nope, there are always hints something is amiss, she just chose to overlook them at this time. Nope nope and just nope.

Bottom line is, even though Gen's mom the childhood psychic Penny may have foretold Gen's future husband is going to be a producer per this podcast I wrote about here BUT what about the palmistry reading Jared got where he was told he was going to be rich but have a bad love life as I posted about here? Did these 2 psychics hear from other entities different things in their divine blueprints about their said unhappy marriage? Penny didn't talk about the unhappy side of things (how convenient and frankly typical of said demonic seers) and Jared's palm reader didn't divulge who he was going to marry but implied it won't be a happy love life for him. Hmm, this is one reason I can't stand demonic seers.

On an interesting note, the Bathroom Chronicles podcast is episode 11. Around the 1 hour 10 min marker (1h10min00sec or 1:10:00 as it'd read on a timer is when that psychic Penny and Gen talk about how she learned from her psychic friend about her future husband. Overall Bathroom Chronicles podcast length is 01:17:48. This Rise Together podcast you shared Anon is episode 119, which aired on 11/5/2020. Also in this video from one of the last JIB panels from last year around the 11:33 marker Gen hesitated to kiss Jared onstage after she crashed this panel, can't unsee that for sure. Ironically while they were discussing a book called "Happy Place" in this live stream filmed in May of last year, Jared was told by Gen "No, don't wear your hat" which his fans are aware is a source of comfort for Jared, his "happy place" in a sense. What on earth is with all of the 11s surrounding Jared and Gen? As a brief meaning of what 11 could mean per that link, "The angel number 11 has a deeper meaning – it’s all about spiritual awakening and higher consciousness. Your guardian angels try to get your attention, nudging you to explore your inner self. Additionally, the number 11 is a symbol of leadership and new beginnings." Hmmmm what new beginnings? I guess we shall find out one day....

Thanks for the share Anon!

#pada marriage is a mess #anti jarevieve #anti genevieve #spn family #numerology #podcasts #celebrity readings

8 notes · View notes

amy8886 · 1 year

Text

Lol I don’t even follow her..and still shoved down my throat and for what?! To push products? To brag? So we think she’s a superhero because she’s with her kids? Ughhh

#anti genevieve #anti padaleckis #anti jared padalecki stans #jared critical #anti jared stans #genevieve critical #social media anon #pada marriage is a mess #anti jared x genevieve

9 notes · View notes

random-dot · 3 years

Text

Just some facts?!

I saw lots of tweets and conversations, how fans were enlightened how sweet and cozy the Padalecki house is....and I'm sorry for bursting with the following the bubble. I normally don't share or talk about such things.

Before some freak out. I won't share specific things, and I'm aware they renovated on the house, so I will only talk about obviously stuff. And I don't have to proof anything to you. Take it or leave it.

First off the big info. What they showed was mainly GLoves "Blog" area.

I never figured out where exactly it is located in the buildings, but I think in the left one. I only mark where I think it is ...and the circles doesn't has anything to do with the actual size. Maybe it is somewhere entirely else on that huge property.

Some were also confused, cause they're missing that staircase:

Well, that is simple from the other big part of the house they just didn't show 😅

Be aware those pics are a few years old. But that staircase is still there.

Blog House:

Main House...and there is suddenly that staircase again:

I had to chuckle a few times, on statements like that:

Just to clear things up. That is the entrance they used for the AD video or also the Men's Health one:

But the actual entrance is this:

This is also the actual hight of the "other" living room...the one with the staircase:

So what is going on....well they simple try to sell a certain kind of view on them. Like Jared said: living small and cozy in a crab shell. That is the picture they give the public.

Is it bad to do so.... actually not.

But that is the reason, I go off sometimes and use Hastags like: Pada marriage is a mess.

People, just a small advice, even if it's Jay. Don't get so easily fooled. The Pads are moving heaven and hell to portrait a certain living & marriage style.

Gens Blog is also just business. They use their social platforms to sell their public image, like all the others artists also do.

Gen isn't managing those big ass property all by herself. But she sells it on her blog like that, and that is why we only saw a smaller part of their actual home. Simple to keep that image up. It's isn't small what they showed, but it was just a certain kind of view....which is their right to do so....I know I know just made this blog to give a little other perspective on that whole topic.

But stuff like this also leads to the ever returning discussion: how fake is their marriage....

#pada marriage is a mess #anti gen #anti genevieve #dot rants

81 notes · View notes

nunikfatma · 7 years

Text

#copas

*Bagus ini tulisannya* ;)) FEBRUARY 22, 2015 Dia Baru Menikah di Usia 45 Tahun *sebuah catatan tentang kapan nikah, jodoh, anak, rezeki. CMIIW ;)* Kemarin lusa saya menghadiri akad nikah dan walimatul ‘urs salah satu guru tahsin saya. Acaranya diselenggarakan dengan sederhana di masjid tempat kami biasa belajar. Sebenarnya saya kurang tahu pasti usia beliau sekarang berapa. Yang jelas di atas 40 tahun. Yah, kita sebut saja 45 tahun ya.. Usia yang tak lagi muda untuk menikah bukan? Dan itu adalah pernikahannya yang pertama. Sebuah momen yang mungkin telah dirindukannya selama puluhan tahun. Saya membayangkan beliau yang bertahun-tahun dalam penantian, bertahun-tahun dalam keinginan yang belum tersampaikan, bertahun-tahun menghadapi pertanyaan, “kapan nikah?”. Tapi beliau menjalaninya dengan baik-baik saja dan tetap produktif dalam kebaikan. Terkadang saya sendiri berpikir tentang kenapa saya belum menikah: “Duh mungkin gw messed up banget ya”, “Ah iya sih gw masih payah banget, kacau banget”, “Gw masih kurang ini itu”, dan sebagainya (introspeksi diri tentu perlu ya!). Tapi apakah harus jadi orang yang baik sempurna untuk bisa menikah? Kalau iya, kenapa ada pencuri, penjahat, perampok, gampang-gampang aja ketemu jodohnya? Lalu bagaimana dengan orang yang baru menikah di usia 40/50an? Atau orang-orang yang belum bertemu jodohnya sampai mereka meninggal dunia? Masa iya mereka messed up sepanjang hidupnya? Apa kita mau bilang, oh mungkin kurang ibadahnya, kurang berdoa, kurang usaha, kurang cantik/ganteng, kurang kaya, belum siap, belum dewasa, belum pantas, dan sebagainya. Tapi setelah segala usaha dilakukannya, apalagi yang bisa kita bilang selain: memang itulah waktu yang ditetapkan Allah untuknya. Saya teringat tulisan Bang Tere Liye yang berjudul “Keran Rezeki”. Intinya, rezeki yang didapatkan manusia itu tidak ditentukan oleh kegantengan/kecantikannya, kepintarannya, kegigihannya, melainkan ditentukan oleh Allah. Terserah Allah aja bagaimana mengucurkan rezekinya. Begitu pula dengan jodoh bagi yang ingin menikah, atau anak bagi yang ingin memiliki anak. Seorang teman saya yang sudah menikah bilang, “Saya sama suami udah nikah pengen punya anak belum dapat juga, sementara anak SMP yang berzina (na’udzubillahi min dzalik), sekali berhubungan langsung hamil”. Begitulah, terserah bagaimana Allah memberikannya. Tapi yang akan dipertanggungjawabkan di hadapan Allah bukanlah “apakah kita dapat rezeki (termasuk jodoh/anak) atau tidak”, tapi “bagaimana cara mendapatkannya dan digunakan/diperlakukan seperti apa”. Teman saya yang lain sudah delapan tahun menikah dan belum dikaruniai anak. Saat ini mereka sedang berusaha, bolak-balik kontrol ke dokter, cek laboratorium, suntik hormon, dsb. Saat ini dia berpikirnya, terserah Allah aja mau dikasih apa nggak, yang dilakukannya hanyalah menyempurnakan ikhtiar. Subhanallah. Sebagai manusia tugas kita adalah berusaha, sedangkan hasilnya Allah yang menentukan. Ketika berhasil, mungkin saat itulah keinginan kita dan takdir Allah bertemu. Keberhasilan kita bukan hanya berasal dari usaha kita, melainkan dengan izin Allah juga. Every single success you experience is a combination of two things: your effort and Allah’s help -Nouman Ali Khan Jadi ketika sudah berusaha, sudah berdoa, tapi yang kita inginkan belum juga terwujud, apakah itu sesuatu yang buruk? Apakah Allah benci pada kita? Tidak, selama kita selalu berusaha mematuhi Allah dan menjauhi laranganNya. Tercapai atau tidaknya keinginan bukanlah ukuran kemuliaan kita. Dikasih nggak dikasih itu hak prerogatif Allah. Allah menilai usaha kita, apakah kita bersabar dan berbaik sangka, apakah kita tetap percaya dan terus berdoa meski hasilnya belum nampak di depan mata. Sementara di mata manusia, seringkali yang dinilai adalah dapat atau tidaknya Maka penting bagi kita untuk menjadikan Allah sebagai tujuan, dan keinginan kita sebagai sarana, bukan sebaliknya. Apakah keinginan kita terwujud atau tidak, yang penting selalu dapat Allah. Untuk teman-teman yang belum menikah -termasuk saya, huehehehe- mari kita isi hidup dengan amal sebaik-baiknya. Allah menciptakan kematian dan kehidupan untuk menguji siapa yang paling baik amalnya (bukan siapa yang udah nikah, siapa yang duluan nikah..wkwkwk). Kata Yasmin Mogahed, mungkin dari kecil kita terbiasa dicekokin cerita macem Cinderella atau Snow White. Ketika bertemu pangeran tampan, sempurna sudah hidupnya, bahagia selamanya. Seperti cerita putri tidur yang baru bangun waktu pangeran datang, jangan berpikir kita baru benar-benar hidup setelah nanti bertemu jodoh. Lalu hidup sebelum nikah ngapain? Koma? Dalam pernikahan memang banyak kebaikan dan kebahagiaan. Kita turut berbahagia dan bersyukur jika ada saudara-saudara kita yang mendapatkannya. Namun bagi yang belum mengalaminya, kita pun bisa mendapatkan kebahagiaan dan kebaikan! Allah telah menciptakan kita dengan sebaik-baiknya (At-Tin:4). Allah telah memuliakan manusia (Al-Isro:70). Kita berharga, dan kita bisa bahagia kalau fokus hidup kita adalah untuk Allah. Terus mendekat pada Allah, terus memperbaiki diri, dengan niat karena Allah. Terus beramal, belajar, berkarya, berkontribusi, produktif dalam kebaikan dan amal shalih, menabung untuk kehidupan abadi di akhirat kelak. Belajar Quran, belajar Islam, menghafal Quran, belajar ilmu yang bermanfaat, ngajarin anak-anak kecil ngaji, bikin proyek sosial, semangat menyebarkan kebaikan sekecil apapun. Kita bisa bahagia kalau fokus kita bukan hanya pada diri sendiri. Biarlah cerita hidup kita berjalan sesuai yang dikehendakiNya. Allah yang telah menciptakan kita, yang selama ini menjaga kita, tahu yang terbaik untuk kita dan selalu memberikan yang terbaik pada kita. Semoga kelak kita pun bisa kembali padaNya dalam kondisi sebaik-baiknya “Asking me when I’m getting married is like asking me when Qiyamah is: I don’t know. Perhaps the time is near.” No one knows when they will get married. It is Qadr of Allah. Also we need to remember marriage is not synonymous to happiness or fulfilment. Peace and Happiness can only be attained through taqwa and Quran. Marriage is just another phase of life. Some are tested with it and some blessed. -The Ideal Muslimah — Menikah itu bukan soal siapa cepat. Tapi Allah sudah pilihkan waktu yang tepat. Memantaskan diri itu bukan ditujukan untuk si dia. Tapi fokus memperbaiki diri di hadapan Allah. Kalau kita jatuh cinta, kejar cinta Sang Pemilik hatinya: Allah. Agar yang mengejar kita, dia yang mencintai Sang Maha Cinta. -Assalamualaikum Sally – Jodoh Pasti Bertamu https://henings.wordpress.com/2015/02/22/dia-baru-menikah-di-usia-45-tahun/

0 notes

caesarakbar · 7 years

Text

Merayakan Kegamangan

God, what a mess, on the ladder of success Where you take one step and miss the whole first rung Dreams unfulfilled, graduate unskilled It beats pickin’ cotton and waitin’ to be forgotten

(The Replacements - Bastards of Young)

Sialan! kutuk saya menggerutu kesal sendiri akibat banyak hal yang menerpa usia muda, nampaknya. Ya, konon usia lepas 20 tahun menjadi titik krisis yang menggoncang kehidupan manusia. Diterpa berbagai tanya mulai dari kapan lulus hingga kapan melepas masa lajang pasti terus menggema bahkan ketika kita sedang sendirian, come on!

Usia 20 tahun saya sudah lewat tiga tahun, tentu saja tidak pernah saya lewati tanpa adanya pertanyaan macam itu. Bahkan saya sempat mengutuki orang-orang yang memaksa saya mengerjakan tugas akhir kuliah sekian bulan lalu. Bukan karena tidak suka, pada saat itu saya rasa emosi pemuda saya sedang berada di puncak-puncaknya.

Dicap telat lulus, membuat saya sempat merasa seperti pecundang selama beberapa waktu. Meski tentu pidato petinggi kampus pada hari kelulusan selalu berusaha membesarkan hati para wisudawan terutama para alumnus telat lulus itu. Akhirnya kepala mulai tegak sedikit demi sedikit.

Belum lagi setelah lulus para wisudawan akhirnya digiring menuju sebuah gedung untuk dijajakan pada perusahaan-perusahaan yang menampung para tenaga segar fresh from the oven itu. Satu per satu ketakutan yang sempat hilang pastilah kembali lagi. Graduate unskilled, kalau kata The Replacement mulai menjadi momok.

Banyak lulusan bertumbangan pada panggilan pertama, bahkan juga tidak dilirik sama sekali untuk sekadar dipanggil wawancara. Rasanya seperti melihat baju dipilah pilih setelah keluar dari konveksi, disortir mana yang layak jual, mana yang dilabeli reject untuk kemudian dijual di outlet-outlet dengan harga lebih murah.

Saya juga tentu sempat alami kegagalan macam itu, mempertanyakan spanduk bertuliskan “Selamat Datang Putra Putri Terbaik Bangsa” yang dipajang besar-besar menyambut saya dan kawan-kawan lainnya sekian tahun lalu pada masa penerimaan mahasiswa baru. terbaik macam apa, kata saya yang disambut sorakan setan-setan. Tentu, tidak seorang pun dengar.

Sial, lagu The Replacement itu menggiring saya kembali pada pertanyaan pernyataan macam itu. Secara gamblang dia menuturkan kepecundangan sejak awal lagu.

Oh iya, buku celotehan Taufiq Rahman, “Pop Kosong Berbunyi Nyaring”-lah yang mengantar saya mengenal lagu ini. The Replacement, nampaknya memang pecundang sejati dengan amburadulnya performa mereka di kesempatan siaran tv ternama puluhan tahun silam. Wajar bila agaknya saya lebih sering mendengar The Clash, Ramones, atau band bernuansa serupa lainnya.

Saya membayangkan blues mabuk a la Jimi Hendrix atau grunge anak muda tanggung pemarah a la Kurt Cobain yang mengiringi bait-bait frustasi itu. Tak pernah terbayang musik punk klasik sama sekali. Mungkin memang karena dua aliran pertama menjadi referensi musik utama saya beberapa waktu terakhir.

Sebenarnya, bait macam itu bisa saja dibawa dengan musik-musik rock ballad cengeng atau mungkin ballad folk a la americans. Pasalnya, lirik itu cukup pas dibawakan secara semi-ceria atau malah pseudo-ceria, sebab bila tak dimengerti, orang yang dengar mungkin tak paham betul kegamangan yang dibawa oleh lagu itu.

Ketika diputar, malah saya teringat pada The Clash atau Ramones hinggap pada lagu itu. Damn! saya tidak sengaja mengumpat lagi.Ya, saya terus saja mengumpat, sebab saya malah teringat saya dan kawan-kawan saya ketika dengar lagu andalan band yang telah bubar bahkan sebelum saya lahir itu.

Dan sialnya, lirik menyedihkan itu malah dibawa dengan lagu iring-iringan bersemangat dan ceria seakan-akan mereka bahagia dan merayakan kegamangan itu seperti Koes Plus yang bilang “Hati senang walaupun tak punya uang, hey”. Selain tidak punya uang, Koes Plus juga menyinggung status bujangan yang disejajarkan dengan penyebab hati senang itu juga. Terlalu!

Kalau tidak mau membuka pikiran, saya pasti langsung tekan tombol stop dan masukkan lagu-lagu itu pada folder “Open It Later: After Marriage and Successful Life” yang bakal saya tertawakan mungkin puluhan tahun dari sekarang. Mungkin sambil berceloteh pada anak saya persis seperti Bapak yang sering mengulas musik-musik favoritnya yang relevan dengan kisah hidupnya itu.

Tapi akhirnya saya paham, keceriaan itu adalah suatu perayaan yang mewah seakan saya menikmati semua kegamangan dan kegundahan generasi muda yang baru saja melepas status remaja tanggung. Perayaan agar tak perlu lah pusing-pusing pikirkan hal yang memang sudah jadi masalah itu. Dan mengingat, meski The Replacements adalah pecundang yang akhirnya hilang sejarahnya tertindih band punk klasik lain, mereka tetap brilian dan patut dinikmati. Kegamangan ini patut dirayakan!

Jakarta, Juni 2017

#racauugalugalan

0 notes

sapphyreopal5 · 13 days

Note

Full disclosure : I am a Jared leaning J2 fan. I like the J2 dynamic though I also really liked Gen for the longest time.

For a long time, I believed Jared was happier now that he doesn't have to work on SPN as those last couple of seasons were really harsh on him. However, how sick he has been getting lately has me really worried. It's a constant thing and the fact that he is around family (particularly Gen) shouldn't he be doing well???The pain from these injuries would be a lot to deal with and then he has to get back to work constantly which I feel is always there.

I believe that it's more likely Gen is trying harder to make it so her husband dies younger (multiple times getting COVID and generally getting sick a lot, car accident he was in, etc.)

She doesn't seem protective of Jared anymore. I think her attention is either on herself or the kids. Though I don't like to admit it coz I liked her for so long but she does seem money minded. Like look at her extensive wardrobe while Jared is out there wearing the similar set of clothes. Like this itself says how different they are than each other and where their priorities lie. He is her husband so she is entitled to his money but it is just so strange.

On SPN, atleast he had Jensen to share his burdens but now looks like he has no one. I know his and Jensen's relationship wasn't always rosy but at least they had each other to talk to. Now it looks like the proverb, lonely at the top is coming true for Jared.

I genuinely worry for him sometime but I also believe that he is stronger now than he was before with regards to his Mental health given all that he has dealt with in the past couple of years itself. Also, I feel he gives Gen too much credit for that when it has honestly a lot to do with his own work in that direction. I just want him to be happy coz he deserves it.

Hello there Anon, thank you for this ask. Before I delve more into the nature of your ask, I want to share with you my story of how I first joined the Fandom and even started watching Supernatural from the get go.

Full disclosure : I am a Jared leaning J2 fan. I like the J2 dynamic though I also really liked Gen for the longest time. For a long time, I believed Jared was happier now that he doesn't have to work on SPN as those last couple of seasons were really harsh on him.

You see, when I first joined this fandom via joining Tumblr I myself was looking into the anti Danneel blogs first. Danneel owns who she is for better and for worse. She was historically territorial over Jensen and is far more outspoken about things than Gen is. For the record, I'm still to this day not a fan of Danneel's either. If I had seen Danneel on the street while being barely active in this fandom if it all but saw her on Supernatural, I might recognize her. Yes, her voice does stand out and her looks now are hard to miss (looking at you bright orange hair).

Gen on the other hand really doesn't stand out much on her own esteem. That might sound mean of me to say but she doesn't really have any features on her own that make her stand out or otherwise makes her memorable to me. Frankly if I saw her on the street, had only seen Supernatural and wasn't active in this fandom here on Tumblr, I would probably not recognize her on the street. She looks like a lot of other US American women who are of Italian descent. Just saying, what makes her standout is who her husband is overall from first glances. I'm just being real here. I myself will admit I thought she seemed much more pleasant than Danneel. The reality is that like I said before, she just knows how to play nice with social rules to skate by unnoticed. It's the ones who fly under the radar who concern me more than those like Danneel who have no problem speaking their peace, again for better and for worse.

Funny story as to why I even started watching Supernatural. So, my twin sister who also delved into divination was getting readings about things like how "Jensen hates Danneel" and "Jared doesn't hate Gen as much as Jensen does Danneel but...." from her guides. It's actually her constantly bringing up Supernatural via her guides talking about it a lot (ahem, looking right at you, Poseidon!). Mysteriously her guides, including Poseidon who is also one of my guides, stopped bringing Supernatural up to my sister so much once I started watching it early September 2022. It seems they kept bringing up the show to my sister who kept bringing it up to me because they were acting through her to get me to watch the show. She to this day has not dived into the fandom side of things, nor has she even joined Tumblr for example.

I also remember one day when I was like 16 years old back in 2007 or so seeing Supernatural on the TV but back then I didn't know what the show was called. I noticed it was NOT Smallville the show I was watching a lot of at the time and therefore turned the TV off. It seems I missed other signs I should've started watching this show a long time ago. My brother used to watch Gilmore Girls when I was in high school around the same time period and even remember briefly seeing Jared on the TV screen at one point. However, I felt the show being about a preppy girl was not for me, as I was not about the popular kind of rich girl who lives in a bubble. I also remember over the years seeing Supernatural show up on my Netflix in the corner of my eye here and there but again didn't click on it. Strange given my kinds of experiences and interests ha ha.

However, how sick he has been getting lately has me really worried. It's a constant thing and the fact that he is around family (particularly Gen) shouldn't he be doing well???The pain from these injuries would be a lot to deal with and then he has to get back to work constantly which I feel is always there.

Now, back to what you were saying about Gen. I brought up how I first joined this fandom because I feel like Gen doesn't really stand out on her own esteem and seems like a "typical woman" at first glance. Has her own organization pertaining to reducing our carbon footprint that seems more or less dedicated to doing so via gardening tips, creative ways to reuse/upcycle things (ex. Christmas trees, foil wrappers to make Christmas ornaments, etc.), and providing shopping guides from companies that are said to be more "sustainable" or "fair trade" or "green", something of the sort. I'm not sure of what more TOWWN has done outside of bringing awareness to some people namely in the Walker and Supernatural fandoms of new ways to be more environmentally conscientious. This is 100% okay but my point is, a lot of what TOWWN brings to the table is something a lot of other crunchy SAHM and even homestead wife blogger types do. She just has the means to go to "summits" and go on podcasts and whatnot with people to spread the word more. Also, plenty of women do book clubs. Many of them just don't ask their husbands to join in on their book discussions to get more views and tickets bought.

Honestly Anon, I'm not sure if there was ever a time in their marriage where she really did actually stand up for Jared. I too find it strange that Jared is not suddenly a lot more happy given he's now working on his passion project Walker and is not on the set of SPN anymore (the whole family being in his home country being a big part of why he was apparently unhappy and all while working on SPN). I can't seem to find much about how incredibly supportive of a wife Gen ever was of Jared actually. She just didn't outwardly call Jared out on public posts the way Danneel has Jensen for his eating a lot of gummies at one point.

For example, 2 days after Jared's arrest on Oct 27, 2019 this is Gen's Tweet below. Of course she's not gonna speak out against her walking wallet husband (*ahem* I mean Jared) publicly but really? Just a heart in the Tweet and she's suddenly such a supportive wife? Riiiiiiight... And no, I don't think the incident sounds that serious. I've seen WAY worse fights in my life including several stories about my son's dad who has knocked people out after hitting them in the jaw and was NOT arrested a single time. And people say Texans are some of the toughest people in this country, yet several people onsite here insisted he get arrested over this....

youtube

Also, per her Instagram page, this post was made on April 28, 2022, before that on April 26, 2022 this one, this one April 22, 2022, and even this one from April 21, 2022 where someone commented they're "hoping for a speedy recovery for Jared! God is Good". For context sakes, these were about a few days after Jared was in the accident. Looking at the one from the 28th, she puts on a cozy outfit, opens her phone to the word "Health" and then "Headspace" followed by her putting headphones on and relaxing. Hmm, tuning out the problems going on with your husband just having been in a bad car accident, are we Gen? Because talking about eco-friendly swaps pertaining to "minding our #beeswax vs. using #plastic baggies" and Earth Day and books is so much more important than talking about your husband "miraculously" being alive as Jensen put it, got it. Duly noted!

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Jared Padalecki (@jaredpadalecki)

instagram

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Genevieve Padalecki (@genpadalecki)

instagram

And can we seriously talk about the timeline of events surrounding the 2015 breakdown please? And the chapter Jared wrote for the book Family Don't End with Blood (photos from that book included in one of my two reblogs of that original post)? Seriously you guys, Gen went home BEFORE this breakdown took place. You know who Jared spoke to first during this whole thing prior to him going home (called Jared not vice versa)? His friend Brian. A divine sign or "call from God" saying he was not meant to die on this day coming not from Gen but from a friend with whom he coincidentally shares a former mutual friend they lost to suicide. Now, if my significant other were to be in mental duress and feeling on edge, let's just say I would've stayed in Europe a little longer and tried to get them to talk about things 'cause I pick up on the subtle things in people. Instead, Gen would rather just "tune things out" and "march to her own beat" just like she did in that post 2 days after Jared posted about his car accident, which seemingly Gen said NOTHING about on her own Instagram.

I believe that it's more likely Gen is trying harder to make it so her husband dies younger (multiple times getting COVID and generally getting sick a lot, car accident he was in, etc.)

Ahh, so you did see my black magic and witchcraft related posts pertaining to Gen and even Danneel, eh? I will say that some of how people got sick from COVID is just strange to me. I mean, I heard of a woman getting it from her groceries someone else delivered who was NOT infected. A lot of people I knew personally talked about how they were face to face with someone who was sick with it but never caught it. Others I knew were having social get togethers at their houses but doing social distancing kind of thing, were more lax about wearing masks, etc. but still not catching it. Meanwhile, people who were following every guideline still caught it. It was just very strange to me overall.

I always said that if you're meant to catch COVID, then you will. It turns out there was more truth to this than I realized from a spiritual standpoint regarding divine blueprints and divine plans. It is curious how Gen seems to have caught it maybe one time but her husband Jared 3x. Also, why does he keep getting sick? What's up with him getting into multiple car accidents this lifetime of his? I standby what I said about Gen and black magic every step of the way. I also standby my statements that the childhood psychic that told her about her future husband, Peggy Rometo, also did some black magic. Maybe not quite knowingly but given the type of seer Peggy is, it doesn't surprise me that she was in fact picking up a so called "backup plan" in Jared's divine blueprints being Gen. Man, don't get me started on those demonic seers, they can be quite reckless.

Jared's not starting to suspect some "fowl play" on her behalf... is he? I remember the posts below and thought it was funny but then I started to realize that the word "fowl" and "fowls" seems to be showing up in multiple places pertaining to Jared's relationships. At one point his ex fiancée Sandy said this pertaining to their breakup prior to the Dallas convention in 2008:

"Dear Lena, It is true. Jared and I are no longer engaged. I did not want this information to have to come from me, but I felt it was necessary to confirm it in order to protect Jared from being asked questions about it this weekend in Dallas. Contrary to what you may have heard/read, our split was not caused by any fowl play on either of our parts, we simply decided that it was not the right time for us. We still love eachother very much, but we want different things in life, and it's a simple as that. Please know that it is extremely difficult for me to write this, and I can only imagine how hard it would be for Jared to have to talk about it in front of hundreds of fans. So I am answering the questions now with the hope that no one will make Jared have to speak about it publicly. Your support past, present, and future is very much appreciated. Thank you for everything, Sandra"

Strangely enough, according to the Chinese zodiac Gen was born in 1981 which is year of the Rooster (specifically a Metal Rooster). To add to this, the definition of fowl is as below per dictionary.com.

fowl

See synonyms for: fowlfowling on Thesaurus.com

noun,plural fowls, (especially collectively) fowl.

the domestic or barnyard hen or rooster; chicken. : Compare domestic fowl.

any of several other, usually gallinaceous, birds that are barnyard, domesticated, or wild, as the duck, turkey, or pheasant.

Sandy on the other hand was Year of the Goat being born in 1979 (specifically an Earth goat). I am bringing this up because it seems to me that Peggy was picking something up in their divine blueprints and, well, part of that involves Gen being born during a year of the Rooster and also her future with Gen and Jared owning chickens and whatnot. I mean they even have them stuffed after death as decor in their home (ironically in a bathroom where there are goats on the wallpaper as well). It's even been said that in China roosters symbolize ghost hunters according to this website with the reasoning being:

"In Chinese folk stories, all ghosts are scared by the rooster's crow. Ghosts can only appear at night, but the rooster's crow means the day is coming. So all ghosts fear the rooster's crow, for ghosts lose their power at dawn. The origin of this belief was very early. People living in the lower reaches of the Yangtze River paste a rooster picture to the door every Spring Festival. They believe this deters all ghosts from dropping in. Older people teach children to imitate a rooster's crow. Then the children are instructed that if they ever encounter a ghost, they should crow like a rooster to scare the ghost away."

As for what the 2024 Horoscope says about the Metal Rooster in 1981:"Those born in 1981 would take advantages of their talent at work in 2024, and win a job promotion probably. However, they’d better listen to the suggestions of trustworthy friends when they are in confusions or troubles. They could keep a good relationship with others in the surroundings, who may be willing to remind them when they are reckless. They need to adjust their mood and keep a positive attitude to everything, and also maintain a good relationship with their husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend."

Just some food for thought with how there are hints in our daily lives about what our divine blueprints and plans hold and how we all tend to miss them, Jared included. I mean he did play with some fowl feathers in the Instagram post below dated February 11, 2022 while wearing a Dallas Cowboys jersey along with Anson. Didn't Sandy have the typo "fowl play" in her letter she sent to her own fan's website around June 7, 2008 (which is no longer active by the way) above prior to the Dallas convention that same year in late spring 2008 (SAME year he met Gen by the way, born Year of the Rooster)? Hmmm...

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Jared Padalecki (@jaredpadalecki)

instagram

He has a strong work ethic but I feel he has to carry everyone around. Like all the responsibility lies with him. Therefore, when you said this, it freaked me out coz of how true it feels with the way Gen's energy has felt lately. On SPN, atleast he had Jensen to share his burdens but now looks like he has no one. I know his and Jensen's relationship wasn't always rosy but at least they had each other to talk to. Now it looks like the proverb, lonely at the top is coming true for Jared.

Some people might disagree with him not doing so good, particularly his fans and stans. I myself have seen some of these posts lately indirectly pointing to myself and other critics of Gen's with some including things like "how do you know Jared's not doing good?" and laughing at those who say not all is well with them (Gen and Jared). We may not have heard things directly from the horse's mouth as of yesterday say he's not doing good but it's not exactly difficult to know this if you pay attention and use critical thinking. If you look at Nashcon photos of Jared from this past December along with what someone who went there was telling me, it's clear at some point Jared was not feeling his best and I think Jensen knew it too.

Anon, I know you may still like Gen some at least to some extent and I am not here to bash on you or anyone else for it. I believe in looking at the reality of things. We can like people despite their flaws, which stans and even certain fans alike can't seem to grasp. The facts point to more or less what you said highlighted here at the end. I also cannot emphasize the points I've made before about how I truly believe that Jared has tried convincing himself that Gen is good for him, he's happy and he wants nothing more than to spend more time with her. What does he get? Feeling like a stranger in his own home when he finally does get to spend more time at home.

youtube

Edit: a good friend of mine sent me this today 4/18/2024. Gotta add this in here, a famous photo of Jared with a rooster while drunk...

#anti genevieve #pada marriage is a mess #black magic #divination #divine blueprints #divine plans

8 notes · View notes