#or rather to not want what a representation starved community has latched onto as a new escalator

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As a polyamorous person, gotta admit I'm not particularly interested in creating a happy little polycule family of 3-5 in a house together. As far as I'm concerned any relationship between my partners is a matter between them and my goal is to explore the individual potentials of each relationship rather than intentionally aim for a collective. If the relationships form and enmesh in a way that it ends up like that, great, but I'm here for the journey.

#relationships #polyamory #some of the most important relationships in my life are not nested partnerships #in a lot of polyamory circles there's talk of the relationship escalator that has different steps in a relationship #it's the metanarrative of what a successful life looks like it whatever #but I'm putting this out there because it's okay to not want that #or rather to not want what a representation starved community has latched onto as a new escalator