#onlyfriends rant

[lilssea]

people tend to compare SandRay and BostonNick as they have the same situation when first all:

- Nick and Boston had a friends with benefits situation where Boston put at the first some “boundaries” but then he completely ignored them; Nick, because of Boston behaviour and obvious attraction, fall for Boston. (oh, and lets not forget how they met because…the photo? the hookup in the back of the store?)

- Sand and Ray had a strange power dynamic at first and then it changed as some kind of friends (plus their sleeping together so like kinda friends with benefits) meanwhile Sand became more and more attached to Ray with the progress of his feelings.

The most important things is between the two couple is: Sand has always been vocal about what Ray did was wrong or what he didn’t like meanwhile Nick didn’t much do anything because of Boston mixing signal (and manipulation)

They started all their relationships on a hookup in the back of the store after the selfie Nick took on Ton’s phone for letting him know that he was there and ready for it. They tried to set boundaries and they literally didn’t even followed them. Of course, after some time (literally none) Nick fell for Boston; and obviously he wanted more than a just mere fwb situation.

Nick literally thinks he’s gonna be with Boston and he even accepted the fact Boston slept with Top. He is “okay” with it and its even “okay” for him be abandoned by Boston for some random shit.

like?? the party?? Where Boston literally told Nick to go back home by himself? Only because he wants to fuck Top??

And lets be honest who sane in his mind would actually be okay with their own crush or situationship whatever fucking around especially having something with someone who his crush has a past with it

To be honest im not saying that Nick doesn’t have his own faults because the recording? the most disturbing thing ever. I’m not condoning revenge porn. But at first you can see that Nick is trying to be just fwb with Boston, no feeling etc but Ton always used some kind word and gesture that made Nick fell for him; thinking he was even special (maybe he is/was we still dont actually know but tbh i dont think so).

one of the examples that i can say is the photo they took together when they “meet” Drake’s character (who i dont even remember the name sorry not sorry) when at first Ton doesnt want to have any proof of him be with Nick in any kind of way because of his father.

or every time Boston told Nick how special he was and how maybe “one day” they would be something more just for letting Nick be calm in this kind of relationship-ish they have.

And we even know that Boston cant take a no as an answer (like the scene in the shower with Top? horrible). He knows what he wants, who he wants and doesn’t care anything if it’s not something for him. He knows his own value and how easy he can have someone else because thats what he does. Even if does mean to destroy your own friendship (for some dick)

oh and Boston doesnt like losing what he thinks its his own like Top (as we talk about his hookups) or his comfortable zone (his group of friends).

Meanwhile Ray and Sand are polar opposite of BostonNick because the relationship between Ray and Sand started as a “job” where Sand was literally paid for driving Ray at home and just spending some time with him because Ray felt alone and miserable with himself.

Yes, at the end they slept together (plus the little thing they did in the car before Mew called) but they started their friendship after that where you see both of them talking about their family, trauma and why Saund doesnt like Top. oh, lets not forget the fact Saund literally took Ray to see his mom (technically not really but they do meet and spoke a little bit).

examples: Sand talking to Ray after the car thing saying how he felt and didnt like the feeling of being left by Ray in that kind of situation (which im with Ray because if my friends call me drunk in needing of help ill drop anything for them)

the talking about Sand’s nonexistent dad and Ray’s mom/ relationship he has with his father after his mother’s death

Ray’s alcoholism’s and how he would literally die if he doesn’t stop of doing his own sabotage.

or the time where Sand literally screamed at Ray because he doesn’t want the money anymore because he genuinely care about him now

literally the part where Ray is drunk and driving the car and Sand is following and the all scene in the hospital.

you can see in the hospital scene is concern but he actually act like a friend because he has feelings but he is truly trying to protect himself from it and trying of be there for Ray after the shitty night they had.

oh and the fact: Sand KNOWS about Ray’s crush on Mew. Of course, its not like Ray told him first (thanks Boston) but they spoke about it.

certainly Sand and Nick both fell in love but Boston is not emotionally available because he doesn’t want to be in a relationship and having a something with someone who is so much easy to get; meanwhile Ray cant just flip his feelings for Mew but you can see he sees Sand in another kind of way. He values Sand and try new things with him or just be around Sand environment instead of be alone or be drunk.

Both Nick and Sand receive different way of be treated both in acting and speaking with their own crushes; because at the end they are two completely different dynamics of relationships and way of thinking and communicating things or just coping with it.

#only friends sand #onlyfriends nick #only friends ray #only friends boston #only friends the series #thoughts #rant #onlyfriends rant

[gmabasic]

i think what makes me sad about tumblr live is that it could be used for like fandom ranting or people who cook or sing or want to do any of those things and instead it’s used to promote people’s onlyfriends accounts

#i used to go on there #you’d just get tons of bots viewing your stuff

[jayflrt]

Hiiii, I'm a new fan of yours and your Sugar Daddy smau is so good 😭😭 You have me on the edge of my seat and it's honestly kinda crazy (in a good way of course). I hope you find money on the sidewalk and your 3 AM sip of water tastes heavenly.

I was kinda curious on your Tumblr so I was scrolling and my god, it's also kinda crazy (also in a good way). Like, your friend being related to Yeonjun and the gc you have with your friends, honestly kind of my dream friend group right there. I was wondering if you have any tips on making online friends because I feel like there are so many cool people but I never know how to reach out and actually get farther than a hello.

Sorry for the kinda rant, I just want you to know you're pretty swag >:] I hope you're doing well :D

hello !! it’s nice to meet you:) omg no fans here only friends (Not Sponsored By OnlyFriends) but pls :(( that’s so sweet of you to say 💗💗 i will actually go outside and see if there is money outside my house (update: there was no money outside but there Was my package for hair oil that i don’t rlly need anymore but will accept)

LMAOFJF i’m glad you enjoyed the scroll down the Dark Depths of Jayflrt’s Blog but !! i do have some crazy stories :’)) AHH IM GLAD YOU LIKE MY FRIENDS THO :D 🌷 we’ve been friends for about four(??) years now? i actually met them on wattpad 💀 and we all joined a discord server i made with one of them four years ago and we all have been friends since :))

tbh making friends online can be hard bc a lot of groups fall apart :’) i think i joined discord like early 2017(??) and for the two years before i met my solid friend group i was kinda drifting about in friend groups, witnessed some falling out, and then finally found my group 🥰 like the real world, it’s all about putting yourself out there on the internet. by this i don’t mean like giving out all ur info LMFAO but i mean just initiating conversations and keeping in touch with people and finding more things out about the other!

for example one of my friends i met bc i followed her bc we had a mutual friend. and then i left a nsfw roses are red poem on her message board for no good reason 💀💀 and she replied with one back and then we just started exchanging them and eventually started talking and became rlly good friends LMFAO she’s literally one of my closest friends to this day even tho she bullies me 24/7 🤕

also don’t apologize for your message !! feel free to drop by whenever 🌷🌷 have a great day angel !!

#💌 : jayflrt love notes #ravnroses #series: sugar daddy #makes me smile