#my boundries

[s0fter-sin]

my favourite soapghost trope is soap accidentally seeing ghost without his mask and instantly covering his eyes so he doesn’t see anything

#he bursts into his room without knocking? #they get abducted and they force his mask off? #ghost intentionally taking it off and he does it out of reflex? #good shit its all good shit #i love a good the world comes to a halt and he cant stop staring moment #but that bone deep instintual need to uphold ghosts boundries? #fuck it hits different #soap will poke and tease but the Second ghost sets a boundry hes enforcing it with his damn life #coming out of my cage and ive been doing just fine.txt #we’re a team. ghost team #soapghost #ghostsoap #ghoap #simon ghost riley #john soap mactavish #soap cod #ghost cod #save post

[kroovv]

Just a periodical reminder that i do not allow people to use my OCs as their own character/ as their character face claims. Even in your private games, please don’t :’) thanks

#fanart? #cosplay? #yes amazinf very cool please let me see #but taking my character? #big no no #i know i cant enforce this but like its my art and these are my boundries #being online does not make art free to use #also omg i just realised the timing with that last ask THIS IS NOT IN REFERENCE TO THIS #someone was “face claiming” one of my characters and trying to commission another artist to draw art of them #face claiming aka just stealing #it was also not Hemlock haha #idk who would steal him #he is a trashy lil rat man #but i love him

[bubbly-bubbs]

Thank you so much @rosesradio for this idea!

nico is emo. motorcycles are emo. leo would love a badass motorcycle boyfriend. nico on a motorcycle would cause gay panic which equals maximum valdangelo vibes

:)

*(sorry for low res, click image to enhance lol)*

#leo x nico #valdangelo #leico #fanart #leo/nico fanart #speedpaint #my heart omg #im terrible at art if u cant tell #idk what im doing man #but this really pushed my boundries! I cant belive I only drew this in hour or smth lol #valdangelo really needs more art #i struggle with side profiles #do u like their expressions? idk it looks a bit bland #which version do u like better? shaded or not shadded??? #In the draft leo had darker skin... damn i regret making him look so pale lol IT WAS AN ACCIDENT :'-)

[footprint-in-the-snow]

hot take but if you tag your shit properly usually no one gives a fuck how dark it actually is case and point ao3 dead dove do not eat

#my two mediocre cents on the ussue #you would think a site of adults would understand the boundries of consent #ethan goes off on one again

[venum0us]

are you comfy with others also selfshipping with chuck?

Yeah totally! One of my best friends also selfships with him ♡ it only makes me uncomfortable when people i dont know/have never interacted with say weird stuff on my selfship art. (like commenting when "their turn" with chuck is or something >.< it doesnt bother me on my normal art of Chuck but to put that on my selfship art makes me feel uncomfortable.)

#one of these days I'll post my f/o list with which im comfy sharing and which im not #along with that i really need to get started on that artist boundries card... hrm #brug

[thejacketscloset]

I have this REALLY funny picture my friend took of me where I was holding up a picture of ghost on my phone with an expression of PURE GLEE but i really don't like sharing pictures of my face so I think I'm gonna redraw it to share it LMFAO

#i find workarounds for my own boundries /hj #its such a good picture tho i feel like everyone shoulr see it #i look so ugky in it my bangs were cut way to short but it adds to the comedy

[casiavium]

Can't sleep again. Thinking about how I don't like knight/prince(ss) as a trope. Besides the fact that it's boring to me. This isn't "discourse" or a call out or anything it's just a personal interpretation and analysis

while yeah there's nothing wrong with that level of power imbalance in fiction, these tropes always act like that's a cute thing which I just find to be. 😬 y'know. Referring to a character as a "pet" for the royal one without understanding that that's. not a great dynamic to have. The "don't call them toxic or problematic!" When the relationship is inherently not equal and can never be without issues, but this can't possibly be discussed because then the person who ships it is a bad person 🙃

and for someee reason still bitching about the "more obvious" power imbalances like enemies, who most of the time end up being MORE equal because they're the same person same situation different fonts

It's fine to me when it's used as an insult (something something loyalty) and then there's discussion of "you know you mean so much more to me than that", or when there's a Very Obviously Fucked Up imbalance that is Very Obviously Not Normal and yet the one that gets the short end of the stick is like "fuck this I don't care that you think you're better than me. Your power only exists because I give you it, so be very careful how you use it" (and when they use it wrong there are consequences that don't get magically forgiven)

If the one with less control isn't very very aware of how much power the other has over them and could exert if they wanted to (but also the fact that the relationship and its genuineness hinges on their agreement) it gets a bit too concerning for me. If there isn't a certain level of meta intertextual analysis and understanding of the way the very much dominant/submissive dynamic works then it's just. Not interesting and often frustrating

Edit: this should have said intra-textual ("in the text itself", which I apparently not a word) not inter-textual (between texts)

#was this about two specific characters from a certain Nintendo game? yeah #it's like. you guys are doing submission wrongggg you're creating sfw vanilla fifty shades #if there aren't conflicted feelings what's the point #there's a whole issue here i could write an essay on about how the d& s of b d s m became mainstream and normalized even in sfw settings #and how fiction isn't reality but it doesn't exist in a vacuum and your irl biases are 100% in the way you interact with the 'not real' #consciously or not #but like. i have other adult job stuff and adult schoolwork i need to do that actually impacts my life #I MISSED A TAG. THE ADHD STRIKES AGAIN #anyway after the tag about d&s I was going to say that's normalized but the *discussion* of it isn't. the boundries. the understanding that #it's not real and that dominance is much less in control than the one who is agreeing and cooperating

[leafdoodles]

can i use your art as a pfp with credit?

Yes!! I think it’s really cool when I see people do that! With credit it’s totally fine!! :]

#asks #I don’t usually see people use my art #but when I do I just start giggling and kicking my feet #thank you so much for asking!! #boundries

[artoutoftheblue]

There probably wont be any art today. Sorry.

#i physically cant draw while being this upset #gotta appreciate the students in this school not respecting my boundries to make me this fucking angry #blue rants

[betweenblackberrybranches]

Why is setting up boundries and actually following through on them so hard :(

#i ramble #i just set up boundries and when someone oversteps i just immidiatly forgive them #even if it happens again and again #what are you even supposed to do when someone breaks boundries again and again? get mad? i dont know how to do that i only get sad #i am the worst at standing my ground and its just frustrating #atleast i know why i am this way. but that doesnt really help that much with this kind of situation #this is exhausting

[magnusbae]

Me, practicing how I'll firmly and assertively let the new workplace know that I have previously planned vacation in a few months: be firm, state a fact, leave no place for questioning.

Them: lol sure just mail us a month or two weeks before it's not a prison haha so long as you don't disappear for a month it's no matter

Me:

#I PRACTICED AT 4AM MY ASSERTIVE BOUNDRY SETTING #I am too used to really bad treatment I GUESS lol #Wow well then. #I still feel like I need to write it somewhere just to cover my ass 😂 #No trust. #We'll build it slowly. #buns.txt

[dizzybizz]

oooh for the requests id love to see ur take on hu tao and zhongli interacting !! their relationship is soo silly to me

theyre like this to me

#theyre v funny to me #i do think they could have some really long discussions about a lot of different topics #genshin impact #hu tao #zhongli #genshin impactr fanart #my art #doodle #hu tao takes most of the opportunities to be a little shit but shes good a knowing where peoples boundries are #so she never takes it too far #also like can u imagine zhongli seeing the hu family from its beginnings and then ending up working for the little shit?? hilarious

[flower-dagger-gay]

*someone asks me the simple question of what my favorite show is*

Me giving a 5hr long disclaimer before actually answering and saying "I swear I don't like it that much" and explaining myself to hopefully reduce the chance of being teased:

#is this just a me thing #i will overshare about my interests on the internet but if someone asks me what my favorite song is irl then it feels like a boundry has #been crossed 💀

[sobeksewerrat]

CRYING WHY IS THIS SEXIST SHIT IN MY FYP 😭😭😭

???????????

What happened to the hundreds of verses in the Qur'an about respecting women and consent. Or do these just disappear the moment a manchild gets blue-balled??

#sobek yes #an the crabin #مروان بيكلم ف الدين #my first shitty boyfriend kept repeating this one weird asf thing to me in an attempt to get me to remove my boundries or some shit so #needless to say this brings back some unpleasant memories and a lot of rage

[plumbus-central]

loosely related doodles tell a story where beth finds out minnie and summer are taking a mother-daughter ceramics class to bond some and throws a fit. They say shes welcome to come with them, then the 2nd doodle happens

#summer smith #beth smith #rick and morty oc #art #my art #comic #minnie #summer #beth #minnie and beth have a complicated relationship #it smooths out over time but its rough as hell when minnie first gets there #trying to reach out but also be respectful of boundries

[the-misty-and-maisy-show]

Here I am when I was a baby. Dad says I had stripes. Misty was never a baby, she spawned into the world when Dad decided I needed a sister.

This is my first unrestrained meeting with Uncle Mocha. Dad and Aunt think he's scared of things smaller than him. I was a quarter of his size -maisy

#cats #cats of tumblr #maisy #uncle mocha #dad note: mocha still doesnt like maisy :( hes ok with misty tho :) we think its cause maisy pushes his boundries #neither have ever hurt each other. he just runs away #hes uncle mocha cause hes my moms baby boy