#make your own posts instead of ruining positivity posts for ppl who are often labeled as inherently harmful

[sheepskinnedgoat]

If your only contribution to post saying something like, "being mentally ill doesn't = abuser" is to once again reinforce that "but you can be mentally ill and abusive" you're a fucking asshole at best. Yes, we know, the whole world loves to assume mental illness = abuse. Stop hijacking posts to make yourself feel better because you think we gotta make sure mentally ill people know what you really think.

#vague posting #im frustrated #i live in a world of feeling bad because i have to live with who i am #its nice to be told abuse isnt inherent and i can get better #but reminding ill and broken people that they can be both doesnt give hope or change them it just keeps them down #its hard to feel like you can change when the negative is reinforced #even if it's not meant to be like thay #a sick brain will frequently take it personally which makes it harder to do better #if you gonna advocate for the mentally ill you have to advocate for all of us #these tags are a little off the original point but like please think more deeply about this shit #make your own posts instead of ruining positivity posts for ppl who are often labeled as inherently harmful