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zhansww · 4 years

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Hi! I don't mean this in a judging way, I'm just curious, don't you think it's an invasion of privacy to obsess over the relationship of two people, regardless if they're in the public eye or not? You said you don't ship for fun, but isn't it nobody's business who they want to associate with, especially if you don't know the person? I just don't really seem to grasp why one would ship people in real life.

Hey. This is actually a really good ask imo. I appreciate that you are trying to understand what tf I'm thinking instead of immediately judging^^

I am a little confused by your choice of words, though. I don't "obsess" over them or "ship" them. To me, "shipping" implies doing the same thing one does with fictional characters which is using your imagination, making things up to feed your fantasy. I always try to ground whatever speculation I have in reality instead of my feelings, ie what I want to be reality. So when you say you can't grasp why one would ship real people; I can't either (though I have tried) and never will.

I don't have this attitude of "oh they're both idols, so they should expect this shiz and be fine with it" and thinking that that makes speculating about them okay. When it comes to ggdd, I really think that they want us to know (because they actually are together but forced to hide it). So many of the hints they give seem to be for our sake rather than each other's. Gg is more subtle in that regard but dd... he has shown a few times that he keeps up with speculations in their cp supertopic. I actually made a list of that, here. During their TTXS episode, right before ggdd got asked to name their team, dd turned to gg and asked him "is bjyx not good?" and gg shook his head in reply. This was in July 2019. Bjyx is the first fanmade cp name for ggdd which was coined by cp fans back in April 2018. That little interaction goes to show that dd knew about his and gg's cp name and was fine with it - which is kind of a big deal cuz dd would usually show disdain for any of his cps. (gg, refusing that as their team name is also interesting btw. If they were just friends, they should be fine with giving that kind of fanservice - but they didn't) I don't take them, being okay with having cp fans, to mean that they are okay with being "shipped". After what happened in February, gg did say he supports creative freedom but I definitely don't think anyone would approve of having an rpf written about you and your (boy)friend in which you're an adult female prostitute and your boyfriend is a teenager (yikes, I hated even typing that shit out). I do take them, being okay with their cp supertopic, to mean that they don't mind the shared support they get or even the speculation. There's also the fact that they are both men which inevitably makes things harder for them, unfortunately. I think I mentioned this before somewhere but if either of them were female, I definitely would not care as much as I do. But since they are both men... they have it more difficult and therefore, I think, need that much more support. They need to know that they wouldn’t only be met by hate and disapproval if they ever come out. As an international fan, there isn't much I can do to show that support but I still want to do anything, be loud about it, because I feel so fiercely supportive about what they (might) have. And there is no other way to make more people see and support what ggdd have other than to first prove it - through all the speculation. I know that c fans have that attitude, too. They have many ways to actually show their love for them and they do. They do it because if we are actually right about them, we want them to know that they are being supported, and to drown out the hate and homophobia.

Me, I draw the line at shipping. And you, I assume, draw the line before that, at speculation. Like I already said, I don't get the shippers and I try my best to stay away from them. I do understand your group, though. I reckon you like ggdd individually and also their friendship but you consider all the speculating and theorizing that I'm doing to be too intrusive. And I totally get that. I was in that group myself at first (until I jumped down the ggdd rabbit hole and inevitably had to change my assumption that they are nothing more than friends to "okay they are more than friends" to "ggdd married", lol) Your attitude is perfectly valid and you obviously don't have to agree with or approve of my line of thinking. But I hope that my answer possibly made you understand it.

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studyartsy · 3 years

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17 questions for 17 people

thank u for tagging me @alexastudies and @melanie-studies13 ! 💫

nickname: kitty

zodiac: leo 🦁

height: 164 cm

hogwarts house: hufflepuff to the core

last thing i googled: “true beauty recap ep 12″. now this is funny story. i am watching “true beauty” kdrama but i am such an anxious person, i get stressed out easily if some drama happens in tv shows and that’s why i have this habit to take a break from watching it just to prepare myself. but the problem is that i will probably forget about it or drop it and that’s a no no. so i found this effective way for myself, that if something happens in drama, i feel less stressed out if i read a recap and know what’s gonna happen, makes me less stressed out and i feel calmer and prepared. yes, that means that i am spoilering for myself the story, but i feel better that way.

song stuck in my head: “kazino” by bibi ♠️

number of followers: 15,450

amount of sleep: i am sleeping around 8 or 9 hours. pretty healthy!

lucky number: 13

dream job: i don’t have one. there are so many jobs i am romanticizing for myself that i think would be cool but i don’t think that even being the teacher is my ultimate dream job even tho i am studying for it. some jobs i am romanticizing: barista, librarian, staff at concert venue or theater, tourism guides, journalists for fashion magazines, florist, art museum staff, mass actors etc.

wearing: my uni t-shirt, dark blue trousers, grey cardigan and knitted socks.

favorite song: i am such a music fan, so this question is impossible. too many to name but i will go with “visions of gideon” by sufjan stevens for now.

favorite instrument: piano. i can surely state that piano was my first love. i played it since i was 7 and it's just part of my soul now 🎹

aesthetic: i don’t have one aesthetic but for sure a good mix of dark and light academia with a touch of cottagecore 🌾

favorite author(s): john green, p.c. cast and kristin cast.

favorite animal sounds: birds chirping early in the morning and horses running through the fields.

random: there is this one thai actor who i like and follow on ig. freaky thing is that we have the exact same taste in music. i literally find him recommending songs that i already love dearly, recommending artists that i myself discovered recently or recommending songs which i haven't heard but once i check them - i am obsessed. it's weirdly comforting.

i’m tagging some of my faves 💕: @studymochii @idekstudies @viasdesk @mildlinerrs @rueromy @karasstudies @useless-aesthetic @pa-eonia @moonieca @asianstudiyng @studyingfilms @dark-romanticc @wontuwritewithme @venustudy @studyy-tea @almost-rory-gilmore @kiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit

#mine #challenge

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magpies-collection · 3 years

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07/04/2021

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transingthejianghu · 4 years

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Rules: Tag nine people you want to get to know better or catch up with, then answer these questions. Tagged by @lan-trans-ji!

Three ships: Sarawatine and Wangxian are the obvious choices here, but do I have a third ship that I’m invested in anymore? I suppose I could say Malec for old times’ sake.

Last song: I’m 99% sure it was something from my D&D wizard’s playlist, but I don’t remember what song so I’m just gonna say “Brother” by Kodaline. In terms of what song my brain has been playing, though, the answer is “Yang Khu Kan.”

Last movie: Sebastian I swear I’m not copying you but I’m 99% sure the last movie I actually finished watching was Disclosure.

Currently craving: Hmmmm. Possibly sleep? Actually wait, scratch that, I’d love to pet a cat right now.

Currently reading: A Taste of Honey by Kai Ashante Wilson. Also like...several nonfiction books, because why read one book at a time when you could read 3-5!

Now to tag nine people... If @autistic-lanzhan, @kiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit, @xz-studios, @spacepython, @vulcandroiid, @gaysarawat, @princeashitaka, @onceuponavideo, and/or @geraniumsforinej want to participate, this is your invitation!

#as usual no obligation to participate if you don't want to!#also I know I tagged some of you by your side blogs so if you'd prefer to reply on main that's also totally fine!#and sorry Sebastian that it took me so long to do this; I didn't see the notification until late last night!#honestly I had never seen the music video for Brother and I was not expecting THAT

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