#its. somewhat frustrating being like the only well known sexuality with a flag that kinda fits it yknow.

[pansyfemme]

honestly. at this point im tempted to design my own gay man flag due to like every one out there being shitty or not exclusive to gay men but tbh. i know it wouldnt catch on and be so unrecognizable it doesnt make sense.

#its. somewhat frustrating being like the only well known sexuality with a flag that kinda fits it yknow. #i know the original rainbow repersents gay men but it also repersents the whole community #so everyone in the community can use it and theyre own. and yeah i like being recognized as my sexuality yknow #I try to be as obvious as possible abt being a mlm since im often read as a lesbian in public #its happened several several times and i try to be positive abt it bc at least they saw me as queer #but its still misgendering so i try my best to be read as a cis gay guy instead but yeah. idk how to do that #without having a double mars symbol pin or something... #YEAH. um sorry abt this. #also. I may change the drawing of Noam i #thats in my icon to the original rainbow flag #the drawings old and before i knew about the problems with the flag #but its still one of my favorites so i