#its pretty exciting that my gender goals have shifted from betty and judy to phil and bob

[zeawesomebirdie]

Okay but like. Being far enough along in my transition that i dont want to dress like the Haynes sisters anymore, i want to dress like Phil and Bob instead

As soon as i get top surgery i stg im going to get proper buttondowns and trousers

#tbf i *do* still want to dress like the Haynes sisters #but i want to dress like them in the way that a very clearly masculine man wears dresses #like #im waiting until after top surgery to get/make dresses and blouses only because that's going to change my size so drastically #i could theoretically get trousers now because my weight has been pretty stable since august #but ive got other higher priority purchases and im low key v poor atm #but hey 👀👀 #its pretty exciting that my gender goals have shifted from betty and judy to phil and bob #like !!!!! #good for me!!!! #only took being on testosterone for two+ years!! #i guess i just never saw myself as quote on quote masc enough before #and i obv have a load of internalised transphobia @ myself #so this is a *massive* step toward getting better with that!!! #so exciting!!!