#idk if this is about being autistic arospec or poly

[talestobetold]

man i just don’t understand conventional dating. like it sounds like you’re literally not supposed to care about them until you’ve decided to commit to them, and once you care, you should commit right away, or you’re leading them on. but don’t commit for a month or two, too early is a red flag. and you’re supposed to be dating/fucking other people before you’re committed but stop dead after. and if you’re interested in them sexually but don’t foresee a relationship, that inherently means you don’t care about them and you’re either using them for sex or it’s just bodies against bodies. i feel like that has no relationship with my dating experiences at all but i’m still judged on that standard. and i can’t for the life of me fully grasp that standard. 😖

#my_post #relationship stuff #polyamory #arospec #aromantic #idk if this is about being autistic arospec or poly #maybe i just never stood a chance lol #advice appreciated but don’t clown #dating advice