#i always ask that if ppl are gonna send something about someone being racist a terf etc

[ragnarachael]

i made an internet friend on tumblr but he was being problematic (racist+sexist) so i cut it off and blocked him. he made another account and followed me, i told my best friend about it and she sent him messages and basically forced him to unfollow me. now he followed me AGAIN and i hate him, i wanna block but i feel like hes gonna make another account. he followed, i got an email notification, then i checked on tumblr and he unfollowed, but now a random account just commented under a post (1/2)

(2/2)where i talked about him and what a creep he is, and they said something like "ew he sounds like an asshole and a creep @hufflautia" but im 98% sure thats him, bc he always used to tag me whenever he commented, and the account is very void of anything, its as if someone just made it, theres no pfp, no posts, etc. also when u try to tag someone and it doesnt work, does that mean that they deleted the account so u cant tag them anymore? i wish tumblr would block ppl from their IP addresses

as far as my knowledge goes, you can only block people’s IP address if they send you an ask and then you click the little dots to block them if they’re on anon. but since he hasn’t done that, i’m not too sure what you can do! i’m sorry, hun! and if you try to tag someone and it doesn’t link to the profile it could possibly mean that they deleted, maybe. sometimes tumblr is just trash (as always) and doesn’t tag them! you’d have to probably search in the search bar to see if their account still exists.

but this is a genuinely terrible situation to be in, and i’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. the only thing i could possibly tell you to do is go ahead and block him and maybe report him? but, i’m not too sure if that will do anything helpful in this situation. maybe if it’s too much just make a whole new account? though, i can certainly see why you wouldn’t want to over something like this. i’m not too sure what you could do in this circumstance, sweetheart. i’m sorry.

#rachael's void speaks back #hufflautia #i'm so sorry i'm not able to help as much as i want to #i genuinely cannot think of how else to help you figure this out #but i would love nothing more than to fight this guy for you

[lynxalon]

wait !! a couple of days ago u rb that thing asking ppl to send u idols and u would name ur 3 fav things abt them and u mentioned ur ult and i meant to ask ur top 3 things abt them and then Forgot but !! if u still wanna i am curious as to what ur top 3 things abt them are !! i also feel kinda bad for not knowing who it is ! :/

Omgomgomgomgomgomgomgomg My heart just fucking parkoured or something 😂

Kim Taehyung is my ult! Since BTS was my first kpop group, they've been my ult group ever since. And Tae was the first my eyes landed on and since then, he's remained my ult. He means a lot to me, and I've learned so much about myself because of him, so here's a list of 3 (or more!) of my fave things about TaeTae!!!

1. Family oriented. I cannot help but love how family oriented he is. I can't relate, because my family sucks and so I'm pretty detached from all of that, but he really loves his family. He'd win prizes at variety shows (when they did that) and save them for his parents, he loves kids and would be sucha kind and comforting father, and of course the way he loved his grandmother. That last one I have to bring up, because it kinda shocked me how impacted he was by her death. Back then, I couldn't imagine shedding a tear for some of my grandparents. It really made me reevaluate how I thought about my family and grandparents. Now, I care more for my nana and papaw. Like I said, I was reaaaally detached from any sense of family. Tae is so loving and giving, and I seriously hope he will find/has found someone who he can love and who can love him wholeheartedly.

2. Humor. I absolutely love Tae's humor. He can make jokes with such a serious face, which makes it even funnier! For example, when asked what his favorite lyric from their (BTS') songs was, he said with a straight face 'set it on fire bow wow wow.' There are so many other examples of how funny he is, but I'm gonna limit myself or this would be veeeeeery long 😅

2.1. His acting. I love him??? I love that him and Jimin will randomly reenact or make up scenes and just. Act them out? And the other members either go about what they're doing or look like their three seconds away from being like, 'Right in front of my salad?' I'm hoping he'll get another drama role, because man. I'd love to see more of his acting. I also love that he uses this to his advantage 😂 Idk if you've seen any Run eps, but Run!BTS is wiiiiild. They fight over gift cards and food as if they aren't wearing accessories and clothes more expensive than cars (*ahem* J-Hope wearing an 80,000$ watch in front of a 70,000$ car...) One of my favorite things is when Tae very casually convinces the others that he's not up to anything, and they always believe him no matter how many times he does this XD Like that one Run! ep where they had to get stickers or something onto the other members backs, and Tae went up to Jimin and pretended to help him fix the thing on his back while places so many stickers on and... Jimin just let him. He even said something along the lines of 'I trust you so I'm showing you my back' and 'Thank you for helping me.' Like... Bruuuuuh it's cute that you trust Tae but 👀 he had an agenda 😂😂😂 the end, when Jimin found out, was so fucking funny. Tae really played his soulmate like that lmao

2.2 And! How you can always trust him to show how the group entirely is feeling. Like in interviews and stuff. Tae absolutely doesn't mess around. He's very true to himself, and doesn't put up with stupid questions. He doesn't like people who are clearly clout chasers and people who use BTS' name and pretend they love them but. Often times they're just racist and using BTS for followers. It sucks, because ARMY don't want to hype up someone who's using BTS' name, so we kinda all look to Tae at this point. Any good (or even decent) interviewer will be able to get Tae engaged in the interview and smiling. Gosh, a recent interviewer called ARMY insane and the members reactions to that... We're BTS' everything just as they are ours. Calling us insane is the quickest way to BTS' shit list. But, I just think it's really nice be able to gave the group's overall mood through Tae. He can gauge a person's bad vibes reaaaal quick lmao 😂

3. His dancing!!! I got into BTS and kpop around... 2? 3 years ago? Anyways, it was a few months before Tear comeback on May 18th. If I ever lose all of my memories I have no doubt I'd remember that comeback date before my own birthday. That was when he officially became a part of the dance line. I always differentiate dance lines styles of dance like this: Hobi is powerful, Jimin is graceful, Jungkook is bold, and Taehyung is subtle. Tae really mastered this art of subtle movements and expressions. His Singularity performances are always different in some way; he fully expresses the lyrics and song with his movements and it's so fascinating to watch him dance. He is a dancer that continuously gets better, even when it seems like he has reached top of the mountain. Tbh it was mainly his dancing that drew me to him. I got into kpop the year after I'd had to quit dance, and at that time I'd fallen out of love with it. The way Tae dances helped rekindle my love for dance, because watching him is almost magical. I absolutely love watching him dance! He's a phenomenal dancer!!!

3.1. He's cute 😖 I have to bring this up. He is c u t e. He eats in pout and has this cute and quirky happy dance he does and he likes cuddling someone to sleep well and he drinks too much water when he's nervous and his smile is boxy like a rectangle and he has an elephant on his arm and he can't drink coffee and he is very artistic and loves to paint or draw on his clothes and adapt his fashion to suit him and he loves artwork and classical musicians and he posts blurry pictures of funny faces for ARMY and he likes photography and if we ask about Yeontan (his dog) he'll post cute pictures of Tannie and his eyes shine with love and adoration for BTS and ARMY because we're his everything. This kinda went from 'cute' to 'I lomve him and here's just a few reasons why' but that's okay XD

At first, newer ARMYs only had older content to help them learn about BTS. Each member had one characteristic that became all they were, and it became harmful and toxic. For Tae, he was the weird alien. People didn't understand him. Thankfully, these views have worn away over time, and there's newer content that helps new ARMY learn who BTS really are. But I started out seeing these views. And, honestly, I really resonated with the 'weird alien' characteristic. That was how I'd been viewed my whole life, so to see how people have come to understand him and love him as wonderful and quirky as he is really makes me happy. He's someone I really relate to and he's helped me love and express myself more.

I don't talk about him much on here, but that's mostly because what is there to say? I love him so very much, but I don't need to express that all of the time. For him it just. Is. This barely scratches the surface of how much I love him and how important he is to me. He makes me happy, so I hope he is happy often. I hope knows how loved he is. So... Yeah 😅 This definitely got longer than I intended but I wasn't kidding when I said I'd totally need more than 3 points for my favorite things about my ult bias 😂😂😂

Thank you for asking!!! And, I hope you were able to make it to the bottom of me gushing over Tae 😂 💚💚💚

#kris speaks #answered asks #ask game #i see 'kpop isn't that deep' thrown aeound but i just wanna add that when your kpop boy literally gives you courage to live then... #i was in a bad place when i learned about bts and they have helped me through tough times ever since #literally i wanted to **** myself a while back and woke up crying because bts would be sad if i wasn't around #it really gave me perspective on how important i am in this world #i'll never question how much bts love me and i'll never have to because i'll always know #i'm loving myself a little more everyday because of them even if there are setbacks #thank you for asking btw!!! it means a lot 💚💚💚 #long post #cause this is. long 😂

[santiagostyle]

❤️✖ (dont call me out for sending an ask while on hiatus byyyeeeeeee)

YES HELLO EVERYONE THIS IS A CALLOUT POST @ JO IS SENDING ME AN ASK WHILE ON HIATUS 

anyway this is gonna be a super long post so

❤️ 5 people you love

does this have to be ?? people i actually know?? idk but if not then the whole cast of b99 but otherwise i’m weak and instead of giving 5 people i’ll give 5 groups of people bc i love a lot of things don’t @ me 

1. My uni friends (specifically, the group known campus-wide as The Spice Girls from TS105): damn boi idk how I got this lucky but as soon as I started uni (literally on day one of semester one of first year) I met these 4 amazing girls and we clicked straight away and now almost 2 years later, even though we haven’t had a class with all 5 of us in it SINCE THEN, we’re still really close. And we’ve also met so many other amazing people on the way and I’m so lucky I get to hang out with so many fantastic humans every day. 

2. My best friends from school (including but not limited to my best friend who I’ve known for 16 years, another best friend I’ve known for 14, and the best friend I didn’t get close to until 5-6 years ago but is one of the best people I’ve ever known): I’ve been super lucky to have known such amazing people for so long and I could yell about each of them for 10 years but anyway I love them

3. My dance teacher from high school (actually u know what all of my teachers from high school I was a teacher’s pet and was best friends with all of them idc fight me): anyway my dance teacher is just generally a wonderful human being and she always makes me laugh and gives me chocolate when i’m stressed and lets me cry on the floor of her classroom and basically is the reason i survived high school so !!!! Also i didn’t know my yoga teacher during HS but she goes in this category bc she’s technically a teacher but anyway she’s my favourite person on earth

4. My extended family (all of them okay but w special mention to mum’s side) bc they are,,,, absolutely psycho insane and big and dysfunctional and i roll my eyes approx. 98286502 times whenever there’s like. 3 or more members of us in the same room bc they’re just?? crazy and hilarious but they’re also some of the most genuinely loving and caring and accepting people I have ever known and I’m so blessed that I got to grow up around them and I love them so much

5. just throwin it in here bc over the past ?? idk how many months it’s been since the finale but BOI @johnnydora is a Gift and I am,,, so blessed that I can torture her with all my hellish fic ideas all day every day and she hasn’t punched herself in the face yet and I love her a lot ok she deserves all the good and happy things in the world thanks 

✖️ 5 things you hate

this is gonna be considerably shorter I think but here we go

1. Just god idk how to even sum this up into something short but gOD i hate misogyny and racism and sexism and homophobia and discrimination of any form and i’m just. mad that there is a racist sexist homophobic misogynist running part of the free world (i’m not even american but i’m mad)

2. idk maybe this is me being bitter but i hate ppl telling me that “you will find someone!!!!!! you will fall in love!!!!!! u just have to wait !!!!!!!!” like yes i’m single and bitter but also i am an Independent Woman okay can i live peacefully in my bitterness THANKS

3. i hate when people who are supposed to love you take advantage of your kindness and the love you have for them

4. i also hate when people who are supposed to love and support you make you feel crappy and inadequate and like you won’t achieve your dreams

5. i hate that there are so many people who are just,,, suffering for no reason and have no real?? way of fixing things and don’t have people to understand and support them and god i’m sad on behalf of so many ppl i just want to hug the whole world okay thanks love u bye

#this is super long sorry #oops

[smashega]

I've heard a lot of questions of who is your favorite artist but what I want to know is who is your least favorite artist shade and all. 😏 give me that tea girl.

There’s definitely some artists out there that I dislike but unfortunately, I want to avoid any potential drama my words can cause so I can’t really answer this question.

Then again, I guess I can give some ideas of types of artists I dislike:

-Artists who are unnecessarily rude to their fans. The kind who talks down to their fans and are quick to be irritated. If you send them an ask and you just so happen to not word it perfectly, they’ll snap at you. They wouldn’t be where they are without their fan’s support and yet they treat them like shit. Sometimes they’re just a pissy asshole, but there are some artists who act mean as some sort of persona. Like, they know they’re being a huge chode-meiser, but that’s all part of the "act”. They don’t care when they hurt their fans feelings! It’s part of the “joke”. I hate ppl like the latter with a passion.

-Artists who draw Incest/Pedo/Rape stuff. I don’t really gotta explain that.

-Artists with shitty beliefs. This one is the type of artist who whines about “””feminazis””” on twitter and likes to make offensive (i.e. racist, transphobic, ableist, whatever other -ists and -phobics you can think of) jokes and gets their piss boiled when people complain about it. They’re always talking about how they’re gonna “abandom this hellsite that is dumblr” but never actually leave. They usually have right-wing, libertarian, or centrist political views and the worst of them are outright fascists. They cross over with the above 2 a lot, obviously.

-Bad artists who make harsh, insulting youtube reviews of the art of also bad artists. “Bad artists”, in this case, refer to artists who aren’t very good and are still in training. My problem with these people is that whenever they “””””review”““““ other people’s work, instead of offering constructive criticism, they just insult and riff on the artwork, usually by yelling “CRING!!” if the art (usually made by young teens) is particularly edgy.

When they do try to offer CC, its usually advice that isn’t very actionablelike “this looks bad, change it”. When the original artists speaks up that their review is just non-stop bashing, the reviewer just brushes it off, saying that the artist is just “too sensitive” and they need to “grow a spine” (mind you, the original artist almost never actually asks to get their art reviewed. These reviewers just find something that looks bad and tears it apart without ever informing the original artist).

They act like they’re just telling it like it is when in reality, the only reason they make these scathing reviews is because they know that its entertaining to their audience. Scathing reviews are fun to listen too and their fans eat it up. But the problem here is that the reviews are at the expense of young, developing artists who will most likely be discouraged from continuing art (and to those who say “well, if negative comments are enough to make them quit then maybe they didn’t have what it takes” FUCK OFF! Not everybody is thick skinned and we shouldn’t EVER accept that all artists should have to withstand constant harsh words. Nobody deserves that and we’ve lost so many potential great artists to cyberbullying). Then they have the gall to say that their videos are honest to god critiques to get the artists to improve when they’re really not. They’re just trashy cringe videos.

The most annoying thing about these artists is that 99% of the time, they’re shitty artists themselves!! I know that you don’t have to be an amazing chef to judge someone’s cooking but if you’re gonna go in that harsh, you can at least be a bit better than them. It feels like the reason they trash these artists is to make them feel better about themselves. And that’s just sad. You can tell this is the case because whenever they review ppl’s OC’s, they usually compare them to their OC, which they deem superior (90% of time that isn’t true and their character also sucks).

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This answer got out of hand lol. I hope that satisfied your tea craving.

[syntymatitahna]

Just idk venting and ordering my thoughts don’t mind me. S pls don’t interact with this post if you’re still lurking thx (it’s sorta stressful)

In a way I find it kind of funny that billdip would be the dealbreaker ship because, yeah, Dipper was 12 for most of the series but like… He wasn’t introduced to me as a 12yo. And this former friend knows this, probably doesn’t remember though.

(I mean the point still stands that I don’t really find shipping billdip or the like to be like all that morally reprehensible anyway even if i totally understand why ppl would be uncomfy with it and they’re absolutely allowed to be and choose their company accordingly)

But yeah, she knows, maybe doesn’t remember, that I read a bunch of billdip fic before ever watching the series. I don’t think I even looked the characters up first.

Like I was hanging on IMVU and got to talking with some guy who mentioned shipping billdip, talked about it a bit and linked some aged up shipping art

And I was like “lol that seems like something I could dig”

And I guess it was a while later that I was bored enough to go looking for fic.

I didn’t watch GF until I started thinking that I really wanted to know the backstory, I believe. By that time I’d already read several fics.

So yeah. But idk. It’s true that I don’t find whatever like sebaciel shipping or something, especially morally objectionable? But also, I don’t care about ships with like preteens – I mean this in the sense of, I’m not interested in them in a way that when I hear about one I get curious. I’ve seen sebaciel and ereri and stuff like that mentioned a lot in tags in ship hate and ship posi posts due to having hanged out in the billdip tag a lot when i was actively shipping it, but i barely even know what they are… Like… Is sebaciel from that black butler show? And ereri is from snk i think? Maybe???

So i think it’s entirely possible that if I had seen GF before reading fic I wouldn’t have shipped it.

However… It’s also entirely possible that I would have shipped it even seeing the show first! I mean honestly… Bill is so fucking juvenile… And small… And not an adult human (or near-human? humanoid? organic humanoid? I’m not sure where the “too close” line goes for me but Bill’s a fucjing triangle that’s definitely far enough)… Like… It’s a bit like how I can ship Bob/Sunstreaker even tho it’s technically bestiality and if they were a human and the human’s pet instead of robots I’m pretty fucking sure shipping them wouldn’t even cross my mind lmao

But if someone else is shipping like sebaciel, my view on it is still “you do you, I don’t really care”. I just don’t give enough of a damn to really be bothered. Presuming the shippers really do have pedophilic feelings, shipping sebaciel is still the better option. So I don’t care.

Like, urrh, yes a child predator could use something like that to groom a child but not having skeevy shipping content doesn’t mean they’re out of means. It just means others might be out of less harmful outlets? I doubt all shippers who don’t age up are pedos anyway, just like not all incest shippers feel incestuous desire. (By far, probably.)

I don’t even get where in the tits the assumption that i’d involve myself with pedos even comes from like thanks for the vote of trust, seems like i really am untrustworthy because it always comes down to people being incapable of giving me the benefit of the doubt and taking things I say and reblog in good faith.

Not that it really surprises me. I know I’m unreliable so *shrug emoji*

It was the same last time, with, let’s just call him V. “I’m gonna give you the chance to explain yourself!” Fuck that, I shouldn’t have to constantly defend myself to you just because you have no faith in me. That’s not my problem. The whole situation was stressing me the fuck out. So while I could have explained, I refused to. And that was the end of that, more or less. I’m still somewhat salty about it all, clearly.

This is why I said Kitty is one of the best people I’ve had the privilege of meeting. She doesn’t make me feel like I’m friends with a fucking district attorney.

During the last year I’ve, honestly, started to think I’d like to contact V again, but I still have too much strong negative feelings about a lot of things so it’s better I don’t. Maybe in a couple years. I mean, I feel better about it all now even tho I’m still salty. So maybe in a couple years it’ll be fine. We’ll see.

I miss brainstorming with him. It was the best thing, and he got so into shipping my OCs too (or at least gave me that impression) and it’s still something that makes me feel confident in having fun with my characters even if some people would think they’re mary sues.

So yeah, uh, very mixed feelings about that lmao.

Siiiigh. Honestly the probably worst (or best?) thing is that every time this happens (a friendship breakup that wasn’t because of the other being super racist or ableist or just generally a shitty FUCK) I realise that I have in the past done the same thing that this time was the problem (for me).

With Mely I constantly hassled her about what she posted and reblogged. It wasn’t that I didn’t have faith in her, it was that she wasn’t as SJ-y as I was and it showed sometimes because she said things that I thought were just SJ 101 Things You Shouldn’t Say, Or Even Think, Really (lol). But I still hassled her constantly, which I can imagine was very stressful. It’s no wonder we drifted apart and she eventually just stopped talking with me.

And over the last few days I realised that I was very judgemental-like over one thing V liked, and it seemed to be important to him, like shipping is to me. Well… At least I’m learning.

I really should take the matter up with someone whose opinions on the thing V liked have more value than mine, really figure out where the issue lies. I can’t really think it’s inherently bad, it would wipe away too many things that seem quite harmless? Not that I think liking it is morally reprehensible anyway, just that some aspects are problematic (‘have problems’). But the way I see it it’s more the terminology than necessarily the trope itself? Like, the terminology thing seems pretty straightforward.

But yeah I should take myself by the nape and stop being a damn wuss. So what if I get a pissy response or get called a freak again. That just comes with the territory, I guess. I just kinda wish I could use a sideblog for sending asks rather than my main, because if the blogger sets the table for recreational bullies like wwc and that other blog the name of which i forgot did, i’d really rather it wasn’t my main they’d come to. This blog is too personal. Suppose that’s my mistake for making my main my personal.

Or for having an about like that.

#kalmo talks #kalmo virtual diary #sooty does the whiny thing #sure i have anon off #and submissions off #and messages only from ppl who've been following me for 2 weeks