#hj about the gay in the divorce thing

[dunmertitty]

hi sorry if this is annoying but what do u mean by "bihet" in ur bio ?

@lacefuneral took my gay in the divorce

real answer i guess:

1.) sticking it to biphobes who use that word to try to push us (bisexuals) out of the queer and/or lgbt+ communities

2.) when i came out as a nonbinary man i got a bunch of shitty asks saying “you can’t be nonbinary AND a man because man IS binary” and “you’re reinforcing the stereotype that there’s nonbinary girls and nonbinary boys” and “you’re abandoning the trans community” so i’m using bihet to make the “i hate it when people fuck around with gender and have identities i think are contradictory” crowd even more mad

3.) i’ve been questioning my sexuality lately but i honestly don’t care enough about my attraction or lack of attraction to pick the “correct” label and i don’t have enough time to go out and date people rn (college 😔) and even if i did, my dick melted in the move and i don’t have money for another one

4.) even if i did end up being straight and came out as straight, people wouldn’t believe me because ppl think bi men are all closeted gay men so i CANT POSSIBLY like women, i’m a trans guy so no one believes me about my sexuality anyway, and i’m naturally fruity so ppl assume i’m gay anyway

5.) i’m gay when it’s funny i’m straight when it’s funny i’m bi when it’s funny

#asks #hj about the gay in the divorce thing #we were dating for a while and we broke up (still besties tho) and after jay came out as gay (ce used to identify as pan) #and then i was like wait. hang on. and started questioning my sexuality but in the OTHER way

[lighthouseas]

Thoughts on st s4 v2

I know this blog is slowly turning into a stranger things blog but I have a lot of thoughts lol

Obviously, major s4 spoilers under the cut so be warned.

JOPPER KISS JOPPER CANON LET’S GOOOOOOOO

If Max dies I’m literally going to jump out of a window /hj but seriously when she was like “I’m not ready to die” I almost screamed like my poor baby jeez.  I don’t think she’ll die though just because idk why they would drag it out into the next season if they were just gonna kill her off

LUCAS MY BOY.  He deserves WAY more credit than he gets.  Lumax for the win

Yes finally Brenner is dead I hated him

Jason is also dead which is great

I CALLED Eddie dying y’all.  He was an okay character imo but he was gonna die at some point.  Especially when he and Dustin had that whole emotional convo I knew.  I KNEW.  I’m sad about how Hawkins treats him though.  That really fucking sucks. He deserved better.

Jonathan is still partially evaporated.  That Jancy reunion was half-assed and they acted like they were about to get divorced 

Ok so.  I saved this for last because...uh well.  The whole thing with Will...obviously, he’s VERY gay for Mike and for whatever reason the writers decided not to have him come out, but hey, maybe we’ll get that in the next season.  But also do take into account that this was the 80s.  I’m not saying gays didn’t exist back then, but it was a hell of a lot more dangerous to come out then than it is now (not saying it isn’t still dangerous, but y’know).  Maybe he wasn’t ready, but at the very least, it was strongly implied.  

Also, to those who wanted Byler to become canon...I’m sorry.  As a writer myself I knew from the start it wasn’t gonna happen.  Writers don’t just establish relationships like those of El and Mike and then randomly drop it for some other fan-favorite ship.  It just doesn’t happen.  I’m not talking in favor of Mileven, nor am I talking in favor of Byler.  I’m just being realistic here- it wasn’t gonna happen.  All of that hype for Byler- it was most likely just to promote the show since basically everyone knows how popular the ship is and the actors, producers, and everyone else hyping it up meant that more people would swarm to see the episodes, which means more money for them.  Yeah, it sucks, but unfortunately, that’s the entertainment industry for you.  

HOWEVER.  I do agree what they did to Will’s character was shitty.  Really shitty.  On his own, Will has so much potential, but they’re reducing him to literally just a little weak gay boy who has spidey sense.  He deserves to be happy- he’s been through literal hell every season and to top it off, he has unrequited feelings for his best friend.  I really don’t know why they feel the need to do that to him since he’s such a good person, but hopefully, that will be resolved in s5.  I’m begging you, Stranger Things, PLEASE give Will the arc he deserves- not a dumbass arc where he just suffers and is in pain.  My poor boy doesn’t deserve that.

Last thing- there’s still a lot of questions I have about everything, which I’m really hoping are answered in season 5.  I hope they’re able to tie up any loose ends, but you never know.  At this point, especially with all of the angry fans at the moment, it’s a make or break.  To be completely honest, I’m excited to see how everything plays out.

#stranger things #stranger things s4 #stranger things season four #st s4 spoilers #st s4 v2 #st v2 #phoebe speaks

[gible-love-nibles]

🌈🌈🌈 for some of ur robot fos?

Typing in special code that makes the robots gay

All my F/Os get hit with the asexual beam, it’s their initiation exam but other than that:

I HC Sweet as panromantic! I don’t really see him caring about gender of a partner too much

P03 is canonically divorced to Leshy, so he’s already gay /hj. I imagine it's bi! Also maybe under the non-binary umbrella.

Squid REEKS of demiromantic to me, especially after. Oh You Know. His Lore. IDK, he probably had very little time to think about that kind of thing, and when he did have the time, he was Um. Preoccupied with other activities (playing God). But one of the ending scenes with him spurred the idea.

Also he’s canonically genderless according to the game’s developer so Congrats! The Evil AI Making Fun Of You For Messing Up Platformer Challenges Has No Gender!

#i answered the question #ask meme #love this song! 🎛️🎵 #cringe ass nae nae robot 🤖💢 #listen to my heart and hear that breaking sound 💔👾 #friendly reminder (and in very simple terms) that bi people can be attracted to more than two genders #it's *just* a matter of which label you vibe with more: bi or pan #i'm. definitely not the person to talk about detailed definitions of LGBT+ terms but just wanted to clarify #anywhoodle #i didn't want to do all of S/C/C for this because. c'mon that would be way too easy #percy⚡️💞!