#hanging out in someones apartment having dinner and playing card games/chitchatting/watching meme videos

[candlewitches]

wedding planning is already making me lose my mind and we havent even reached out to venues

#short list of venues to reach out to is toronto botanical gardens + hart house + toronto beach club + spadina museum #but i think hart house may be out of budget and we may have both too many and too few guests for the beach club #and idk if u can do a reception at the spadina house and id ont want to deal w two venues but its so pretty ㅠㅠㅠㅠ #.txt #also idk how to throw a good party #all of the parties me and my friends have thrown as adults are like #hanging out in someones apartment having dinner and playing card games/chitchatting/watching meme videos #which have been fun i like them and everyone enjoyed them. but that is maybe not. like wedding reception material idk #and also half the guests are international. so like. id like a sunday brunch wedding i think itd be nice #but. is a sunday wedding unfair to international guests #and do i then have to do like a welcome dinner. on saturday to be like “ty for coming from the states (and maybe bangladesh” <3 #but also are all my cousins etc even coming?? do they even have passports?? are they willing to get passports for my wedding??? #also ive had two friend groups/friendships explode in the last year so like. significantly cuts down on the number of friends i have lollll #but wedding is in two years so may make new friends in KW hopefully #and they can be slapped on the guest list if its early enough and/or be on the B list and be invited if anyone declines #ive been on too many wedding forums ive lost the plot #also my dad is like. beefing w my aunt over my grandmoms (lack of a) funeral so idk if i even need to invite those cousins