#genderqueer positivity

[queerplatonicpositivity]

I started a new remote job last week, and I'm the only genderqueer person at the company (and the first person who uses neo pronouns that anyone on my team has ever met, apparently).

So far:

Manager carefully wrote down spelling and pronunciation of my pronouns and told everyone on the team to respect them.

Coworker apologized privately for misgendering me (I hadn't told her yet) and said she will practice.

Guy on another team valiantly tried to use my pronouns and ended up saying something like zirzs-zhizz (I DM'd him and thanked him for trying and linked him to a practice site).

Teammate told me he has written out my pronouns and how to use them in a sentence and literally taped it to his monitor so he can practice.

Teammate also referred to me as compañere after I linked to a comic about gender-neutral endings in Spanish (whole team except me + 1 other person speaks Spanish as first language and they held all meetings in Spanish before the two of us started).

I am so stoked that people are actually trying. 💜🤍💚

#pronouns #genderqueer #genderqueer positivity #pronoun positivity #op #the zirzs-zhizz was literally so adorable #I'm just so happy he was trying #he tried in a meeting in front of like 10 people and that honestly means so much #in past roles people have been so scared of getting it wrong that they just don't refer to me at all #which can feel really lonely like you're something so weird/bad that you can't even be spoken #so I'd really much prefer people to be vulnerable and try

[sapphic-sprite]

love the term genderqueer bc my gender is exactly that: queer

#genderqueer #genderqueer tag #genderqueer post #genderqueer positivity #genderqueer pride #nonbinary #nonbinary pride #nonbinary post #nonbinary positivity #trans #transgender #trans pride #trans positivity #trans post #transgender pride #transgender positivity #transgender post #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbt pride #lgbtq pride #lgbt positivity #lgbtq positivity #lgbt post #lgbtq post

[genderqueerpositivity]

(ID: background is a pastel rainbow gradient, there is bold white text in the center that reads "proud to be queer")

#queer #queer pride #queer positive #queer positivity #genderqueer #genderqueer positivity #genderqueerpositivity #op #q

[kdd-works]

Trans/genderqueer people who have no dysphoria about their appearance but dysphoria in other aspects are valid

Trans/genderqueer people who don't have dysphoria about their appearance but still don't necessarily like/aren't happy about their appearance are valid

Trans/genderqueer people who inconsistently experience gender dysphoria/euphoria are valid

You're all so valid and I love you〜❤

#trans positivity #genderqueer positivity #trans pride #genderqueer pride #you are valid #gender dysphoria #gender euphoria

[lgbtq-userboxes]

#this user is genderqueer #lgbtq-userboxes #lgbtq userboxes #lgbtq userbox #genderqueer #genderqueer userbox #genderqueer userboxes #genderqueer pride #genderqueer positivity #trans #transgender #nonbinary #nb #enby #nonbinary pride #nonbinary positivity #nonbinary userbox #nonbinary userboxes #trans pride #trans positivity #trans userbox #trans userboxes #transgender pride #transgender positivity #transgender userbox #transgender userboxes #lgbtq #lgbtq pride #lgbtq positivity #lgbtq+

[proudnb]

Just when you think that you have your gender situation figured out, you might've discovered something that turned it all on it's head.

But you'll be alright. You made it through gender questioning before.

Existence is change.

#nonbinary positivity #genderqueer positivity #trans positivity

[thefrogginbullfish]

"Genderqueer"

#my comic #my art #lgbt #lgbtqia #queer #genderqueer #genderqueer pride #genderqueer positivity #trans #transgender #enby #nonbinary #gender nonconforming #nonbinary memes #lgbt art #lgbt pride #lgbt comics #lgbtq community #lgbt webcomic #lgbt memes #lgbt community #lgbt meme #lgballt #genderqueer memes

[gray-ace-space]

#og post #positivity #genderqueer #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtq+ #queer #queer positivity #genderqueer positivity #glitter text #gifs

[lgbtqtext]

#even my gender is queer #tw queer #tw q slur #lgbtqtext #lgbtq text #animated text #word art #purple #white #green #genderqueer #trans #transgender #nb #enby #nonbinary #genderqueer pride #genderqueer positivity #genderqueer humor #genderqueer meme #genderqueer safe #trans pride #trans safe #trans meme #trans humor #trans positivity #transgender pride #transgender positivity #transgender humor #transgender meme

[queerplatonicpositivity]

Trans Day of Visibility

There's a lot of anti-trans stuff going on in the world. But this Trans Day of Visibility, I want to talk abut trans joy.

In my first poetry writing workshop class in college, the professor led a creative exercise. He had us imagine a body of water that we knew, and describe it and the area around it detail. Then, he had us imagine there was a dead body at the bottom of the body of water, and had us describe the area and the water again, but without actually referencing the dead body.

He wanted to help us learn how to convey feelings and meanings through our writing without necessarily stating them outright ("Show, don't tell," etc.).

Today, I've been thinking about that writing exercise, but with something else at the bottom of the body of water: an orb of pure joy. Incandescent. Shimmering. Pulsing with excitement and hope.

That is the trans joy I experience in my life.

I am like a lake, with an orb of pure joy resting within me. My trans joy. The thrill of using my chosen name for the first time with a stranger. The euphoria of doing what I wanted with my hair. The congruence of hearing other people use my pronouns. When @genderqueerpositivity sends me something in the mail addressed to "Mx" [my name], or something trans-related, and I feel so Seen in the best way possible.

Yes, the joy is seated deep inside of me. But it transforms the whole landscape of myself and the spaces I am in. I can't write about the lake and the area surrounding it in the same way, because the joy spills into everything.

I love being trans. I love being genderqueer. And I love sharing my trans joy.

Happy Trans Day of Visibility 💜🤍💚

#tdov #tdov 2023 #trans day of visibility #transgender day of visibility #trans joy #trans positivity #genderqueer positivity

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

Btw shoutout to enbies, genderqueers, and xenics who are straight. I feel like y’all are always left out of the conversation, even in queerhet posts. You don’t have to be a binary gender in order to be straight. Keep being awesome <33

#strayt #enbyhet #queerhet #nonbinary positivity #xenic positivity #genderqueer positivity #max squawks #xenhet

[genderqueerpositivity]

It's great to be Queer.

It's great to identify as Queer or Genderqueer or Neuroqueer.

Queer is just such a great and lovely and powerful word.

Queer history is rich and vibrant and empowering.

Queer culture is wonderful and important.

Queer communities are necessary and life-saving.

No one should ever have to be ashamed or embarrassed of being Queer.

#have i posted this before??? #it's in my drafts and idk #queer positive #queer positivity #genderqueer #genderqueer positivity #neuroqueer #neuroqueer positivity #op #genderqueerpositivity #q

[spinnysocks]

i love being genderqueer. i love being gender neutral, i love being a man, i love being a woman. i'm all and i'm none & i'm beautiful and i'm handsome. and it's awesome :)

#just a silly happy post #I LOVE BEING GENDERQUEER!!! #genderqueer #genderqueer positivity #trans #trans positivity #nonbinary #nonbinary positivity #queer #lgbtq #queer positivity #lgbtq positivity #queer pride #lgbtq pride #spinny rant

[thatqueergarbagerat]

God I LOVE having a funky gender. I LOVE being transgender. I LOVE being transmasculine. I LOVE being adfeminine. I LOVE being nonbinary. I LOVE being genderqueer. I LOVE being genderfluid. I LOVE being multigender. I LOVE being genderfuck. I LOVE being genderpunk. I LOVE being demipronounfluid. I LOVE being deminomifluid. I LOVE being gender non-conforming. I LOVE being butch. I LOVE being femme. I LOVE being sapphillean. I LOVE being everique.

I LOVE having a trans body. I LOVE not fitting into societies neat little boxes. I LOVE being “confusing”. I LOVE being a man and a woman at the same time. I LOVE having a gender too fluid to identify most of the time. I LOVE switching my presentation. I LOVE going between femininity, masculinity, androgyny, neutrality. I LOVE experiencing being fem in a girl, boy, and enby way. I LOVE experiencing being andro in a girl, boy, and enby way. I LOVE experiencing being masc in a girl, boy, and enby way.

I LOVE my fluid attraction. I LOVE feeling queer attraction towards all genders. I LOVE experiencing being mlm, mlnb, mlw, nblm, nblnb, nblw, wlm, wlnb, wlw, and everything in between. I LOVE being uniquely queer. I LOVE my attraction towards other trans people. I LOVE trans love.

I LOVE HAVING A FUNKY GENDER

#trans #transgender #trans positivity #genderqueer positivity #nonbinary #genderqueer #genderfuck #genderpunk #genderfluid #sapphillean #everique #terfs dni #terfs dont touch #transmed dni #transmed dont touch #exclus dni #exclus dont touch

[proudnb]

Take seriously the little things that remind you of yourself.

In a society that's constantly trying to overwrite you, they're not so little after all.

#i just had a container of lip balm make me feel all valid or whatever #nonbinary positivity #genderqueer positivity #trans positivity #lgbtq positivity #queer positivity #gender euphoria

[yourfaveisgenderqueer]

Lil' Bat from The Aquabats! is genderqueer!

#genderqueer #genderqueer positivity #your fave is genderqueer #your fave is #the aquabats! #the aquabats #lil bat