#female dom

[queen-d33]

A tiny one!

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[daddyygh0stface]

being a sadistic girls pathetic pet isn't a want at this point is a fucking need,it would truly fix my mental health I believe 😭

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[thatonedumb-s-u-b]

Fuck me softly, tell me everything you love about me and murmur soft praise into my ears while we take our time. Stay still, enjoy the connection while we kiss softly and you’re inside me. I want to hear you coo and calm me down when I start crying from how tender this moment is because I’m not used to it. I’m not used to being coddled, being treated soft and genuine compassion and love and when you start I’m just so overwhelmed and your arms around me are the only things keeping me from completely unraveling. And suddenly I’m not focused on how stressed I was. How tired and worn out I felt earlier. Because you took it all away, and I’m left even more in awe of you.

#nsft sub #male sub #male dom #female dom #nb dom #non-binary dom #genderless dom #soft dom #gentle dom #soft sex

[asluttyspirit]

i love pretty boys who know their place

#soft dom #femdxm #female dom #subby boys #subby men

[cryinginachapel]

i need a big scary man so i can be his little personal nightmare

#fem dom #priest kink #demon girl #hierophilia #female dom #im taking applications

[cvntresskimxox]

Are you a worthy little pay pig?

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[lizlecter]

posting here too cause why not

samira loves tiddies

#league of legends #darius #samira #league of legends fanart #lol fanart #man tiddies #female dom #? i guess #besties

[goddesshollybee]

I love weak men with fat wallets🥵💧

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[princessbree222]

#findom humiliation #findom brat #bare foot #lick her soles #findomslave #cash domme #feetcurves #financial drain #lickable toes #censored feet #feetpose #foot feddish #feetporn #femdxm #feetish #female dominance #feetpics #footporn #foot domination #foot soles #female dom #female manipulator #findom relapse #findom addict #findxm #finacial domme #finacial sub #finacialdomination #findom paypig #paypig relapse

[queen-d33]

Tiny, little, worthless thing 😂

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[findomfairy]

Good boys kneel with their wallets out, begging me to accept the pathetic amount of money they can offer !

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[thatonedumb-s-u-b]

Okay but to be full needy and clingy on main. I need to be loved to extremes. I need someone to lay on me, curl themselves completely around me and tell me they want me to be theirs. I want to feel any part of you so deeply and roughly inside me that it feels like you're trying to claim me from the inside out. Need to be squeezed as you growl into my ear that I'm yours. That you'll do whatever it takes until I get that through my head. That I belong to you and you love me. That if I'd let you, you'd be all I need and all I'd ever want.

#male sub #queer sub #ftm sub #male dom #female dom #nsft sub #non-binary dom #queer nsft #gender neutral dom #possessive kink #possessive dom

[asluttyspirit]

I’ve had this thought… would you guys wanna know when / if / how i’d get fucked when it happens? Or is that just a major TMI?

i know some of you have requested information for when it’ll happen. but would it have any interest to share it here?

it wouldnt be too much info, maybe a picture here or there and me just stating how fucking sore or ruined i am

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[devoted-domme]

How did you know your into being dominant ? Anything particular you like in a sub ?

So, this became a bit longer than I had anticipated, so my reply to both questions will be under a cut!

For your first question: Honestly, I think I have known from a very young age, even before puberty. 

I’ve always felt drawn to stories about deep, meaningful relationships based on some sort of power imbalance and extreme devotion, like servants and knights who would do anything for their master or king. Basically, any character who was naturally submissive towards an authority figure and who was deeply devoted to them.

Scenes in which someone knelt in front of their master were my favourites and I’d re-read them over and over again. It wasn’t sexually motivated since I was too young for that, and yet something about these types of scenes always made my heart race. 

Then during puberty, I discovered that I was attracted to both men and women but I don’t enjoy being penetrated and never liked the expectations that society held for women in straight relationships. I never wanted to be the object of someone’s desires, I wanted to be the active party who has agency and be the person who leads and initiates. I never liked the thought of me lying there and having someone else shower me with affection, I wanted to be the person in control and do these things to someone else and make sure they feel good. 

Because of this, I thought I was fully lesbian for a long time, even though I do find men attractive. But I never thought it would be possible to be a man without all of the associated gender roles and the way straight sex was framed in general was such a turn-off, with the language people use and all the gendered expectations. 

I only ever dated women because it was easier to escape those expectations and easier to explain what being a stone top means. I never believed men would be interested in getting penetrated and being submissive so I stuck to female partners who enjoyed it.

And of course, I’m not saying you can’t be dominant and enjoy being penetrated, it’s just something that I personally don’t want and it’s really hard to escape that expectation if you try dating in straight circles. 

Seeking out online spaces for femdom (and in particular, Tumblr as it tends to be less focused on straight relationships and rigid gender roles, in general) really helped me strengthen my own understanding of my sexuality. 

Now, onto your second question: 

Truthfully, I am very picky when it comes to choosing a sub since I’m not really interested in just casual play so my sub would also be my romantic partner (I’m not talking about answering a spicy ask/message here and there, I’m very open to that, just anything beyond that is purely reserved for my romantic partner). 

Generally, I would be looking for a “naturally submissive” sub, not just someone who is into it as a kink. That doesn’t mean I’m looking for a 24/7 type of deal at all, I just mean that I want a sub who is just that – submissive. They want me to actually be in charge in the bedroom and are happy to do what I want to do instead of only wanting a “kink dispenser” who caters to their every wish. 

It’s a bit ironic, considering that my preferred domming style is very focused on the sub and their pleasure but at the same time I don’t want to be told what to do. It’s fine to give suggestions, they should absolutely have kinks they love and firm limits they don’t want to cross but it gets annoying when I feel like they want to “direct” the scene.

It’s also very important to me that my sub sees me as an actual real-life human being who is flawed, just like everyone else. I’m not some mysterious goddess who is always “on” and in domme mode 24/7. I’m often quite dorky and awkward and they need to be able to understand that and understand that real life isn’t fantasy and people don’t behave like they do in whatever pornography they have seen or erotica they have read. 

I need to get the impression that I actually matter to them as a person, beyond the utility I can offer to them (and of course, I will do them the same courtesy!). 

Needless to say, the same things apply here as in any other relationship: good communication, the willingness to listen and speak up if there are problems, mutual respect (especially with regards to boundaries) and trust, willingness to compromise, a strong sense of self and independence, loyalty, empathy, dependability, an overall emotional connection and so on. 

(And of course, what I have listed here are things that I would also strive to give back in return in a relationship!)

Naturally, we should also have compatible kinks and a similar idea of what our D/s dynamic should look like and my sub should have a strong idea of their limits (saying they have “no limits” is a red flag, for sure!). I need to be able to trust them to actually use their safeword if they need to (just as they need to trust me to also then stop the scene if they do and not be mad at them for using their safeword). 

Having standards is also a green flag – if I get the impression that they are actually picky about who gets to dom(me) them it already helps to make me feel more at ease and like I’m actually being treated like a person instead of just their kink wish fulfillment. 

Of course, like anyone else, physical attraction plays a strong role in who I want to date/take as a sub, but I am attracted to a lot of different "types" and I do think how someone carries themselves and their general mannerisms and personality play a huge role in my attraction to them as well.

Also, I think as someone whose love language is Acts of Service and who enjoys taking care of my partners, it’s easy to attract subs who genuinely believe I can/will “fix” them when the truth is: no one can fix you but yourself. Of course, it is always easier to improve yourself when you have the support of someone else but the drive to change needs to come from within. 

So, I need my sub to be an actual adult, capable of living their day-to-day life. That doesn’t mean they’re not allowed to struggle with things (I do as well), just that they need to be overall mature and independent. 

Now, I do think it's fun to give subs incentives to improve their lives, to give them little tasks and rewards and I think it can be a good way to help them keep good habits, but this only really works to a small extent and they still need to be motivated to change by themselves. 

Additionally, a potential sub would need to not be into any kinks that are misogynistic, homophobic or racist like s/issies and c/uckolding (it shouldn't be degrading to be penetrated or to wear feminine clothing or to have sex with black men, unless you actually believe being a woman or being black or gay is inherently more degrading than being a white straight man). 

For male subs, they need to be feminist allies and be actively working on undoing toxic masculinity and be respectful to women in general, not just the ones they’re attracted to and not just for however long they need to get into a woman’s pants. I think a lot of male subs think just because they’re “submissive” they’re somehow above misogyny when truthfully, I have experienced more sexism from male subs than I have from any of the regular blokes in my life. 

In terms of overall personality, I’m hugely attracted to people who are just genuinely good people – kind and helpful. I adore gentle people and even those who are a bit shy. I don’t need someone to be the smartest person or the most confident or the funniest, just try to be the kindest version of yourself you can be. 

I think that’s all! Sorry for the long rambling response but I really enjoyed getting all my thoughts out. I hope some of this is still useful to you (or anyone else who happens to be reading this!). 

#bd/sm discussion #bd/sm kink #fdom #gentle fdom #gentle femdxm #wlw bd/sm #female dom #gentle dom #mine #ask

[cryinginachapel]

really need a guy twice my age to be completely obsessed with me so i can ruin him

#want #fem fatale #fem domme #female dom #tattooed girls

[cvntresskimxox]

Send send send losers 💸🖕🏻

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