#dont mind me im just venting

[saint-ambrosef]

why do some parents put cookies or a candy bar in their kids lunch every single day. alongside sugar-added applesauce or syrupy fruit cups.

and then every night after dinner they also get dessert like ice cream

and then in the morning they have a sugary cereal or oatmeal

and then parents are confused why their kids have cavaties and are overweight. "but they eat fruit and vegetables!" that's great but they're still eating way too much sugar and junk. treats are fine but imo it ceases to be a "treat" when they get high-sugar products three or four times a day. eating a cucumber doesn't change that.

#mea #dont mind me im just venting #when i bring up concerns like this ppl are always like “let kids have their little treats!!” and like. im not arguing with that?? #but a “little treat” is something you get /occasionally/ not every single day and multiple times per day #like when i grew up the only processed high sugar food we had was ice cream #which we had a few times a week at most as a reward for doing chores and it was FINE. I did not feel deprived #like seriously your kids do not need treats that often!! they'll be okay i promise!!

[sanjis-lover-girl]

GUYS!!!

Okuyasu and Keicho decorated their uniforms like money because that's the last thing there dad cared about before he turned. That's the last thing they remember about their old man, that he cared about money, so they tried to make themselves look like something there dad would remember. THE FUCKING MONEY.

#jojo's bizarre adventure #jjba #jojo okuyasu #okuyasu nijimura #keicho nijimura #jjba keicho #dont mind me im just venting #im bawling my eyes out

[wilsonthemoose]

You honour you don't understand he's my blorbo and people were being mean about him

#This is about sam winchester yes duh #Ugh i wanna go back to quietly lurking and exploring tags #Whenever i count my blessings i should always count twice the fact that i hadnt got into fandom when I was first obsessed with this show #Anons are off again #Dont mind me im just venting

[alixgracchus]

not so gentle reminder: writers aren't your bitches. you're not our patrons. you are not entitled to our stories. we share our passion for free. making accusations and disparaging a writer's work doesn't make you righteous. It just makes you pathetic. And then you cry because writers post less and less? fuck you. we don't write for people like you.

#personal #dont mind me im just venting #don't ever touch my friens or i will end you

[muguathepapaya]

That fun moment when artists think suggestions in how to improve a piece is being 'mean'...

Look it, if you were really an art baby, I wouldn't have the heart to give you any criticism, just wanting you to find your legs first. But once you start getting better, be prepared for people to be more honest with you.

For example, when learning Chinese, the first few years, most people will just be encouraging. But once you get to a certain level of competency, you will start being corrected a heck of a lot more. It doesn't mean that you got worse, it means that you got good enough for others to believe you can be even better. It's also others believing you can be mature about improving.

I don't condone being mean with criticism, but some people out there really need to get over themselves.

#dont mind me im just venting #It's not like I roasted you #Maybe go watch some Ethan Becker or Sam roast me and calm down

[possible-eldritch-entity]

ngl I am pretty fucking upset that a job I applied for to get out of a heavily toxic work environment has been way more damaging to my health than the previous job. I was really hoping this place would be stable and I could stick with it for more than a year but in the time I have worked here I have been severely re-traumatized and my anxiety is 100x worse

#dont mind me im just venting #i need to get this out there and off my chest #i think i'll be okay im just so frustrated and emotionally drained

[macjaket]

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#dont mind me im just venting #Why the fuck is it gone. They already washed it like 2 days ago. But someone took it. #And now everyone is asleep so i cant fukin get it. And now i cant find it. I dont have my blanket. #And no its not me being inmature. Ive been using that same blanket (technically 2 of the exact same brand/size/color) for 5 years #And everyone in the house knowsnits mine so they wont take it. But its not here. #I guess i cant sleep till tomorrow. I hate this. This is one of the worst feelings

[heyitslapis]

A sad child needing comfort & peace, a hurt, angry teen who wants revenge, & a very tired adult who doesn’t have the knowledge or energy to help any of them, even themselves

#i was laying in bed trying to think why i have so many conflicting inner emotions & this popped into my head #then i proceeded to cry like a baby :))) #im sure a therapist would LOVE to unpack that #but thats a future problem #sad boi hours #emma rambles #dont mind me im just venting

[kunoichi-ume]

I can’t lie, this is something that annoys me a bit about FFXIV. Any other game I’ve played will tell you what requirements you need for something but this game? Nah. They give you ???s and expect you to figure it out. And I am sure someone where could tell me or I could google to find it, and will probably have to, but would it really be that hard to just tell your players what is expected of them?

#There is just a few things that feel so non-player friendly in this game #and this is one of them #now I get to google and hope someone online has posted about this #and sometimes I run into dead ends looking for stuff like that #dont mind me im just venting #im stressed and everything lately is adding on to it #its been a rough month or so and there is no end in sight yet

[elixermv]

i love not being able to talk to someone i cared very deeply for due to interpersonal politics, it is so awesome

#elixertxt #dont mind me im just venting #also dont speculate i love all my friends #just wish some things were different is all #i could delete this later lmao

[darkredmage]

Man I wish life doesn't sucj

#dont mind me im just venting #i want to kill myself #vent

[sylibane]

Boy writing a group of characters who are supposed to speak like they’re from a specific historical period, down to any inner monologue, is a great idea and sure won’t come back to bite me in the editing when I have to go word by word looking for words that didn’t exist back then

#shut up syli #dont mind me im just venting #this is taking a while

[2isted-chocol8]

I always think I have overcome my social anxiety until I am put in a heavy social situation that makes me incredibly uncomfortable and suddenly my heart is about to jump off my chest and my mind bombards me with a sudden bunch of intrusive thoughts

#dont mind me Im just venting #should I talk about this? probably #but also I am Tired™ and wanna forget about it so imma play some videogames

[theiceemperor]

What I love about fandoms is that there are people who spend hours on studying this one particular scene, spend hours examinating and analyzing that one interraction, that one action, that one character and much more.

I love being a part of a fandom, no matter which, because people share what they love. They share what ehtuses them, what they adore.

#fandoms #dont mind me im just venting #fandom #fandoms are wild and amazing #fandom communities are amazing #so please keep it that way

[sketchy-tour]

A wilting flower is not always beyond healing. It'll just take time.

#a small doodle! Just a little one! Wanted to draw but also didnt want to draw but also needed to draw #you know? idk if that makes any sense #dont mind me- #if anyone is worried I am okay please dont take this as some big vent or anything! #just art I needed to get out of my head. Ya kno??? nothin crazy!!! #anyway anyway im gonna go play a game or something!!! Drink water. Eat a snack! Sit down in some quiet for a moment #Yall should do that too! You! Drink water! Eat something! Sit and be calm for a moment. #welcome home oc #dandy leon #I always feel bad tagging my art of dandy alone with the welcome home tags??? uh- #my art #sketches

[puppyeared]

i wrote this as a joke because I wanted to strangle a guy watching tiktoks without headphones on the bus, but im genuinely disturbed that we've gotten to a point where convenience comes first. and it depresses me even more that its used to justify and monetize greed

#like we have so many ways of doing things that could help us in the long run but because we're told it requires more work we just cant #its too resource intensive. or maybe its too much to maintain. we have to overlook benefits so money can go into more important things #we teach each other to do things a certain way so it works for everyone but who was it convenient for first? what abt who it might hurt? #i have to wonder if the rules our current system uses is worth listening to or following if it doesnt have our best interests in mind. u an #me and the ppl around us.. would we be better off if i ate my meals knowing the person who grew it wanted to feed others the way they could #feed themselves? and that isnt to say we're going to be happy doing it but i guess satisfied that its helping someone instead of quietly #accepting that itll eventually go in the dumpster behind a grocery store because it stopped looking appetizing or it wasnt on sale anymore #what about building homes so we can shelter each other? what if we were satisfied with what we did because we knew it would be paid back #with kindness? isnt that what we evolved to do?? heal each others bones and tell stories and help each other?? #why dont houses come with solar panels or generators unless we find a way to make people pay to use the sun? why is our pooled money used #to fund genocides instead of education and hospitals? whose interests and convenience came first when we started this?? #i wont pretend to know the answer because i dont. but we all know we're miserable and im sorry to say that i cant see myself fighting #for a world that wont fight for me too. why do we work if we cant live from it?? why did they stop us from plucking more teeth from our #bosses until they could build more walls around themselves and then go back to underpaying us?? #im so tired. i cant even imagine making it to age 70 #yapping #vent