#doesn't that mean you have nothing in common. if dating apps is such a chore! such a slog! then why are you using dating apps omg

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but also re: lrb, it kindasorta vaguely reminded me of this article. super recommended if you want to spend five minutes in utter bafflement

#shrimp thoughts #just fucking. insane. every paragraph is worse than the previous one #WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS in the first place. haven't we had enough (teenage and not) romcoms showcasing why it's a bad idea to #pretend you're someone you're not towards a person you'd ideally like to be in a relationship with? #second of all ok this might be because there's something wrong with me and i Simply Do Not Seek Out People; Whether Romantically #/Sexually Or In A Purely Friendly Way; but like. if you don't know what to say to someone then why do you want to message them. #doesn't that mean you have nothing in common. if dating apps is such a chore! such a slog! then why are you using dating apps omg #you're not OBLIGED to have a partner??? and if you really Want a partner then do you really think you're going to find one either by #flavourless inept conversation attempts or fucking. ai-generated questions? do people really live like that omg