hello!! if you don't feel comfortable answering this pls feel free to delete I don't want to pressure! its just I've recently started exploring my pronouns of 'she' to thinking she/they and was wondering what led you to prefer (?) the mix of both/how you realised? even if u dont answer thats ok!! I just really like ur blog and I think ur great for dealing with all these anons. have a wonderful day! :)
hey, no worries! that’s a super chill question!!
tbh, how I noticed was largely bc of like...starting to interact with people on this blog specifically? and if they assumed I used female pronouns despite like...not...having that up anywhere or anything, i’d be kinda irritated? like why friend...why do u do this....like ur v much correct but Hey,,,,and then when people referred to me with “they” i was like “,,,,sweet....a good and nice choice....gender neutral art being. thx”. like i’m really not bothered by it anymore at at all, and i do like she pronouns v much, but it’s still super nice!
Also, like, just. I was a “““tomboy(TM)””” growing up and didn’t like,,, wear ““feminine”” clothing or makeup or consider myself super duper female until like...high school? when it was Officially Expected? I stress-cried about having to wear a dress and makeup to prom? presenting as female all the time was a v weird and stressful time and like i’m much more chill with the concept of femininity now that i’m at college where there are zero expectations and a fairly big lgbtqia+ community, but like, also, I’m also recognizing that there are definitely times when female pronouns just feel like. next level extra feminine and it doesn’t fit as well? an inaccurate description....so I like both!! on a much more embarrassing level, confession, I Used To Have Many Rp blogs, oh gosh, and they were Very low quality, but it was also super interesting to see the pattern that I only tended to ever write male/nb characters, even with OCs and stuff, partly bc it was easier to not immediately be assumed to also use female pronouns blah blah blah. a wide variety of deeply nerdy situations all led to this
Gender neutral terms & pronouns are Supremely Chill and Very Pleasant and while i’m not going to put a label on my current gender situation,, like,,,,Nice(TM)
this is kinda super vague and probably unhelpful, but feel free ask me anything else off of anon and i can reply privately, or just IM me!! have a lovely week
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