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sweetalnazar · 2 years
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Please tell us about Mishae. What kinds of things do they do together? Does Mine meet their family fast or want to wait (aside from whatever the game does of course)? *chin hands* Go off on whatever.
Hello anon sorry for taking forever to answer this! Also fair warning, you have opened the Floodgates so let’s gooooo
What kinds of things do they do together?
Interestingly, it can be said that Mishae do nothing & everything together
Both their interests hardly overlap if ever, but neither will ever pass up the chance to take part in their partner’s interests. If they both happen to be free & one of them wants to do smth, the other will def tag along
Mine will happily help out Shae in their garden or the kitchen, while Shae will happily (tho much more cautiously) assist with Mine’s magical experiments or newest matchmaking scheme
The closest to an actual bonding activity would be taking little walks together, or just cuddling somewhere in the house
Mine + Shae's daily routines tend to vary wildly, due to their differing responsibilities and interests. Long story short, the two of them actually spend lots of time apart
It's not a bad thing though. In Mine’s words, ‘the best part of a goodbye is being able to say hello again’. Plus when the two of them reunite, they have plenty to catch up on and conversations go on long, long into the night (day?)
Also, I think one of my favorite things about the both of them is how much they bicker. It's cute, it's fun, but above all, it speaks to an underlying trust between the two of them
Shae can be as brutally honest as they like, without worrying if their lack of delicacy will affect the relationship. They’re allowed the space to be unabashedly themself, with the security that Mine will never assume the worst of them and will always put in effort to understand them, even when they feel like none of the words are coming out right
Mine is used to being the ‘mood maker’ and tends to be the one to balance out everyone else (doesn’t help she feels emotionally responsible for almost everybody most of the time). Bickering gives Mine the space she needs to be disagreeable, aggressive & maybe a little petty even. A break from the cheerful, pleasant, ever-reliable problem solver who is always at everyone’s service
Unless one of them has crossed a line, neither Shae nor Mine tend to take these arguments to heart. It also helps them both work through their respective natural aggression too
Does Mine meet their family fast or want to wait (aside from whatever the game does of course)?
Honestly, Mine could go either way, they’re cool with whichever way things end up working out
HOWEVER, both scenarios will likely have Mine panicking one way or another. She’s actually a very family-oriented person like Shae and takes things like meeting families & showing elders respect VERY seriously, as per her own culture’s traditions.
Meet Fast = Mine: "Oh shit i did not think this through and i have Not prepared the adequate buah tangan (gifts) to greet Shae’s family properly, what else have i forgotten, oh shit oh shit oh" //cue Panic
Waiting = Mine: //has prepared everything to near perfection, but will hyperventilate and pace around up until the actual meeting bc she’s busy playing every potential worst scenario out in her head
In the end, things will work out, even with classic Mine hijinks. They’re an excellent mood maker and when they’re not overthinking everything, they’re very funny & charming & can put people at ease pretty quick
Mine will likely endear themself to Shae’s family soon enough, and likewise, Shae will be the same for Mine’s own large family. Mine will work hard to ensure that Shae feels like they have a place in her family, tho it’s not too hard since Mine’s family are all supportive and everyone more or less listens to Mine as the eldest child
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