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#and i’m NOT saying stop making ur lil heehee jokes
pinkfey
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2 years
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i think this baby gay mentality of queer relationships being inherently healthier than straight ones is not a good one ?? maybe ??
#obv there’s more nuance
#but the idea that gay ppl (sapphics especially) aren’t toxic like straight ppl are
#it’s an idea that’s really harmful
#before anons go fucking insane i’m not saying no one should celebrate their healthy queer relationship
#just that i think in the gay community toxic and abusive and codependent relationships aren’t spoken about nearly as often as they should
#i was to say bc we want to avoid the already harmful stigma that we’re all bad and predatory
#*want
#it’s common for baby gays to get swept up in new relationships in ways unique to queer ppl too
#and i’m NOT saying stop making ur lil heehee jokes
#just that baby gays need to be aware of how queer relationships can be very abusive as well
#it’s very very easy to enter a codependent relationship as a gay person especially if you don’t have a good relationship with your family
#it’s also easy to be taken advantage of as a younger gay person because Yes there Are older gays who seek out baby gays
#i wish we could have these conversations without like. i dunno. ‘undermining’ the progress that’s been made towards gay acceptance
#is this making sense??
#being queer doesn’t remove the dangers of dating and it’s rlly important that baby gays know this !!
#idk i’m just talking. as usual ✊😔
#anyways.txt
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