#and i put that in parentheses only because theyre theoretical sexualities and im not sure how to explain that in a way that makes sense

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Heyyy we just wanted to say we love your blog, as a fellow Ace, traumatised, system! ❤️

Aww thank you!! Also that's so cool! Hell yeah ace systems units :D

#i feel like being asexual as a system is so confusing #because a lot of the alters have different 'sexualities' in our system #and i put that in parentheses only because theyre theoretical sexualities and im not sure how to explain that in a way that makes sense #but like my lesbian alter isnt actually going to seek out a lesbian relationship and isnt Not Asexual or Not Aromantic like i am #its like shes lesbian-adjacent? like lesbian but without the desire to ever be in a specific relationship #all my alters like my girlfriend in a queer platonic way just like i do and would never be attracted to anyone else in a non qpr way #ohh shes a queer platonic lesbian. this checks out #and then everyone else is either queer platonic bisexual or pansexual or t4t or something