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#and i get a nyt subscription as a student and my evening update just sent me an article about parents whose kids are socially transitioning
thedarklyblue
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#wish i could be confident in my opinions!!
#currently stressed because i'm using one name at school and another at home and havent had that conversation with my parents
#(which makes it tough bc like. if they come see a show i worked on. there's that one in the program and i didn't tell them.)
#((out to them as nonbinary but they went :/ are you sure so i have not been pushing the issue))
#and i get a nyt subscription as a student and my evening update just sent me an article about parents whose kids are socially transitioning
#and the schools aren't telling them
#and i GET it you feel betrayed. you feel not trusted as a parent.
#and i fully understand being unsure and hesitant. but something about this is rubbing
#me the wrong way. it's still so important to give kids room to experiment and explore!
#if you're going to look at your kid figuring out their identity and go 'oh well you're clearly not sure so i don't believe you' then they'll
#work on it by themselves.
#and then when they come to you and say this is who i am you'll go 'oh it's so sudden!! how could you not tell me i think this is a fad'
#and this is such a weird balancing game and i really hate how the article covered it and now i'm fucking ANXIOUS
#i just want to live!! also when you're like oh how can you be sure. how the FUCK are we supposed to figure it out without trying things?????
#not everything is a fucking life-changing decision sometimes you just have to do shit
#wish i hadn't read that article but uh nothing i can do about it now
#i hate realizing that everything i have figured out here (how to explain myself to people
#how to talk to profs about who i am)
#doesn't do shit for me in the other contexts i live in
#also living the 'do i come out to grandparents or do i for sure inherit money for top surgery' which feels gross but idkkkkk
#anyway. Bad Brain Evening. thanks
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