La persona aperta e amorevole "non ti fa sangue perché il tuo sangue è programmato ad inseguire".
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Rendersi conto del tipo di affettività che ti ha trasmesso il genitore di relazione (per le donne è il padre, per gli uomini è la madre), sposta l'attenzione sui meccanismi che metti in atto quando si tratta di amare o essere amati.
L'osservazione va fatta con distacco. È uno dei pochi casi in cui non va usato il giudizio, ma devi vedere le dinamiche sue riflesse in te, come se vedessi il comportamento di un robot.
Come quando vedi un documentario e analizzi quello che fa un animale con i cuccioli.
Bordeaux Ch F: Arthur Fils [1] def. Pedro Martinez [2] 6-2, 6-3 Match Stats
📸 ATP official website
A. Fils already struck P. Martinez's baseline position through his forehands right from the early stages of the match, which already overwhelmed the latter's range until he ran out of options. Even though P. Martinez converted 33% of his 3 break points, some of those came from the first set, A. Fils had an overwhelming number of break points as a result of his aggression, where his pace also helped to maintain his range as he utilized the open court to fire his winners despite only converting 4 of his break points throughout both sets.
Furthermore, A. Fils also had an outstanding service game as this match progressed. Scoring a whopping 10 aces while P. Martinez was unable to produce any, A. Fils had an exceptional first serve winning percentage at 74%, 21% more than the Spanish second seed, which often get himself out of some troubles. On the other hand, P. Martinez's 5 double faults only caused the fading of his second serves 5% below A. Fils, which did not help him overcoming the pressing moments.
This marked A. Fils' first Challenger title of the year, proving it to be a wise decision to regain his confidence in the home 175s while foregoing his Lyon (250) title defense. Both players will also go straight to the Roland Garros/French Open main draw, where their first-round matches will be revealed in the last day of the opening week. What a way to rebuild mid-season.