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#I ship way to many mlm ships help haha these are a few
ziamxlifestyle · 3 years
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Me every time something related to my ship happens and I start to clown out 🧍🏻‍♀️ 🙃
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irinanonyme · 5 years
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The whole stupid "Carole and Tuesday VS Yuri On Ice" thing (I'm kind of angry and it's long but if you have like 10 minutes you're welcome to read)
Hey, so I've seen a bunch of people throwing shade lately because "Carole and Tuesday doesn't have as much popularity as Yuri On Ice did and it just shows what kinda people those fans are."
People saying that just because it's not on Netflix yet it's not an excuse and then they compare it to Violet Evergarden.
Frickin' Violet Evergarden people.
Which is like, the worst example you can give. You're talking about an anime who was hyped up since back in May 2016 and released 2 years later in January 2018 not to mention that it's made by goddamn KYOTO ANIMATION. It ain't Bones my friends, yes Bones is great but Kyoani is just up there somewhere. Did you see A Silent Voice? Did you see Hibike Euphonium?? The trailer for Violet Evergarden has almost 4 million views while the trailer for Carole and Tuesday was released 3 months ago and it has like 400k views. Until now some people didn't even know that the anime is direced by Shinichiro Watanabe, the guy who worked on COWBOY BEBOP and SAMURAI CHAMPLOO.
Also it's not about "not knowing how to use kissanime", some people just want to support the official release financially and legally. Also some other people who already have Netflix accounts got excited when they heard it was coming to the site but now they learn that they have to wait 6 more months until it's fully released. You might love the anime to death and pirating it doesn't mean that you want to disrespect the creators but you sure aren't helping them now are you? I'm not trying to shame people for pirating, hell, I think that everybody on the internet has already pirated something at least once in their life. But please don't look down on people who have the money and are willing to help studios/creators financially. If they want to wait 6 months and binge watch it let them wait 6 months and leave them alone.
Also please don't get started on that whole "fetishizing" thing. I know this is gonna piss of a lot of people but here's the "hot tea" like tumblr users would say: LGBTQ people want to get accepted into a society where about 90% of it are straight people (which is completely fair and they *should* in fact get accepted) but whenever those straight people approve of a same sex ship it's fetishizing? So wait, when a straight girl ships a wlw ship "it's fine and hey girl you might be bi 😉" but if she's shipping a mlm ship it's suddenly "eew you disgusting bitch, fricking fujoshi I bet you jack off to that stuff, huh?" That's just effed up guys.
YOI got popular only after episode 7 because of the kiss, it was so incredible to the point where most people couldn't believe it, some still thought that it was maybe only a hug because it's rare having mlm and wlw relationships in an anime without the "yuri" or "yaoi" tag. It was also because for once a mlm ship wasn't shown in a bad light like having the taller guy rape the shorter guy then ending it up with "haha, omg I actually liked it haha. Now that you forced yourself on me I like you."
Or it being borderline incest like "Wow, even though he's my not-blood-related brother I have feelings for him."
Or having a huge age gap making it a borderline p*do thing like "He's a divorced adult and I'm only a high school student!! Oh gee what shall I do!!"
YOI became popular not because it was fetishized but BECAUSE it was in fact shown to be a healthy relationship by the creators themselves in a different setting than just "school/slice of life" it was a sports anime and there was no indicator of them becoming a thing. Many thought it was like Free where the guys are gonna have "gay undertones" the whole story but never actually get together. From my experience most "YOI haters" are salty people who still remember the stupid 2016 Crunchyroll awards who didn't mean a thing.
Also keep in mind that tumblr is not the whole internet and it doesn't represent everyone and everything. Even if there are surely some who really do fetishize same sex ships I don't think that most of them are YOI and/or Carole and Tuesday fans. People who really ship wlw and mlm ships are most and for all people who accept the LGBTQ community whether they're part of it or not which is already a big step onward for many. There are still some countries out there where you can get killed or sent to prison for being homosexual so when I see people supporting this type of content I get really thrilled. Not to mention that you can't really "accurately" tell who is "fetishizing" those relationships. You might look at a few reblogs and tell yourself that "Yup, this guy/girl is definitely a creep" but the truth is that you don't know. You have no idea who the person behind this reblog is, who's that person behind the screen. Maybe they're like 15/16 and they're not sure of their sexual orientation yet? Do you need to add a lesbian/gay/bi/trans,etc flag on your profile pic for you to be part of the community? No.
I'm honestly kinda tired of this "tumblr culture" where whenever you have an opinion it has to match others' opinions so you don't get hate/death threats by either kids or adults who don't have a grasp on reality and don't tell themselves that maybe "Hey, that person might actually be depressed and she/he might really kill themselves if I send them this so even if I don't agree with them I probably shouldn't."
People starting their posts with "here's the hot take/TED talk, I've been thinking about it for a while but was scared of talking about it" then it turns out that this "hot take" is 80% of the fandom's opinion and the sheeple in the comments somehow seriously think that it's controversial and are like "OMGG SPILL THE TEA SIS YASSS💖"
Or "Thank. You.👏👏 I was actually scared of saying it so I'm glad you did."
Or even "LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK SIS!!❤"
We're talking about a site where when you *actually* have a *real* "hot take" people will try to personally murder you and browse through your entire blog during 3 days just to find a stupid thing you said like 4 years ago to write a "call out post" on you with the meme "I'm about to end this man's whole career lol" then they be like "lol you fuckin' (insert bad thing here) supporter! I bet you're (insert mental illness/something that means "sick in the head" with a clever twist on words.)"
Then when you like a certain character or ship you have to make a 5k word explanation post where you start off by saying that you do understand that your "fav" is "problematic" and then you proceed to explain why and then you have to be a victim who was either bullied or taken advantage of in order to make people feel bad for sending you death threats and guilt tripping you so that they can forgive your different tastes and just call it a "coping mechanism" or saying that it's fine if you support that character/ship because you're mentally ill. Oh, and don't forget the apology post where you explain to people that just because you said something stupid when you were 14 on your blog it doesn't mean that you still think that way and that your views changed and yada yada yada.
Like?? What the actual fuck people?
Can't we just have a good time on this site for fuck's sake? Carole and Tuesday has only 5 episode right now which is not even 25% of the story since the anime is supposed to have 24 episodes. It's not available on Netflix yet and some people like binge watching series. Give it time, surely it's gonna get recognition soon and we're here to spread it too. I decided that no matter what I'm gonna have a good time watching this amazing anime and I support both CarDay and Victuri and any other healthy wlw and mlm ship, all LGBTQ people and anyone in this world who isn't a serial killer/terrorist/anything bad (obviously)
Thank you for reading the whole thing (hopefully) and if you don't agree and are about to write something really mean about me don't even bother please, you'll be talking to a brick wall and I only accept civilized conversations👌
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twinsky · 6 years
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Ah sorry for being vague!! um well I'm pretty big on any ship involving Ouma like Oumasai, Oumami, and Oumota, or any kind of friendship! do you have any headcanons about Ouma interacting with anyone?? Or how they would interact? is this okay?
it’s fine! i’m jsut really bad with vague questions haha
hmm, okay i’ll try to do one for each character for you ! except shuichi my fic is enough of their interaction i think lmao (these can be in either canon or hpa au)
under a cut because this is long
Tenko: ultimate wlw/mlm solidarity, tenko does not like ouma in the least but during pride month they band together for ultimate chaos, everyone fears this. Ouma likes to tease tenko, it’s really easy when your very existence sets her off, he loves it. Tenko can and will throw him at any oppurtunity
Rantaro: one of few people who genuinely enjoys spending time with him. Borne of the patience only one with as many siblings as him can have, he’s quite talented at calming ouma down. That said, he is also easily roped into doing w/e ouma wants simply because rantaro enjoys the adventure of it. Ouma visits his room frequently and they have nice talks.
Kaede: unstoppable force vs immovable object. Kaede’s unstoppable desire to have everyone be friends fights with Ouma’s desire to not get close to absolutely anybody until they are somehow level 10 backstory close. Actually rather close despite how it looks to others, tease each other frequently, though Kaede is quick to shut down mean spirited teasing both from and towards Ouma from anybody. Ouma respects her absolute drive to achieve her goals but he’ll never say that outloud.
Kiibo: People like Kaito are convinced at first that their interactions are just Ouma bullying him but Kiibo actually one) doesn’t really take offense, and two) can tease Ouma right back. Ouma’s personal feelings towards Kiibo are currently on hold, Kiibo is shockingly more human-like than he expected, and that’s interesting (in canon kiibo’s existence is sketchy given the situation, in an hpa au I think he’d lean towards a more positive opinion of him -still won’t stop him from being robophobic tho)
Miu: indescribable. Almost everything they say to each other is insulting and they don’t seem to get along at all but yet??? they hang out a lot???? no one understands. everyone fears them actually getting along because they would be too powerful together
Kaito: Even easier to tease then Kiibo, Kaito almost seems to take personal offense to Ouma’s lack of desire to be an even semi-nice and co-operable person. Ouma in turn is even more annoying around him just to piss him off some more. Given time and an actual attempt to get to know each other they’d find common ground in a desire to help others but until then Kaito’s gonna keep trying to get Ouma in line and Ouma’s gonna keep laughing at every single attempt
Maki: controversial opinion perhaps, but I think Ouma and Maki could be great friends. It’s not gonna happen any time soon since they both absolutely hate everything the other stands for but... idk.... definitely not a chance in canon though but if they were fear the wrath you bing upon yourself if you hurt anyone they mutually care about -actually, that just happens anyways and it’s one of the few times they work perfectly together.
Gonta: Out of everyone Gonta is easily the most gullible and trusting, Ouma doesn’t really... like that. Ouma will use that to have fun and tease, sometimes even a bit on the more cruel side, but anyone to actually abuse of that nature would find themselves :)) you know. In a way Ouma kind of admires Gonta’s personality, and in other ways absolutely can’t stand it. All of this said? Gonta giving Ouma piggyback ride? valid and so very canon.
Himiko: really good friends! They take naps together and sometimes, much to Tenko’s dismay, Ouma is her assisstant in her magic shows. Idk, I’m very fond of the idea of them being chill with each other
Ryoma: friendly enough towards each other. Ryoma’s spent a lot of time with less than savoury people, he might not understand Ouma’s deal but he knows a liar and a facade when he sees it. Being such, he’s quite casual around Ouma no matter what he says he does around him. “You know hoshi-chan if you keep walking to class with me one of my hundreds of enemy might jsut kidnap you and take you out” “yeah. sure. wish they would Ouma”. Sometimes it kinda bothers Ouma how Ryoma is like, virtually unteaseable in this sense but it just makes him try harder. Bond very much over cat videos (Gonta is always invited to these sessions)
Kirumi: is relatively indifferent to everything about Ouma, and takes Ouma’s jabs with practiced ease. Don’t have a lot of thoughts on these two actually.
Shinguji: Fascinated by Ouma, high on his list of classmates he stalks (featured: angie, tenko, ouma, maki, amami). Ouma likes to bug him with stupid questions which either end up with him receiving a lecture (bad end) or a chase (good end). No creepy sister thing, just. no. Ouma doesn’t really have a positive opinion of him but it’s fine.
Angie: art!!! buddies!!!! Argue often over the existence of god, when they agree to do something it instills fear in everyone. Either at each others throats or best friends. absolute no in between. Have threatened death upon each toher on multiple occasions 
Tsumugi: would absolutely never be friends in canon. in any other au probably weeb friends together. They meet up every saturday and watch anime together probably. Both of them and angie probably have a cosplay group (they like pretending to not be themselves if only for awhile)
a lot of fics have like... everyone hate ouma.... I’m not gonna lie even the positive relationships in this are undertoned with like. Ouma you lying piece of shit. We don’t know what you’ve done but once we find out you will pay. But.... give Ouma friends... pls...........
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